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I Want to Have An Affair

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    I want to feel the heat

    and passion of a lover using me hard. oh maybe dinner or lunch. And go home and live my normal life. Moments to add spark to the week. Yes .... No, Thinking yes.
    popmyQ popmyQ 36-40, F 5 Responses Apr 18

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    I'm Having One.

    I'm having an affair, and I don't feel a bit bad about it. I havent been this happy, for so long that I was forgeting the joy of life. Prudence. Prudence. Prudence. is the key.
    Sopphy Sopphy 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    My Neighbor's Son ****** My Wife

     FIRST ACQUAINTANCE:  I travel during the week for my work and typically am home Fridays through Sundays. But, occasionally, a client requires my services through the weekend for meetings with employees. This happened awhile back, shortly before we purchased our...
    combook combook 31-35, M 17 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    I'v been married 20 years now,

    five kids almost all of them grown and moved out. I love my husband but need more. I like to experiment sexually, am open to new possibilities and partners.
    elli51 elli51 51-55, F 10 Responses Jul 3

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    Long Flight For Extreme Pleasure

    I had been waiting a year ahhh, can't believe it!!!! I'm so nervous--I should back up a little....I'm candy, age 42 now a yr later, I started texting a man a yr ago. I'm 5'5" huge, yes HUGE ta tas just is what it is!! Blonde long hair and blue green eyes small waist and hips so...
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Willing To Help Near Pensacola/Panama City

    I would like to be used for sex by a wife hungry for my ****. Let me know if youre interested
    iammaxx iammaxx 26-30, M Aug 8, 2013

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    An Affair

    Affairs begin with two people who find each other interesting and attractive. For whatever reason, the relationship escalates into romance und, finally, into sexual intimacy. People who seek romance and sexual intimacy outside of their primary relationship feel that their...
    Leiza350 Leiza350 31-35, F 22 Responses Nov 19, 2008

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    Lost passion! Don't know

    if I want to or can find it with the one I'm with! Have a child, so it's hard to leave for that reason! Love the thought of hooking up and having a no strings attached affair, safely of course! Know it's not right but need much more than I have!!
    girlygrl44 girlygrl44 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 22

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    Afraid to Marry

    I think every day about cheating on my boyfriend. Not because I don't love him. I think mainly its because we stopped having sex due to our religious beliefs(Catholic=no premartial sex and no contraceptives) I want to obey God, but having sex regularly with men from age 16-21 and...
    silverlining silverlining 21-25, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    Here's my story...I've known my husband

    for 17 years. We have a good relationship, but it was never really very passionate. It works on many levels, but not so much on others. To complicate things more, he's not in good health, so my relationship with him is slowly becoming less of a husband/wife relationship and more...
    SerenaAna SerenaAna 36-40 1 Response Jul 31

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    My husband wants me to have sex with one of his

    female co workers...I want to but I have never had sex with a female. I dream of it..what if I'm no good at it?
    justmeasme justmeasme 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    Im On the Verge

    I am on the verge of it. I have been talking to a few of my past loves and they both are interested. But 1 wants more than that but i cant get out of my marriage right now. My husband and I never have sex so i crave it so bad. I dont want to cheat but then again I do. Maybe Im...
    misfit misfit 26-30, F 20 Responses Feb 3, 2007

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    Maybe

    Do I want to have an affair, I'm not actually sure.  I think I would and I know I love firsts like the previous writer said.  There really is nothing like sweeping a woman off her feet...so why can't I just focus on my wife.  I don't know, I dont really like her...
    johnwad3 johnwad3 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 18, 2006

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    Judge Not...

    OK this is a rant, and I hope it inspires beautiful conversation... I'm tired of those among this group who post something trying to convince people NOT to have an affair because of how "wrong" it is.  They don't BELONG in this group and...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 24 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    My Birthday

    It's been a helluva of a few days. I mentioned Friday was my birthday but also Monday was my anniversary. On Saturday night my wife arranged for my kids to sleep at relatives unbeknownst to me. We went to dinner and came home. We get in the house and my wife says "Oh my God I...
    Martyboy22 Martyboy22 46-50, M 18 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    Sex With a Younger Guy

    I have this obsession of having sex with a younger guy like 19 or 20, I'm 38.  I don't know why I think I need to do this.  I'm happily married and have a great sex life with my husband.  Maybe I want a younger guy to think I'm still attractive.  I have almost...
    summerbelle summerbelle 36-40, F 8 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    Not saying it's right!

    So I don't need to hear how bad it is! Just want to know if there are people in the same boat! Been with my bf 11 years! Great guy but we are not nor have we ever been sexually compatible! Dealt with it and thought take the good with the bad now we have a child and I am so...
    girlygrl44 girlygrl44 31-35, F 11 Responses Mar 27

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    Age 50. Married 24.5 years.

