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I Want to Hear Your Coming Out Story

This is a group for those to share their stories about coming out and letting people know who they really are. Whether about sexuality or Gender issues. 873 People

    Why This Group Is Here

    Hi, I'm Blasphemous Angel, sometimes I'm just called Angel or Blas.   I created this group to share some coming out stories so younger people and/or people that are just coming out can hear other people's stories.    I don't want this JUST to be about...
    BlasphemousAngel BlasphemousAngel 31-35, M 17 Responses Jun 12, 2009

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    So, I actually haven't came out yet.

    I thought maybe I'd get help from people who knew what it was like. I am terrified and need help. So, if it is alright could you message me (PM or just Reply) and help me with how I should do it without my family hating me afterwards? What is the best way to tell your family?
    RainbowsandKittens97 RainbowsandKittens97 16-17, F 3 Responses Aug 30

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    Well Duh

    I told my mother when I was 14. At the breakfast table before school. Breakfast was always a good meal to drop bombs on because I could say something, and then run off to catch the bus before the bomb really hit. I thought it was going to be a big emotional moment, I though she...
    jimmyseven jimmyseven 31-35, M 1 Response Oct 5, 2013

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    It was New Years Eve,

    I was talking to my crush & I decided I'd finally tell my Mum. She wasn't phased at all. She guessed as much that I liked girls over boys. She often joked about me being gay which I wasn't to keen on, as I found it to be a somewhat serious subject. My Dad was less than pleased...
    KMargatroid KMargatroid 16-17, F Jul 7

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    Married Father Of 3, Now A Single Gay Dad Of Adult Children

    After 24 years, my wife and I divorced last winter, after Chritmas. Over the last two years I discovered that repressed homosexual feelings were very real for me. I am now living my life as a gay man and have a loving partner. I have no regrets about being true to myself. Who I...
    KickTheBox KickTheBox 56-60, M 4 Responses Sep 30, 2012

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    Told our parents after they set us up

    for a terrible prom blind dates. It was not easy but we are still working it through with them
    JamesandJohn JamesandJohn 22-25, M May 8

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    So it was Thanksgiving

    and my really close cousin Jack (who's gay) brought his boyfriend. We always have Thanksgiving with my grandmother and her kids (my dad, Jack's dad, my aunt, and my other uncles). My grandmother and most of my family is really old fashioned and a total Bible thumpers and they've...
    kittentoes kittentoes 22-25, F 1 Response Oct 8

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    Ah coming out story .

    .. Such fun :) I was 14 when my parents found out. A month later I arrived home to an empty house with a note: "We have moved." Haven't seen them since. :)
    Inpuov Inpuov 26-30, M 5 Responses Mar 26

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    About a year ago I came out to my brother,

    in the middle of a discussion / argument. He was shocked, literally left speechless and open mouthed. Although, at the time, he said I was still his brother over the next few days his conversations with me were a little stilted. It was obvious he did not want to talk about the...
    runtom runtom 56-60, M 5 Responses Jun 3

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    I think my parents were a bit relieved

    when I came out, when I was younger I came out as transgendered, which my dad got totally confused about but my mum bought me make -up and all sorts! I was stunned! It was later that I realised that i wasn't trans but was gay and liked drag! Needless to say i think they...
    Avian946 Avian946 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 6

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    I came out as Asexual to my dad.

    .. and I thought he accepted me at first. But then three days later he kept asking "how can you be Asexual if you haven't had sex? you're just not ready yet." Finally I turned and I told him "No, I'm not ready to have sex. I never will be. I don't like it, and you're going to...
    PowerpuffGirlButtercup PowerpuffGirlButtercup 18-21, F 1 day ago

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    I want someone to come out to me

    so that they can inspire me to come out myself too.
    Minniebeeb Minniebeeb 16-17, F Oct 12

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    Embrace It

    I wrote a previous story on here telling about how a sleepover with my best friend (a girl) turned into an all-night makeout session. Well, shortly after that memorable sleepover I began to really think about that night. I really enjoyed kissing my best friend, and I kinda...
    Mitzidarling Mitzidarling 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 20, 2013

