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I Want to Get Married He Doesn't

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    Coming to a Realization

    I was randomly reading Girl Guide on Facebook and came across the "he's not into you" section. There stuck in the middle of other examples was the line "Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has...
    kiraneru26 kiraneru26 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I Want to Get Married But My Boyfriend Doesn't.

    My boyfriend is 19 and I will be turning 19 in a few months.  We started dating in the 8th grade then dated again the summer before 9th grade and have been since....now almost 5 years and going stronger than ever.  I've been wanted to get married or at least...
    KnockedOutWithAFeather KnockedOutWithAFeather 18-21 2 Responses May 13, 2009

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    Getting No Where

    I"m getting frustrated I have been with my boyfriend 4yrs both divorced with kids we were "in love" before I moved in after I moved in which was a huge decision for me Well everything stopped the moment I walked in I became a "wife...
    mjl37 mjl37 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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