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I Want to Improve the Experience Project

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    Over the last couple of months our team has

    been working on improving our filters and developing better ways to communicate to our members our community guidelines (which each member agrees to when joining the site) as well as working on ways to better enforce and quickly address violations. Today marks a milestone in...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 604 Responses Jan 9

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    @EPArsineh- I never said

    that this was an adult only site, but there are adult only "experiences". Until recently, I had been a member of EP for almost five years and I am just now returning. I know how the site used to be, and since the last time I was a member (which was just last year) this site has...
    ABdadd ABdadd 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 18

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    NEW! EP Charity Book Project Now Available on

    Amazon: amzn.to/18YjcAA Millions of experiences and stories have been shared on EP from members around the world, which have brought comfort, love, hope and a sense of empowerment and inspiration to many. For the first time we've compiling a book of select stories (with the...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 199 Responses Dec 20, 2013

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    Chat Corner Recap!

    Many thanks to those who logged on to participate in our chat session. It was the very 1st session we've hosted and we had an unexpectedly large turn out. We are going to spend the next couple weeks improving the chat feature significantly to accommodate our large group and...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 181 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Would like to see "experiences" broken down in

    categories on peoples pages so it is easier to look for commonalities. I would also like to see more done to protect minors from predators and see them prevented from seeing mature topics. Finally, when I report someone for being inappropriate with a minor I would love to see...
    don0063 don0063 51-55, M 1 Response 21 hrs ago

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    Set up a detection system

    that detects if a string of letters and numbers is spam. Instance, if more than four of the same characters are in a row(paulllllllllll), or several repeated characters (ajajajaja) then have a "spam detection" alert appear. If the person is legit, then they can put a temporary...
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 14

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    If you weren't able to join us at the EP Meetup

    in San Francisco last week, you certainly were missed. We'll hopefully have community hosted meetups around the world (including your hometown) one day soon.In the meantime, check out these photos and be entered to win an EP gift bag filled with EP goodies, just like the ones...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 330 Responses May 5

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    Ressalg Ressalg 41-45, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Wow! My content in no way violated the terms of

    service or the community guidelines. I described the way my girlfriend appears to me because that's how I think of her when I get a message from her. My story was about the messages that her and I send each other. The story was not even graphic. It describes her bare breasts. My...
    sailor764 sailor764 46-50 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    @EPArsineh- I am in NO way saying

    that their shouldn't be adult groups. I am simply stating that you should do a better job at keeping the minors out of them, and allow those of us who are of age to enjoy the "experience" fully and un-hindered by your "filter". As for your comment on your number of groups and...
    ABdadd ABdadd 22-25, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Join The Conversation - Live Chat Corner Thursday 12pm-2pm PST

    We're hosting the 1st, of what will be regularly site-wide chat sessions between staff and members! It's a fun, informal way to share your thoughts, ideas, and suggestions for new features--as well as converse with your peers and staff, all in real time. You'll receive a...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 406 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    There should be an option to report an entire

    experience, not just a single post in said experience, or is there already and im just not seeing it?
    Anth1290 Anth1290 22-25, M 2 Responses Jul 17

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    Bloo Is Starting An Experience Project Revolution Too Also

    God or Satan or Zeus (One of those guys, I don’t have caller ID) has sent me on a mission to save the world. He/She (because one of them is a transvestite *cough* Zeus wears a toga *cough*) said that I, Blooregard, must save the world from this dark age. He said that people...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Coming Soon: Free EP Tokens + A Simplified Point System

    We are always working to improve EP and listening to your suggestions and feedback.  As a result we are simplifying the point system, rewarding you with 5 free tokens and will be adding more ways for you to earn free tokens in the future for your contributions to the site...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 488 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and What's Coming Soon!