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    Ok, so I posted before about how I was

    terrified of coming out. I finally did it today and so I'm going to tell you guys my coming out story in hope it helps some people. I was 13 or 14 when I found out. When I found out I definitely wasn't straight. I thought I was bisexual, but the didn't seem right. At the time...
    RainbowsandKittens97 RainbowsandKittens97 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 20

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    To be honest my story isn't interesting,

    but I love listening to others! Feel free to share!
    lexybear32 lexybear32 18-21, M Sep 21

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    So I didn't come out to my parents.

    I came home. Introduced my parents to my boyfriend at the time. And they didn't ask questions. When he left, the only questions I got from them were what he does, and what I liked about him. And when we broke up my parents treated it like a break up. The didn't question my...
    JacobtheHuman JacobtheHuman 13-15, M 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I do. If you really want to tell your story

    then I would like to hear it, but that is not why I'm writing this. And I'm not even writing this to tell my story. I have one but it's not a compelling read like so many others, its not as much of a struggle as others. I am out. That sounds funny doesn't it, that we should...
    KenzieluvsRupert KenzieluvsRupert 16-17, F 2 Responses Sep 16

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    Well, this will be about coming out to my mom.

    I first came out to my best friend in 7th grade (who is transgender). He immediately accepted me and we became inseparable. After that, I slowly started coming out to more and more of my friends as I gradually accepted me for the true me. Late one night this year, I remember...
    cammieboy6788 cammieboy6788 16-17, M 4 Responses Dec 27, 2013

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    Just My Little Story...

    Well.... Im out now but it was a long journey... My mom died in January of  2008 0r 2007 (wow cant even remember that) but it affected me in more ways than one. Even before my moms death i was looking at guys and of course gay ****. I looked at it and thought nothing of it...
    tomtombear tomtombear 18-21, M 11 Responses Aug 26, 2009

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    My Full Story Is...When I Was Actually Five I

    Started Liking Guys And Girls,But Guys More,I Know,It's Crazy.But Ever Since I've Acted Different.As I Got Older Like In 4th Grade I Would Get Picked On By Guys,They Would Always Say Im Gay.But Up In Till 6th Grade I Really Thought It Was Time To Come Out,But It Wasn't.Do In 7th...
    PincheeTonii PincheeTonii 13-15, M 4 Responses Aug 10

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    I didn't really have a choice to come out it

    all started when I was sling to someone on FB and he told me he was bi and I thought it would be a nice moment to say I was gay; the next day at school (I'm in year 10 now this happened in year 9 aswell as the fact I was the new kid) he was spreading I am gay and in P.E lesson...
    chocolatemuffin6969 chocolatemuffin6969 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 24

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    I told my parents I was gay

    when I was 16. I grew up in a very Mormon household so it didn't go over well. My mom told me she couldn't deal with me going to hell, and my dad threatened to shoot me. The next day, I has an appointment with LDS Family Services for straight conversion therapy. I was bounced...
    mybonerandme mybonerandme 18-21, M 9 Responses Mar 21

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    I was texting with my dad

    and I mentioned that I was invited to be in an LGBTQ fashion show. He said "are you LGBTQ?" And I said "more or less." And he said "which one?" To which I replied, "B" and his answer was "you can't throw a stick without hitting a bichick these days." He then when on to tell me...
    ksnaps ksnaps 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I have only come out to my best friend

    as bisexual, but I really do adore how she reacted. I was so scared because my mom had told me that "people don't want to be friends with gay people" and even though I knew it wasn't true, it still stuck a lot of doubt into my mind. When I told her, she pretty much said "I'm...
    bobthebobking bobthebobking 13-15, T 1 Response Feb 20

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    My coming out story is pretty normal nothing

    too drastic but not all rainbows and ponies. The first person I told out of my family was my older sister. The reason I told her first was because I knew she would of accept it and she did. The second person I told was my mom. It was kinda awkward when I told her. I didn't...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Apr 14

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    how do i tell someone about my sexuality

    (lesbian) and who can i trust that won't leave me? oh and please tell me your coming out story (if you have one).
    secretly1honest secretly1honest 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 8

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    It's already October 11th here.

