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I Want To Hug You To Nullify Both Of Our Pain

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    Can You Give Away Something You Don't Possess?

    If two people in pain hug each other how can they share anything but pain?  One must possess happiness before it is possible to share it with another.
    dorobo dorobo 70+, M 3 Responses Jun 12, 2012

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    When I Hug You...

    Whether it be in person or by way of a gesture I am letting you know that I appreciate a certain closeness to you... : )
    HappinessExhausted HappinessExhausted 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13, 2010

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    A Hug

    The feeling of your skin as it touches mine and reminds me that my home is the moment when we embrace. A mixture of our love perfectly balanced. To experience what cannot be seen or put into words..
    HappinessExhausted HappinessExhausted 41-45, F May 23, 2010

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    Yes, I Miss You

    The truth is that I miss you. seeing you and talking to you and just having you in my life. There is no shame in admitting this. It is not a weakness to let you know that I do. Knowing the pain I feel without you is a direct relation to how much you mean to me. Of course being...
    HappinessExhausted HappinessExhausted 41-45, F Sep 26, 2010

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    Distance Prevention

    I get this feeling every time I talk to this old, but new guy in my life. He definately needs one of my magic hugs but I can't give him one because he's too far away! Soon I will be able to fulfil these needs for the both of us though, because I am going to meet him for the first...
    Vikz4913 Vikz4913 22-25, F 1 Response May 26, 2010

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    Sylphy Sylphy 41-45, F Aug 5, 2012

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    Mutual Alleviation Is My Goal

    I have battled depression for 5 years. Loneliness is one of the root causes of it. I may be a guy, but I have always connected well to girls. Even in Elementary school, I was friends with more girls than boys and it never bothered me. I read so many of the stories on here of...
    gmckdude711 gmckdude711 22-25, M Jun 23, 2012

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    Hugs For Unhappy Mugs

    It is amazing to me how much a HUG will help. You can be in the worst type of pain and "BAMM" out of nowhere a HUG! such a simple thing really, just a few things required for a guaranteed reward. To start..two bodies..four arms..a willingness to be hugged and a desire to hug in...
    tmmarion tmmarion 41-45, F 3 Responses Jun 17, 2011

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    A Bout Me

    I never had this kind of experience that what i need experience
    jkmungno jkmungno 18-21, M Nov 16, 2011

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    Hug

    Without a spoken word arms reach out to encircle you, pull you tight,offer a pat on the back or a gentle touch to the back of your neck.It last as long as is needed.Embraced, feeling comfort and love.Your muscles start to relax and the shaking passes as the hurt and pain disolve...
    mailmanshadow mailmanshadow 51-55, M 9 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    Last Night I Felt Real Arms Around Me...

    Hold me close, I'll keep you warm. I never, ever want you to cry out in pain again. As we live, breathe and love...we are healed in each others embrace. Hush, don't speak...just hug me, my love. Nothing can hurt you now.
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 14 Responses May 24, 2010

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    It's Complicated

    I actually have a question. I saw a similar one on this site, so it's kinda nice to know im not the only one... I've been separated for over a year and a half, and have two great kids. I have my children with me four days a week,have a decent job, as well as my own small business...
    HalloweenRaccoon HalloweenRaccoon 36-40, F 1 Response Oct 17, 2012

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    Can It Be Forever?

    Or just till I fall asleep.... I need it!
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 28, 2010

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    phillyboy5555 phillyboy5555 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 8

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    I miss you... I miss you! I'm sad about my dad. I'm sad. I'm sad that our love was fleeting... I thought you were the man for me. I thought you had come to me in my life when I...
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    I would love to have a younger girlfriend on here message me girls who want to talk
    marriedunhappy marriedunhappy 41-45, M Jul 9

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    Would love to talk with a younger girl between 18-30. :)
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 3 days ago

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    I grew-up in west Hollywood, ca.... I started bouncin'.. at 18 yrs. old'.... I had a real ID'..... I loved it, I did it 4'.... 25 yrs.'..... I got 2' hang out w/hott' "rock star's...
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    Yes maybe one day would be nice
    Daddylicksyou Daddylicksyou 61-65, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    We were twelve. I have dressed and been at peace with being a girl in a boy's body all my life. I got a huge crush on Josh, the cutest boy on earth, but he didn't know (as most...
    bookreader2000 bookreader2000 13-15, T 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    i wonder what it feels like to be with a guy who admires you for who you are..who looks at you from across the room and all he wants to do is pick u up and hug you.. i want to hold...
    Myah29 Myah29 26-30, F 1 hr ago

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    10 Types of Hugs There are so many different ways that you can hug a person. Obviously, each type of hug is going to have a little different meaning to it, and that is particularly...
    etd0718 etd0718 26-30, F Jul 8

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    When I was a kid I always wanted a family like the ones that I would watch on the television. My mother had 2 jobs during the time. My father well let's say........ Poppa was a...
    natashaxxs natashaxxs 31-35, F Jul 17

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    1: What would you name your future daughter?Amaterasu (not really). I have no idea.2: Do you miss anyone?Yeah.3: What if I told you that you were pretty?Thanks?4: Ever been told...
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21 Jul 1

