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I Want to Fix Or End My Marriage

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    I Pray Everyday That By Next Year My Marriage Will Be History - My husband think he is clever , he doesnt appreciate me all he thinks about is himself ok he pays rent does the...
    chiedza chiedza 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    Hate Feeling Like This!!! - Ok so let me begin by giving you a little bit of history. If you get bored during this story it's ok to move on to the next, lol. I will be married for...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Recently Discovered Husband's Lies - My husband was unfaithful to me last September 08 when he was caught ( by my 2 20+ daughters!!) having suspect phone conversations and shutting...
    nutrigirl09 nutrigirl09 46-50 6 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Ironic - I am divorced and yet I can't seem to act that way. 22 years of marriage tend to condition you to certain responses. We've done couple counseling post divorce. I'm not...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 41-45, F 3 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Married to a Recovering Alcoholic and Don't Know What to Do - I need some opinions from people who don't know me.  I am married to a supposedly recovering alcoholic.  We...
    mtatutu mtatutu 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    I Still Love Him, But.... - I've been married for 5 years, and we were together for 2 years before that. This is the second marriage for both of us, and we both went into it saying...
    LadyScarlett22 LadyScarlett22 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Marital Issues That Don't Go Away - I have been married for 13 years, and all in all together with my husband for 15. Wow. This is a long time, in some ways. We have three...
    loritadita loritadita 36-40 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    My mother is awful. I can't even explain how much she's tortured my sisters and I over the years. She makes us think that she will actually be a mother. And when she's gained our...
    agirltoremember agirltoremember 13-15, F Apr 1

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    if you want to help someone you know that is grieving and you don't know what to say or do. a good book that will absolutely help you help them is, How To Help Someone Who Is...
    tacomasr5 tacomasr5 51-55, M 1 day ago

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    I'm pretty sure if I was to offer her money over family she would take money.
    agirltoremember agirltoremember 13-15, F Apr 1

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    Things You Really Need To Challenge Your Thinking About. - - 1 - That "everything is great bar the sex" 2 - That the vows you made are inviolate 3 - That your spouse loves you 4...
    bazzar bazzar 56-60, M 10 Responses 1 day ago

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    Last year in June my husband of 18 years confessed to an online love affair with a lady from his company that began in April. She works in a different state hundreds of miles away...
    ydoideservethis ydoideservethis 36-40, F 2 Responses 11 hrs ago

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    I have felt things in the past couple of months that I can't explain. And then in the last few weeks I have been bombarded with accident ( both to me and to others ). I am not...
    noreic123 noreic123 41-45, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Rules of Engagement - A few new members have posted in this forum recently, and while I've only been a member for few weeks, I thought I'd share my opinion on the purpose of this...
    CherishMe2 CherishMe2 51-55, F 15 Responses Mar 20

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    It wasn't really that bad we did a lot of normal married people things its just we didn't work out... Its an awful lot like dating except there was this acceptance we could become...
    Radagasis Radagasis 26-30, M Mar 16

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    I don't know what's wrong with me, my family is normal, there are a few friend issues and I'm falling behind on school work because I can't concentrate, other than that my life is...
    Moonbay Moonbay 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 23

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    I want to die right now I just want to end it all and I have already tried killing myself three times already but all of the attempts have failed. I just can't take this anymore I...
    cristina44 cristina44 18-21, F Mar 17

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    This is a question I want answered especially by a guy!! I am or I was dating this guy. Now I'm getting the silent treatment for the 2nd time! First time he ignored me for 10 days...
    gymgirl71 gymgirl71 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 22

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    I don't fit in anywhere, but here I felt accepted. In real life I'm the type that judges myself a lot and all because I can't accept the person I am. So as a result I crave for...
    GrumpyGrouchy GrumpyGrouchy 22-25, F 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I just want to end it all again I hope this time won't fail like the other three times
    cristina44 cristina44 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 18

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    I should've said that you meant so much to me,that I wanted it to last forever,that I really wanted to end up with you. That I forgive you but I'm still figuring out how I'm going...
    dauntlessK dauntlessK 22-25, F Apr 5

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    Believe it or not, as much as I love my parents, they expect too damn much from me !! And I just want a way to tell them that I DO NOT want to end up like them. Not that being...
    Heragreekgodess Heragreekgodess 16-17, F Apr 7

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    All i'm thinking about is suicide but no one can understand me why is it so hard to be dead :'( i want to die i want to end my pain is it so much to ask for??
    rawan99 rawan99 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Can I disappear just go away forever 😢I feel like I don't wanna live but I love my boyfriend to much to hurt him like that but day like today I just want to end my life just...
    nadirah96 nadirah96 16-17, F 1 Response 10 hrs ago

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    "I want a divorce" are the words I spoke to my husband of 13 years......today. after 3.5 years of effort trying to save our marriage, i realised a time ago that i cannot fix it...
    Elena36 Elena36 36-40, F 3 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I just read the story on the caretaker from NeedingtoVent (thank you NTV), and it really hit me hard. In my journey I am recognizing my failings to be far greater than I thought...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 2 Responses 57 mins ago