    .. Happy NCOD everybody :)))) I'm actually kinda still in the closet but I came out to many friends last month and to my best friend on August and all of them were very ok with it. My parents still think that I'm straight but couldn't find the perfect girl yet haha :D I think it...
    beonstreet beonstreet 18-21, M 1 Response Oct 10

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    I'm actually starting it right now.

    It may last to be a novel, but I've gotta get out of the closet at some point!
    Audrina14 Audrina14 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 26

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    Hell Opened

    It should't have happened the way it did. I was an idiot. At the time, I was dating a guy who I'd repeatedly caught cheating on me. Something possesed me to hack his Facebook (where I found more evidence). I left his Facebook open on my computer. My mother came into my room and...
    onealsc1995 onealsc1995 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 20, 2013

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    How My Parents Found Out About Me...

    (June) This was during 2013 summer and cross country just started. I started going to all the practices & had just met this guy (he was 20). We've been talking for a month so we took it to the next step. After every practices he would pick me and we would go to a park and walk...
    Johnnyboy1796 Johnnyboy1796 18-21, M 7 Responses Nov 27, 2013

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    I left my parents a note saying I was

    transgendered on a table before I went to bed. That morning I didn't want to get out of bed (though everything went fine). Nor did I talk to them about it. It's been since about January and I've done nothing. ._.
    totallytubular totallytubular 16-17, T 1 Response May 6

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    3 Years Ago

    When I came out of the closet...it was one of the hardest things that I've ever done because I know my parents...They were the only one that I came out to face-to-face, apart from my best friend of four years and my Godmother. Anyway, it was really difficult for me because not...
    LadyOfLorien LadyOfLorien 18-21, F Oct 12, 2013

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    Sweet 16th on the Santa Cruz Boardwalk.

    I was talking to this one girl, and it was getting pretty serious. She planned my whole 16th with my parents 10k budget. Well, it was a surprise. When I walked out to the beach front holding her hand, my whole family basically got the news. My friends all knew already. My mom...
    Tlythatswsup Tlythatswsup 16-17, F Jul 23

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    I remember it very clearly,

    actually. It was my sophomore year of highschool, 2013. I had expressed uncertainty about my sexual orientation to my circle of friends my freshman year. They teased me for weeks. Every time we'd hang out the girls would grope each other and look at me. I still remember their...
    daisydelrey daisydelrey 16-17, F Oct 11

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    Me My Gay Self

    I knew I was gay back when I was 14 and I came to friends when I was 14 I came out to my sister when I was 15 but I was scared to come out to my parents when I was 16 I told my mom and surprisingly my mom didnt have a problem with it she said she knew I was gay only problem boys...
    Jannisemichael Jannisemichael 22-25, M 1 Response Nov 4, 2013

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    I am 13, in primary school (stupid Australia) I

    know you will think I am too you got know my sexuality,but I am not I felt this way since I was 11. I was sitting at a table with a group of friends and starting asking if they accept homosexuals. Here is what they said, there's names are B, TA, T, M and A. A"if they told...
    monster04 monster04 13-15, F 2 Responses Nov 29, 2013

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    So I really want to come out to my parents

    but I have no idea how! I don't want to just say "I'm gay", I was wondering if people could message me (private or on here) about how they came out x
    ParisMaisie ParisMaisie 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 25

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    I came out of a vagina.

    Ikr pretty strange? Amirite? Of course I am xd
    TheStillmanator TheStillmanator 13-15, M 1 Response Aug 6

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    They Already Knew.

