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I Want to Fix Or End My Marriage

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 85 People

    Recently Discovered Husband's Lies

    My husband was unfaithful to me last September 08 when he was caught ( by my 2 20+ daughters!!) having suspect phone conversations and shutting down chat rooms on his computer. he 'felt relieved' I now knew and agreed to go to counseling for 4 weeks only. things did not get much...
    nutrigirl09 nutrigirl09 46-50 6 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Hate Feeling Like This!!!

    Ok so let me begin by giving you a little bit of history. If you get bored during this story it's ok to move on to the next, lol. I will be married for 4 years on March 10 but we have been separated since January 2011. I have been trying to fix my marriage for the past 3 years...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Ironic

    I am divorced and yet I can't seem to act that way. 22 years of marriage tend to condition you to certain responses. We've done couple counseling post divorce. I'm not sure why other than she's really good. The room is cozy and decorated nicely. The chairs are comfy, and i can...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    I Still Love Him, But....

    I've been married for 5 years, and we were together for 2 years before that. This is the second marriage for both of us, and we both went into it saying that we were marrying cos we knew we could make it work this time. He's clever, funny and caring. We share many likes and...
    LadyScarlett22 LadyScarlett22 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Marital Issues That Don't Go Away

    I have been married for 13 years, and all in all together with my husband for 15. Wow. This is a long time, in some ways. We have three wonderful children.He is faithful and so am I. He shares in househils responsibilties and child rearing.Sounds great, right? The problem is, I...
    loritadita loritadita 36-40 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I Pray Everyday That By Next Year My Marriage Will Be History

    My husband think he is clever , he doesnt appreciate me all he thinks about is himself ok he pays rent does the grocery but there is no love between us . We have sex once or twice a month the problem is he cheats a lot he is never home every week from Thursday to Sunday night he...
    chiedza chiedza 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    Married to a Recovering Alcoholic and Don't Know What to Do

    I need some opinions from people who don't know me.  I am married to a supposedly recovering alcoholic.  We have been married for 5 years, we have two children, and have been attending marriage counseling.  He has also been attending AA meetings.  The past...
    mtatutu mtatutu 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    I just watched a Ross Kemp show (Extreme World) and he covered desperate cases of girls being trafficked for sex in India. Very moving, even if the viewer is resilient to another...
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    Well...about a year and a half ago I took a new job and met this guy. I had been married (happily, I thought) almost 18 years at that time and we had a teenage son. This guy has...
    UB2015 UB2015 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 7

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    Getting told to kill your self everyday and then people saying I'm looking for attention because I want help but no one can be ****** to if anyone can help please do it's getting...
    holliewollie200 holliewollie200 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 28

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    to anyone who is feeling like this it is not over you have a chance to restart every single time. whenever you feel you have reached the end remember it's just ground 0 and build...
    hellokitty206 hellokitty206 18-21 Apr 1

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    "When religion ends, civilisation begins" (Christopher Hitchens, 2006).
    TrevorThomson TrevorThomson 26-30, M Apr 11

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    My first plan, say Plan "A", was about ordering Nembutal over Internet .. I did ... But my parcel has been seized by customs ... So that I now have a Plan "B" ... instead of...
    mybygone mybygone 46-50, M Mar 26

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    it crosses my mind everyday.. more than ever now.. it'd be so easy.. just an "accident". I could fall in the creek and drown.. or trip while crossing the highway.. it's so easy..
    alienpanda alienpanda 18-21, F Mar 29

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    I don't cut but when ever I have a broken ruler I scratch words into my arm and it's gone in the morning so no one can see it witch means I don't get ask "why? "and people don't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 31

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    Over the last week or so I have decided I want to end my marriage. Each day that passes makes me more resolved to do so. I just need to find the moment to tell my husband. There's...
    yespleaseMrDarcy yespleaseMrDarcy 36-40, F 14 Responses Apr 5

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    As I expected, nothing but horny guys who want to get laid. Any women posting here want love and marriage beforehand. Nothing wrong with that, I think the guys here want to hurry...
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    I'm usually the person people turn to for help, but this time I'm the one who needs help. A friend (we shall call her TA) of mine is in a toxic relationship. Her boyfriend (we...
    Elleuree Elleuree 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 15

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    the time my friend Freddie became a girl chapter 2 part 11 ?Ask her to stay tomorrow until I get back from work, and when I get back I?ll ask her to stay for a few more days...
    Jaitheboy Jaitheboy 13-15, T Apr 7

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    I've wanted to end it on and off since i was 11, i don't have the guts though. I believe that we are supposed to live/suffer it through since we are not alive for very long anyway...
    MushroomFaerie148 MushroomFaerie148 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 17

