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I Want to Get Married He Doesn't

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    Coming to a Realization

    I was randomly reading Girl Guide on Facebook and came across the "he's not into you" section. There stuck in the middle of other examples was the line "Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has...
    kiraneru26 kiraneru26 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    Getting No Where

    I"m getting frustrated I have been with my boyfriend 4yrs both divorced with kids we were "in love" before I moved in after I moved in which was a huge decision for me Well everything stopped the moment I walked in I became a "wife...
    mjl37 mjl37 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    I Want to Get Married But My Boyfriend Doesn't.

    My boyfriend is 19 and I will be turning 19 in a few months.  We started dating in the 8th grade then dated again the summer before 9th grade and have been since....now almost 5 years and going stronger than ever.  I've been wanted to get married or at least...
    KnockedOutWithAFeather KnockedOutWithAFeather 18-21 2 Responses May 13, 2009

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    So I got married in June. I've known my husband for 7-8 years (lost track), been living with him for around 7 months, and dating for a year. We have a baby together. Last month he...
    Ealasme Ealasme 16-17, F Aug 19

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    Alright so...since you all know I like girls. And yes done it with a chick. Only one and first chick ever. We all know College experiences in college. One time and you move on...
    peacejenni peacejenni 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    My sisters don't accept me for who I am just because I don't act like them. My mom in some ways doesn't like it either but she doesn't dislike the whole 100% like my sisters. And...
    MysteriousRose MysteriousRose 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 16

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    I am totally in love with this man but he has made it clear from the beginning that he doesn't want a relationship, we have been sleeping together for almost a year now and I am...
    cassandra1122 cassandra1122 26-30, F 1 Response 17 hrs ago

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    There are some that want help and when you try they don't listen, I can't help someone who doesn't want it and can try and be there for them when they need me but that's about as...
    AllThatGlitters29 AllThatGlitters29 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 29

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    For one, when I first got a girlfriend my mom told me I was too young and naive to be dating and tried to force me to break up with her. Another time a few months ago, my...
    littledreamgirl littledreamgirl 13-15, F Aug 13

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    Okay so basically I've never met my dad..But what makes it harder is that I know him but I don't think he's even aware of my existence..In my country he used to be quite famous so...
    Arianne0519 Arianne0519 13-15, F Aug 15

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    I need help... So I met this guy online 3 years ago when I was 13 years old. He is 7 years older than me and I always had excuses of why I couldn't see him. Mostly because of my...
    MikaylaG MikaylaG 16-17, F 4 Responses Aug 17

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    -I miss someone who doesn't miss me. -I miss her smile but she doesn't miss mine. -I miss hugging her but she would never touch me. -I miss that feeling I get whenever I see her...
    obea13 obea13 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    I've known for a fact that my love life has changed. My boyfriend does not love me anymore. In relation to all of your experiences, it would mean things are going differently...
    xluhhv xluhhv 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17

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    The ship doesn't always answer the helm. The helm isn't always the sound answer for a ship. The pigeons near the church don't worry about public lavatories.
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    Love doesn't exist. Boys and girls can't love anymore. I wish it was the way it used to be. But sex has become to much of a priority for people.
    cassiecollins cassiecollins 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    Exactly!!! I believe as long as two people have a connection and have common interests and bonds age doesn't matter! In most cases...
    Devotedmom77 Devotedmom77 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 2

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    I'm in a deli inside a Grocery store. A girl is all over this guy, leaning into him, rubbing all over him like a Cat. He's moving away no display of emotion back, looked like he...
    TxRocker TxRocker 46-50, M Aug 13

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    And it sucks. It makes me feel like crap. He has made it clear he doesn't care and so why do i? it's not fair.
    Lilys3 Lilys3 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 15

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    Harsh reality. She doesn't feel the same way. And tells you, " I tried, but just don't like you". Um, thanks for trying I guess. Thanks for the effort? Coulda been a bit less blunt...
    topsearch92 topsearch92 22-25, M a week ago

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    I was just 18 my boyfriend (husband now) was 17 when I got pregnant for my first time, with twins. At the time I was doing a lot of drugs, drinking a lot and just a huge party...
    thefeels21 thefeels21 18-21, F 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    About 5 months ago, me and my boyfriend broke up. I am over him for the most part but lately, I think about our old times. Not necessarily the relationship part but the friendship...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F Jul 28

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    I hate how money can change a person. It's crazy but some how it happens. My ex boyfriend was one of a kind. Our freshman year, he was quirky, a band geek, down to earth...
    uhtobehonest uhtobehonest 16-17, F Jul 28

