I Want to Hear Your Story, Military Girlfriends

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 1,378 People

    Officially married as of last Monday!

    ! So happy to live my life with this handsome man!
    MM32015 MM32015
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    It drives me crazy how some people on here

    don't take our military post seriously :/
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Oct 19, 2015

    I miss him so much!!!

    Only 15 more days till I get to see him again but the best news of all is him asking me to spend the holidays with him in New York City ❤️ Thinking about reuniting with my other half still gives me butterflies.
    iamfrita iamfrita
    22-25, F
    Oct 27, 2015
    MM32015 MM32015
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 31, 2015

    My boyfriend is in week 3 now

    and next week we get a phone call, also get one on thanksgiving! I'm hoping this month flies by, i had no idea how much id miss him!
    geekmaus geekmaus
    18-21, F
    Nov 2, 2015

    My boyfriend leaves for basic in 12 days

    and my mom just told me 2 days ago that she is moving three states away on Sunday. I just moved here in November to be closer to my man so I don't know very many people and I'm going to be all by myself. I have such bad anxiety and I cry pretty much everyday. I'm so lost and I...
    foreverhis14 foreverhis14
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 22, 2015

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    julieccaa11 julieccaa11
    26-30, F
    Dec 10, 2015

    My boyfriend just finished his basics in San

    Antonio Texas at Lackland AFB and I couldn't be more proud of him and his accomplishments. In the beginning It was definitely a hard time dealing with letters as are only form of communication but I made sure to encourage and express how much I love him all the way through...
    Diamondw22 Diamondw22
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 1, 2015

    My boyfriend and I have been dating

    for 6 months now. He is currently deployed in Kuwait and is coming home on January 16. We first had a good communication routine where he would message and skype with me everyday. Sometime around September he started doing it less. i mean he would still message me and skype but...
    eguerrette eguerrette
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 26, 2015

    I feel like I'm going to have a breakdown.

    Looks like I'll be spending this Valentine's Day/ weekend alone
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Feb 9

    The truth is I can't

    even sit here and call myself a military gilfriend, because I'd just be flattering myself. But I am hopelessly in love with one, and I have been for two years. Our story is like the ones the base movies off of. You know how you just know right away, the first second you spend in...
    bRiiii4 bRiiii4
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 25, 2015

    finally got my phone call.

    best 4 min I've had in the 6 weeks he's been in bootcamp
    MsEj2010 MsEj2010
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    Me and my fiance have been on good term

    for months now. I struggled at first with his deployment, but soon was able to get up and get on with my life.Things are great. He checks in every now and then when he's not busy. His four year service is finished next year, and we planned on moving in with one another. We are...
    LLDL LLDL
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Dec 25, 2015
    bRiiii4 bRiiii4
    22-25, F
    Nov 9, 2015

    Only 9 days left and I swear it's the hardest.

    I miss him so much. I'm feeling anxious, excited, nervous I'm everywhere lol just ready to see him.
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    I got to talk to my babe 2 days in a row.

    It has been such a blessing and a treat :) miss him soooooo much!
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2015

    Let it hit me finally

    that It is hard with him gone. cried on the phone but it was nice...i love how my man lifts me up when i am weak
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 5, 2015

    Hi all, I'm kindly requesting research

    participation from military wives and girlfriends about your experiences! It is my dissertation study, which focuses on the experiences spouses and girlfriends of military service members Unfortunately, the partners' perspective is often overlooked in research focused on better...
    pattycabrera pattycabrera
    31-35, F
    Mar 2

    It's so hard not having friends

    who understands being with a guy in the military. I feel like they don't get it. It would be nice to actually have friends who understand and know what it's like. Even my own family doesn't seem to understand or take it seriously. ????
    aslayton15 aslayton15
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    He comes home for Christmas break on Thursday!

