on 10:22AM at Jul 20th, 2008
I am 21 years old and I am engaged to my fiance who is only 20. He had proposed to me two times when we first got back together a year ago. Since then we have had a baby who is soon to be six months old. I also have a two year old from a past relationship. (not in the picture at all, even for me daughter) Lately neither one of us have been working and it is a daily stress to find work. We seem to argue really bad sometimes and we even get physical with eachother. I am scared that if we do not get ourselves together our love will fade. We do not sleep in the same bed, because my two kids are sleeping in my bed with me. We do not spend alone time together anymore and when we do it is only for a few minutes (if ya know what I mean). I think that we are stressed because we can not find work. I think that being in eachothers company all day every day stresses the situation, especially because we have kids. I feel that absence makes the heart fonder and like i said we spend every waking minute with one another. There are no worries of cheating or attraction to others (at least for me) so that is not a worry. I need some reassurance that these reasons may be the cause of our relationship not feeling as loving as it used to just one year ago.
on 02:54AM at Oct 8th, 2008
i to have the same problem but my kids are older n pluss my guy dose not live with right now but soon will be one thing i have learned over the years is try to make time not just for neceity but for everything if u dont then ur love will surely fade n u dont want that or need that. i cant tell how to make time but try how ever u can to make that time more speail n since ur daughters old enouphe i would make her sleep in her own room in her own bed as for the baby u can do th same thing cause they will need it other wise ur going to loose out on the finer things in life.
on 04:33AM at Feb 1st, 2010
Is that what you want?....to marry him?...then you love him...inrespective of the the arguement and physical encounters....well what do you want help with...i think i can help with some spells and magic to make things right between you two since it's real and you are into each other but you are just going through some rough times....that can be helped if you dont mind......mail me thru shrirajsg at rocketmail dot com....hope i read from you soonest
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