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I Want to Get a Divorce

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    My husband of 14 years is a drug addict.

    On and off for over 10 years now. Heroine and meth are the 2 biggest offenders. He was forced into rehab last week. He is not well. I spoke with him yesterday and it almost broke me. I had a panic attack after the way he was talking. I didn't know the man who I was speaking with...
    Deceivedandhurt Deceivedandhurt 36-40, F 2 Responses May 21

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    I've wanted this for a long time.

    I set a plan with time lines and just kept reminding myself I'm doing my time counting down the months until I could move forward. On one hand I grow increasingly restless and want to do this sooner then later. And on the other hand I am scared and anxious I don't want to...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 28

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    I have been married for 19 years.

    I am extremely unhappy and lonely. However, can't stand to hurt anyone even though I don't have the feelings for him that I once did. The one time I suggested a divorce, he threatened suicide. I know at some point I need to think about myself. But does one ever get past the...
    AmethystMoon77 AmethystMoon77 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    Another Sunday evening,

    another fight! As we always do we had another argument today. I'm tired of the endless arguing.
    ToniS ToniS 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (3) the End

    Ok it's done I put a end to that crap of a false marriage!! I explain. It all started when he discovered that i was writing stuff about myself on this site. I guess i forgot to turn off the computer because he told me that I was writing about him and that he a proof of it. He...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F Sep 21, 2009

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    I Think Its Over

    I have been with him for 14.  We met when I was 17.  We have no children.  So many signs were there that this wasn't going to last.  He didn't plan a special marriage proposal, he simply gave me the ring and asked if I wanted to keep it, but I said yes. ...
    vcorningstone vcorningstone 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    I moved out of state with my high school

    sweetheart & we had a baby boy together. I suffered severe physical abuse all through my pregnancy and left him to a domestic violence shelter after being tied up and punched bloody when the baby was 4 months old.. He talked me into coming back home and things did not stop there...
    AdventureDiva AdventureDiva 22-25, F Mar 10

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    Today my husband suggested we get a divorce.

    I've been thinking about it for a VERY long time. I'm not sure when things changed but over time I stopped loving him. I left a few years ago and took the kids with me. They were miserable without him and I (we) went back 8 moths later. Two years later (6 months ago) I had an...
    ToniS ToniS 31-35, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    I want a legal separation

    but I have no money. What should I do? (I live in idaho)
    mindyann mindyann 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    Things have been crap

    for awhile, and today he said it was unrealistic for me to want to feel special or unique to him. Now I've been driving my car around for an hour feeling hopeless. Am I being unrealistic? I thought people who loved one another considered each other to be special and different...
    FiveTurtles FiveTurtles 31-35, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (3) the End

    Ok it's done I put a end to that crap of a false marriage!! I explain. It all started when he discovered that i was writing stuff about myself on this site. I guess i forgot to turn off the computer because he told me that I was writing about him and that he a proof of it. He...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F Sep 21, 2009

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    Confused

    We are a very young couple, have three kids yongest is 6 months I dont leave because I am a stay at home mom have no savings nowhere to go. I have been puting up with his rage for so long. But Im tired Im only 24 I want to feel loved and wanted. Is this to much to ask?
    Lolita36 Lolita36 22-25 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I am at the point that I need to separate from

    my husband of 10 years. Maybe just a few months or maybe permanently. We have 2 young kids and I have stayed because of them but I am so unhappy at home. I don't know where to start. Do i find a rental for a few months? Anyone who has done this before... I would appreciate your...
    Loki39 Loki39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I want a divorce but my wife won't give it to

    me. She has threatened suicide, attempted suicide, and gets completely depressed when I broach the subject. I am trapped in a loveless, empty farce and it's slowly killing me.
    petsdaddy petsdaddy 36-40, M May 23

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    My husband and I have really grown apart over the past few years. We have three young children and I love them more than anything, which is the only reason I haven't left him. He...
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    When I was 2 years old my parents got a divorce. When I was about 4 we (me and my 2 older sisters) would fly up to Florida twice a year to see my dad because, once the divorce was...
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    Yesterday was the crappiest day. My wife had been off with me for a couple of days but i didn't think it was anything major. I spoke to her on the phone from work yesterday morning...
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    Going through a divorce. We separated for 4 months now. it's been hard for i have 3 young kids, 7, 4, 2 years old. I have moved back to my home country after finding out my wife...
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    the years have passed on by.I went into a marriage with open arms and great anticipation of happily ever after.What I got was two wonderful children which I raised alone as a...
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    I have been divorced since 1995 and have tried to move on. I am happily married and my kids are grown. The problem is my Ex is so evil and has planted ideas that aren't true in our...
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    One of my best girlfriends lives with a male companion. She's Black American, he's Latin from Honduras. They are not married but live together. They have sex when she feels like...
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    For as long as I can remember all I wanted in life was to be a wife and mother. Growing up in a broken home, this was a really big deal for me. That being said I got married at a...
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    Well today was a real eye opener as well as yesterday. I hope that what's happening isn't just my wife telling me what I want to hear. In other post I talked about us having to...
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    I would like to explain my situation but it would be even more helpful if children of divorced parents can give their input. I will give the facts as the children know and be...
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    This Friday I am planning on telling my wife that I want to file for divorce. Saturday is my birthday. I do not care that it is my birthday. I never enjoy anything anymore. I feel...
    Fluxification Fluxification 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 19

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    Going to the divorce lawyer today to start the process of divorcing my husband of only 1 year. Every possible emotion is running through my head. Grief, anger, relief, confusion...
    Sapphire89 Sapphire89 22-25 6 Responses Aug 20

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    I'm still young and I do attend college. I am single and all but one thing I don't ever want to go through is divorce. It makes me want to never get married.
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