    Never had affair since marriage. Home in Florida. I am working in Kansas at the moment. I would be interested to hear insights from other men/women at approximately this age...really, anyone's insights. I should first point out that our marriage is at a cross-roads because...
    newchapter1234 newchapter1234 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    Anyone In JHB, SA

    hi anyone in JHB, SA with this fantasy. Friend me and let's chat about it more :-)
    shazzie0 shazzie0 41-45, M Sep 9, 2013

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    This Is Hard to Write

    Yes, I would. I probably won't, but I would like to. What can one do when divorce is not an option, counselling is not welcome, and one's spouse is cold and distant? I say I probably won't, because I'm not a "predator." I don't want to hurt anyone else. But if I could...
    ren ren 51-55, M Jun 1, 2007

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    I Am Having An Affair

    Very soon after I began working for Brad, he discovered my submissive side and that very quickly led to him asking me to do things for him in his office. I naturally was reluctant and embarrassed that he was even talking to me about such things since I was newly married, but also...
    Courtney4fun22 Courtney4fun22 22-25, F 49 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    cummycum cummycum 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 19

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    Airdrie, Ab - 37 Yr Old Male

    Good looking, intelligent euro. Passionless marriage, frustrated and adventurous fun guy looking for female friend for discrete mutual fun. Have a thing for older women who embrace their sexuality.
    FunFreak75 FunFreak75 36-40, M Jul 22, 2013

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    Thinking I'm Probably Going To Do It

    i have an emotionally detached husband...no sex, and when there is, it only lasts a minute or two. he won't talk to me about any of these problems, and i have given up trying. we have 2 great kids, and that's why i've stayed in the marriage. an old friend (who is also married...
    Michaelah Michaelah 31-35, F 9 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    Want To Have An Affair sorry Affairs;)

    i have been married for many years now.I have always been loyal wife and a responsible mother.But I feel something is missing.I need more from life.Just wish I could find someone with whom I could have an affair.What i need from this affair is just physical pleasure.There are...
    ladyinlove16 ladyinlove16 36-40, F 53 Responses Feb 4, 2012

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    Want That Exciting Feeling Back...

    Remember how it felt when you first got with a woman? I don't. It's been so long and my wife...well...she isn't into the whole sex thing anymore. I try to please her every way I can think of. 4play, toys, movies, dates...it just doesn't work for her. I need adventure again...I...
    uontoptouching uontoptouching 31-35, M Nov 5, 2013

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    Hasn't been easiest 5 years

    but things are so dull. Found out I have a form of leukemia which is very treatable, but will never go away. Met Gary on a support sight and realize he's everything I want and need. My husband hasn't touched or looked at me since my diagnosis.
    kbarbaro kbarbaro 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 25

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    I Can't Get This Young Man Out Of My Mind

    About 6 months ago, I was doing my usual Wednesday grocery shopping when one of the employees gave me a sweet smile and said, "hi". I thought to myself, "what a friendly guy," and kept shopping. Fast-forward to today. He keeps saying "hi" and I'm going mad trying to find a way to...
    PeachesGalore PeachesGalore 46-50, F 19 Responses Oct 7, 2011

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    Touch Me And Let Me Feel Your Warmth

    Alright I am just going to say it. I want to have a NSA affair with a woman in S. Cali, north of LA. (the goal of this story). I am in a sexless cold marriage. I don't hate her or even dislike her, but the flame couldn't be lit with a blow torch. I just need that intimate...
    flirtwithme flirtwithme 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 30, 2013

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    How Do I Start The Ball Rolling?

    I am an attractive married woman in my 40s (ok, I think so - nice body) who would like to have an affair.Ok, I'm married, so that's the problem, but I already told my husband I'm planning on having an affair.I have no clue as to go about having an affair.  I don't just want to...
    sweetbutterbiscuit sweetbutterbiscuit 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    A little over 4 years ago I met the "perfect"

    man. I had never stuggled to find romance but I decided this was "the one" and we got married just over a year later and have now been married for almost 3 years. The problem is that I have since realised that he is THE stereotypically "perfect" guy... not MY perfect guy and...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 6 Responses Mar 23

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    My relationship sucks uh every aspect

    but we hv a bby. I'm trying to rescue it but it's not easy. Im sure if I hv a little fun on the side, it will give me a break n allow me to catch my breath to continue. It's been so long since I last had sex... I crave it like a girl craves chocolate :-P anyone interested in...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24

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    Seeking A Married Woman In The Panhandle Of Florida

    DWM who has had a successful 3 year affair with a married woman is looking to start another one. Prefer someone who has had a successful affair(s) before but a motivated and cautious newbie also welcome. I am into long-term affairs, not one-time-only events. I'm an hour west of...
    mikeincfla mikeincfla 56-60, M Oct 6, 2013

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    I Need To Get Good ****!!