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    I have been married to my husband for over 18 years (together for 20). We have a 22yr old son (his by birth, mine by adoption) and a younger teen daughter. Our son was initially...
    Alex1sJam4s Alex1sJam4s 41-45, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    It's not really the hugs or smiles that have the power... After all...a person can hug you and give you a smile and not care about you at all. Or they may even try to pretend to...
    Sarahbellas Sarahbellas 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 30

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    What not to do if you want to become a Youtuber I first want to explain why I'm writing this. Over the last few months I've been making my own content and I've also been around on...
    JudeLeDude JudeLeDude 22-25, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am still in love with you. I still see you, everyday. Walking past me like nothing happened. No emotion, just nothing... It all started when we first got together it was the...
    ConfusedBritishGirl ConfusedBritishGirl 18-21, F Jul 11

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    [Note: This piece of writing was written during a process of understanding. I did not understand the subject and then write, I wrote and came to understand while writing.] What...
    PurpleGlassPalace PurpleGlassPalace 26-30 1 Response Jul 22

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    1: What would you name your future daughter? Ariella 2: Do you miss anyone? Yeah, I miss my grandpa like hell. 3: What if I told you that you were pretty? Oh thanks ^-^ 4: Ever...
    superkitty17 superkitty17 31-35, F 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Norman, i just want to write you a letter today. i think of our old school days together so much fun en sweet thoughts. i hope that you are ok , i know you have a child and are...
    natashatjie natashatjie 26-30, F Jul 17

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    Paul18nj Paul18nj 31-35, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    It's been so long...in general, but the last time I saw you must have been 2 years ago anyway... M.L...God, why can't I forget you?? We can't be together, you have your life and I...
    Chimera1019 Chimera1019 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6

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    1. WERE YOU NAMED AFTER ANYONE? Nop 2. WHEN WAS THE LAST TIME YOU CRIED? June 2nd 3. DO YOU LIKE YOUR HANDWRITING? Very 4. WHAT IS YOUR FAVORITE LUNCH MEAT? Fish 5. DO YOU...
    Innocence28 Innocence28 26-30, F 2 Responses Jul 12

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    It is late. The street lights are on and the night is cool. I can hear the train that is passing a block away. I am standing outside in the yard in a light summer dress. My belly...
    inspiremepregnant inspiremepregnant 26-30, F 4 Responses Jul 18

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    I was abused from birth by family members and then by my husband, from whom I finally escaped. I have had a few other very traumatic things happen in my life as well. Because I...
    JaneG8 JaneG8 31-35, F 3 Responses Jul 18

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    I Am Both Apparently I just took a test in http://testyourself.psychtests.com/ It was a test about the dominance between the left brain and the right brain. Here is my result...
    thelonewood thelonewood 26-30 5 days ago

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    I love hugs as much as the next person does. I think a simple hug sometimes is just what's needed, if you're having like a really sucky day, it's like that one person who hugs you...
    SarahBBZ SarahBBZ 18-21, F Jul 9

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    1: What would you name your future daughter? It's constantly changing, but right now I'm thinking about Seraphina. 2: Do you miss anyone? A lot. 3: What if I told you that you...
    Laluna29 Laluna29 22-25, F 1 Response Jul 21

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    I didn't grow up in an overly nurturing environment. I was raised in a reasonably practical manner, but wasn't ever given much in the way of physical or emotional comfort. So I'm...
    Avotica Avotica 18-21, F Jul 22

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    My parents don't believe in touching me. Only if they spank me. I would like to be hugged by someone. I read a few weeks ago someone wrote - one day someone will hug you so hard it...
    marcusru marcusru 16-17, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I currently live with a roommate who has a baby (approximately one year old). I didn't know I would be living with a baby when I decided to move in, I was told all of the roommates...
    secretgarden22 secretgarden22 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    This will take a bit. 1. What would you name your future daughter? Leah Eryka _______ 2. Do you miss anyone? I have no reason to miss anyone 3. What if I told you that you were...
    DarkSoulInsaneHeart DarkSoulInsaneHeart 13-15, F 1 Response 5 days ago

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    What I learned: Be your own hero. Reflect and apply what you’ve learned to your life, today. Work at forgiving yourself and others for being flawed human beings who must learn...
    AppleJacks10 AppleJacks10 26-30, F 2 days ago

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    I need your opinion would this make you understand? You said you didn't know? I'm tired of feeling hurt... I love you but I don't know what to believe at the moment one minute...
    Rachelmarie94 Rachelmarie94 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    1: What would you name your future daughter? Liliana 2: Do you miss anyone? All the time 3: What if I told you that you were pretty? I would assume you were highly intoxicated 4...
    tristessastar tristessastar 22-25, M Jun 30

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    Have no fear, I'm near When you feel all alone inside your heart, don't be scared to fall apart. Think of precious times when you have no fear, in these moments I'll be always...
    silvermoon9619 silvermoon9619 16-17, F Jun 30

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    1: What would you name your future daughter? -I have no idea; I want to adopt children so, I will stick with their birth names. 2: Do you miss anyone? - My grandmother( the only...
    aloysia aloysia 26-30, F Jul 1

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