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I Want to Find My Biological Father and Brother

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    Searching and scared

    Well I am now in the pursuit of my biological father. I was told when i was 15 that my dad i thought was my real one wasn't and my true dad didn't want me. My mom had told me that he was bad into drugs and drinking. That he threatened to take me away from her and that...
    Reesa88 Reesa88 19-21, F 5 Responses Dec 2, 2007

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    One Day Maybe.._x

    i haven't met my father yet, and i haven't met one of my older brothers. my mother left my father years ago while she had a custody battle on her hands for my older brother. she had been raped and got pregnant, the father denied it and wanted his son. my mum couldn't cope and so...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 23, 2007

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    My Life

    well when i was little my mother and father were very into drugs and alcohol they lost me because they when to prison and i was adopted when i was a couple of months old and im despretly in need to find my father because my mother is incarcerated so please i need help finding him...
    robbie505 robbie505 16-17 Aug 8, 2012

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    Torn Away From Love.

    I was 4 months old when my mom adopted me, she told me from the age of 10 i have two older brothers, John and Matthew, they were 5 and 10 when i was born and the stress of being a mother to three children make my birth mom turn around a decided she didn't want any of us anymore...
    Jan 7, 2013

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    how do i find someone?

    Iam a 31 year old who is trying to find my father,My mother told me in the past it was nothing to do with me!but now says she can't remember,it's really getting me down all i know is he was at glencorse barracks/milton bridge camp june/july 1977.I don't even know how long for,a...
    suzi22 suzi22 31-35, F 3 Responses Nov 11, 2009

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    One Day Maybe.._x

    i haven't met my father yet, and i haven't met one of my older brothers. my mother left my father years ago while she had a custody battle on her hands for my older brother. she had been raped and got pregnant, the father denied it and wanted his son. my mum couldn't cope and so...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F Nov 23, 2007

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    I Want To Find My Real Father

    I am 32 and was born in Preston in 1978 to Marion Maria Williams. My biological father goes by the name of Judah and had dreadlocks and that is about as much as she will tell me. He was in the Preston, Lancs, UK area during 1978 and I believe he moved to Bedford. I moved to...
    marcus1978 marcus1978 31-35, M Feb 18, 2011

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    Finding My Biological Brother

    I,M TRYING TO FIND MY BIOLOGICAL BROTHER NO CONTACT IN 7 YRS. W/M 50 YRS. YOUNG 6FT. RED HAIR MAYBE SHAVED WEARS BANDANA ALOT WORKS CONSTRUCTION GOES BY RED 170 LBS. LAST KNOWN ADDRESS PENSACOLA FLA. I,M HIS BROTHER MY NAME EAGLE///CONTACT ME 24/7 ///864-553-5081 AND IF I...
    duvan duvan 51-55 Oct 2, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    I have found this site and I have been reading everybody's situations about their biological father. I would love the input and advice that I can get in my situation. I was dating...
    meglb13 meglb13 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 26

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    Father? I would not even leave my DOG with the PSYCHO Hungarian SONUVABITCH that my mother ****** to get my brother and I. That's how he treated us too. My mother, brother, and I...
    happyinND happyinND 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    "The woman is mine for 5 years. The baby in her arms is mine and also the baby in her womb is mine." My stepfather insisted shortly after my 1st birthday. A 2 year separation...
    AlphahatesOmega AlphahatesOmega 18-21, M 2 days ago

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    Mind fokyn monster. Cant nurture anything. But is a good lawyer. And uses those skills on my facts. Because i retaliated against his abuse.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 25

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    Kion hamaisha kesi ki talaash hoti hai Yun dil ko kesi ki aas hoti hai . Chand ko dekho wo bhi tanha hai Phir bhi chandni se roshan uski raat hoti hai
    RUBYJUTT RUBYJUTT 18-21, F Sep 4

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    Which is quite strange since when our shared mother whom I normally ADORE was pregnant with him and I was 5 I REFUSED to even hug her! But recently he was with me in the capital...
    AlphahatesOmega AlphahatesOmega 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    My dad is my grandfather (moms dad) not biologically but he is my dad and he is dying :( My biological father left my mother when she was pregnant with me, I have two older...
    lonewolfxx lonewolfxx 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    He was never really in my life and now that we live closer to each other, whenever we hang out it's incredibly awkward. We don't really say much. I try to ask him questions about...
    lookingtovent lookingtovent 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 5

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    I love my brother, but I get so damn frustrated with him at times I want to loose it. At 34 years of age he just has refused to do anything with himself. I realize my mother blames...
    Frozenh2o Frozenh2o 36-40, F 44 mins ago

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    I am ready to settle down, get married, and start a family. A LITTLE BIT ABOUT MYSELF I was born, raised, and educated in Cincinnati. I am an honest, loyal, optimistic, outgoing...
    MrRustyShackleford MrRustyShackleford 22-25, M 41 mins ago

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    My "real" father. When I was little. My father and me were very close. My family were. We are seen as a perfect family and i thought it is. My dad is Japanese and my mom is a...
    azyleak azyleak 22-25, F Aug 31

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    My biological clock has officially started ticking... As I slowly reach my mid 20s, the idea of going out for a drink and looking for random women to hook up with seems dull. I've...
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I hate my brothers immature girlfriend so much that it has now caused a hole in my own family. Let explain why: My little brother ( almost 3 years younger) has this girlfriend...
    Gingerlocks813 Gingerlocks813 18-21, F Aug 25