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    don't really want to end up mentally ill and abusive
    Mylo248 Mylo248 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    At times I wonder what it would be like after I live this life. It used to be because I had no hope of continuing my life and I dint think I had any potential to grow as a...
    EmptyBlack EmptyBlack 31-35, M Mar 26

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    Underneath all the love i try to give to others, i have a selfish desire; i want to end my life. I want to be happy and i know that being here serving everyone and being loyal...
    gugly14 gugly14 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 4

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    I love my parents. They can be sweet and nice, but they aren't supportive and they can be verbally abusive at times. My parents fight a lot over small things. My mom is a control...
    Lunangelia Lunangelia 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 14

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    i just want to end the pain and torment and want to die. that is all. you guys do not KNOW my story yet.
    Thedepressedgirlatthewindow Thedepressedgirlatthewindow 16-17, F 4 Responses Apr 6

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    Hi everyone! I am 29 yr professionaly qualified, well settled North Indian gay guy living in the US. I am looking for a lesbian for MOC and to put an end to the constant nagging...
    coolguy1986 coolguy1986 26-30, M 43 mins ago

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    I had always planned to, which is why I held out for so long .. But the day I lost my virginity was extremely emotional for me. I was ready & he was "the one" (or at least I...
    shesdifferent516 shesdifferent516 18-21, F 1 Response 9 hrs ago

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    I am bilingual I am a nurse I have been married 20 years I have a son with mild autism/CP I worry too much I am in a place in my life where I am wondering...is this it? I have...
    LostInTheWorld123 LostInTheWorld123 41-45, F 1 hr ago

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    1. Do any of your parents like any of the music you like? Yeah, my dad likes Christian mainstream music and he likes Mariah Carey's Christmas cd. My mom likes Celine Dion, and a...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 4 days ago

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    Hey so to make it short here is what happenee, i met this amazing girl at work and u liked her so kinda jokingly I asked her is shes dating she didnt respond seriously (idk how to...
    braster25 braster25 26-30, M 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    Favorite movies (Let's see if I can limit ten per theme) 1. ANIMATED 1. Fern Gully 2. Phineas And Ferb The Movie: Across The Second Dimension 3. The Little Mermaid 4. Beauty And...
    blankcheck4urhart blankcheck4urhart 36-40, F 12 hrs ago

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    London. 1902, Hours before Dawn---The rain came down in a non-sequential pattern. Muting as it had for centuries as it beat on the cobblestone streets below. It was intermittent...
    Elandra77 Elandra77 56-60 7 hrs ago

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    This is something that is supposed to be a part of me forever..I want to tell u all of this but I know I have no rights..I know u will behave in a manner that will simply be...
    sb3007 sb3007 22-25, F 1 Response a week ago

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    1. I live in Pennsylvania 2. I am studying to be a nurse 3. I am shy 4. I am a hopeless romantic 5. My main goal in life is to have a family and a long happy marriage 6. I like...
    ktlynn0890 ktlynn0890 22-25, F 2 hrs ago

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    Growing up with a single mother, I think I was turned off to the idea of kids as I saw how much harder my mother's life was because of me and my sibling or because of her bad...
    ESQshae ESQshae 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 3

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    I was 31 and prided myself on still being a virgin, but my girlfriend, who is now my wife, wanted me to make love to her. I refused several times until one night she cried and...
    wywildman wywildman 36-40, M 11 hrs ago

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    New Year's Day WalkA few have asked me to post the first story ot what is a trilogy as of now.  For one reason or another I have digressed doing so.  The third story "My...
    Elandra77 Elandra77 56-60 2 Responses Apr 4

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    disclaimer - im infj. and my fingers are numb and cold so im not typing well, sorry about that. :3 not sure if this is gonna post. i dont remeber what i've written on this site...
    surfnatty surfnatty 22-25 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I have made mistakes in my marriage. I worked too many hours and traveled over 100 days out of the year. I always was supportive. I tool an interest in my wife's activities and...
    mysecretstuff72 mysecretstuff72 41-45, M 2 Responses Mar 28

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    Over the last two centuries, women began to rebel against their God given design as a helper for man and began to demand marriages that removed all roles. Instead of women acting...
    biblicalgenderroles biblicalgenderroles 36-40, M 3 Responses Apr 4

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    I am 30 years old, on my second marriage. I entered this relationship shortly after I was divorced from my first husband. I guess you could say I was done with my first marriage...
    MarieM13 MarieM13 26-30, F 3 Responses Apr 8

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    1. I'm in the middle of a divorce 2. I have 5 kids... 4 grown and a 10 year old. 3. I support gay marriage 4. I drink tea a lot and will have a glass of wine once or twice a month...
    upextraolives upextraolives 46-50, F 3 Responses Apr 11