I Want To Focus On The Positives

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 485 People

    "Having a bad day? It’s okay.

    YOU are okay. But now you’re a little stronger than you were yesterday. Put your hand on your heart. Feel that? That’s called ‘a purpose'. You’re here today for a reason. Don’t give up and don’t give in. And above all, don’t let one or two dark clouds cover...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 6, 2014

    Want to find more happiness?

    Just appreciate the small things! We are all blessed with the gift of life, that's something to be thankful for...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    May 23, 2014

    Sometimes It's Hard

    Sometimes I feel like it's harder than it should be, to focus on the positives.  Maybe I'm around too many critical people.  There are times when I feel as if I will never please anyone, that I can't do things that are "right" or "good enough." The one thing I do to make this...
    MadameChaotic MadameChaotic
    22-25, F
    Jun 16, 2011

    Staying There Is Hard

    It is difficult for me to focus on the positives in life because I am constantly faced with difficult circumstances and ridiculous situations. I do not how I manage to stay positive, but I do. It isn't always easy to stay positive, especially since I struggle with depression. I...
    philosophicmyth philosophicmyth
    26-30, F
    Nov 18, 2010

    Been feeling really negative lately,

    because lots of negative has been around me, so wanna remind myself about the positive stuff. 1. My youngest is adjusting to public school very well. She's met lots of friends and is doing very well with her studies. 2. Yes, my ex tried to destroy me any way he could through...
    RhombusInTheSquare RhombusInTheSquare
    41-45, F
    Sep 4, 2015

    I think it's my time to shine

    and full fill all my dreams. I need to put myself 1st and everyone else after that x
    aprilj91 aprilj91
    22-25, F
    May 8, 2014

    I see so many negative people these days.

    From online to just in the store. It's sad, there are so many positive things happening everyday! New life, raining in places that need it, you waking up alive. Try to find one positive thing everyday rather than focusing on all the bad things that could happen or the negative...
    ChelleLee ChelleLee
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 28, 2015

    Count Your Blessings

    It's the same concept as counting your blessings. for example: Say your grandmother recently died. The positives overlooking that would be: She doesn't have to suffer any longer, and you have a surplus of decent memories from her. I truly want to focus on the positive so I don...
    Lilysilver13 Lilysilver13
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2011

    Tired Of Being Negative

    I always see the worst in myself, and the best in others. I'd like to balance things out a little more- see others for what and who they really are, and see myself as something besides a monster. I'm working on it, and I just happen to know a wonderful person who makes me believe...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Nov 30, 2010

    A lecturer asked his students to count how many

    green items they could see in the room. The students responded with totals. The lecturer asked: did you see those green things when you entered the room? Most of the students said: no. I believe we're all like this... When we make a conscious effort to focus on the positive...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    Apr 2, 2014

    Trying To Move On While Getting Divorce

    Um I'm new to this my story is trying to move on with out my husband soon to be Ex I'm so scared to move on everything I know is changing right before my eyes!!! I know I must but I'm terrified!!! Everything I know is just falling through the cracks!!!
    Molsongoldengirl Molsongoldengirl
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 11, 2013

    Something has been playing on my mind these

    past few weeks, and it simply is this: "Things are seldom as they seem". It pops up every time I want to analyze a situation or think about something out of my control... I think that simple line brings me some sort of peace of mind. We all tend to conjure up thoughts about...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    Apr 21, 2014

    This was my view for most of today.

    Pretty bleak. Grey. Chilly. Dull. Windy. But I was awestruck at the beauty of the sky, and now and again glanced at the cloud formations, seeing all kinds of things as the huge clouds shifted around. A sense of wonder on a wintry day. Saw a man struggle with his umbrella...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    May 4, 2014

    The Positives

    The positives,That's me,From now on,Being positive,Livin' life,Havin' a ball.
    storywriter2 storywriter2
    46-50
    1 Response Apr 3, 2012

    A More Positive Me<33

    I would love to wake up one morning and feel like everything is perfect. But perfection isn't really a word I find in my vocabulary very often. Honestly,no one does. I am very down on myself and tend to find flaws in the people closest to me.. and I'll be the first to admit,it's...
    kdm3230 kdm3230
    16-17, F
    Dec 20, 2010

    An Intro.

    There's an older song about "eliminate the negatives, don't mess around with Mr. Inbetween". Somewhere along the line, I learned how to be a very negative person. Probably because I paid attention to what was not good about something, rather than even honestly looking at a...
    digbux62 digbux62
    61-65, M
    Nov 26, 2010

    Don't think "I WON'T pass this" Think "I WILL

    fail this" You need positivity in your life
    theorangefreak theorangefreak
    18-21, F
    Apr 21, 2014

    Wake up every day, and say,

    “this is going to be the best day of my life"
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jul 24, 2014

    Don't let your best friend's anger become your

    anger. Remain calm. Ladies... We need to practice this! Lol
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    2 Responses May 3, 2014

    I Am Trying

    It would be easy to focus on the negative, slipping into despear. But I know I have alot of good in my life. And for some reason I always do things the hard way. =D
    TheWanderingSupertramp TheWanderingSupertramp
    26-30, M
    Aug 20, 2010

    Turn My Negatives Into Something Postive

    I was thinking I am in a real UPhill battle.......Ya see I used caps on the UP part.  I have decided to try......i must repeat TRY to see a postive in all the negative. Two negatives make a positive afterall.  I have mulitple ones.  Heck I am a milionaire of negatives.  I...
    flodials flodials
    41-45, F
    Mar 22, 2012

    I want to be able to think positive.

    its hard to think positive all the time though, but I know it will Hall me through the years. can anyone give me tips on how to think positive such as, tips, suggestions, anything that will help.
    Weareallmadhere22 Weareallmadhere22
    16-17
    Jun 3, 2015

    When you want to do something think about all

    the things that could go RIGHT. Focus on those things, don't let anything hold you back from living hard...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    3 Responses May 23, 2014

    Whatever you hold in your mind will tend to

    occur in your life. If you continue to believe as you have always believed, you will continue to act as you have always acted. If you continue to act as you have always acted, you will continue to get what you have always gotten. If you want different results in your life or...
    SagSunshine2014 SagSunshine2014
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 24, 2014

    "In Life I'Ve Found,That Just As A Battery Has A Positive And Negative Post So It Is In The Days Of Our Lives"

    At one time I drove a truck for a living before unfortunate health problems arose. Nevertheless while driving one day and seeking the Lord {O yes,you heard me right,while in prayer} I had a "Great" revelation about a battery having a positive and negative terminal.I saw that it...
    Mare1952 Mare1952
    56-60, F
    Apr 7, 2013
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