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I Want to Get Married He Doesn't

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    I Want to Get Married But My Boyfriend Doesn't.

    My boyfriend is 19 and I will be turning 19 in a few months.  We started dating in the 8th grade then dated again the summer before 9th grade and have been since....now almost 5 years and going stronger than ever.  I've been wanted to get married or at least...
    KnockedOutWithAFeather KnockedOutWithAFeather 18-21 2 Responses May 13, 2009

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    Getting No Where

    I"m getting frustrated I have been with my boyfriend 4yrs both divorced with kids we were "in love" before I moved in after I moved in which was a huge decision for me Well everything stopped the moment I walked in I became a "wife...
    mjl37 mjl37 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    Coming to a Realization

    I was randomly reading Girl Guide on Facebook and came across the "he's not into you" section. There stuck in the middle of other examples was the line "Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has...
    kiraneru26 kiraneru26 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I told 3 crushes. They didn't like me back but one of them told me the reason he didn't like me was because I had a boyfriend and he cool with my old ex at the time was my...
    staystyleandsmile staystyleandsmile 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    He liked me Then chose Abby Then Abby broke him But I was still here I was the only one who actually cared Now he's dating my best friend And doesn't like me anymore
    InsecureBlurryface InsecureBlurryface 13-15, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    This happened to me in the 3rd or 4th grade. He was my next door neighbor and we would play outside together everyday after school. It was actually my sister who told him. I went...
    Lacrimosadies Lacrimosadies 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have had relationships with guys well over 45 years older than me. It didn't matter to me and it didn't matter to them. We both got what we wanted. It seemed to matter to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was 16. He's not my first, though. I've had crushes on guys since i could remember.. But he was the one that kept rejecting me. To others; he was the nerd, one of the brains in...
    bellabong bellabong 26-30, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Its always better to have tried and have it not go anywhere than never to have tried and always wonder. So, console yourself that you tried and move on -- to the next target....
    Mossonarock Mossonarock 41-45, M 2 days ago

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    He wants to have sex and I don't know if I want to yet :/
    Arinalowell Arinalowell 18-21, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Told my crush that I like him yesterday. He did not care at all. I thought Id go broken hearted but surprisingly I was happy because I like a different guy and he is so sweet and I...
    chrisdee26 chrisdee26 22-25, M 2 days ago

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    I was upset the other day with my bf about marriage stuff. He hasnt even planned yet to talk to his parents about marrying me. And when i was crying he hugged me but he didnt say...
    mikapuffs mikapuffs 22-25, F 3 days ago

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    I'm married to my wife for 2 yrs and known her for 8-9 yrs in total I don't enjoy my marriage It sucks to hide this secret within me everyday and I have a strong passion for men...
    kelvintee1 kelvintee1 31-35, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am just laying in my truck fully dressed up feeling girly. I want to tell my wife so bad that I am gay and want to transition. I know it would break her heart so I don't.
    Jenni0127 Jenni0127 51-55, T 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    My experience with younger than has always worked out before my wife which is 8 years younger I had girl friends that were 18 -20 and I was 8-10 years older
    Hornydudetoo Hornydudetoo 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    the sun makes dead people play cards with bicycles every thursday. witches are inside every tasty bite of fish that rocks talk about when it snows . but you must be in ohio for...
    MadShadows MadShadows 41-45 6 days ago

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    He is pretty average. But, he doesn't know that he made me feel guilty. Whenever I look at him, he just melt my heart away. His vibe, personality, etc. Heehee..
    AllAboutL AllAboutL 70+, F 6 days ago

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    If he's elected I gotta say goodbye to my home Pablo, Jose, and Felipe and I don't wanna lose them #notrump2k16
    TripTank TripTank 18-21, M Feb 4

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    we got a racist president #fucktrump
    gagejustdidntknow gagejustdidntknow 13-15, M 1 Response Feb 3

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    Sometimes you care too much about someone who doesn't give a **** about you. Life sucks
    LoloRegz LoloRegz 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 31

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    love shouldn't have an age. i like this girl and she likes and inam 4 yrs older then her. everytime we try and put our feelings aside and date someone else we both hurt eachother...
    jakeypoo96 jakeypoo96 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 31

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    Being shy and timid means I can't tell people to shut the hell up when they do things to annoy me. It drives me up the ******* wall.
    Foxie913 Foxie913 41-45, F Jan 31

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    No it does not mater. Why should it be? If you feel young you will date young, if you feel more mature than your age, you will like accompany of an older person. It is that simple...
    Gallantio Gallantio 36-40, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    Intimacy is important for a healthy body and mind. Being intimate uses all your senses for complete and total enjoyment. However if intimacy is lacking then self-gratification...
    Spazzyfox Spazzyfox 51-55, F 3 Responses Jan 28

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    If age matters, then I'm messed up in life. from being 15 and dating a 21 year old... to be 17 talking to a 32 year old and sleeping with him when I turned 18.
    DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt DeterminedToMakeLifeWorthIt 18-21, F 8 Responses Jan 28

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    You don't choose who you fall in love with .....
    amelia786 amelia786 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 28

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    Im 19 and my gf is 15, I'm in love with her, and ik she is the one. We always talk about marriage and starting a family together, and I can't wait for that
    Legend1boyy Legend1boyy 18-21 1 Response Jan 27

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    Well next month marks my 18 th and things are really looking good for me and my guy, I moved out on my own a few months ago and I'm going to graduate early. My guy and I still aren...
    KawiiKay KawiiKay 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 27

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    Means squat diddly. ... older people have never liked me
    Myeyestellu Myeyestellu 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 26

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    You don't choose who you love .....
    ohmygosh6578 ohmygosh6578 18-21, F 28 Responses Jan 25

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    Just to make my statement: STOP RACISM. IT'S NOT COOL AT ALL. JUST LIKE BULLYING. We're all humans. No matter what you look like. So treat each other as equals. Protest against...
    LeyaLightning LeyaLightning 16-17, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I'm really attracted to guys a little older than I am. I'm not really into guys my own age. I'm 17 and dating a guy in his early twenties wouldn't be a big deal to me, I actually...
    shaylii424 shaylii424 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 24

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    A connection is a connection, age is a number!
    RocknRollCowboy71 RocknRollCowboy71 41-45, M Jan 24

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    It doesn't matter if there is real sexual, emotional, or physical attraction there. It just gets in the way and creates an unnecessary, albeit. psychological, barrier.
    apresm0i apresm0i 26-30, F 6 Responses Jan 24

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    Over 9000 EPers, including myself. believe this to be true. Are you in that group as well? If not, please explain why.
    diablow diablow 41-45, M 3 Responses Jan 22

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    Plan B, vote for Hilary. Plan C, move to Canada.
    BOJ1988 BOJ1988 26-30, F 5 Responses Jan 22

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    Age doesn't matter, whether it's sex or anything else. We all mature differently, we all have different experiences.
    Morganjones Morganjones 26-30, M Jan 21

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    A goodbye comes quietly... It's not in any specific word or sentence. It comes gently in waking up one day and no longer being aware of the part of your heart that was missing. It...
    TheOpenMind TheOpenMind 26-30, F Jan 21

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    I carry my childhood beliefs until this day, which is the man from my visions. (My Twin Soul, who I've met in 2008 in real life) Is my first and last at everything. First kiss...
    DragonSheep DragonSheep 22-25, F Jan 21

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    Sometimes Precocious Sometimes,...inside the will of misguided determination lies the precociousness of a child, and that child has the strength of a thousand men and persistence...
    LadyGallivanter LadyGallivanter 41-45 2 Responses Jan 21

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