    !!!! I don't think I'll be able to see him, but so many emotions. I have no idea what to expect. All I know is I regret not working on my "awesome body" I planned on achieving 😅. So excited to finally see his face or hear his voice.
    bRiiii4 bRiiii4
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 14, 2015

    when his friend writes on the side of the

    letter saying that my man thinks and talks about me all the time. that we got something special. made me so damn happy. 13 days till I see my love!
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 24, 2015

    Finally received a call from my soldier

    that he arrived at Fort Leonardwood safely! Sucks cause I was so caught off guard that I wasn't able to say much! 😕 I'm so bumbed about it that it makes me cry lol
    Chubby07 Chubby07
    22-25, F
    Jan 5

    My boyfriend leaves for basic training tomorrow

    to stay the night at a hotel. Tuesday he leaves for Texas. I never knew I could miss someone so much before and he hasn't even left yet.
    littlelynne littlelynne
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 31

    Venting a little bit.

    My BF made a decision before I met him that he was going to join the army. I was very supportive of this decision and helped him get things in order etc…. I think perhaps, I may have been in denial of what was actually happening or how disruptive this was going to be, because...
    DMSgirl DMSgirl
    41-45, F
    Nov 16, 2015

    So I was on the way to go see my man with my dad

    and were driving for about an hour and a half AND MY CAR BREAKS DOWN!! We had to get a tow and cancel our whole trip... I'm so disappointed!
    MM32015 MM32015
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    Anybody else's angel at TRACEN Cape May?

    My boy just left for boot camp... 7 weeks til he comes home! Feels like a long time! How long did it take for a letter to come?
    CoastieGF0918 CoastieGF0918
    16-17, F
    Jan 15

    Here's My Story

    so I met my boyfriend Alec when I was 17 and I was a senior in high school and so was he when we met I was in a relationship with somebody else but he was abusing drugs and Alec showed me what I could have. We've been through everything together I was heartbroken when I found out...
    christinaleeherrera christinaleeherrera
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 7, 2013

    New Marine corps girlfriend here.

    So im tryna adjust to this and learn information. Its a bittersweet feeling that my boyfriend gets stationed to Washington D.C after training. When im so use to him being so close. Im sad I wont be with him for his birthday or christmas. Im so jealous lol he gets to go to Vegas...
    Queennovacane Queennovacane
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 10, 2015

    Yayyyyyyyy!!! So excited just got the base

    passes! It's all becoming so real :) he's says he might be able to come home for Christmas!!!! That will be the best Christmas gift in the world. 26 days until I get to see my baby!
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 17, 2015

    Infuriated! His mother literally took a 180 on

    me! From saying she likes me and she's so happy I make her son happy and all this other crap. But now that she knows our relationship is getting more serious, she throws in my face our cultural and religious differences and that "my kind of people" aren't good enough for her...
    iamfrita iamfrita
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 7, 2015

    It's been a very long

    and winding journey that's for sure. It's been 11 months of nothing but worry, stress, and heartache. Distance definitely will make you or break you. I just wish these next 40 days would fly by. I'm just beyond ready for him to be home so we can either fix things and get our...
    Armywife2021 Armywife2021
    18-21, F
    Nov 21, 2015

    My boyfriend left to BMT yesterday

    and it's hard on me because we were together every single day, talked to each other every second and now we have to learn to be independent.. It's so weird for me to wake up and not get a text from him or hear from him at all. It's only day 1 and I can already see myself...
    Ashleymaria07 Ashleymaria07
    18-21, F
    3 Responses May 6, 2015

    https://www.facebook.

    com/groups/978517905517602/ Here's a link for our support group on Facebook totally private And our name for Instagram is "EPMILSOS"
    etrigo etrigo
    18-21, F
    Mar 23

    Oh my gosh the big day is tomorrow!

    I know it's not like he's being sent overseas but bootcamp is the first step. Goodness I hope I can get his address asap so I can write to him!
    MsEj2010 MsEj2010
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Sep 22, 2015

    Just recieved news that my Recruit will be

    coming back home earlier than expected!! Hope these next few days will fly by :)
    myohmymiranda myohmymiranda
    18-21
    Aug 7, 2015

    I can't believe in 3 days I will be on a plane

    to see the love of my life! Some days I literally didn't think I was gonna make it and now that it is here I'm glad I stayed strong! He told me his parents are letting me tap him out on the first day and I am just so honored. I am so excited and so happy to see him! To everyone...
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Nov 8, 2015

