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I Want to Get Married He Doesn't

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 10 People

    Coming to a Realization

    I was randomly reading Girl Guide on Facebook and came across the "he's not into you" section. There stuck in the middle of other examples was the line "Every man you have ever dated who has said he doesn't want to get married or doesn't believe in marriage, or has...
    kiraneru26 kiraneru26 26-30, F 4 Responses Sep 21, 2009

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    I Want to Get Married But My Boyfriend Doesn't.

    My boyfriend is 19 and I will be turning 19 in a few months.  We started dating in the 8th grade then dated again the summer before 9th grade and have been since....now almost 5 years and going stronger than ever.  I've been wanted to get married or at least...
    KnockedOutWithAFeather KnockedOutWithAFeather 18-21 2 Responses May 13, 2009

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    Getting No Where

    I"m getting frustrated I have been with my boyfriend 4yrs both divorced with kids we were "in love" before I moved in after I moved in which was a huge decision for me Well everything stopped the moment I walked in I became a "wife...
    mjl37 mjl37 36-40, F 2 Responses Nov 12, 2008

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    So I dreamt that I was at his house and he wanted me there. We were sitting on opposite couches in this large house and I was reading a kids book. He was watching tv. I get up to...
    livlife1615 livlife1615 16-17, F 9 hrs ago

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    I'm 33 years old and we started dating when we were teenagers. We are married now with two children. Our personalities are on the opposite ends of the spectrum - he's an...
    Oneisalonelynumber Oneisalonelynumber 31-35, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    Actually I've always realised that. Here is something I recently posted on another group here. I've not spoken to my father for many years. The last time he tried to speak to me...
    Romanadvoratrelundar Romanadvoratrelundar 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 26

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    I had realized that my mother is toxic. She's always sending bad vibes. Negativity. She uses me but she doesn't like to spend time with me. It used to be painful, but I am okay...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    You might feel sorry for me at the same time annoyed but, I like this beautiful boy who doesn't know I exist. Flawless handsome man every girl would ever want. I wish I could...
    sadsax21 sadsax21 18-21, F Apr 28

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    So.... I love somebody who doesn't reciprocate my feelings back. He loves me but he doesn't see me as his long term, one and only kinda woman. He tells me about other women he...
    OrchidLilacChrys OrchidLilacChrys 26-30, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Ages doesn't matter at all. My soon to be boyfriend is 6 years older then me. I don't give a flying ****. He treats me good and we have fun when we hang out or talk on the phone...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 27

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    Age difference doesn't matter!!! I feel like if that person makes you happy why can't you be with them.
    Alex4eve Alex4eve 13-15, F May 6

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    Just because your old it doesn't mean that you know whats best for anyone......
    lonewolf2323 lonewolf2323 18-21, M May 6

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    After being together for a long time my boyfriend doesn't put in the loving effort like he used too. He would always take me out and spoil me with gifts but now its been over 4...
    dfe213 dfe213 18-21, F 1 Response May 14

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    Just because we are "family" doesn't mean they care... I've found more love out of my in-a-way vicious cat than relatives... Most of the advice I get though has been from teachers...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 2 Responses May 16

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    As alot of you know my husband is a truck driver and gone alot. Sometimes weeks at a time. Any way ever since high school I've been with other women of and on. I never told my...
    mztruble mztruble 31-35, F 4 hrs ago

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    I do want to come out, I do so here in the hope that it will make coming out later on a little easier. I'm married, and hiding the truth about my attraction to men from my wife...
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 days ago

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    Just having a bad day, wondering where I went wrong in my life. I feel like such a failure some days, like today. I don't know how I managed to end up married and divorced before...
    ifollowmyownstar ifollowmyownstar 31-35, F May 7

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    Ok so my sister really wanted to get with a guy with a lip piercing, one day I was going through ask fm and I saw the picture of a guy with a lip piercing and showed my sister, my...
    Babygirl3799 Babygirl3799 16-17, F 3 days ago

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    Has to be one of my biggest pet peeves. I try to be understanding. You know, "maybe they work from home." Or "maybe they dropped their phone and damaged the battery." Or "maybe...
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel 18-21, M Apr 26

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    I was just trying to share with him how the night before his daughter was trying to argue with me by trying to do a play on words and how well I handled it when he cut me off and...
    Morrgin Morrgin 31-35, F 1 Response May 17