    So I have two 'coming out of the closet dressed fabulously' stories: 1) my friends. It was year 8 and I was really really curious I had been with these friends since year 7 not long but they taught me heaps. They taught me to be accepting of EVERYONE. So I started to fall for...
    BeautifulMyth BeautifulMyth 18-21, F 3 Responses Aug 26, 2013

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    3 weeks ago today I finally told the first

    person I was gay, my best friend. We were at school and were walking to class when he looked at me weirdly and said, “Is everything ok?”, I bowed my head down a bit and said, “I have something I need too tell you”, him still looking at me he laughingly said, “What...
    HappyYikes HappyYikes 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 18, 2013

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    I am a closeted lesbian

    who is 16 and is terrified to come out to anyone, even the people I trust the most...
    HappyLittleLemons HappyLittleLemons 16-17, F Sep 20

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    Okay so here it is. I never really realized

    or understood it, but I have had 2 real girlfriends in the past 4 years, but I realized that I have been in love with my childhood best friend for the past 5 years. He and I had done sexual things, but we never thought anything of it-well, he didn't... i always thought it meant...
    James1511 James1511 16-17, M 6 Responses Sep 24

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    My Coming Out Story....yes Im Gay So What?

    I have always know. Ever since i was able to reach my memory which was at maybe two. I know what you are saying," Its impossible For a baby to know about his sexual orientation when it hasnt been introduced into the world yet,not fully atleast." Well let me tell you this believe...
    Gabe1995 Gabe1995 16-17, M 1 Response May 29, 2012

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    My experience was not what I had hoped for.

    I wasn't planning on coming out, it just happened. I was driving in the car with my mom when I was 19 and we were just making small talk. Then the subject somehow turned to birth control. She told me I should start taking it and I told her I don't need it. She was almost...
    frames64 frames64 22-25, F 2 Responses May 8

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    Thinking about coming out to the general public

    about being bisexual...A little worried about it because im probably going down south next year for college and id rather not be hated. Anyone have stories to share about coming out?
    peaceinmiles peaceinmiles 18-21, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    So?

    It was a Saturday night and I had just come home, crushed by my feelings. I was wearing my red T-shirt, a little short at the sleeves and it pinched a little at my armpits. I was slender and hardly muscular, but I liked to pretend. Not to mention that the dinner had been with the...
    Fellus Fellus 16-17, M 3 Responses Jul 19, 2012

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    I am a panromantic asexual,

    as well as transgender, and I haven't come out yet, but I have a pretty good idea of what I'm going to do. I'm sick of being depressed all the time and hiding just about my whole life from everyone. Tomorrow, just as I'm leaving my house to get on my school bus, I'm going to...
    XDraconianX XDraconianX 13-15, T 1 Response a week ago

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    My Expierience Of Coming Out

    i am bi. one year ago, i told my roommate that i was bi-curious and he took advantage of me. i was the bottom. i had to suck his and one of his friend's dicks or he would blackmail me with my sexuality, this went on for awhile and then, i just left. the staties brought me back to...
    thehippy69 thehippy69 18-21 5 Responses Mar 14, 2013

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    Hi I'm jack and I'm 13 years old.

    So where do I start. I'm primary school I liked girls a lot. I even had a crush on one. When I got to about 10 I had a girlfriend but liked guys. And it didn't feel right going out with this girl. When I got to high school I looked at guys so much I didn't even look at the girls...
    JackJoe1231 JackJoe1231 13-15, M 3 Responses Jul 16

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    My Coming Out Story...

    I came out this past summer to my immediate family in July, and then everyone else the first week of September. It took me 6 years to finally accept myself for who I was, and I felt like sharing it with you. I started noticing I found guys attractive in the locker rooms, my...
    jbar291 jbar291 18-21, M 6 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    18 Long Years

    I'm an eighteen year old gay boy who came out in April of 2012. My story is long because I have known that I was gay almost all my life but I will stick to the main points. My first experience was in second grade with another boy. I was confused for a long time until around fifth...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I knew I like the ladies at an early age.

    I hid it for 32 years. Through my catholic grade school years, public high school, and even through my college years. I wasn't questioned about it until my college years. I ended up dating men on and off then. Being gay wasn't as accepting as it is now. So, I hid it. I wound...
    TCL009 TCL009 41-45, F 6 Responses Mar 26

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