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I Want to Help People Realize That They Control "Reality"

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    Admit The Reality Of Life And You Will Control It

    Its the second nature of human to refuse to admit the reality of their life and lost control.Face reality in the face so as to accept the facts and be in control.Then they will move forward and progress in everything they pursue and eventually success..
    unshakable unshakable 61-65, F Sep 11, 2010

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    That's Very True.

    Despite the things we cannot control, actually most of our life, we control our reality. What does that mean, it sounds so simple and implausible doesnt it? But its true, even your attitude and personality and assumptions. Negative ones color your actions, for example: ...
    littlepurrr littlepurrr 31-35, F 16 Responses Apr 19, 2010

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    The Cycle Of Perception And Reality

    Our self-perception defines our "self" just as much as our "self" defines our self-perception.  Everything we say and think about ourselves influences how we see ourselves by strengthening neural connections in our brains (if I say "I'm boring", then the neural connection...
    MovingForward28 MovingForward28 26-30, M 2 Responses Apr 23, 2010

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    The Secret

    I started by reading The Secret. I've been practicing for a few months now and My Life has changed. More and More research I do, affirmation video's, and articles I read just lead me closer to the answer and the solution. WE DO control reality. The more tools I look for online...
    livinglife4fun livinglife4fun 26-30 Jan 1, 2011

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    I want to help everyone and make everyone happy... So I just get so dang depressed when I realize that's not possible and I just can't save everyone no matter how hard I want to or...
    TundraIvy TundraIvy 16-17, F Apr 29

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    Everyone is good at something and for me that was talking to and helping people. Many of my friends wouldn't agree and I don't know whether it's because of my personality or if...
    StrikerXVE StrikerXVE 13-15, M 3 days ago

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    I love helping people. It happened when I first went through a melt down.. I needed help and I couldn't be totally open with anyone but myself. I told my close friends but that was...
    Vanessyi Vanessyi 18-21, F May 14

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    I love helping people out but the thing that sucks is that I give and give to certain people so much more than I should but when I need something they can't lift a finger
    ninaarriola ninaarriola 18-21, F 4 Responses 1 day ago

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    I always did and I still do. Everyone is there own person everyone has there own problems. You never know who's actually hurting on the inside or who's actually holding back a...
    lovebugg11 lovebugg11 18-21, F 2 Responses 4 days ago

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    it makes me feel good about myself when I help people
    PacirickMoon PacirickMoon 13-15, F May 1

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    i do but people then keep looking at me to do it I'm sick in that respect. like my wife grandma and granfather as well her dad as well her mum I'm the one to take them.her father...
    cicek cicek 46-50, M 20 hrs ago

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    There are times when I can be very very strong but then there are very specific things that can break me away very easily and just wear me down. Like if I am deeply invested in...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M May 1

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    Depression is a place, I never thought i'd be. But i'm tied down by its chains and i can't break free. In this prison I'm left chained and bound I try to scream but i can't make a...
    Lyxdesicgal Lyxdesicgal 22-25, F 1 Response May 6

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    "In a world so hateful, some would rather die than be who they are." It's amazing how true this quote can be sometimes. We live in a world where society cares so much about how...
    RedHwaiting RedHwaiting 18-21, F 3 Responses May 2

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    People always say not to self harm, as if it's that easy, and it makes me think that they simply can't understand what they're saying when they say that. They couldn't possibly...
    fragilegirl6 fragilegirl6 13-15, F 1 Response May 14

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    I come across so many people dealing with suicidal thoughts, self-harm, depression, loneliness, loss... just people going through a hard time and are at their wit's end, pouring...
    astateofdisarray astateofdisarray 18-21, F 1 Response May 12

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    I have always had gay people in my life. When somebody feels the need to tell me "he's gay", I am like so? What difference does that make.
    HarryOsbourne HarryOsbourne 56-60, M 1 hr ago

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    THIS IS MY STORY OF SELF CURED BPD Firstly, not long ago, I wouldn't believe that statement either! And honestly, i may be wrong, or I may never have been BPD. I may be right, but...
    Iamacontradiction Iamacontradiction 36-40, M 5 days ago

