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I Want to Get a Divorce

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (3) the End

    Ok it's done I put a end to that crap of a false marriage!! I explain. It all started when he discovered that i was writing stuff about myself on this site. I guess i forgot to turn off the computer because he told me that I was writing about him and that he a proof of it. He...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F Sep 21, 2009

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    I want a divorce but my wife won't give it to

    me. She has threatened suicide, attempted suicide, and gets completely depressed when I broach the subject. I am trapped in a loveless, empty farce and it's slowly killing me.
    petsdaddy petsdaddy 36-40, M May 23

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    I want a legal separation

    but I have no money. What should I do? (I live in idaho)
    mindyann mindyann 22-25, F 1 Response Jun 1

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    I Married Someone Who I'm Not Attracted to (3) the End

    Ok it's done I put a end to that crap of a false marriage!! I explain. It all started when he discovered that i was writing stuff about myself on this site. I guess i forgot to turn off the computer because he told me that I was writing about him and that he a proof of it. He...
    naliablue naliablue 31-35, F Sep 21, 2009

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    I've wanted this for a long time.

    I set a plan with time lines and just kept reminding myself I'm doing my time counting down the months until I could move forward. On one hand I grow increasingly restless and want to do this sooner then later. And on the other hand I am scared and anxious I don't want to...
    Jofree Jofree 41-45, F 3 Responses Feb 28

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    My husband of 14 years is a drug addict.

    On and off for over 10 years now. Heroine and meth are the 2 biggest offenders. He was forced into rehab last week. He is not well. I spoke with him yesterday and it almost broke me. I had a panic attack after the way he was talking. I didn't know the man who I was speaking with...
    Deceivedandhurt Deceivedandhurt 36-40, F 2 Responses May 21

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    I moved out of state with my high school

    sweetheart & we had a baby boy together. I suffered severe physical abuse all through my pregnancy and left him to a domestic violence shelter after being tied up and punched bloody when the baby was 4 months old.. He talked me into coming back home and things did not stop there...
    AdventureDiva AdventureDiva 22-25, F Mar 10

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    Confused

    We are a very young couple, have three kids yongest is 6 months I dont leave because I am a stay at home mom have no savings nowhere to go. I have been puting up with his rage for so long. But Im tired Im only 24 I want to feel loved and wanted. Is this to much to ask?
    Lolita36 Lolita36 22-25 2 Responses Aug 21, 2013

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    I have been married for 19 years.

    I am extremely unhappy and lonely. However, can't stand to hurt anyone even though I don't have the feelings for him that I once did. The one time I suggested a divorce, he threatened suicide. I know at some point I need to think about myself. But does one ever get past the...
    AmethystMoon77 AmethystMoon77 36-40, F 3 Responses Mar 10

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    I Think Its Over

    I have been with him for 14.  We met when I was 17.  We have no children.  So many signs were there that this wasn't going to last.  He didn't plan a special marriage proposal, he simply gave me the ring and asked if I wanted to keep it, but I said yes. ...
    vcorningstone vcorningstone 31-35, F 2 Responses Nov 2, 2009

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    Things have been crap

    for awhile, and today he said it was unrealistic for me to want to feel special or unique to him. Now I've been driving my car around for an hour feeling hopeless. Am I being unrealistic? I thought people who loved one another considered each other to be special and different...
    FiveTurtles FiveTurtles 31-35, F 1 Response Aug 31

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    I am at the point that I need to separate from

    my husband of 10 years. Maybe just a few months or maybe permanently. We have 2 young kids and I have stayed because of them but I am so unhappy at home. I don't know where to start. Do i find a rental for a few months? Anyone who has done this before... I would appreciate your...
    Loki39 Loki39 36-40, F 1 Response Aug 21

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    I have been divorced since December 2010. Separated before that...August 2009. I should have filed for divorce first...but I wanted the marriage to work..so I filed for legal...
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I need advise on how do I get divorce without hurting my wife and kids.. My wife is good human being .. It's just that nothing happens the way I wanted my married life to go.. It's...
    lovencare lovencare 46-50, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    We could attend any Courtroom in Perth. We may even organize for an experienced lawyer that specialises inside the demanded location of Divorce law to meet you nearby.There exists...
    Peternhj Peternhj 31-35, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    Throughout my marriage my husband has been unfaithful in some sort of way. He would make online profiles on adultfriendfinder and other adult dating sites to talk to women. We have...
    elle1640 elle1640 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 9

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    I'm recently married. My husband and I dated/lived together for 2 1/2 years and then tied the knot on Aug 1 2013. The wedding was beautiful..the honeymoon was fantastic. When we...
    emilylwlr emilylwlr 22-25, F 2 Responses Sep 4

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    I know it doesn't seem like a big deal. Everyones parents are divorced nowadays right? I live with my mom, and about a thirty second walking distance from the rest of my maternal...
    looloo55 looloo55 13-15, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I have been married for 25 years and made the decision to divorce my husband. I lost my identity during my marriage. I cared for the children , home and my husband, but no body...
    peacefulone1 peacefulone1 46-50, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    the years have passed on by.I went into a marriage with open arms and great anticipation of happily ever after.What I got was two wonderful children which I raised alone as a...
    bignatbreastluver bignatbreastluver 46-50, M Aug 24

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    I have been divorced since 1995 and have tried to move on. I am happily married and my kids are grown. The problem is my Ex is so evil and has planted ideas that aren't true in our...
    bonniek56 bonniek56 56-60, F 1 Response Aug 29

