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I Want to Fix Or End My Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 92 People

    Recently Discovered Husband's Lies

    My husband was unfaithful to me last September 08 when he was caught ( by my 2 20+ daughters!!) having suspect phone conversations and shutting down chat rooms on his computer. he 'felt relieved' I now knew and agreed to go to counseling for 4 weeks only. things did not get much...
    nutrigirl09 nutrigirl09 46-50 6 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Hate Feeling Like This!!!

    Ok so let me begin by giving you a little bit of history. If you get bored during this story it's ok to move on to the next, lol. I will be married for 4 years on March 10 but we have been separated since January 2011. I have been trying to fix my marriage for the past 3 years...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    So I am not married..

    .but I have been in a serious relationship for 2 years now and I want to end it but at the same time I know I shouldn't. My boyfriend is perfect for me and has been nothing but wonderful and loving towards me, granting me every wish, telling me he loves me every day...but somehow...
    ankgh6 ankgh6 18-21, F Jun 11

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    Marital Issues That Don't Go Away

    I have been married for 13 years, and all in all together with my husband for 15. Wow. This is a long time, in some ways. We have three wonderful children.He is faithful and so am I. He shares in househils responsibilties and child rearing.Sounds great, right? The problem is, I...
    loritadita loritadita 36-40 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    Ironic

    I am divorced and yet I can't seem to act that way. 22 years of marriage tend to condition you to certain responses. We've done couple counseling post divorce. I'm not sure why other than she's really good. The room is cozy and decorated nicely. The chairs are comfy, and i can...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    I Still Love Him, But....

    I've been married for 5 years, and we were together for 2 years before that. This is the second marriage for both of us, and we both went into it saying that we were marrying cos we knew we could make it work this time. He's clever, funny and caring. We share many likes and...
    LadyScarlett22 LadyScarlett22 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    I Pray Everyday That By Next Year My Marriage Will Be History

    My husband think he is clever , he doesnt appreciate me all he thinks about is himself ok he pays rent does the grocery but there is no love between us . We have sex once or twice a month the problem is he cheats a lot he is never home every week from Thursday to Sunday night he...
    chiedza chiedza 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    Married to a Recovering Alcoholic and Don't Know What to Do

    I need some opinions from people who don't know me.  I am married to a supposedly recovering alcoholic.  We have been married for 5 years, we have two children, and have been attending marriage counseling.  He has also been attending AA meetings.  The past...
    mtatutu mtatutu 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I know lots of girls around my age who did not wait until marriage to lose their virginity and to have their kids. Well guess what? I am one of those girls too who did not wait...
    redheadedfemale redheadedfemale 41-45, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Well I'm an instresting person and I have a lot of different stories of my life. So I'll tell you the story of my dog. I live in a military family so i move to a lot of places, but...
    IcyxDice IcyxDice 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    There is a point in life that almost all women hit. For some its not till their late thirties. For others their early teens. I believe neither is wrong to feel for various reasons...
    toritinagrace toritinagrace 16-17, F 1 day ago

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    My first intense experience... My wife was contacted by a guy on OKC, who also sent a message to me. He and I hit it off pretty well, on friend level. My wife and he also clicked...
    contextualshift contextualshift 36-40, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Have been unable to find steady work for years. I get very depressed even looking for and applying for work. My "retirement savings" and 2 small bequests from now dead family have...
    Bilbeaux Bilbeaux 61-65, M 3 days ago

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    The first 10 years of marriage, our sex life was wonderful. Once our son was born, things started to go downhill. I understand even I'm the prime person looking after my son from...
    mohairp53 mohairp53 61-65 3 days ago

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    All of these stories scare me. I'm 29, and my husband is 34. We got together when I was 22 and he was 27.. I we each had kids from previous relationships, so our new relationship...
    AFrisco AFrisco 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 22

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    I know in your eyes, I did the most unimaginable, unforgivable thing. I am human. I did what I did to forget all the hurt, disappointment, and to keep from having horrible...
    purtyinpink17 purtyinpink17 36-40, F Jul 21

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    I'm married and I've only been married for almost a year. But way before our relationship prior to marriage (5 years ago) I met this guy and there was no doubt in my mind that I...
    slofox slofox 22-25, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Life is something Im NOT enjoying at this age, & Im so young to be saying that. Children, like me, supposed to be happy, but unfortunatley we all end up making mistakes, that...
    silentoparadise silentoparadise 13-15, F Jul 18

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    I'm so full of anger of so many things and somethings are just not fixable so you got to let go and move on as most say. I fear the peaceful feeling I remember will never return...
    galerie2015 galerie2015 51-55, F 1 Response Jul 17

