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I Want to Have Sex, Not a Relationship

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 250 People

    This Would Be Nice

    You, me and how many others?   Yeah this is every guy's dream arrangement isn't it?  Too bad emotions always get in the way and someone gets hurt.  Try and prove me wrong!  I guarantee these things always go south, and not in that way either. ...
    theblackadder theblackadder
    31-35, M
    Feb 12, 2010

    Why Not?

    I have a "relationship" at home and except for the sex, it is a good relationship. But, I don't have enough sex. I want sex, I want a lot of sex, I want it that too much to ask? Now, there has to be some sort of attraction to make the sex that much better, but...
    purpleriz purpleriz
    51-55, F
    18 Responses Mar 13, 2009

    Horny and Want It All the Time

    I have been divorced for a few years.  I have dated and had a few partners just for the sex.  Why is that all I want?  I have done everything sexual and will try anything.  I would love a three some with 2 women or 2 men and myself.   I am not a...
    kiki9 kiki9
    Aug 1, 2009

    Cool If It Does

    i need sex, i love sex, i want sex, any taker online or in real life. ready willing about, to keep up with the best  without the help of drugs or chemical
    bquick bquick
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Feb 7, 2008

    Seems Like the Only Rational Answer

    I have a "relationship" at home and it works, we talk and enjoy the same things but my sex life is nowhere near what I want it to be like. I want it all the time, I want sex and am not afraid to ask for it. So I just need a friend to take care of this for me, spend...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses May 13, 2009

    I Am Looking For a Friendly Lover

    in Atlanta... I want us to be friends... so strictly speaking I do want some kind of positive relationship and sex... hope that doesn't disqualify me.   james atlanta
    JRSK007 JRSK007
    51-55, M
    1 Response Apr 10, 2009

    Feeling Good Is Good

     After chasing a relationship that was never going to happen, I'd like to take a break from that kind of soap opera. I don't think feeling good as to include all kinds of drama.  It's good to feel good. Having regular sex is healthy and helps our immune systems. ...
    UncleDevilShow UncleDevilShow
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Feb 19, 2008

    Young And Mild

    18 years old, straight, living in Miami, Florida
    infinteoscuras infinteoscuras
    May 12, 2013

    My Life Is Too Busy... do justice to a relationship. But sex is still a necessity. It would be so nice to have relationships like I have at home here where I spend all of my time. I need some "Friends with Benefits" that will accept the concept of being intimate, sexual and...
    brandiSE brandiSE
    18-21, F
    12 Responses Oct 29, 2008

    NH Or Ma

    Any women in NH or MA interested in a fit mature man?
    kersplatt kersplatt
    1 Response May 13, 2009

    My Imagination

    If I get a chance to hv sex without relation ship I will enjoyfollowing-   I will undress slowly Iwill love to be undressed  Iwish both will be naked My hands will travel all over her body searching something With my left hand I will cover her back and tease...
    mangya mangya
    3 Responses Mar 12, 2008

    I'm Not Sure That's Entirely Possible

    I guess what I really want is to not be in an exclusive relationship. I want to have sex, sometimes with woman, sometimes with men. And it is best with friends and friendship is a kind of relationship. What I am not looking for is a romantic relationship. I want "friends with...
    RayanneA RayanneA
    56-60, M
    Apr 8, 2012

    Right Now.

    much as I'd love a relationship, I'm just not in the right frame of mind to be able to make one work. But i'm still horny as feck and looking for some no-strings-attached sex. Guess we all want that from time to time, eh?
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Mar 19, 2008

    Why Is It Hard To Find A Decent Person?

    Why is it hard to find a person to have casual sex? I want a relationship, but that is in the future. All I want is just good old fashon sex, but every time I do get with some one, they want to go slow and "get to know me." My only downfall I have is that I am overweight, a bit...
    proximacentauri proximacentauri
    22-25, M
    1 Response Aug 24, 2010


    Sometimes I don't want to be in a relationship. I mean I am almost 19, I just want to have some fun, not worry about being tied down with someone. I mean I don't think I would be going out and having sex with everyone I know, but I just want to have a little fun, without having...
    DyinToBeLoved DyinToBeLoved
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 23, 2008

    Me 'n You, And You 'n Me....

    Once again it happens. Every time we ever see each other we both simultaneously tell ourselves "This is the last." But behind that curtain of morality we both know we can't stop certain things, that we can't stop licking a lollipop until we get to the core of it. We can...
    dedre dedre
    31-35, M
    1 Response Oct 13, 2009

    Had It With....

    relationships. I am sick and tired of getting all wrapped up in sharing my life and time with a man that can't commit to one anyway. I just want to get laid and enjoy every minute of it. I am looking for a man that will be ther when I am horny and doesn't want to stay the night...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Apr 18, 2008

    Why Is It So Hard?

    All I really want to do is find a girl in arizona that love sex and smoking ;) I'm male 19
    roxis13 roxis13
    22-25, M
    Oct 15, 2013

    It's Possible to Have Both Sex and a Relationship, Just Not With One Person.

    For some, sex becomes less exciting over time with just one person. On the other hand, most people need to love someone. So what's the solution? Use your imagination. Some of us act on that discovery.
    sarawks sarawks
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 15, 2008

    Amazing How Hard This Is To Accomplish

    I am amazed how hard it is to find men for casual sexual encounters. My goals with men are very clear and I'm very blunt with them. I want sex. That involves an emotional connection, of course, and physical attraction - I truly believe sex starts with the mind. I don't want a...
    sassyg1rl sassyg1rl
    46-50, F
    6 Responses Jul 1, 2010

    Any Minnesota Girls?

    Looking for a girl around the St. Paul/Minneapolis area. I'm a 19 year old straight guy.
    Sirdutchalot17 Sirdutchalot17
    22-25, M
    May 25, 2013

    Definitely Not Relationship-worthy

    Honestly, not to puss out or anything, but I'm still messed up from THE chick in my past. I mean she's known as "The M from Illinoise" "She who shall not be named", etc etc... From that, I've learned that I do not want a relationship, I can have totally...
    dedre dedre
    31-35, M
    3 Responses Jun 9, 2008


    I am in a sexless marriage... uhhhhggg I have so much relationship and no sex... I wish I could find someone that just wanted to ****
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2008
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