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I Want to Have An Affair

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    Not saying it's right! So I don't need to hear how bad it is! Just want to know if there are people in the same boat! Been with my bf 11 years! Great guy but we are not nor...
    girlygrl44 girlygrl44 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 27

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    How Do I Start The Ball Rolling? - I am an attractive married woman in my 40s (ok, I think so - nice body) who would like to have an affair.Ok, I'm married, so that's the problem...
    sweetbutterbiscuit sweetbutterbiscuit 41-45, F 8 Responses Mar 7, 2012

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    My Dream - In my dream, you were laying behind me with your arm across my waist, my arm on yours.  We had fallen asleep.  I woke up, savoring the fact that you were next...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses May 20, 2009

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    A little over 4 years ago I met the "perfect" man. I had never stuggled to find romance but I decided this was "the one" and we got married just over a year later and have now been...
    masa2014 masa2014 26-30, F 7 Responses Mar 23

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    I Want To Have An Affair, But... - Here goes...I am 20 years married, fairly happy, no kids, we actually have great sex, but I have a huge crush on this guy and it has been for 8...
    sally7 sally7 36-40, F 11 Responses Jan 18, 2013

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    I'd Do It Again - I live with my long-time girlfriend and we get along great but neither one of us are interested in sex.  We do it occasionally, maybe once every 3 months or...
    Michael2 Michael2 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 12, 2007

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    Thinking I'm Probably Going To Do It - i have an emotionally detached husband...no sex, and when there is, it only lasts a minute or two. he won't talk to me about any of these...
    Michaelah Michaelah 31-35, F 8 Responses Jul 25, 2012

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    I really do.. I want to meet a new man and forget about the one I got. He only give me sex like once per month WTF.. At least give me some 2 days a week geez. ************ is ok...
    SeekUnique SeekUnique 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16

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    Sex With a Younger Guy - I have this obsession of having sex with a younger guy like 19 or 20, I'm 38.  I don't know why I think I need to do this.  I'm happily married...
    summerbelle summerbelle 36-40, F 7 Responses Oct 22, 2007

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    I want to exchange pornographic pics
    cummycum cummycum 31-35, F 13 Responses Mar 19

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    I'm Having One. - I'm having an affair, and I don't feel a bit bad about it. I havent been this happy, for so long that I was forgeting the joy of life. Prudence. Prudence...
    Sopphy Sopphy 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 12, 2010

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    Maybe - Do I want to have an affair, I'm not actually sure.  I think I would and I know I love firsts like the previous writer said.  There really is nothing like...
    johnwad3 johnwad3 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 18, 2006

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    Lost passion! Don't know if I want to or can find it with the one I'm with! Have a child, so it's hard to leave for that reason! Love the thought of hooking up and having a no...
    girlygrl44 girlygrl44 31-35, F 9 Responses Mar 22

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    Any women from South Jersey, northern Delaware want see if we are compatible? Not having sex is driving me insane. I can come to you.
    sportsguy77 sportsguy77 36-40, M Dec 8, 2013

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    My husband wants me to have sex with one of his female co workers...I want to but I have never had sex with a female. I dream of it..what if I'm no good at it?
    justmeasme justmeasme 36-40, F 5 Responses Mar 18

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    Looking For An Affair In The Chicago-Land Area - I have been married for 14 years now but it's been lacking sex/intimacy for the past 9 years. I love my wife as a good friend but...
    HansC HansC 41-45, M Aug 6, 2013

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    I Am Having An Affair - Very soon after I began working for Brad, he discovered my submissive side and that very quickly led to him asking me to do things for him in his office. I...
    Courtney4fun22 Courtney4fun22 22-25, F 49 Responses Dec 26, 2012

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    Age 50. Married 24.5 years. Never had affair since marriage. Home in Florida. I am working in Kansas at the moment. I would be interested to hear insights from other men/women...
    newchapter1234 newchapter1234 46-50, M 1 Response Jan 19

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    Hasn't been easiest 5 years but things are so dull. Found out I have a form of leukemia which is very treatable, but will never go away. Met Gary on a support sight and realize...
    kbarbaro kbarbaro 41-45, F 5 Responses Mar 25

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    Will Help Ladies To Get Some Pleasure - We can help ladies who are living in a sexless marriage to get some fun and pleasure without destroying their marriages. We will bring...
    3somefun 3somefun 36-40 4 Responses Mar 4, 2010

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    Does This Count? - The emotional variety of affair. I want to flirt and feel sexy and wanted. My husband is not attracted to me. He wants to be friends. He watches dirty movies and...
    ReddBrown ReddBrown 36-40, F 4 Responses Feb 27, 2008

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    Considering having an affair-- My husband is a good man but is a grump that is emotionally self-centered and has no patience or compassion for anyone who displeases him, which...
    Notreadytosay Notreadytosay 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 28

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    Intriguing - I guess technically I have had several affairs, but I want to experience the real thing, the sneaking around, the thrill of getting caught at any moment. I dont know...
    justagirl4u justagirl4u 26-30, F 13 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    Thrill Of An Affair? - First off... I've got a hot and pretty wife (maybe you won't agree from the pics, but anyway...), but strangely, I can't help thinking of having an...
    mack69 mack69 26-30, M 31 Responses Nov 25, 2009

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    Seeking A Married Woman In The Panhandle Of Florida - DWM who has had a successful 3 year affair with a married woman is looking to start another one. Prefer someone who has had a...
    mikeincfla mikeincfla 56-60, M Oct 6, 2013

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    Anyone In JHB, SA - hi anyone in JHB, SA with this fantasy. Friend me and let's chat about it more :-)
    shazzie0 shazzie0 41-45, M Sep 9, 2013

