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I Want to Fix Or End My Marriage

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    Ironic

    I am divorced and yet I can't seem to act that way. 22 years of marriage tend to condition you to certain responses. We've done couple counseling post divorce. I'm not sure why other than she's really good. The room is cozy and decorated nicely. The chairs are comfy, and i can...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    I Pray Everyday That By Next Year My Marriage Will Be History

    My husband think he is clever , he doesnt appreciate me all he thinks about is himself ok he pays rent does the grocery but there is no love between us . We have sex once or twice a month the problem is he cheats a lot he is never home every week from Thursday to Sunday night he...
    chiedza chiedza 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    I Still Love Him, But....

    I've been married for 5 years, and we were together for 2 years before that. This is the second marriage for both of us, and we both went into it saying that we were marrying cos we knew we could make it work this time. He's clever, funny and caring. We share many likes and...
    LadyScarlett22 LadyScarlett22 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Hate Feeling Like This!!!

    Ok so let me begin by giving you a little bit of history. If you get bored during this story it's ok to move on to the next, lol. I will be married for 4 years on March 10 but we have been separated since January 2011. I have been trying to fix my marriage for the past 3 years...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Marital Issues That Don't Go Away

    I have been married for 13 years, and all in all together with my husband for 15. Wow. This is a long time, in some ways. We have three wonderful children.He is faithful and so am I. He shares in househils responsibilties and child rearing.Sounds great, right? The problem is, I...
    loritadita loritadita 36-40 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    So I am not married..

    .but I have been in a serious relationship for 2 years now and I want to end it but at the same time I know I shouldn't. My boyfriend is perfect for me and has been nothing but wonderful and loving towards me, granting me every wish, telling me he loves me every day...but somehow...
    ankgh6 ankgh6 22-25, F Jun 11, 2015

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    Married to a Recovering Alcoholic and Don't Know What to Do

    I need some opinions from people who don't know me.  I am married to a supposedly recovering alcoholic.  We have been married for 5 years, we have two children, and have been attending marriage counseling.  He has also been attending AA meetings.  The past...
    mtatutu mtatutu 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    Recently Discovered Husband's Lies

    My husband was unfaithful to me last September 08 when he was caught ( by my 2 20+ daughters!!) having suspect phone conversations and shutting down chat rooms on his computer. he 'felt relieved' I now knew and agreed to go to counseling for 4 weeks only. things did not get much...
    nutrigirl09 nutrigirl09 46-50 6 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    People struggle with so many horrible things in their lives. I understand, life is not always easy. Its not supposed to be. But why are people ending their lives because of these...
    spruce8 spruce8 13-15, F 1 hr ago

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    It just saddens me. I am a 14 year old freshman girl who should be out and about with her friends on the weekend, but instead is in her room all the time trying not to think...
    Rucbrar Rucbrar 13-15, F 5 Responses 1 hr ago

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    I will probably delete this story soon. I don't know what group to put this under About 4 years ago my family got a letter from someone saying that my dad had a sister that was...
    strawberyblond strawberyblond 70+, F 5 hrs ago

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    It's difficult to watch the play by play of someone you admire so much slowly destroy themselves and do it in such a hateful manner and then have your mother say to you that you...
    sambular1313 sambular1313 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    I read an article recently over 'unhealthy soul ties'. It's a warning I've heard before for young ladies cautioning them against giving themselves away sexually. The article stated...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I hate growing up. You grow up just to watch your world change for the worst. You grow up just to take up a sucky job you don't want just to get by. You lose people you love. You...
    shawnbone1 shawnbone1 18-21, F 2 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    The Poignancy Of Love The majestic beauty of this enchanted place stands pale in its comparison to thee crested in a night of armor a simple wanderer of the truth in a deathly...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet 41-45, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    Death is solace . I think the most satisfying thing would be to have nothing at all. I think the mind needs a break, I'd consider it hell if I died and woke up in another body with...
    Shahedansharif Shahedansharif 16-17, M 12 hrs ago

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    What I have to come realize in my sexless marriage is it is not the sexual acts per se that I miss most, but it is the intimacy and connection that comes before/during/after sex...
    rustyblueday rustyblueday 46-50, F 13 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I thought it might be a little narcissistic to do one of these but I love reading them so I figured, why not. Here goes. 1. My name is Spencer 2. I'm a senior in high school 3...
    JerseyBoy16 JerseyBoy16 16-17, M 17 hrs ago