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    This post is literally just a nonsensical rant to the world from an anonymous person who has issues. My apologies to you poor saps who actually read this. Right now i'm a college...
    Tsukasa102 Tsukasa102 18-21 Jul 16

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    I was in a relationship where both of us were married. I ended it almost 2 months ago after his wife found out. I also decided at that time to tell my husband, as the guilt ate...
    meok12 meok12 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 16

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    Who would think this act was moral - if it was not endorsed by religion?
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 16

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    No i didnt. I was a curious little cat, i was naive, eager, in need some kind of affection, lonely and sad. I've done it with a couple of people and the first guy, well lets...
    lonelywandererx lonelywandererx 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 16

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    When I met my husband, I was 28, and had reached a point in my life when I was sure I wasn't going to meet the right guy. I'd been in an out of relationships with total jerks or...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jul 15

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    Her job description is to visit the office every week. I never really took notice of this girl. I remember her as plain looking, not engaging. But this morning, I couldn't help but...
    stiltcourt stiltcourt 41-45, F 4 Responses Jul 15

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    I am waiting until I'm 18. I don't want to end up a pregnant highschooler. I want to lose my virginity to my best friend/boyfriend. I trust him so much and he would never hurt me...
    helloo12121 helloo12121 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I feel stupid. I've been married for 25 years. (I'm getting a divorce). I looked at my marriage as a partnership. I NEVER dawned on me that he would make choices to hurt us. I don...
    upextraolives upextraolives 46-50, F 9 Responses Jul 14

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    If you want to just point out how stupid or shallow I seem , don't bother to comment. I know what I am thanks :) Saying I always want to look my best doesn't really sound too bad...
    KILLsonia KILLsonia 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 14

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    This is very fresh for me and I don't know where else to go or what else to do. I cannot talk about this with anyone and the internet seems to harbor communities of acceptance. I...
    geniebobeanie geniebobeanie 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I love to drink, but I drink too much. I don't know when I went to bed the last time completely sober. I'm a daily drinker, wine and beer. But now I decided I want to take a...
    itsmemm itsmemm 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    Here we go again... Waking up wishing I never existed. The pain is too much.. I really want to end it... So badly.
    MrCutBleedSmile MrCutBleedSmile 18-21, M 5 Responses Jul 13

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    My husband and I went in for a regular heart check up for him. We ended up getting a test done that assesses blood flow to his legs when he is active vs. when he is at rest. When...
    stayinginthegame stayinginthegame 31-35, F 4 Responses Jul 13

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    Black judge under fire for refusing to perform a gay ‘marriage’ on religious grounds TOLEDO, OH, July 10, 2015 (LifeSiteNews) -- A judge in the Toledo area is under fire from...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 51-55, M Jul 13

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    You tell me you're too scared to fall in love in case your heat gets broken but baby if that's the case I'll bring superglue, all your favourite junk foods and I'll even get you a...
    HopefulLovatic HopefulLovatic 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 12

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    There are times when I look over a story I've written and notice an error. Thankfully, there is the option to edit stories. Unfortunately, it doesn't always work. I'll see a...
    TheBadgeringWitness TheBadgeringWitness 31-35 5 Responses Jul 11

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    I had a very controlling, manipulative, emotionally draining friend for 15 years. We met in high school, and she was a person who was full of joy. She befriended me, we had some...
    Deadlikemestillwalking Deadlikemestillwalking 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 10

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    More than four million Syrians have fled the civil war ravaging their country to become refugees in the surrounding region -- a million of them in the past 10 months alone, the...
    valha11a valha11a 46-50, M Jul 9

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    Hello all you special people ep has to offer. First off I have been so stinking busy with work and church and vacation planning I haven't even thought to go on but I thought about...
    twistex2015 twistex2015 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    My chiropractor is like a witch doctor. He's been clearing away at all the layers and shields I have been hiding behind. His muscle testing shows if the pain is physical or...
    Deedle623 Deedle623 51-55, F 6 Responses Jul 8

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    I can't get over my childhood... I was constantly raped and molested by my family members. It started when I was 5 and didn't end until I reached high school... I am safe now any...
    Sable25 Sable25 22-25 2 Responses Jul 7

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    People are unhappy in marriage because they get marriage for the wrong reasons. If you choose to be married, you have to maintain your own identity and be willing to communicate...
    Zelaleme Zelaleme 51-55, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    Do any of you know the movie, "The Trueman Show?" Sometimes I feel as though my life is kinda like that. I could never properly explain to myself why people never seemed to like me...
    Niran3 Niran3 22-25, M Jul 7

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