I Want to Get Engaged

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    I'm going to propose to my boyfriend in May :D

    The woman proposing seems a little backwards, but I've thought about it a lot and I've concluded that it's good for us ^^ We know that we love each other and want to be married in the next few years, so it's not out of the blue. I've always been the romantic one of us two and he...
    anniechan anniechan
    18-21, F
    Apr 7

    Waiting Is Hard!

    Me and my other half want to get engaged, we openly talk about it and we live together like a married couple anyway! We talk about budgeting and are going to save up for his driving lessons and a car then start saving for a wedding. We have spoke about what we want from a wedding...
    LittlestLaura LittlestLaura
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 31, 2012

    Hopefully Soon!!

    We've been together for 4 years and I think the time is finally coming.  We even went into a jewellery shop and found a beautiful White gold and diamond set that I took a shine to right away!!  He said, 'next week maybe!!'   PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!!!  ...
    Maqi Maqi
    26-30, F
    12 Responses Jun 6, 2009

    Waiting Patiently

    I am looking forward to the day of my engagement. We have looked at several rings and my bf has pretty much decided he would like to design it. I don't want anything big or expensive. Something small and thoughtful. He says he wants to spend money on proposing to me rather than...
    IntoxicatedDesire IntoxicatedDesire
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2008

    Ready to Take the Next Step...

    ... but I am not sure my boyfriend is. We've been together for almost two years now, and we've been living together for just over a year. He and I are still young, I am 21 and he is 22 and is out of school and has a stable job that can easily support our moderate life style...
    TexasSweetheart TexasSweetheart
    Dec 1, 2008

    How Will I Handle Her?

    My boyfriend and I are meant to be, very much in love. I'm not going to spend time proving I love him because I don't need to, but I'm sure many of you understand! Anyway, we are 21 and in college. We are both very mature and want to marry after college. But I know he's saving...
    EmmalynAphrodite EmmalynAphrodite
    18-21, F
    24 Responses Apr 6, 2013


    My boyfriend and i have been together for 2 1/2 years. We have talked a lot about getting married, moving in together, and even having kids! For me, I started thinking about it while he was in basic training last summer. I had heard that soldiers come back from training with all...
    psox16 psox16
    22-25, F
    Jun 3, 2010

    I Want To Get Engaged

    I've been dating with my bf for almost 3 years and I want to get engaged. Don't want to get married yet, but just engaged. The problem is we have never talk about it, because I wait him to start that conversation first, but I started to think about about 3 months ago, and can't...
    Rachellina Rachellina
    4 Responses Aug 5, 2010
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest
    36-40, F
    1 Response Mar 2, 2015

    I Hope Its This Year!!!

    me and my boyfriend have been together for almost 4 years *one month to go* and i am dying to get engaged, weve been through so much together, i KNOW we can make it through anything, ^_^ hes the one i want to be with for the rest of my life, he could have asked me to marry him...
    pinknailpolish89 pinknailpolish89
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 23, 2009

    I Would Like To Get Engaged

    I never wanted to be one of those women who seemed needy and desperate which I have been called when I have posted a similar story to this one on other sites... This upset me part of me knew it was probablly just trolls being idiots but part of me thought am I really like that...
    SerenityAurora SerenityAurora
    3 Responses Oct 29, 2010

    I've been with my boyfriend

    for over a year. Since we live far away from both of our families (seeing them only at Xmas) we've been talking about talking about getting engaged and then getting married in 2-3 years, I'm 24 and he's turning 25. I've never brought a guy home to my family because I take...
    momomonster23 momomonster23
    26-30, F
    1 Response Sep 15, 2014

    Hoping For My Soldiers Ring...