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    I got the opportunity to help out homeless people today. My church participates in a program called Christnet, where churches from various places take a week to host a group of...
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I use to be sad, angry, uptight, but then I realized that toxic people where pulling me down. I can love them from a distance. My job is to save the world one person at a time, and...
    thastonechick thastonechick 36-40, F 1 Response May 7

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    the programmed girl ... those girlfriends who always judge and never use their senses when they accuse someone or when they break up without reasons .. dear girl you are not living...
    Volareman Volareman 26-30, M 1 Response May 19

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    I don't get it, my whole life a struggle with being over weight and unhealthy. but I have a eating disorder that i can't control
    lupealcala lupealcala 56-60, F 1 day ago

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    I am not be a hero. I am not as helpful as I should be. I am sorry if I fail to help you. If you ever think you aren't worth anything please talk to me. I will try my best to help...
    Untrustworthy117 Untrustworthy117 16-17, M 2 Responses May 14

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    Whenever i see a "lost soul" on EP and they're in need of some help and caring words, i must be the only person that writes a long and detailed response. It can take up to about 12...
    WitchOfWoodStock WitchOfWoodStock 31-35, M 1 Response May 14

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    I really do. I really don't mind listening, especially if I know it's helping someone to move in a positive direction (This does not extend to helping other people fulfill their...
    laracomn laracomn 18-21, F May 17

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    Please, if you ask for help, do not call me stupid when I try to help you using personal experience. I've actually tried what I say to try in real life, and it's helped me turn my...
    Ellytheoutcast Ellytheoutcast 13-15, F 1 Response May 17

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    This is how I helped a stranger. About 3 months ago (before I was aware of EP) I was walking home after a few drinks. I saw a young lady sitting on the pavement (sidewalk) I...
    MaybeAGentleman MaybeAGentleman 41-45, M May 21

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    Hi I am with a company in the US for all natural products that help various medical conditions one of the lines being for weight loss. We have over 30 yrs of research behind our...
    carolgem carolgem 46-50, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    please help. www.gofundme.com/helpjbsurvive
    jadegreeneyes7 jadegreeneyes7 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    Doesnt it feel awesome when you give an advice to someone, or u just helped them emotionally and it feels great that you were able to help?
    lesley2456 lesley2456 18-21, F 3 Responses May 3

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    I love helping others when I can. I financially support six different organizations. Two are supporting our military veteran's programs, two are different hospitals, and two are...
    oldermaturewife oldermaturewife 46-50, F May 5

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    Being a jerk to people never helps lol I mean sometimes I do it to but you know it happens
    CrystalMuffins CrystalMuffins 13-15, F May 10

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    I was helped as I set out to help a dear friend it was beautiful
    notyadyelrud notyadyelrud 66-70, M May 18

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    We are all unique people . We all have our stories to tell that has had made us who we are today. Who I am I to judge you. I choose to see the good in everyone it doesn't matter...
    KindridSoul KindridSoul 36-40, F 14 Responses May 20

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    ain my lfe from the beginning i get hurts loses and things with full trouble effects , But now i wanna go to live like a travellers and want to understand that the life is a way to...
    Desier Desier 16-17, M 2 Responses May 21

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    Not only do I get such joy from helping another to feel theirs. But, I would very much like to share this 1 moment of mine right now. Simply to right my most sincere thank you...
    magnum64 magnum64 46-50, M a week ago

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    Why do people make fun of over-weight people yet don't make fun of underweight people? Both are unhealthy and disorders that stem from the same place in the mind. Why make fun of...
    Psych102 Psych102 26-30, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    please help. www.gofundme.com/helpjbsurvive
    jadegreeneyes7 jadegreeneyes7 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    If you're tired of perv's private messaging you? go on the 'i like older men' ep and block the guys who creepily respond to people with sexual talk on the everyday posts (which...
    thegirlinred thegirlinred 18-21, F May 4

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    I don't judge people at all. I know I'm different and i don't want people judging me.
    Ang012685 Ang012685 26-30, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    My husband and I I just started an Indiegogo campaign to help raise funds for her IVF medications. What are the recommended avenues for getting the word out? The campaign is here...
    EMAA123 EMAA123 31-35, F 4 days ago

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