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    Ok. So I'm in high school and I've been having some anxiety lately. My dad's away on a business trips constantly and my mom is always stressed. I used to think she loved me but was...
    Sarah9906 Sarah9906 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    To all the women who have had/or considering and abortion; My one year anniversary of my abortion is coming quick. It took me awhile to not want to die. I'm not going to lie, it...
    goddesnthateme goddesnthateme 18-21, F Aug 14

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    just broke things off with my boyfriend. in the beginning stages of the relationship it was so intense and he kept telling me he loved me and how he wanted to marry me, picked out...
    jhenifad jhenifad 22-25, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    About 2 years ago, a friend of mine started becoming very self conscious. Her self esteem lowered to the size of a grain of rice. I tried so many times to talk to her, to help her...
    mcrlegacy mcrlegacy 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    When I was 12, I was helping my friend try to hook up with this girl at church camp but the more I talked to her, the more I started liking her. After camp that year we'd talk 24/7...
    BlondeGhost BlondeGhost 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    When ever we are in public my husband leaves me and ignore me. He always chooses his friends above me. I don't feel like he truly loves me for so many other reasons although he...
    msg1814 msg1814 22-25, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    My version of flirting is looking at someone I find attractive multiple time and hoping they're more brave than I am. Well with this guy, we just kept looking at each other and...
    FaFiPe FaFiPe 18-21 Jul 31

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    Meaningless sex. Sure. Feelings none. Now add a binder a.k.a. love. Purpose. For some people even life. I often wonder why people want to change after she is gone.
    JUSTSOMEGUY1976 JUSTSOMEGUY1976 36-40, M Aug 11

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    Yea boys guys whatever. If you want to cell a girl fat ugly a **** and hoe any other world like that then plz message me that Instead not her plz. I would matter you guys say...
    lovemariefrance lovemariefrance 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    We were friends for a very long time even before i had my first girlfriend. I could share to her almost everything in my life and same goes to her. When I broke up with my first ex...
    kukuclock kukuclock 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    Hearts pounding A tummy full of butterflies Worried about appearances Memories of love Ten feet tall Head in the clouds Not a care in the world Love is in the air Kisses and...
    desirabledreams desirabledreams 46-50, F Aug 9

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    I have a few friends who are adopted and usually when people don't know this and understand it I have seen them act like it's a bad thing but adoptive families are families too...
    LostItAllBVB LostItAllBVB 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 9

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    It depends on how you define maturity, I believe the most appropriate response to this would be experience, regardless of age, the differing experiences and the differing effects...
    logix92 logix92 22-25, M Aug 13

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    My friends have always been my family. They are the family you choose to have, not what you're born into. I love my blood family but I am a black sheep and we don't often see eye...
    MikjallFimbultyr MikjallFimbultyr 36-40, M 3 Responses Aug 13

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    Since I don't have any known family member left, my friends have become a second family to me, and now I have a baby of my own and a husband. I couldn't be happier right now :)
    AceKlein1992 AceKlein1992 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 13

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    This is total horse sh*t! Ask the person that had their body crushed in an accident and now pees and poops into bags, a is confined to a wheelchair and can't bathe them self, if...
    REBELYELL67 REBELYELL67 46-50, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    yep it is true;i believe in it love can't understand what age your or what situation your in.it comes and destroy you.........:)
    knowmeevery knowmeevery 18-21, F 7 Responses 5 days ago

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    It never did and in the end I don't think you care....
    computerblocking123 computerblocking123 46-50, F 6 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wanted to write a whole series of a boy's life in the high school marching band.
    Oppositioner Oppositioner 18-21, M 3 Responses Aug 8

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    Halloweed~ I’m seeing ghosts – they’re everywhere Strolling casually down the street Now there’s a vampire, combing his hair A zombie missing most his teeth I stumble...
    Aurinne Aurinne 36-40, F 5 hrs ago

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    And then. Wait. Hey. Not fair. Stupid cat. Peeeeeee peeeeee. What. No toilet. Jerk. No toilet. Why do zebras Ok.
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M 4 hrs ago

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    Who designed that lack of a feature on profiles? It's kind of important. Then again, maybe it's to discourage hooking up.
    MrCute514 MrCute514 46-50, M 3 Responses Jul 29

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    Whoever claims this is guilty of paving the way for pedophiles. Of course love has an age. Of course there is no true love without some maturity. This group is promoting a lie and...
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    I have dated men twice my age and had a great time. It could certainly be a factor in a long term relationship, but just to go out and have a good time, age itself is never a...
    beachlover1 beachlover1 22-25, F 22 Responses Jul 30

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    While scrolling down the experiences I can easily tell the age range of the person posting. Most of the ones including the word "hate" are from the younger members.
    ElleFarah ElleFarah 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 2

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