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    I have always loved the idea of someday finding the perfect guy for me and getting married in some fairy tale scenario. But as I got older and watched relationships around me fail...
    ariel2891 ariel2891 22-25, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Most women dream of marriage but it never appealed to me. I dont believe there is a man special enough for me to want it.
    tb2985 tb2985 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 hrs ago

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    March 22 at 8 am my marriage officially ended... my husband is very sad.. I am the only one he has ever loved, and the thought of him finding a new girl makes him feel sick... not...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F Mar 24

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    Hi all, thanks for reading i hope you can offer some words of wisdom to a girl who is stuck! I can't tell you where all the time has gone - but in 2007, now 7 years ago a boy I...
    sulkypuss101 sulkypuss101 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    I guess "troubled" is the best way to describe it. I used to think nothing could come between us. My husband's been in and out of part-time, dead-end jobs for ten years. Most...
    FakeIsTheNewReal FakeIsTheNewReal 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 5

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    Those who do not have to deal with this situation must find it odd that those of us who do, express such deep sadness and longing. How often do the comments suggested the simple...
    DumbLondoner DumbLondoner 51-55, M 18 Responses 1 day ago

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    I am having problems in my seven month old marriage. I have posted several things about it already. I have written a long message for my wife - yes I guess it is an ultimatum, but...
    tcennoC tcennoC 51-55, M 5 Responses Mar 16

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    Wake up mode! I am I great pain and can't control it! I am trying to figure out how to get over it. I found a few things to think about, that may help me. I tried to force true...
    Cucly80 Cucly80 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 18

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    Trolls… aka people with negative comments spewing out of your fingers… this post is going to p you off…. So please do everyone a favor and move along.. nothing to see here...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F Mar 21

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    I like the IDEA of it, but marriage isn't a life goal of mine. If two people are happy and don't care about going through the process and other complicated aspects of it, then I...
    Professionalgriefer Professionalgriefer 18-21, F 7 hrs ago

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    I was married once and my marriage failed... quite miserably.. I have always thought that I am just one of those people who were never meant to be married; even from a very young...
    prettyredhead2650 prettyredhead2650 26-30, F Apr 4

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    I have been married for 3 years, there have been a lot of ups and downs, mostly downs. I am 25 my husband is 27 we have a two year old boy. I don't know if its that both me and my...
    mylifesucks88 mylifesucks88 22-25 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    My mother passed away peacefully on Monday, March 24, 2014. She had battled long and hard against the ravaging effects of years of smoking cigarettes. The last thing my mother...
    rosieapparition rosieapparition 51-55, F 28 Responses Mar 27

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    For Kids Sake.... As part of our divorce and the process both my stbx and my therapist suggested a seminar called For Kids Sake. I got quite a bit out of it myself. I attended...
    Usernametbd Usernametbd 36-40, M 7 Responses Mar 30

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    I'm not "unhappily married". I love my husband and I know he is the one God appointed for me. What the issue is "fear", I've been hurt before in my relationship. I've also lost...
    ADonya ADonya 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 23

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    Venting again... I always wondered about the Madonna-***** complex and… here it is… seems like my husband is one of them. I needed some weeks to think about it after he told...
    dalessa dalessa 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 17

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    Here's an update: Tomorrow is a full year with no sex, no intimate touch, nothing. Is it a big deal to me? Yes and no. There has been progress made in last few months in therapy...
    indianoutlaw indianoutlaw 31-35, M 6 Responses Apr 2

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    Prepare for Rant.On Saturday I bought a 1991 Toyota MR2 for $2200. I am 21 years of age. I live on my parents farm in the basement of our house. I have been saving up for the past...
    Devilscar Devilscar 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Why won't you just let me go?! I'm doing you, us, a favor by owning it all and *trying* to set you free! But no, you hold on for dear effing life. Am I property? Status? A promise...
    braverthanithink braverthanithink 26-30, F 10 Responses Mar 26

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    Before and After … Nearing 8 months after my separation, I reflect on the emotional desert I have called my marriage. During those years, I was starved for a smile or a hug. A...
    SleeplessKnight SleeplessKnight 41-45, M 11 Responses Apr 6

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    Thought this was worth a read. Not applicable to all but still interesting. A lack of sexual interest in women is a big topic Fotolia_49866286_XS Peter and Andrea are teachers...
    HusbandOfOne HusbandOfOne 41-45, M 13 Responses 6 days ago

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    We met in a 3 month long nursing class & work together. He knew dad & came to His funeral. He surprisingly kissed me out of the blue at a bar after some drinks & told me about his...
    BlueEyes3182 BlueEyes3182 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    the reasons why i dont want to do anything sexual before marriage : reason number 1 : what if i had sex with my girl friend before marriage , and after few days i met with...
    lifetriangle lifetriangle 22-25, M 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    Finding this group has been life changing to me. I always thought that I was alone. I didn't even realize I had so much pain stuffed deep inside me until I read so many stories...
    Splityarn Splityarn 31-35, F 12 Responses Mar 21

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    I had mixed feelings with sharing. I decided to go ahead. I can't keep it to myself, I need to discuss with others who are possibly going through the same thing. I first noticed...
    hopefull2014 hopefull2014 26-30, F 19 Responses Mar 24

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