I Want to Help Lonely People

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 262 People

    Recurrent Loneliness

    I experience intense loneliness frequently. Though I do try to make friends, most people seem indifferent or too busy,and my physical limitations (chronic fatigue syndrome) put a crimp in my activities. I also have a powerful tendency to try to make up to people who are...
    2006hazelmurray 2006hazelmurray
    61-65
    1 Response Apr 26, 2010

    We're Waiting To Hear From You

     Are you heartbroken? Lonely? Have you ever lost or been hurt by someone that you loved deeply? Have you stopped loving life? Is there someone you’re aching for? Did they leave you, pass away, disappear, do something horrible to you, change from what you thought they...
    heretohearyou heretohearyou
    26-30
    Apr 6, 2010

    I find the number I people on ep

    who say they are lonely very striking. It's too bad we can't always see it in each other.
    kaydiva kaydiva
    26-30, F
    Mar 26, 2014

    Not Alot Aparently.

    What is wrong with the picture anyway, so many people are "lonely" but you have to put in so much effort to get a reply from someone, maybe if we started to realize that we had to get our ***** out of the slack and start reaching out to other people, we wont be in such a...
    Gaspar1111 Gaspar1111
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jun 4, 2010

    It's Been Happening Whether I Realized It Or Not

    I found Ep by accident after a bad day at work. "Work" as a concept is a continual struggle for me. I'm lazy, is the simplest way to explain it. When I was younger I was convinced I could get people to pay me to write my asinine thoughts down and pass it off as art. Once I got to...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Jan 13, 2012

    I Know How You Feel.

    I know what it feels like to wake up and feel like there is nothing out there in the world waiting for you. I know what its like to feel isolated from everyone because of the feelings you keep on the inside. I know how it feels to see the things you want right in front of you and...
    ran20 ran20
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Nov 17, 2013

    I Try My Best

    its hard sometimes and i drains the **** out of me but i know all to well what its like to be lonely
    wotaloser wotaloser
    36-40, M
    Sep 3, 2011

    Lonely And Need Advice

    HI, I am a 53 year old female. I was divorced 4 years ago. I left my husband and grown children for another man. He was a creep, and it never worked out between us. When I was married 27 years ago, I knew then it was a mistake...but no one else came along and I settled. We...
    samo6687 samo6687
    51-55
    3 Responses Aug 13, 2011

    hate this feeling

    i often feel this loneliness and depression since my bestfriend betrayed me.. i'm trying to see other things that can make me smile, and it works   but when i'm alone, i can feel it again..   i have observed that when i know people feeling this way too, my...
    MeglioBlue MeglioBlue
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Apr 26, 2010

    Lonely

    I just wanna say im sorry for those who are lonely out there. I realise u got it worse and that your probably suffering. I thought about it lastnight and i realised im not that lonely, im not crying every night because of a lost one, or im not hurting myself in every...
    genesisgurl genesisgurl
    16-17, F
    7 Responses Nov 10, 2007

    Even The Most Happy Person Is Lonely Too

    There are lots of people we see everyday. We see them smiling, laughing and in the state of being happy. And so we think that they don't carry problems in life. But the thing we don't know is the face behind the mask that they are carrying. Some lonely people intends to make a...
    loganick loganick
    18-21, M
    1 Response Apr 30, 2012

    I've Been Through Crap

    So I've been through some real awful times over the last couple of years. I was with my ex for four years that I lived with and loved that all went to crap I hadn't spoken to my parents for going on three years and I ended up finding myself bk on there doorstep. It's a long story...
    Braderzzz Braderzzz
    18-21, M
    1 Response Oct 14, 2012

    I Have Never Fitted In ...

    I guess I'm just feeling down and maybe writing this will help me get a few thins off my chest ..weather anyone reads it or not !ok here goesIam a  50 year old single dad to a 7 year old ( he lives with me) he is my sole reason for living, I split form his mother 4 years agoand...
    marty81 marty81
    46-50
    2 Responses Aug 10, 2011

    I'd Like To Help Lonely People

    I'd like to help lonely people but don't know how.  I'm somewhat lonely myself.
    aquarius3 aquarius3
    66-70
    1 Response Jan 22, 2012

    We Often Lack What We Do Not Give

    God has called us to relational love... for people to see that He lives they need to see Him living in us. not coming out of our mouths out side of any life context.   can i suggest that we all look to find the broken, the fatherless and the widow.   not to proclaim...
    jcchild jcchild
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 3, 2010