    With 2013 here, we have many new projects underway for the New Year which will help you connect with members, build friendships, and sort, organize and keep track of the posts that are most meaningful to you. If you missed our last list of updates, you can find it here: EP Link...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 76 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and A Look Ahead

    We've been plugging away here, working to make sharing, browsing and connecting with others on EP easier and more enjoyable--after all that is what EP is all about! Here are few things we've worked on over the last couple weeks: **Getting you more comments + fresh content! Each...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 162 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Flagging Pedo's And Other S3x Offenders

    OK I have recently flagged 2 child molesters. One is making a big deal about how he loves 10-12 year old boys and doesnt see anything wrong with it, the other is asking for a 15 year old girl to peg him. Both these members still have their illegal stories up. Both these members...
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy 26-30, F 71 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    EP Updates: What We've Been Working On And A Look Ahead

    It's been a month since our last update and since then we've been working on a number of features to help make EP easier to use and give members more ways to interact with the people and content they care about most. If you missed last month's list of updates, you can find them...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 100 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    Since our last update we've been working to

    revamp our EP Volunteer Program, preparing to launch our EP Android app, and tackling spam.If you missed our last community update, you can find it here: EP LinkRevamping our Volunteer Program: Experience Project has saved and positively impacted hundreds of thousands of lives...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 122 Responses Jun 25

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    EP Still Hasn't Immunized Restored Content

    Against Lawless Flaggers It's bad enough that since October, EP has treated the content of all members, even the most renowned and responsible, as "guilty" until proven innocent when such content is attacked by an individual with multiple accounts for flagging. But when a...
    conceptualclarity conceptualclarity 51-55, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    Overdrive18 Overdrive18 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    This getting lost in a world of linear tracking

    is really getting on my nerves. Here is a completely unorthodox thought about how the EP site might be organized. Instead of having responses and responses to responses marching down the page and new ones being inserted in between the ones you have already read and having to...
    icDavey icDavey 56-60, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Help Brighten Someone's Day--Leave a Note!

    We've all experienced times in life when we're feeling down or uninspired and need a little boost. In the form of a comment to this story, please share a short message that you think would cheer someone up and make them smile. [If you're sharing a famous quote, please attribute...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 1178 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    Newly Released: Story Editing + Better Spam

    Filtering + More! It's been a couple weeks since our last update and since then we've been plugging away, working on building a number of requested features to help make EP easier and more enjoyable to use by strengthening our spam filters, releasing story editing, creating...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 188 Responses Apr 16

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and A Look Ahead

    Since our last update 2 weeks ago, we've introduced a number of features to help you connect with members and find the content you care about most. We've also gotten started on introducing better tools so you can sort, organize and keep track of the posts that are most meaningful...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 144 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    Your Own Worst Enemy?

    Ep, even though you don't seem to realize it, you have become your own worst enemy. You are.... day by day.....step by step....."improvement" by "improvement"..... ruining this site. Older members are now reaching the point of real dismay or anger at how dysfunctional the site...
    datura datura 56-60, F 44 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    I want to improve the Experience Project's

    search engine tool bar I accidently deleted my account by deleting history and etc. in the tools section (internet explorer) and I think if you accidentally deleted the account and you re registered with the same information that you should be able to still talk to new friends...
    beautylasts beautylasts 13-15, F 2 Responses Jul 19

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    Any time I see a post

    that really bothers me on here I block them. Ones that really bother me are the inappropriate ones (sexual details and the other woman posts) I am tired of seeing those, I wish I could block certain topics from even coming up on my home page.
    CanadianGal80 CanadianGal80 31-35, F 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I am flabbergasted. I don't post raunchy things.

    Yet three times now, I have had things removed by EP staff for violating the terms and conditions after I with edited details talk about the heinous things people said to me on EP or did to me in real life. Experience groups and posts are made that truly are sick in the head...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 2 Responses Jul 20

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    Update: Less Scrolling + Free Gestures + More Recent Fixes

    Though we're always working to improve EP, we're certainly not perfect and with the recent changes rolled out (the last of a site-wide revamp) there were a number of bugs and usability pain point brought to our attention which we've been working to quickly iron out.But aside from...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 245 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    But Wanting Doesn'T Change Anything.