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    Airdrie, Ab - 37 Yr Old Male - Good looking, intelligent euro. Passionless marriage, frustrated and adventurous fun guy looking for female friend for discrete mutual fun. Have...
    FunFreak75 FunFreak75 36-40, M Jul 22, 2013

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    I Want To Have An Affair - I'd love to have an affair with a tender but paasionate male who can be very discreet. Just lots of no-holds-barred sex! Wow!!!. Problem is, I'm married...
    deleted deleted 26-30 10 Responses May 21, 2010

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    Im On the Verge - I am on the verge of it. I have been talking to a few of my past loves and they both are interested. But 1 wants more than that but i cant get out of my marriage...
    misfit misfit 26-30, F 20 Responses Feb 3, 2007

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    Almost An Affair. In Need. - I've had 2 male sexual relationship and one female one. The 2 guys were ex-boyfriends, and the female was just a drunken night and good kissing session...
    EmJay EmJay 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 17, 2007

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    My Neighbor's Son ****** My Wife -  FIRST ACQUAINTANCE:  I travel during the week for my work and typically am home Fridays through Sundays. But, occasionally, a...
    combook combook 31-35, M 17 Responses Jan 5, 2010

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    My relationship sucks uh every aspect but we hv a bby. I'm trying to rescue it but it's not easy. Im sure if I hv a little fun on the side, it will give me a break n allow me to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 24

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    Frustrated, No Sex For Sixteen Years! - Looks like a lot of us are in the same boat. Super sex and then menopause hits. How do I write this . . . after marriage I talked to her...
    poppo1946 poppo1946 66-70, M Aug 24, 2013

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    How do I meet somebody in the same boat ?
    wildworld12 wildworld12 26-30, F 35 Responses Mar 21

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    I am married and confident enough to say I am a beautiful brown lady. I have been getting ignored at home for 5 years. I beg for it and get turned down. I feel so sexy and full of...
    PrettyChocolate66 PrettyChocolate66 46-50, F 2 Responses Jan 22

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    So here lately I find myself lusting very badly. I notice that it's usually not that specific who I'm lusting over. Between this past two weeks I have listed over two men. They...
    Mysteryladi Mysteryladi 26-30, F 4 Responses Feb 25

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    I Need To Get Good ****!! - Hi...i have been wanting sex but have not been getting it at home...i am 24 and am attractive with a phat *** and a good personality...i love my husband...
    sexkitten1989 sexkitten1989 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 4, 2013

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    My Birthday - It's been a helluva of a few days. I mentioned Friday was my birthday but also Monday was my anniversary. On Saturday night my wife arranged for my kids to sleep at...
    Martyboy22 Martyboy22 46-50, M 17 Responses Mar 23, 2012

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    It Will Happen - It will happen only because I do not want it to. I fight it again. I have been fighting it for so long. How many keepers have I handed my leash to? 1, 2, now...
    Wolfeyes Wolfeyes 36-40, M Oct 20, 2013

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    Judge Not... - OK this is a rant, and I hope it inspires beautiful conversation... I'm tired of those among this group who post something trying to convince people...
    flirtswithdisaster flirtswithdisaster 26-30, M 24 Responses Aug 20, 2007

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    I have always loved the thrill of the affair. The passion associated with it. It can be very exciting. I travel all over the state of Texas and love meeting others.
    passn81 passn81 61-65, M Dec 4, 2013

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    Long Flight For Extreme Pleasure - I had been waiting a year ahhh, can't believe it!!!! I'm so nervous--I should back up a little....I'm candy, age 42 now a yr later, I started...
    Lonilee Lonilee 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Dayton, Ohio - im 36/M 210lbs with blonde hair and blue eyes looking for some fun in Dayton, Ohio. message me here or on yahoo daytimepm69
    daytimepm69 daytimepm69 36-40, M Sep 18, 2013

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    Looking For Female In West Midlands UK - Tall slim attractive black male in Birmingham UK looking for married or single white female for discreet no strings intimate relationship
    ChrisBham ChrisBham 46-50, M Jul 21, 2013

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    Looking For An Affair - I am in a sexless marriage. Only time is when she wants another baby. We have 1 child, 10 months old. It is a struggle everyday. Every day people that I...
    ctomkinson ctomkinson 18-21, M Jul 19, 2013

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    This Is Hard to Write - Yes, I would. I probably won't, but I would like to. What can one do when divorce is not an option, counselling is not welcome, and one's spouse is cold and...
    ren ren 51-55, M Jun 1, 2007

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    Cambridge, England - so lonely... I crave intimacy, love, flesh... she's downstairs right now, playing the most melancholy haunting piano I can imagine... we will sleep together...
    meatpost meatpost 41-45, M Jul 21, 2013

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    Willing To Help Near Pensacola/Panama City - I would like to be used for sex by a wife hungry for my ****. Let me know if youre interested
    iammaxx iammaxx 26-30, M Aug 8, 2013

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    Afraid to Marry - I think every day about cheating on my boyfriend. Not because I don't love him. I think mainly its because we stopped having sex due to our religious beliefs...
    silverlining silverlining 21-25, F 4 Responses Jun 25, 2007

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    Alright, Since No One's Talking... - I've been doing a lot of thinking and soul searching lately, and I've realized that I am absolutely, without a doubt, completely and totally...
    deleted deleted 26-30 61 Responses Oct 16, 2006

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    Touch Me And Let Me Feel Your Warmth - Alright I am just going to say it. I want to have a NSA affair with a woman in S. Cali, north of LA. (the goal of this story). I am in a...
    flirtwithme flirtwithme 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 30, 2013