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    Im addicted to zombies. I watch the walking dead too much. Sometimes I imagine that people are zombies then Id run away from them. I know thats immature but i just want to share...
    Macymax Macymax 13-15, F 1 day ago

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    I am hurting because I want my mom to love and acknowledge me but she won't. It's a pain I'm trying to live with.
    honestlyanonymouslyme honestlyanonymouslyme 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 26

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    The mist has grown in my heart since that foggy night where everything was doomed, the mist was so thick that when we parted i couldn't find, and my screams were like echoes for...
    mrsOrochester mrsOrochester 31-35, F 1 Response May 2

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    Revised. I have a Up-to-date. I have since the last experienced learned that age does count. If you get involved with a older man or woman who do not mean you well? You are heading...
    Babeondwy Babeondwy 41-45, F 2 Responses May 5

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    I'll try not to go too long with this. I am an atheist, but not a very good one if judged by other atheists. - I like Christians who recognize my right to be an atheist as I...
    SunnyJohansen3 SunnyJohansen3 26-30, F 1 Response May 13

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    This is Jane. This is Jane. This is Jane. This is also Jane. As is this. And this. And this as well. Jane is holding an inflatable sea lion. Jane is my swimming instructress. Jane...
    Vetrov Vetrov 51-55, M 2 days ago

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    Sooo I was riding my dinosaur the other day and it randomly started hopping backwards. I wasn't sure if I should call a cashier or not. Maybe an engineer? I have no idea. But that...
    GEMWASHERE GEMWASHERE 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    People usually think I'm crazy or deranged, but they don't understand how hard it is to be a dinosaur nowadays, feels so bad to be the last Carnotaurus on earth 😔
    Jake503 Jake503 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    Yeah i'm sad because the person who i like didn't care about me ,he really don't have a reason to care ,he don't know who i'm ......Pretty sad and funny ,i talked with him 2...
    Blackyisblack Blackyisblack 13-15, F 1 Response May 3

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    Hello there, my name is Adam. I know that several of you are already aware of who I am. I also realize that many of you loathe me. Part of the reason for that is that I am not...
    SupernaturalScientist SupernaturalScientist 22-25, M 1 Response May 17

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    My family has always ignored me and ostracized me and treated me differently than they treat each other. I've never been one of them. It has become worse now that I'm an adult and...
    UnwantedPup UnwantedPup 31-35, T 1 Response Apr 25

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    That awkward moment when you are talking to someone and they don't answer you and so your like did I say something wrong or are you just busy?
    3JustThatGirl6 3JustThatGirl6 13-15, F 2 Responses Apr 26

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    They died on the other line prolly that's why they didn't text back. Or when you reply a long msg and you just got a fcking 'K'.
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 30

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    I was dating a girl who is 7 years elder than me. We been thru many ups and downs together. She suffered great depression and anxiety. We have been in a relationship for few times...
    SunnyGuy1106 SunnyGuy1106 22-25, M May 7

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    -_- i don't know how to stop caring about him.i feel so stupid because i don't think he even cares about me anymore.
    weirdalex93 weirdalex93 22-25, F May 8

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    I have my family of choice from Alateen and they are my true family. My blood family aren't those that are there for me. It's my fellow Alanons and Alateens.
    bbybleu bbybleu 16-17, F 2 Responses May 11

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    It was never supposed to happen like this. I thought I'd moved beyond getting blindsided by love. Foolish enough to think that my heart was as logical as my brain (well, most of...
    KhalJinghis KhalJinghis 26-30, M May 14

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    Yes, I have done it. I wrote a letter to my toxic mother telling her that I cut her off my life. I had also briefly explained the reasons for this "divorce", because I think it's...
    CantatriceChauve CantatriceChauve 31-35, F 1 Response May 14

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    Nothing like a beautiful Sunday afternoon with family you haven't seen in 3 years. The view of the tops of their heads as they played on their phones the whole time really gave the...
    Bumblelion Bumblelion 31-35, M 4 Responses May 17

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    My boyfriend acts as if I don't exist most of the time, never going out of his way to even talk to me. When I'm with him all he's doing is homework and barely acknowledging me. I...
    Blueaquatic Blueaquatic 18-21, F a week ago

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    something magically appeared from nothing. then this cosmic debris magically turned into life. then the stars magically controlled this life and feng shui made it all better.
    KMB5 KMB5 51-55 2 Responses Apr 27

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