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    I was married for five years and had two children in that time. While ignoring or suppressing my attraction to other guys, but I couldn't do it anymore and told my wife who then...
    zsmith1985 zsmith1985 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 2

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    We were together for 23 years, married for 18. We stuck through it all but 5 years ago we went through a trying family situation. That is when he started shutting me out. I let him...
    Jensur Jensur 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    For as long as I can remember all I wanted in life was to be a wife and mother. Growing up in a broken home, this was a really big deal for me. That being said I got married at a...
    MahinaGlow MahinaGlow 31-35, F 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I'm still young and I do attend college. I am single and all but one thing I don't ever want to go through is divorce. It makes me want to never get married.
    steve0629 steve0629 18-21, M Aug 24

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    After year & Years of fighting this Year my Parents Are officially separating & Getting a divorce . Living together was All about fighting . They did not have a good understanding...
    lordeley952 lordeley952 18-21, M Aug 29

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    This is my second divorce. It was finalized this past Wednesday. I'm very disappointed in the whole idea of love right now. After giving one hundred percent to both wives, I find...
    NMBtruth1 NMBtruth1 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 31

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    LMAO!! My father filed for divorce THE DAY after my brother's birthday. Lol "Oh, it your birthday. That reminds me, I need to divorce your mother..." **** you! Haha
    Chrissaysyourock Chrissaysyourock 16-17, M Sep 1

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    Only 2 months to go till we've been legally separated for 12 months and able to file for divorce. I can't wait to be able to put that mistake behind me. I don't know any other...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 2 Responses Sep 2

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    my parents divorced when i was three they both found other people when i was five and eight years later my mom divorced again but its okay he was an *** and we're better off on our...
    kkkeeennnzzz kkkeeennnzzz 13-15, F Sep 4

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    "Forgive, but never forget." If there's one person in this world I wish and want to make amends with, it's my dad. My dad filed for divorce on October 9th, 2012, leaving behind...
    takethispain takethispain 22-25, F Sep 8

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    He started out nice, but about 2 years ago everything changed. He's always controlled the money, but it got crazy. He called all of the shots, only doling out a small monthly...
    AshCents AshCents 26-30 1 Response Sep 8

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    The biggest thing I learnt out of my divorce is to rely on myself first and seek out my own success. I want to continue doing well in my career and earn my own good money and be...
    lilbirdydoll lilbirdydoll 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 10

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    February 2015 and I will be able to file for divorce. We will have been separated for 1 year by then. I can't to wait to sign the divorce papers and finally feel free!
    youaretheonlyexception youaretheonlyexception 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    My wife wants a urgent divorce I can't cope? I was caught in a spa with her very good friend and I did not say I was going there with her ( don't look good at all ) When my wife...
    uncleginge uncleginge 26-30, M 4 days ago

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    We decided last year it was time to divorce. He cuts the pay into 44% for him and 56% for me and the 3 children and all the bills. So he wants to go the online poet filing route...
    Cinderfire Cinderfire 41-45, F 1 Response Aug 30

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    Okay - I am recently divorced and still easing into how to communicate with my ex and children, who are actually young adults. My ex seems to be having remorse about our Judgement...
    Waldonova Waldonova 46-50, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    My wife and I had our share of problems. We ended up separated for six months. Did what I could to fix things, tried to be there for her. It wasn't enough. A few months ago she...
    Visium13 Visium13 26-30, M 1 Response Aug 21

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    What was that moment when you realized and it was clear that you absolutely wanted a divorce? Before it happened did you struggle with if you were still in love or loved that...
    kathryn30 kathryn30 26-30, F 3 Responses Aug 23

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    My ex moved out a year ago and my divorce was final this past week. Want to get back into the dating scene but the online dating sites are not working for me at all. Having been...
    peach1977 peach1977 36-40, F 8 Responses Aug 23

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    My parents divorced when I was 3 and my dad left to another country. It's only hitting me now, 12 years later, the feeling of rejection. The feeling of being unwanted. It hurts and...
    kellykolesky kellykolesky 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 27

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    I have been with the same man for 25 years. I thought we had a good marriage. He had an affair with a close friend of mine and despite me forgiving him he wants a divorce. I still...
    hera2014 hera2014 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 31

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    tips? If he divorces the same way he married...good god, Im in for a bad year! He is so passive aggressive that I actually fear this separation/divorce. He obstructs anything that...
    LoveMyLifeWithThem LoveMyLifeWithThem 36-40, F 1 Response Sep 1

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    I'm disappointed in the time energy and trust I wasted for 4 years. I'm embarrassed that I fell in love and supported such a horrible human bring. I'm by no means sad that it has...
    embellishedSadness embellishedSadness 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 7

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    Tonight I am very deeply depressed... everything is catching up to me. I have been through a bankruptcy, my wife has divorced me, my Mother and Sister are estranged from me, I need...
    cvann5 cvann5 51-55, M 2 Responses Sep 10

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    Dear, "Our lives improve ONLY when we take chances, and the first and the most difficult chance to take is to be honest to ourselves. TRUST is the hardest thing to find and the...
    kenmok kenmok 36-40, M 1 day ago

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    Divorced for 5 years now I thought he was the one but i was wrong! There will always be someone better out there though. :( :)
    msjuliegot32d msjuliegot32d 41-45, F Aug 21

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