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I Want to Fix Or End My Marriage

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    Hate Feeling Like This!!!

    Ok so let me begin by giving you a little bit of history. If you get bored during this story it's ok to move on to the next, lol. I will be married for 4 years on March 10 but we have been separated since January 2011. I have been trying to fix my marriage for the past 3 years...
    singlemom85 singlemom85 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 2, 2013

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    Ironic

    I am divorced and yet I can't seem to act that way. 22 years of marriage tend to condition you to certain responses. We've done couple counseling post divorce. I'm not sure why other than she's really good. The room is cozy and decorated nicely. The chairs are comfy, and i can...
    ijustneed2talk ijustneed2talk 41-45, F 2 Responses Jul 20, 2013

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    Recently Discovered Husband's Lies

    My husband was unfaithful to me last September 08 when he was caught ( by my 2 20+ daughters!!) having suspect phone conversations and shutting down chat rooms on his computer. he 'felt relieved' I now knew and agreed to go to counseling for 4 weeks only. things did not get much...
    nutrigirl09 nutrigirl09 46-50 6 Responses Jul 23, 2009

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    Married to a Recovering Alcoholic and Don't Know What to Do

    I need some opinions from people who don't know me.  I am married to a supposedly recovering alcoholic.  We have been married for 5 years, we have two children, and have been attending marriage counseling.  He has also been attending AA meetings.  The past...
    mtatutu mtatutu 26-30 2 Responses Aug 7, 2008

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    I Pray Everyday That By Next Year My Marriage Will Be History

    My husband think he is clever , he doesnt appreciate me all he thinks about is himself ok he pays rent does the grocery but there is no love between us . We have sex once or twice a month the problem is he cheats a lot he is never home every week from Thursday to Sunday night he...
    chiedza chiedza 36-40, F 3 Responses Oct 30, 2009

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    So I am not married..

    .but I have been in a serious relationship for 2 years now and I want to end it but at the same time I know I shouldn't. My boyfriend is perfect for me and has been nothing but wonderful and loving towards me, granting me every wish, telling me he loves me every day...but somehow...
    ankgh6 ankgh6 18-21, F Jun 11

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    I Still Love Him, But....

    I've been married for 5 years, and we were together for 2 years before that. This is the second marriage for both of us, and we both went into it saying that we were marrying cos we knew we could make it work this time. He's clever, funny and caring. We share many likes and...
    LadyScarlett22 LadyScarlett22 41-45, F 2 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Marital Issues That Don't Go Away

    I have been married for 13 years, and all in all together with my husband for 15. Wow. This is a long time, in some ways. We have three wonderful children.He is faithful and so am I. He shares in househils responsibilties and child rearing.Sounds great, right? The problem is, I...
    loritadita loritadita 36-40 4 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    What Is Up With Sexless Marriages? One of the largest groups on EP is "I live in a sexless marriage" I do not understand how people can be "married" and one of them is not meeting...
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    I've been with my GF for about a year and I have some weird feelings about my relationship with her. She broke up with her ex-BF to be with me and even after a year I feel like she...
    bw27237 bw27237 36-40, F 2 days ago

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    Am I losing my little mind? My difficult marriage story is epic and never ending but here is a snippet and I would love some feedback as I do really doubt my own sanity at times...
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    I HONESTLY think things need to be resolved better than this, because I still hate myself, and I have a feeling you are still scared, and that is what needs to change here. I don't...
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    But I am stuck here. I would gladly pull the trigger if it weren't for the family who'd die if I wasn't here. Responsibility...
    LifeOnMars15 LifeOnMars15 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I'm sick and tired of being a door mat that people think they can walk on at any time. I've Ben pushed too far and tomorrow no one will have to worry about me ever again. I'm done...
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    I try to help her because I know what will happen to her if leave her. I get upset by her bluntly and emotional abuse. Twenty five years of marriage and this the way it ends. If I...
    equusrider equusrider 56-60, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I can't find it anywhere, the answer to my problem. I simply cannot understand what normal people do anymore, and i feel like i am done trying because nothing's getting any better...
    Bradly123 Bradly123 18-21, M 1 Response a week ago

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    Why do I have to be the "bad guy"? Why do I have to look like the a=hole who wants to leave our marriage despite the fact that my husband (lets call him "T") has only touched me...
    Maymer14 Maymer14 36-40, F 5 Responses Jun 25

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    Do not get married when you reach a certain age Do not get married when you can afford it Do not get married when your family or friends think that you should Do not get married...
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    I'm so fat and ugly.. I'm such a loner and a creep. I just want to end it all so bad but I can't bc I'm pathetic I just want everything to stop, all these thoughts and emotions
    Sadd363 Sadd363 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 25

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    Walking through the school yard, And sickened by what I see.. All this hatred, But nothing that surprises me. Innocent people hated, Because of who they are. They wear long...
    Mrunderstood Mrunderstood 26-30, M 2 Responses Jun 24

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    My lover is my best friend, but it is a mess. Where to begin, and it will be a bit lengthy. I will call him D and we met when we were 11. It has been the same bond since we first...
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    I should've ended my life back when I was eleven and more likely to go through with it.
    whyusteens whyusteens 13-15, F 2 Responses Jun 23

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    Both got together in 2006. The first year or two was great. Fantastic really. He was my love, my joy. We were together near 10 years. After those two years our relationship started...
    mkp86 mkp86 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 22

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    I feel empty and I feel alone. I need someone. I think I want to end it but I am too scared of the pain. It's like the fear of physical pain is preventing me from getting rid of...
    thissworld thissworld 18-21, F 12 Responses Jun 21

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    I want to say I'm sorry. I've might have hurt u. I never meant to. I never meant the words that came out of my mouth. I didn't mean it. I didn't want to end out friendship. I wish...
    jmarquart jmarquart 13-15, F 1 Response Jun 20

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    DeepVoice999 DeepVoice999 41-45, M 3 Responses Jun 18

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    I hate my life. ****** family, mostly ****** friends, ****** house, ugly, stupid, poor, depressed, incapable of doing anything. I want to end it all
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