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I Want to Find the Right One For Me

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    I May Never Find The Right One. Here's Why.

    I'm screwed because I may never find her. But I can look on the bright side: I'm kind but I'm not a pushover: I like to help people and am polite but I know where my boundaries are and I will enforce them if I must. I keep the old art of being a gentleman alive. I'm romantic and...
    Arimatheus Arimatheus 26-30, M 1 Response May 6, 2012

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    This Person Changed Me.

    . Two years before my freshman year, i met a girl .She's smart, nice,and has sparkling chinky eyes.Almost every guy in our school would have a crush on her. It wasn't love at first sight when i met her while building up a sand castle. We were at the same class and became close...
    chewandswallow chewandswallow 13-15 1 Response Dec 1, 2012

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    Good Enough Is Not Good Enough For Me

    I know that I may not find the guy of my dreams. That's okay, I know I wouldn't be a match for Roarke anyway. But still, I feel positive towards the future. I have decided that I'm not going to settle for someone I can't respect. I will not spend years and years of my life trying...
    EverSparkling EverSparkling 18-21, F Oct 21, 2011

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    Alright This Is Going To Sound Stupid

    So I'm a guy (I like that picture of the pug, by the way). But my problem is that I can be weak and nervous and not let someone I'm attracted to into my life. I am girl repellent. I think I look ok, but then when she finds out my personality it's like a dealbreaker. I was in...
    coluxus coluxus 31-35, M 6 Responses Nov 27, 2011

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    I Know What I Want, But Everyone Tells Me Its Just a Fairy Tale

    I knw iI have the potential to be an ideal, loving partner. all i really want in life is a man who's a steady companion and who has as strong a sense of family loyalty as I do. i have been told that my emotional strength is soothing in countless ways...
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Sep 14, 2009

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    Making Room

    Bless the ones that walk away from you, they're just making room for the ones that won't. Sometimes in life we have to decipher the time to be a true friend or the time to be a true lover, and realize when the time is to let go of someone who is in our lives. It has been said to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 14, 2013

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    Don'T Wait To Long.

    Don't guard your hearts so carefully that you cannot love.I know women (and have been a woman) who was afraid of heartbreak. I was over-vigilant with my heart because I didn’t think I was strong enough to get in the game, to withstand pain. As it turns out the compassion of God...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 15, 2013

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    Back and Forth

    I have reconnected with an ex. We share a very strong connection (and not just sexual). We have dated off/on for the last 12 years. I love him very much, have grown up with him (dated since we were 22) but I do not feel he is the man for me. I feel sadden by this because I...
    aniave aniave 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 15, 2009

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    I Know What I Want, But Everyone Tells Me Its Just a Fairy Tale

    I knw iI have the potential to be an ideal, loving partner. all i really want in life is a man who's a steady companion and who has as strong a sense of family loyalty as I do. i have been told that my emotional strength is soothing in countless ways...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 14, 2009

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    Mr. Right? Or Mr. Right Now?

    Regardless of what Walt Disney said, filling the position of: "Significant Other/Lover/Confidant" just bc there's a vacancy just isn't wise
    ownlyme ownlyme 56-60, M May 13, 2012

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    What Do I Say...

    I am 20 year old woman at college and I have never had a boyfriend, or girlfriend (I think I may be bisexual), been on a date or even had a guy like me, to my knowledge at least. It's not like I haven't tried, I have been rejected 4x in a row, no wonder I don't have much...
    Sally411 Sally411 18-21 1 Response Feb 20, 2012

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    Related Experiences

    For me it's not really about finding "the one". I just wonder when he is going to appear and how I'm going to know. Two different times I've fallen into the illusion of thinking I...
    RavenS45 RavenS45 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I think it's more a case of while you're waiting for the right one, have fun with all the wrong ones!!!
    picklebobble picklebobble 46-50, M Jul 6

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    I just want to find that one woman who can see passed my wheelchair, my disability and deformity, someone that I find attractive and that thinks I am too, it seems an impossibilty...
    wheels1972 wheels1972 41-45, M 2 Responses 20 hrs ago

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    Not for my body. I'll admit, I have never really respected my body enough to say no to a little attention, but all they ask for now is nude pictures...I feel like I'll never find...
    Laserbeam18 Laserbeam18 18-21, F 2 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    I was having problems with sleeping. I started sleeping 24 seven and couldn't stay awake. So my doctor put me on medication that wakes me up during the day. The problem is now I...
    Britt25 Britt25 41-45, F 5 days ago

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    I cannot believe in THE ONE because that makes it only one person. Let me explain: if only one human on this planet will actually make you feel amazing for longer than a crush...
    DestinyAuthor DestinyAuthor 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 13

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    I don't want to look for something I don't think exists... Or Maybe some people are not suppose to find each other, so greetings to my one wherever he is, whoever he is with hahaha...
    dalexand16 dalexand16 22-25, F 2 Responses Jul 13

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    Friendship is what holds people together Without it a soul will easily fall But finding the right companion to share your happiness with Isnt always easily done People have come...
    SingItForTheKids SingItForTheKids 18-21, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    This is from 'Together Never Again'by ally014(u can find it on wattpad)
    Lilly97 Lilly97 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 29