    The Strange Feeling Of Loneliness

    "Please come in, it is so nice to see you. Let me get you something to drink and meet a very special friend. I'm sure you will love them and have so much in common with. It is so nice to see you again. I hope you can come back to see us". This is the language our society...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 5, 2011

    Related Experiences

    I will not miss EP. I can see why this app is closing now, it's become pathetic. It's filled with spam and crap. The people on this forum are so flakey, and the good are far and...
    glassvision glassvision
    18-21, M
    Apr 21
    EP will be Closing at 4pm tomorrow and i just really want to at least try to keep in contact with people that have similar interest or feel the same way i feel I'm so lonely and...
    spiritualvirgo82 spiritualvirgo82
    31-35, F
    Apr 20
    ATTENTION! I am creating a new social network for people like us! The beta will be released on May 1st! If you are tired of being lonely and having no one to relate then I suggest...
    qari1722 qari1722
    22-25, M
    Apr 20
    I joined EP three years ago because I was lonely and looking for someone to connect with. I met some great people but sadly no connection ever lasted. I'm upset that EP is shutting...
    chasingMonday chasingMonday
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 20
    Due to having a physical defect I spend most of my days in my room in my parent's apartment and the only things I feel like doing to keep my mind occupied are my computer games and...
    GinourmousHead GinourmousHead
    36-40, M
    2 Responses Apr 20
    Be written something similar to this. I've had a lot of intentions on this site. Some bad, but one thing I've always done is committing to inspiring and helping people. I'm lazy...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    8 Responses Apr 19
    Anyone near Seattle, WA? Preferably ladies. I've always found it easier for me to befriend women.
    Davglovjr Davglovjr
    26-30, M
    Apr 19
    So for the past almost five years of marriage it has basically been like living with a roommate. My husband treats me like a maid and nanny and I am so sick of it. Last night he...
    SusanAlexander SusanAlexander
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 19
    Only child more like lonely child... I would do ANYTHING for a twin sister or an older brother.. or any sibling for that matter. All my life i've felt like theres something missing...
    ccass14 ccass14
    70+, T
    Apr 18
    ok, I never thought of posting this but since ep is closing I thought it would help It was two years ago that this happened, but it started much before that, a friend of mine. in...
    guiltyofinnocence guiltyofinnocence
    18-21, T
    2 Responses Apr 18
    Its time to go .I came here sad and lonely looking for answers, some were answered and some were left with more questions. I met some great people, some wacky ones too but always...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Apr 18
    Any takers? Even if we are not trading, I would like to send some.
    boredintexas00 boredintexas00
    26-30, M
    Apr 17
    Oregon anyone? Portland area
    wasup1955 wasup1955
    22-25, M
    1 Response Apr 17
    Poss my last story :P i do.. i dont get it.. for me it has to be real tastes, real touches, real sensations.. and i dont get why people would settle for less...i suppose for me...
    Adaydreambeliever Adaydreambeliever
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Apr 17
    Keeping busy and sleeping helps me break the habit of reaching out to people who don't care when I get lonely.
    Hipstercatlover Hipstercatlover
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 16
    I want friends. I don't want a lot. Just a few. Two or three really good friends who aren't the extremely outgoing type that randomly shout stuff in a crowded room to remind people...
    Nineismyname Nineismyname
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 16
    I've saved my goodbye for this last weekend of EP (maybe I was hoping it really wasn't going to end) An online friend of mine (no longer on EP) brought me to this site many years...
    Mik02 Mik02
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Apr 16
    I just wanted to thank EP and everyone on this site! After moving a couple of thousand miles to take care of my 90 y.o. parents who were in bad health( who have since passed away...
    Golondrinas Golondrinas
    56-60, M
    Apr 14
    you know i just wanna write something how i feeltoo bad i am not that rich otherwise i wanna createan organization that would make the dreams come trueof the people battling HIV...
    bimvim bimvim
    18-21, M
    Apr 14
    We have become very familiar with EP. Whether aware or not, we have accepted it as a home/a playground, a scape from our realities. It became a refuge and a dumpster for things we...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Apr 14
    There are days when sitting in the same room is lonely . I love my husband with all my heart and soul . when we met the chase his perspective on life dreams ambition morals where...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    6 Responses Apr 14
    People say don't be so hard on yourself.. True. But at this point, I'd rather just share than to keep it in but I won't be direct. I'm not crazy I don't think I am, but my actions...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    8 Responses Apr 13