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    So here's my sad little story. I've never met my father, nor have I ever had any kind of father to speak of (aka, my mom never got married). Not really a huge deal - I'm a pretty...
    Coffeelover90 Coffeelover90 22-25, F Aug 24

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    It makes me sad and angry, especially since im a single dad raising a daughter on my own, to see all the girls her age here whose fathers are such b#stards! cowards
    anronioV anronioV 46-50, M 3 hrs ago

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    (sorry about all the grammar and language mistakes, my english is not perfect but i'm trying to improve)   I wanted to tell you about my relationship with my brother...It was...
    Macaronz Macaronz 22-25, F Aug 19

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    LAST CHANCE TO STOP THE WOLF DERBY OF DEATH Center for Biological Diversity August 19, 2014 It's been three years since six states began wolf hunts, and the blood-lust is...
    goodogstay goodogstay 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    My parents aren't very good at doing their job considering I'm not allowed to live with them. But I fear one day I will become them. My father is an alcoholic who lives with his...
    sarahellie9088 sarahellie9088 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 28

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    I'm 17 I'm gay I live in Scotland I LOVE musicals I love my brother I love my mother even though she doesn't love me I am in love I'm interested in you I want to be an actor I can...
    HandsomePrince1 HandsomePrince1 16-17, M 11 hrs ago

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    My Fitty Things... • 1. What's your favorite candle scent? fresh linen/ (they need to come up with "man smell"...lol) • 2. What female celebrity do you wish was your sister...
    SKiesterly SKiesterly 36-40, F Aug 24

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    Just feels like it's time. I'm at that age when I'm no longer considered a young kid. I'm peaking at a ripe age of 23 years old. My body just controls me at this point. It won't be...
    Danimmortal Danimmortal 22-25, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    Pseudocide. It is a word that is both beautiful and frightening. Pseudocide: the death of identity, the cessation of the self. For years-- at least half my life-- it has been an...
    WildMagic WildMagic 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    We'll begin with a box, and the plural is boxes, But the plural of ox becomes oxen, not oxes. One fowl is a goose, but two are called geese, Yet the plural of moose should never be...
    Aryg Aryg 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    I'm Eliana. Ellie for short. I was born and raised in Ireland. I'm currently 15. I used to have a great life. I had a mother and a father her loved me, two sisters and two brothers...
    cuddlexlou cuddlexlou 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 4

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    Two Decades Underground- "Mommy, it's that foreign guy again!" 12 year old me called out upon logging on to Myspace. For privacy the accounts my older brother and I were allowed...
    happyinND happyinND 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I am codependent and have been for as long as I can remember. I am the "rescuer" type of codependent. I genuinely do love helping others out, however, I take it to the extent of...
    mandypandi mandypandi 18-21, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    I like kids but I don't think I would trust myself to be a mother. Its such a huge responsibility and I'm not sure I would be very good at it. I sometimes fade into myself and shut...
    TryingToLoveLifeNow TryingToLoveLifeNow 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 19

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    September 18. Letting the Good Stuff Happen. "Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 2 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    September 18. Letting the Good Stuff Happen. "Before recovery, my relationships were lousy. I didn't do very well on my job. I was enmeshed in my dysfunctional family. But at...
    zeeva70 zeeva70 41-45, F 10 hrs ago

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    I have never been terribly close with my father, though it probably doesn't help that even my earliest memories I have are bad ones. When I was very very young, maybe three, my...
    DemonFeyLove DemonFeyLove 18-21, F Sep 4

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    1. My name is Lynette 2. I was born in South Africa 3. I lived in New Zealand for 6 years 4. I live in Perth, Western Australia 5. My favourite colour is green 6. I play the...
    lennyera lennyera 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    There is a very small line between heaven and hell, I realized this the hard way. One second you can be in heaven and the next in hell deep in burning flames. It is us who decided...
    ccrosser ccrosser 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    There is a very small line between heaven and hell, I realized this the hard way. One second you can be in heaven and the next in hell deep in burning flames. It is us who decided...
    ccrosser ccrosser 31-35, M 7 hrs ago

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    I use to get mad at people who would say something "s3xual" must've happened between me and my brother. after reading one of my questions / experiences on how he treats me or after...
    veronica4ever veronica4ever 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4

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    ...but my father is a coward. He made mistakes as we all do, but instead of trying his best to protect his own from these mistakes, he blamed the very ones that loved him. He has...
    PricelessLegacy PricelessLegacy 31-35, F Sep 7

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    OK so not specifically me getting pregnant but I want to find a girl to get pregnant with and raise a baby. I guess I have a biological clock going crazy because it is all I can...
    ballen0420 ballen0420 36-40, M 2 days ago

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    I am Sammie from Hong Kong and I am 14 as school is very hard for me when it's the grouping time I can't really find some girls to be the same group with me :( I am sad that why my...
    samnesia samnesia 13-15, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I was married for a lot of years but not my true love bc he was abusive. But I want to find that one true love. I want to know what is like for a guy to care for me as much as I...
    sml4 sml4 46-50, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    1. I am a born again christian who recognizes God as my Heavenly Father and Creator and Jesus Christ as my savior. 2. I'm not a fan of breakfast food. The smell of breakfast food...
    ariahphantom ariahphantom 18-21, F Aug 25

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    9 yrs ago today my brother died in a car accident.....I woke up to my bf standing over me crying....I remember asking him what was wrong and he told me my brother was gone......I...
    greeneyedmomma greeneyedmomma 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27