    Hi...i have been wanting sex but have not been getting it at home...i am 24 and am attractive with a phat *** and a good personality...i love my husband but he didn't treat me like the lil **** I am in bed...if you want to meet up you need to have a car so you can pick me up...i...
    sexkitten1989 sexkitten1989 22-25, F 3 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    I am married and confident enough to say I am a

    beautiful brown lady. I have been getting ignored at home for 5 years. I beg for it and get turned down. I feel so sexy and full of energy. I make sure I look my best when we go out. I giggle inside when other guys wink at me in the public or say something nice. But see I am...
    PrettyChocolate66 PrettyChocolate66 46-50, F 1 Response Jan 22

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    It Will Happen

    It will happen only because I do not want it to. I fight it again. I have been fighting it for so long. How many keepers have I handed my leash to? 1, 2, now the third. I am sorry. I hang my head in my collar and breath a heavy gasp of rattling air. I do not want it... and...
    Wolfeyes Wolfeyes 36-40, M Oct 20, 2013

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    Dayton, Ohio

    im 36/M 210lbs with blonde hair and blue eyes looking for some fun in Dayton, Ohio. message me here or on yahoo daytimepm69
    daytimepm69 daytimepm69 36-40, M Sep 18, 2013

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    Alright, Since No One's Talking...

    I've been doing a lot of thinking and soul searching lately, and I've realized that I am absolutely, without a doubt, completely and totally addicted to "firsts." The first time you find out for sure that someone's into you, meeting someone the first time, the first time you...
    deleted deleted 26-30 61 Responses Oct 16, 2006

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    Any women from South Jersey,

    northern Delaware want see if we are compatible? Not having sex is driving me insane. I can come to you.
    sportsguy77 sportsguy77 36-40, M Dec 8, 2013

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    So here lately I find myself lusting very badly.

    I notice that it's usually not that specific who I'm lusting over. Between this past two weeks I have listed over two men. They both been older than me I love mature me. I'm in my early 20s these men range from early 30s to early 40s. I just want to have an affair so bad I want...
    Mysteryladi Mysteryladi 26-30, F 5 Responses Feb 25

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    The Quandary of the Married Man.

    So you’ve decided to have an affair. Yes, some people do decide to have affairs. In fact, I’ll wager that at some point in their married life almost everyone will consider having an affair. But that’s another discussion. Ok, perhaps if you’re one of...
    velosapien velosapien 31-35, M 10 Responses Jan 31, 2008

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    I Want To Have An Affair, But...

    Here goes...I am 20 years married, fairly happy, no kids, we actually have great sex, but I have a huge crush on this guy and it has been for 8 or 9 months, I think about him sexually all the time, I mean day and night. We had a near encounter recently but he stopped it because I...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I am recently married

    and had an affair before. I love my wife but honestly love the thrill and attention that another woman provides. Please do not judge me, looking for someone to talk to (women only). thanks!
    CuGuy CuGuy 31-35, M Jun 11

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    I have always loved the thrill of the affair.

    The passion associated with it. It can be very exciting. I travel all over the state of Texas and love meeting others.
    passn81 passn81 61-65, M Dec 4, 2013

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    I really do.. I want to meet a new man

    and forget about the one I got. He only give me sex like once per month WTF.. At least give me some 2 days a week geez. ************ is ok but I be needing the real deal.
    SeekUnique SeekUnique 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16

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    Looking For An Affair In The Chicago-Land Area

    I have been married for 14 years now but it's been lacking sex/intimacy for the past 9 years. I love my wife as a good friend but the passion is gone and the physical needs are not being met. I'm an educated, executive professional looking for a woman(women) that are...
    HansC HansC 41-45, M Aug 6, 2013

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    wildworld12 wildworld12 26-30, F 28 Responses Mar 21

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    Thrill Of An Affair?

    First off... I've got a hot and pretty wife (maybe you won't agree from the pics, but anyway...), but strangely, I can't help thinking of having an affair. Perhaps it's sort of like a "forbidden fruit" kinda thing. Do you guys generally have an affair for fun or...
    mack69 mack69 26-30, M 31 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Frustrated, No Sex For Sixteen Years!

    Looks like a lot of us are in the same boat. Super sex and then menopause hits. How do I write this . . . after marriage I talked to her as I was between her legs and got to know exactly what worked the best. So after she got use to it she had a saying before each intimacy...
    poppo1946 poppo1946 66-70, M Aug 24, 2013

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    My ex affair cost her so much I wonder if she ever thinks it was worth it? My kids want have anything to do with her. I wonder how bad her holidays are they haven't spent a...
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