    AHHH! I am so in love with my boyfriend.  He's in the army and leaves for Afganastan in 2010... so we just have the next 9 mo. together before I have to spend a whole year without him. We've talked about it... getting engaged is the only way I promise to wait a year for him...
    stillinluv2u stillinluv2u
    1 Response Apr 4, 2009

    Maybe I Am Not The One

    Hey guys, I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. I am 21 and he is 23. But we've known each other long already. Since grade 8 (7 years ago). I sometimes feel that he is the one, but by jusdging from my other posts in other groups makes me have 2nd doubts...
    tracili tracili
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Aug 13, 2010

    Finally Had The Guts To Talk To Him About It

    I've been wanting to talk with my boyfriend about getting engaged for a couple of months now. I was very hesitant at first because he's coming out of a bad marriage and his divorce is not final yet (He filed for the divorce months before he met me though). We've been together for...
    FarahM FarahM
    22-25, F
    Dec 20, 2011

    Holiday Engagement Envy

    This is just a general comment, but I am sure some ladies in this group share this feeling about the upcoming holiday season. I think the worst thing about the holiday season is all engagement announcements from happy couples, while you sit beside your long term boyfriend, ring...
    DutchChick DutchChick
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2011

    anyone else get really sad/bitter

    when you see a new engagement on social media?
    DayDreams89 DayDreams89
    26-30, F
    1 Response Apr 7, 2015

    I Wonder?

    well i have been with my bf tyler now for 4 months and i cant help but wonder if we will get engaged someday. I mean yeah I know its really early to be thinking about this but he means a lot to me and I really love him, just as I know he loves me, and I mean I honestly don't...
    fhchick23 fhchick23
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jun 15, 2010

    Even throughout my rocky two year relationship,

    the feeling that this man is the one has not left me. He's definitely not ready for commitment, due to my past with my male friends(who I treat like female friends, and this leads to language that seems flirtatious when it is not.) and a manipulator that was bent on ruining my...
    Ginkofishin Ginkofishin
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 18, 2014

    Hello! I am hoping some men AND women with

    experience, would be able to give me their view on this situation! My boyfriend and I have been together for over 2.5 years, we live in a house that we shopped for together, (I am on no legal paperwork) I help raise his 12 year old daughter, because her mother was a drug addict...
    InstaMom InstaMom
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2015

    Well..it Didnt Happen

    So our 4 year anniversary has come and gone and he didnt ask me....i guess i got my hopes up too much, thought about it too much, and was let down big time....I never said anything, cuz i really dont know how to bring it up...but i wanna know if hes ever gonna ask me. Ive always...
    pinknailpolish89 pinknailpolish89
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 28, 2010

    My First Love

    I met my boyfriend through his mother : I was looking for work at the time and she was my recruiter agent . So while she was looking around for things I would like I joked she could help  me with my love life. She suddently took out her camera and showed me her son and...
    Missej1 Missej1
    2 Responses Sep 26, 2010

    I Think I'm Almost There

    my boyfriend has been hinting at marriage lately. he has stated that we wants our parents to meet before my birthday which is also our anniversary as well as other hints at marriage like looking at a venue for outdoor weddings and mentioning the wedding cake album at our local...
    hipsterkitty hipsterkitty
    22-25, F
    Dec 1, 2012

    Why Wont He Propose!

    Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 2 years and 9 months and we have lived together for 2 years.  I love him more than anything in this world and I know that he feels the same way or we would not be together.  I have always wanted to get engaged...
    letsgetmarriedPLEASE letsgetmarriedPLEASE
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 15, 2009

    My bf told me that he is waiting to propose

    after his best friends wedding. :) I'm not going to bring it up anymore but he just needed to tell me that so I know its happening. He wants it to be a surprise, still will be because idk when, where or how he will do it. I'm really happy that he told me because we've been...
    choxie22 choxie22
    22-25, F
    May 9, 2015

    it's hard for me to explain this.

    sometimes I feel like if I was prettier or hotter or what have you, I would be engaged. my boyfriend tells me all the time that I am. I don't believe him most of the time. I guess I feel like I'm not "worthy" enough for an engagement ring. like, that's not something that...
    DayDreams89 DayDreams89
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2015

    Engagment Fever

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost six years now we have lived together almost our entire relationship. He has two kids and had a horrible relationship with their mother who treated him awful and cheated on him. About a year ago we were supposed to move to Hawaii for a...
    ndjjrc07 ndjjrc07
    1 Response Nov 10, 2012

    When When When .... When When??