    I got a letter!!!! I'm

    so happy right now.
    bRiiii4 bRiiii4
    22-25, F
    Nov 21, 2015

    I'm 17 years old and my boyfriend

    and I have been together for 10 months now. He is in the National Guard and he left for basic training about 2 months ago now. He graduates in about 2 weeks and i can't wait until I get to see him at his graduation!
    militarygirlfriend0612 militarygirlfriend0612
    18-21, F
    Apr 3
    A1Csladiie A1Csladiie
    22-25, F
    1 Response Dec 31, 2015

    I'm really sad that I missed my boyfriends

    first call. Anyone know how many call they're allowed at Ft Leonardwood???
    Chubby07 Chubby07
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 12

    my boyfriend graduates bootcamp tomorrow!

    I wish I could go but we'll be seeing each other soon! so so soon! just wish it was even sooner
    MsEj2010 MsEj2010
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 19, 2015

    Is anyone's boyfriend in Ft.

    Leonardwood for BCT? My boyfriend left yesterday.
    Chubby07 Chubby07
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 6

    My Story :)

    First off, I just want to clarify that I'm a wife, no longer a girlfriend, but there really aren't as many support groups on here for wives as there are girlfriends so that's why I'm on here! Plus the experience, although different, has so many similarities. I met Mike in May of...
    RachelAndLoves RachelAndLoves
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Oct 13, 2012

    I think the military is finally starting to

    drive me crazy. I was so excited to spend valentines weekend with him bought my plane ticket and everything. Now he's saying that they are consolidating dorms and he doesn't know if he'll be able to leave for the weekend. I'm so bummed I don't know what to do :(
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Feb 8

    My boyfriend officially flew out to basic

    training. I honestly don't know how I feel anymore. I have no more tears to cry. I don't know if I feel sad. I just feel blank. Anyone have stories that will help me feel better.. My boyfriend and I have been dating 3 years. And this decision to join the military have been the...
    Chubby07 Chubby07
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Jan 5

    Really, really, really missing him right now.

    :( only 3.5 weeks left but it seems like the closer I get to graduation. The more I miss him. I really need one of his hugs. But I will still be strong for the both of us
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2015

    had a breakdown today.

    I felt like more than ever I needed to talk to my best friend and I couldn't
    shontiawhite96 shontiawhite96
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 30, 2015

    Just got back from the most amazing time seeing

    my BF at graduation he hasn't changed one bit but he is such a gentleman which is so adorable! These past 4 days have been so amazing and uplifting and my love for him has grown so much. But now that I'm back home I can't help but feel so much worst than I did when he left for...
    ErinChanel ErinChanel
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 16, 2015

    When my solider writes me

    and tells me that he loves me and that he thinks about me every min.
    mp2015 mp2015
    22-25, F
    Sep 25, 2015

    Dating your best friend is the best.

    thing. ever! And now he's enlisted into the U.S. Air Force and is leaving for boot camp Wednesday. We have literally seen each other almost every day for 3 years (I know, a little overboard haha). Things are going to change big time and he suggested I join the group for support...
    MsEj2010 MsEj2010
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 21, 2015

    Me and my boyfriend are about thre months into

    the long distance relationship while he is now in tech school. I am feeling extremely sad about him being gone more and more. It seems impossible to do this till i graduate college. (I just started this year) i feel alone and that everyone gets married and doesn't have to deal...
    poreoticz poreoticz
    18-21, F
    1 Response Nov 8, 2015

    well I am not a military girlfriend.

    but I am a Marine Soldiers Fiance. and he is only in basic training now. so he still has a whole 4 years. but I can say one thing lady's if you Love your soldier let them know how much! they need your support and Love more than anything. and if you aren't sure if you can...
    wondersofthelife wondersofthelife
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Mar 5, 2015

    My boyfriend left Tuesday

    for basic training in fort Benning. I miss him so much and it's so hard to not just lay around crying all day.
    corkey101 corkey101
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jul 2, 2015

    My boyfriend is going off to bootcamp next

    summer. He wants me to follow him and I will but I want to do my own plans like go to college .... I hope to hear from other's !
    BringTheBizzle BringTheBizzle
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Apr 13
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