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I Want to Help People Realize That They Control "Reality"

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    The Cycle Of Perception And Reality

    Our self-perception defines our "self" just as much as our "self" defines our self-perception.  Everything we say and think about ourselves influences how we see ourselves by strengthening neural connections in our brains (if I say "I'm boring", then the neural connection...
    MovingForward28 MovingForward28 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 23, 2010

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    The Secret

    I started by reading The Secret. I've been practicing for a few months now and My Life has changed. More and More research I do, affirmation video's, and articles I read just lead me closer to the answer and the solution. WE DO control reality. The more tools I look for online...
    livinglife4fun livinglife4fun 26-30 Jan 1, 2011

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    That's Very True.

    Despite the things we cannot control, actually most of our life, we control our reality. What does that mean, it sounds so simple and implausible doesnt it? But its true, even your attitude and personality and assumptions. Negative ones color your actions, for example: ...
    littlepurrr littlepurrr 31-35, F 16 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    Admit The Reality Of Life And You Will Control It

    Its the second nature of human to refuse to admit the reality of their life and lost control.Face reality in the face so as to accept the facts and be in control.Then they will move forward and progress in everything they pursue and eventually success..
    unshakable unshakable 61-65, F Sep 11, 2010

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    All I basically want to do in life is just travel, travel like a homeless guy. Just carrying a small backpack with a knife, my passport, and some water. And Im gonna be those...
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    Today I realized how much I enjoy helping people and how there are so many people out there who don't want to help people. I'm struggling with my chemistry class and I asked...
    thisisausernametoo thisisausernametoo 18-21 Jul 26

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    hey all ! ... this is important and big. can i have a small time of yours, just little.. few minutes.. i sign up here around a year back to share my story with people and i did. i...
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    No one should have to change for anybody - the expectation in itself is a severe stressor in a person's life (ie. the one with the expectation). Like many other women before me I...
    Polly73 Polly73 41-45, F 5 Responses Aug 10

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    I like helping people to be the best they can be. I like seeing others improve themselves and continue on, even if the road ahead isn't guaranteed. It only saddens me when people...
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    Well I enjoy helping people but nobody wants me to help them because when I do I'm to honest and they take things I say the wrong way. I feel lying to somebody to try to make them...
    poodleskirts poodleskirts 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 25

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    I guess I've been lucky my whole life... As for having what I need. I've got a place to live, a good paying job, two vehicles ( even though my truck is possessed) and food for the...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 26

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    I want to be able to help and talk to people. I want to reach out to people who have been in the same depression and who are even more severely depressed because I want them to...
    cmdoran cmdoran 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I love helping people. It doesn't matter if it's on EP or in real life. I have buckets full of empathy. It's probably why I enjoy working with kids with special needs. They need...
    Skywalker1979 Skywalker1979 31-35, M Aug 8

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    Hiya! I want to help people. I have been through a lot in the 19 years I have been alive and I want to advise people and help people through their problems. I do not discriminate...
    TheUnpredictable9 TheUnpredictable9 18-21, F Jul 26

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    Divy Amin is a professional and certified fitness trainer who is based in California. With over 10 years of experience in the fitness industry, he has trained many athletes, sports...
    divy11 divy11 26-30, M Aug 6

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    How do you help a herion addict, when they don't want help? Just watch them slowly kill them-self? My brother, my only brother chooses this lifestyle . He's such a good person and...
    aloneinvegas aloneinvegas 36-40, F 3 Responses Aug 8

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    http://ask.fm/WeStitchYourWoundsso i made this... and i want to help people ..give advice and such...Ive always wanted to help people so here is how i want to help.
    Crow123123 Crow123123 16-17 1 Response a week ago

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    I really love helping people in many ways. In fact, I just donated 1 bag of blood a while ago. I thought I wouldn't be able to do that yet because I'm just 17, but I felt really...
    MyGosh MyGosh 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 26

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    I want to help people who are cyberbulled, it shouldnt happen theres so many people who are afraid to speak up and if it get to bad ends in suiside, if you are cyberbulied don be...
    nevermentioned nevermentioned 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 26

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    I like people for who they are, and if we have differing opinions that's fine, I am a very open and understanding person, ready to help people with problems or thoughts they may...
    Tilou420 Tilou420 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want to be a Counselling Psychologist when I'm older. I love helping people and I'm the kind of person who would stay up all night just to put someone in a better mood
    littlefighter littlefighter 13-15, F 5 Responses Jul 28