    I met my boyfriend very clandestinely and ever since life could not be better. I knew from the beginning that he was the absolute man of my dreams, even friends who have only seen us together once have asked when we are getting married. The two of us have had light...
    leschreibs leschreibs
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2009

    I Want to Get Engaged Too

    I don't want to drag my boyfriend kicking and screaming down the altar, but I'm starting to realize it's probably never going to happen. Since I'm disabled, I'd lose all my benefits. :( He says he loves me but he isn't going to get married just because "everyone else is...
    lyciastorm lyciastorm
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 24, 2007

    It's honestly becoming an issue!

    I'm obsessed. It's all I look at on pinterest, and for some reason I'm so concerned with the fact that all of our close friends are already married or engaged. I don't know why it bothers me so much because we've only been together for a year. help :/
    KenziY KenziY
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Feb 20, 2015

    Soooo Badly.

    I really love the idea of getting engaged.The feeling that you know you mean that much to someone that they want to spend the rest of their life with you. It just seems so romantic. I would love to get engaged. It would be just so amazing. I've already thought about the way...
    xXPsychochic56 xXPsychochic56
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Jan 18, 2010

    A Silly Story

    So, I've been with my boyfriend for many years and I knew since day one I wanted to marry him. However, lately people have been asking me if my boyfriend and I are getting married and just yesterday, my sister asked me if we were going to get married and I said no and she said...
    deleted deleted
    Jun 15, 2010

    I Am Ready!!

    Ok so people around me are getting engaged left-and-right, and I must say, I have engagement envy.  I send him hints, talk to him about it and even gave him a timeline, I told him I better be engaged in three years.  I am 23, almost 24 and myh...
    alwaysforever54 alwaysforever54
    1 Response Feb 20, 2009

    Just Keep Waiting!!!!

    Okay so my boyfriend and I have been dating almost 5 years. Our five years will be this November. I have been wanting to get engaged for a few months now but it has not happen. We have talked about it and he doesn't say no but he doesn't exactly say yes either. Last year for new...
    brit0880 brit0880
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Aug 12, 2010

    So Ready

    My boyfriend and I have been friends for 10 years.  We've been together "seriously" for a year.  We're both 29.  I am so very ready to get married and start our lives together.  He tells me all the time he wants to marry me and even told me he plans...
    katus katus
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2008

    Getting Tired Of Waiting

    Okay, so I met my boyfriend for the first time in Paris France. It was an unreal experience. From the moment we saw each other we were infatuated with on another. Since we were from different countries, we decided we would try long distance for a while and it worked out. After a...
    DutchChick DutchChick
    1 Response Nov 28, 2011

    I Do

    My bf and I have been together for almost 7 years. We both love each other so y arnt we engaged yet? Hmm idk I want to and said he said he wants to but we haven't yet so who knows.
    eyeslikestars eyeslikestars
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 1, 2011

    Some Time Soon

    I'm kinda ready, I think, or maybe I'm just a little afraid when I think of it. My bf & I have been together for 3 years, it's quite a long time for him according to his random mentioning. He's graduating in couple of months & moving to a different state for a job, I...
    misasja misasja
    26-30, F
    Mar 4, 2008

    Is It My Time Yet?

    So my story.... ...... my partner and I have been together for 8 years. A few months prior to the birth of our first child I changed my surname by deed poll as I didn't want us to have different surnames - there was no question that our child would have his surname as in an...
    neverdietagain neverdietagain
    26-30, F
    Jul 23, 2012

    I Dunno Why

    I act like it doesn't matter to me.  But it seems like there's always someone planning their wedding around me, at work/someone at work's family; distant family, Eric's mom's friends, my friends.  And it's all people who've been dating for much less than Eric and I have...
    mandarose524 mandarose524
    26-30, F
    4 Responses May 5, 2007
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