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    OPEN HEAVENS FELLOWSHIP DAILY DEVOTION A DYNAMO OF LIFE FOR YOUR BODY Romans 8:11 (NLT) The Spirit of God, who raised Jesus from the dead, lives in you. And just as God raised...
    ganyoji ganyoji 22-25, F 19 hrs ago

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    Hey everyone, it's my first time posting, so I will keep it short. It's also 3:45 am. I wanted to talk about my sociopathic, violent brother. This guy lied and told us in great...
    LiftedCurse LiftedCurse 31-35, M 19 hrs ago

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    I welcome death if I wasn't such a wimp I would kill myself and just end it all I am so sick of living I am so sick of the bull **** I am so tired of life period. I welcome death...
    abe15 abe15 18-21, M 1 Response 20 hrs ago

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    Well violence is never the answer...Right now I am lefted with no one because all of the people that I trusted to never leave have gone and making me go though life on my own even...
    unknowndarkness2001 unknowndarkness2001 13-15, F 21 hrs ago

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    My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 10 years. This past December I found out he had been talking to a woman on Facebook and it was, in his own words, more than friends...
    helpmekeepittogether helpmekeepittogether 36-40, F 1 day ago

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    Writing within the realm of salvageable marriages, I'm thinking, maybe one of the reasons why we have NC relapses is because we haven't really committed ourselves in repairing our...
    SundayGlory33 SundayGlory33 31-35, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    In the 20 years of doing marriage counseling here is what I know for sure regarding marital disputes and divorce: 1. There are 2 versions of the truth- 2 realities and 2...
    ishqelahasil ishqelahasil 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I am tired of being a soldier. I am tired of being awake. I am tired of being completely alone. I am tired of a family who can never help me because I'm to week to help myself, I...
    skythuss skythuss 18-21, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I never want to have children. For some people it seems like an impossible concept that a female does not to mother children. It is an individual choice, some women want to have...
    moonlightflower moonlightflower 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    since childhood the movies teach us how to live when you grow up find women you love get married have kids same old story most people do this same old story repeat it i...
    lostpagesofM lostpagesofM 18-21, M 5 days ago

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    Ok this statement couldn't be more true. My post is going to be a confusing one.. As some of you have read my past posts I seem to still love someone who clearly doesn't want me...
    Beanbella Beanbella 31-35, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    Experience Project, if you read this then know I have been a member for 9 years. Over these years, my main issue is not being seen or heard. Sexual predators and spammers where...
    Hexatiler Hexatiler 18-21, M 5 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to end my relationship, but don't want to hurt my girlfriend. I wish she would fall for someone else or out of love with me so that I don't have to hurt her. I'm such a...
    Thesp1964 Thesp1964 51-55, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am a 33 year old Indian gay looking for an open marriage with a straight female/lesbian. I am in the US and seek someone that is sane, stable and serious. Please get back to me...
    krishere1982 krishere1982 31-35 1 Response Jan 29

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    I'd like to "step off" and just end my useless life of painful failures. But I feel I can't because of duty to my sons and others who would be upset. Damn them all; I wish they...
    CallMeSal CallMeSal 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 28

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    My husband and I have been married for 7 months, he recently went to Samoa to visit his mother who he has not seen in ten years, he wanted her to live with us and I told him no...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 28

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    SHE DID IT!!!!!! She cut my hair and I had the biggest hard on. She saw what haircutting really does to me and I see more haircuts in my future, I don't think she still entirely...
    wkal94 wkal94 18-21, M 4 Responses Jan 27

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    so ******* close to ending it
    haileeilenenanderson haileeilenenanderson 13-15, F 2 Responses Jan 27

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    And one day, it just happened. Exactly a month ago. Maybe it was the magic that Christmas brings, but that day changed my life forever. It was the day that we saw each other with...
    hopelesslyromantic hopelesslyromantic 31-35, F 3 Responses Jan 26

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    Chumps I recently found a web site that gives advice to chumps. "Chumps" people who wake up one day finding their partner has been unfaithful. The Chump wisdom she gives to the...
    ifoundmehere ifoundmehere 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 25

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    hey there , I am Frank. i,m from new berry . 3 months backs i was so tired from the daily issues i was having at my marriage front . Everyday we tried to give our relation a new...
    franklampard14 franklampard14 31-35, M Jan 25

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    Irritated I am not sure how I feel about this. My ex husband is getting married again. I actually feel pretty good about that. Apparently my kids "new mommy and little sister" (as...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 46-50, F 3 Responses Jan 24

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