    So I see people are trying to post more experiences and let more things off their chest and telling their stories before EP closes. So I decided, hey, I might as well join the...
    jaeger053 jaeger053
    16-17
    Apr 12
    This world is so stupidly loud. I just want to tell people to be quiet. We aren't always on the phone. Why do people feel the need to fill the silence? I miss Coraopolis. If I...
    justapittsburghgirl justapittsburghgirl
    26-30, F
    Apr 12
    I guess I'm single because I'm at a point in my life where I prefer something genuine. I don't want to settle and just be with anyone. I here that people say they're shocked I'm...
    gorjus1 gorjus1
    31-35, F
    Apr 12
    I want to be able to say I'm not lonely just because I'm alone, but it wouldn't be true. I am lonely. I have not one friend and the three I thought I had stopped talking to me it...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Apr 12
    The silence of the night is breathlessI feel lost and alonelike floating at the bottom of the seaA lost and lonelyforgotten meThe sky shinesfireflies looking downon a lonely and...
    nocool nocool
    41-45, M
    1 Response Apr 11
    I feel lonely. .very lonely. .I have absolutely no one to talk to..u know I am so desperate to talk to someone. .I want to cry so much. .I'm not liking anything around me..I need a...
    BrokenSB BrokenSB
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 11
    10 days from now EP will be closing (I don't know if this is the right term to use though). No words can express how thankful I am to EP. EP helped me a lot! I've met several...
    BittersweetRose BittersweetRose
    16-17, F
    1 Response Apr 11
    I don't know why I'm writing this. EP's closing in a few days, so there's really no point. I just feel really lonely and this is one of my few outlets. :( I don't know why I'm...
    Timster91 Timster91
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Apr 10
    Highly doubt I'll find it here. I've actually been on craigslist! Had a few opportunities, but they all fell through. Would love to have! a tickle encounter! I'm really not a' ler...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Apr 10
    I'm empty, numb, aching. Lonely not a soul to talk too. I have no motivation to do anything. The past constantly replays in my head. Its so easy to let my emotions run, loose...
    pre125 pre125
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Apr 10
    Me: *poking my sisters face at 3AM* Sister: *sits up confused* Me: Hi! Sister: Ugh. What do YOU want? Me: Rude much? Anyway, I just wanted to wake you up to say Merry...
    EridianaAndErin EridianaAndErin
    13-15, F
    3 Responses Apr 10
    If you ever need someone to listen, if you ever need a friend, or if you just want to talk to someone, im here for you just message me or comment
    GEOPHYSICISTMAN GEOPHYSICISTMAN
    16-17, M
    Apr 9
    Before I found EP, Lonely was just part of the day. It became the norm after ten years of my wife not having any physical touching due to her heart meds. My days were made up of...
    boldtimer boldtimer
    66-70, M
    Apr 9
    Message me please I'm super wet
    dianadiana69 dianadiana69
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 9
    Well being depressed and lonely can make someone to hang on The people that I do have close to me I don't need them in my life. My mom and my husband has got to go. Basically...
    toniyl toniyl
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 9
    Another weekend of hell is upon me and I honestly don't think I can take one more day. It is now 630am and I got 2 hours of sleep last night. I was rudely awoke at 330am because my...
    princesskitu princesskitu
    51-55, F
    Apr 9
    There's no one close enough I could go to and everyone I talk to id rather just avoid them.. Music won't help except make my mood even worse. Ironic. Funny. Sad.... Really sad...
    LeahLovee LeahLovee
    70+, F
    11 Responses Apr 8
    Everything gets better. I wanted to put an experience out there as my life has changed indeed in the last couple of years. A few years back I posted an experience about how lonely...
    BunnyObsession BunnyObsession
    22-25, F
    Apr 8
    So many times I feel unloved and pushed away, when I try to help. Loving someone with a Border Line Personality Disorder is heartbreaking the at times, and can be very lonely.
    InterestedMe123 InterestedMe123
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Apr 8
    I should say I am selfish when it comes to helping less fortunate ,i guess you dont understand what I mean. from the age of 8 I started helping less fortunate by providing food...
    maverika maverika
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 8
    I know things on EP are coming to a close but I thought I would share my testimony. I want to start by saying "life is short, too short to be unhappy". A lot of you where were I...
    AmazingPoet AmazingPoet
    41-45, M
    2 Responses Apr 7
    I would like to feel a kind of pure empathy, without any expectations, prejudices, stereotypes, etc. Just to feel their emotion in a pure an unadulterated form. I would like to see...
    astro00 astro00
    22-25, M
    Apr 7
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