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    I'm a stupid hopeless romantic, I do want romance like the fairytales like the movies Prince Charming! As I'm getting older I realize that Prince Charming is not coming anytime...
    catxfreak catxfreak 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 4

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    I get bored of people too easily. Once things have 'settled down' as such, I find everything so boring. So many people I have met and spent time with are so small-minded and boring...
    bluefrogs247 bluefrogs247 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    I don't want short relationships .
    Jaqiem Jaqiem 16-17 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I don't want to end up the same or worse than I already am.
    Yleng Yleng 26-30, F Jun 28

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    Is anyone here a forensic psychologist/studying to be one that is willing to help me find more about the profession and answer questions I have?
    heatherm10 heatherm10 16-17, F 6 days ago

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    Yah see... He doesn't really bloody want me but can he just leave me be?! No. I put all my efforts into cutting contact, and yet again I find myself between a rock and a hard place...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 5 Responses Jul 10

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    She took her last breath and closed her eyes forever...
    Gentleandlovingsoul Gentleandlovingsoul 36-40, F Jul 1

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    I always love being with women, I was doing a weight loss challenge I was the only guy, it was a weekly class and they always referred to me as one of the girls which is the best...
    DawnR59 DawnR59 51-55, T 2 Responses Jul 6

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    There are many reasons why I want to lose weight, and one of them is for this guy I heart alot. You cannot blame any overweight girl for dreaming about this. But this guy is...
    MPBJane MPBJane 16-17, F Jul 8

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    To be with a woman with a massive size all natural chest.To have this woman enjoy her chest being play with and adored.To enjoy all of her body night and day.This is a dream that I...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Jul 13

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    Does anyone else dislike hearing "whatever happens, happens for a reason" I hated this quote so much through out life cause I tried way to hard to figure out what was happening...
    SimplyBeingMe94 SimplyBeingMe94 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 8

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    I feel that whenever I am out the guys are simply after my body. I doubt they even care what my personality is like as long as I'm attractive. I don't like that. I am a human being...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 28

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    Be the person I want to become!
    deanl deanl 31-35, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I really feel like I'm all alone in this world. No girlfriend, no car, no job, a family that doesn't give two ***** about me...I just want a girl to love me for me, faults and all...
    KusanagiShiro KusanagiShiro 26-30, M 2 Responses Jul 10

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    Caved. Did brilliantly and ignored his two phone calls yesterday. Then a few hrs later I caved. I texted asking what he had wanted - hope all well. He just replied yeh (ie he didn...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 11

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    There was a guy who raised $50k for potato salad, why not help someone who wants to study? please help me, read my story here. http://www.gofundme.com/bd7rio
    CyrilOh CyrilOh 18-21 Jul 11

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    Hell yeah I wanna lay on ya lap just draining ya milk out till you run dry then I'll suckle ya soft nips till you get sore and then we'll just try for some few hours more I want a...
    immabigdaddy immabigdaddy 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    I first spotted you from the back of the class wearing a smile, wearing a mask I became closer I considered you a friend but I still sometimes saw you wearing the mask It would...
    gothboy145 gothboy145 16-17, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Why does everyone want me to change, why do I have to be something else to be loved or even liked? Does it mean that I am worthless as I am not worth being loved or liked?
    Charliee4 Charliee4 16-17, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    Have spent 25 years working to improve the human condition. Been lied to, stolen from and manipulated by political and economic forces. Lost everything. All I have left is my...
    speedo369 speedo369 56-60, M 1 Response Jun 29

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    I can't seem to get into a relationship and it hurts my feelings because boys don't have a problem with pursuing me but I'm not good enough to date exclusively. I'm open but not...
    December00 December00 18-21, F Jul 2

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    I'd love to hear from anyone that has managed to get themselves 'unstuck'. I am a sensible, intelligent woman. My head knows for certain that I must move on, and that being in this...
    EttaS EttaS 36-40, F 6 Responses Jul 9

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    I wish I never met you... I wish I never let you in... I wish I would have followed my intuition... I wish I'd stop believing on you... I wish if never cried... I wish I could...
    ADRASTEIA ADRASTEIA 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    Love is just a fantasy men created for women so they could play with something instead of opening there eyes and waking up or instead if power
    killerinsident killerinsident 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 19

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    Take them bosoms out and get ready for meh xD :p
    immabigdaddy immabigdaddy 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    And I've stopped looking. Maybe he'll come to me. I have no luck with having a good long lasting relationship despite being good looking, well rounded, and educated.
    BayouBeauty09 BayouBeauty09 22-25, F Jul 4

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    I'm a very passionate person, I love with my whole being. I'm in my second marriage and I'm not quite 30 yet. Both of my husbands suffered/suffer from ED. There's a lot more to my...
    glamazonmar glamazonmar 26-30, F Jul 6

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    I wish people would post about this topic. Rogaine. Harsh drugs. Hair transplant. Hair restoration. What should I do?
    Rose30x Rose30x 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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