I Want to Find My Birth Father

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    I Still Want to

    My biological father left when i was about 5 years old.  My mom had me her senior year of high school, my dad was already out of school. He & my mom were only married for about a year.  I know nothing about Him other than his first & last name & that he gave...
    taytay11 taytay11
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Dec 19, 2008

    I Don't Know My Dad.

    i don't know my father, i have never met him. i am sixteen and am scared i will never get to meet him. i hear from my mom and other members of the family that he is a bad person, been to jail many times, and will do things to make you feel bad for him. i have so many questions...
    tictacc7 tictacc7
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2011

    A Letter From Your Unknown Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 8, 2013

    Upset... :'(

    I just found out my father isn't really my father after all. All i know about my real father is that, his name is Jonathan & he is from Canada. :/ Im afraid to ask my mother because she doesn't know i found this out.
    jhv95 jhv95
    18-21, M
    1 Response Aug 18, 2011

    Trying To Find My Biological Father

    My name is Sam. I was born in Eau Claire, Wisconsin and have never met my biological father. He left my mother before I was born. All I know is his name is David Anderson, he would have been born in the late 50's or early 60's, he went to high school in Eau Claire, once owned...
    FindDavid FindDavid
    36-40, M
    1 Response Nov 7, 2013

    Ive never met the man,

    never saw a picture of him. Dont know anyone from his family. All i know is his name. Ive tried looking him up but all these people finder sites are expensive. He's never came to try to see me. Supposedly he's long dead but i still want to meet someone that knew him. Supposedly...
    Zoneout167 Zoneout167
    26-30, M
    Apr 14, 2014

    Trying To Decide

    My mom was 17 when I was born. My birthfather was 17 too. According to my mom, he would get drunk and violent. She thought it best for me to not be around him. She married a wonderful man when I was 4. He adopted me, and I had a nice childhood. Back in 2003, I met my...
    pamelamc pamelamc
    41-45, F
    Dec 23, 2012

    Don't I Have A Right To Know This Part Of Me?

    I found my birth mom but she doesn't want to be found. She gave up a son who was adopted in 1974 and then I was born and adopted in 1975. I have found my brother and we are very close. Both of us have our pre-adoption birth certificates which list the same mother but no father...
    KimBucher KimBucher
    41-45, F
    Nov 14, 2013

    I Found Out the Father Who Raised Me Is Not My Birth Father

     I am 47 and found out my father who passed away 5 years ago is not my birth father. My mother is angry that I found out and no one except her and an aunt are alive to tell me who he is or was. My mother is verbally abusive and is only concerned about "her good name...
    laceyface laceyface
    3 Responses Jul 24, 2009

    My birth given name is Nancy Rojas ,

    I was born in Chicago Ill. January 14 1967. Growing up was very hard there was alot of mental and physical abuse in my home . I ran away from home at 15 years old because "my Father" was going to kill us all. I left and never returned. But as I had kids I wanted them to know my...
    cubanita067 cubanita067
    51-55, F
    Jan 2, 2014

    My name is Desi and I was born 10/13/1979 in

    Einstein Hospital in the Bronx NY. My mother, Andrea, will not tell me who my real father is, I grew up with a step father. She claims my father was a doctor, but I am not sure if I believe her. I took an ethnicity test and I had a lot of markers from Arabic countries. I am not...
    imdesi imdesi
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Jul 3, 2014

    My name is Lydia. I am 19

    and I was born in Denver, Colorado. This is a difficult topic to discuss with my mother, as well as write about because of how guilty I feel. My mother became pregnant with me at 18 by a man named "Ben". I don't know if that is short for Benjamin or if that is even his name at...
    lydiabydiaboo lydiabydiaboo
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 13, 2014

    Looking For the Zambrana Family

    I don't think I've ever met my birth father.  I may have as an infant but I doubt it.  Supposedly his named is/was Carlos Casanova Zambrana of South Florida and he was coming out of a marraige and already had a small child about a year older than me.  My...
    PembrokeMiami28 PembrokeMiami28
    4 Responses Jan 6, 2009
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