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    I always feel happy when helping people I used to be self centered but now I am open minded. The world is awesome and there are many people who need help. I wish everyone can be...
    o0oJerryo0o o0oJerryo0o 16-17, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Helping people has always been a passion of mine. My goal in life is to be a Neurologist because my mom almost died in 2008 from a blood clot in the brain and her Neurologist...
    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    Looking to help people lose weight and feel better about themselves. Message me for details.
    ZealGirl ZealGirl 18-21, F Jul 29

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    “It's being here now that's important. There's no past and there's no future. Time is a very misleading thing. All there is ever, is the now. We can gain experience from the past...
    kingbs kingbs 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Hey everyone. I want to just put this message out there. Many of us, including myself, have been helped by this site and some of the wonderful people who are a part of it. But...
    cyndercrys cyndercrys 18-21, F Jul 26

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    It's a weird feeling to feel obligated to help someone. I don't know why I feel that way but I do. It's not as simple as saying I see someone and want to help them. No it's a...
    secretlyfelix secretlyfelix 18-21 Jul 31

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    The question on how to help others always bothered me. I don't have much myself and for that reason giving money away just isn't doable for me. A few months ago our church asked...
    AnomalousEarthling AnomalousEarthling 22-25, F 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    I've often been called a person with a huge heart. Many consider me a very happy person that laughs a lot and like to make other people feel better, even if I have to make a fool...
    PleaseFindMe PleaseFindMe 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I always seem to care more of the people around me rather than myself... is it good or bad?
    Potchii Potchii 22-25, M 3 Responses 15 hrs ago

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    I find no use in meeting people as very few turn out to be helpful, they just pretend to be friends but apparently they are not.I do know that I am in secured in terms of trust but...
    darkheart93 darkheart93 18-21, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I was depressed for a long time. Then it became on and off. I will talk others about they're problems and be there no matter how late it is, if you feel like you commit suicide, if...
    sashakimi4 sashakimi4 13-15, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Definitely depressed than most people around me would realize. But I am used to it now & as long as people around me are happy I feel content. I feel it's a phase and this shall...
    uselessguy uselessguy 36-40, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I need a co-writer for a realistic drama novel about a woman in prison. Please help me.
    Blipsycat Blipsycat 16-17, M Aug 6

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    The scariest thing is that I've gotten soooo damn good and pretending that some days I don't even realize just how sad I am. I had to force myself to smile because I was sick of...
    JnyJny JnyJny 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I accepted you for who you are. Even though I knew what you did and what you were doing. A mutual friend would tell me how you were and what you done. But I didn't care. I knew you...
    2luvjocy 2luvjocy 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 22

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    I want to get out of my depression. Already decided to try to et out of it, but I know I will need help from others. I have always had ups and downs but could never see anything in...
    RedUnderground RedUnderground 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 12

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    What a ******* day. My birthday. All alone. You want to know what I did today? I watched movies. That's pretty much it, just watched movies. The only happiness I had today...
    thedude5600 thedude5600 36-40, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I go on a site called TSP, its basically a chat room to help suicidal people and to change their minds about life. I read a post about a 12 year old named Avery. If you can, please...
    NinnysHeart NinnysHeart 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 28

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    I've been through 5 suicides, one including my father. I've lost everyone close to me in the past 2 years, and 5 months ago I was diagnosed with a heart disease. But know what? I...
    proana94 proana94 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 31

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    I truly want to make a difference in people's lives I want to help them to better themselves and see people full of happiness
    peaceluvhappiness peaceluvhappiness 31-35, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    There are so many things that I and others have been to that we can share that will improve the lives of others. Some of the memories are very painful but as long as they would not...
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    And everyone thinks I'm a happy kid. They were quite surprised that my physiological test resulted in high levels of depression, stress and anxiety which is true because I answered...
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    Everyone wants inspiration but none wants to give it. But on ep I've found many people who are ready to help and I'm stunned. So anyone who needs any type of advice, you can...
    Beautyrev Beautyrev 13-15, F Jul 27

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    Everyone will look the same tomorrow. Like they did at every wake before. My brother will jell his hair into a combed door stop; dad will wear black shoes, mom will shower in...
    youmemeyou youmemeyou 18-21, F Jul 28

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    I want to find people who have the will to do good. People who can fight or are willing to learn how to fight. And I want to meet all of these people and do something inspiring...
    CheeseBomb500 CheeseBomb500 13-15, M Jul 31

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    I wish there's more I could do for those on EP. All I can do is talk, try to keep their head up, though I want nothing more than to hug them. I try to let them know that I'm here...
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