    Forgive me for yet another story about how things were back in the old days. But I'm mad right now. The fact that I'm not alone doesn't matter. I remember when this site first started, and this group was a big one. We would post things in here, mostly trivial things...and you...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 20 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    WHAT I WOULD DO, IF IT WERE UP TO ME: I would

    automatically delete accounts that were not logged in to for a year. Or, at the very least, move them to an "inactive" section. I would make a rule saying, "Before you start a group, make sure there aren't already similar groups. For example, there are, literally, over 100...
    gingershuman gingershuman 36-40, M 2 Responses Jul 16

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    it would be great if the inbox system would

    automatically update for you and have an alert tone instead of having to refresh the page to see if you get a message or not also in the my circle get in touch tab it would be helpful if it list all the people in your circle that are online first then the rest like how the home...
    bellywatcher bellywatcher 22-25, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I think we should allow the user to view the

    experience in portrait way vertical way rather than landscape like this we would be able to see more experiences from a topic instead of wasting time trying to scroll through all of the experience
    asianahyang96 asianahyang96 16-17, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    THE ADS! It's not just the fact you have

    advertisements on your website, but I feel like they slow the website down SOOOOO much. My browser always freezes when I'm on your site and it's maddening. Sometimes it's difficult to even navigate because it keeps freezing. And I really feel like the little alternating video...
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F 8 Responses Jul 14

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    Hey Arsineh~

    I just came across,yet another, ****** story. I know I can flag it, so you can come around have the pleasure of reading it too. But I have a better idea... The story was in the group "I Like Taboo Sex." It's a very popular EP group, with 10,954 members. As I did a scroll...
    Lilt Lilt 46-50 30 Responses May 4, 2013

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    You're Cordially Invited: EP Meetup San

    Francico, CA, May 1st!In appreciation for our members we'll be hosting our next MeetUp in San Francisco, CA (previously held in New York City) and hopefully coming to your hometown one day in the future.Come spend an evening with EP staff and fellow EPeeps in San Francisco...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 452 Responses Apr 1

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    I'd like to have a filter system in the Explore

    All Experiences section: by age and gender, allowing for multiple selections.
    har70 har70 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 18

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    Girlplaying Girlplaying 36-40, F 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    Newly Released: Better Spam Filtering + Added

    Blocks and Filters to Protect Minors + More! It's been a couple weeks since our last update and since then we've been plugging away, working on building a number of requested features to help make EP a more enjoyable and comfortable to use.FREE private photo sharing: We've made...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 146 Responses May 15

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    EP Updates: EP Chat + New Mail Inbox + More Features Coming Soon!

    When we ask members why they enjoy EP, among the top answers we receive are the conversations, friendships and connections formed. For this reason we're always working to introduce better ways for members to get know each other and communicate across the site.  It's for this...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 196 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and A Look Ahead

    Since our last update a couple weeks ago, we've been plugging away working to add features to help members discover and browse interesting content, connect with others and more easily and comfortable share experiences. If you missed our last list of updates, you can find it here...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 98 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    I think, for personal/privacy reasons,

    there should be an option on your profile to hide experiences that you want to keep to yourself, instead of allowing everyone who peruses your profile to see them. That would provide an immeasurable amount of relief for a lot of people I've communicated with, including myself.
    secretwetlife secretwetlife 22-25, F 1 day ago

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    It would be really fun to see how well the

    flagging system would handle everyone flagging everything they read on here. My story was flagged maliciously. It was an innocent story. If innocent things can be flagged, then I say flag everything. Flag this story too.
    sailor764 sailor764 46-50 1 Response 1 day ago

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    There are a huge number of duplicate

    experiences in the experience project. It would be nice if these were combined into a single one. Maybe you can have a checkbox where participants could indicate something as a duplicate, which if verified could get combined together.
    sinkem sinkem 51-55, M 1 Response Jul 17

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    There should be a better system

    for filing complaints about stories that violate community guidelines. I reported a story the other day, but no action was taken that I can see, and I have no idea why, or if my complaint was ever processed. I've been on web sites that have help systems, where your request or...
    FrozenGuy FrozenGuy 51-55, M 3 Responses 4 days ago

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    I'd really like if we could get the option to

    chose our top groups again, so people can get a general idea of what we're all about when they check out your profile.
    Ridiculousity Ridiculousity 18-21 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Every time I try to create an experience

    that has ' or ", it says there are slashes in it and it can't create the experience because there are slashes in it. I've tried everything. Glitch glitch glitch. Help?
    StokesQuirky StokesQuirky 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I'm writing this on July 19,

    2014. The format-display has changed again, and this time it's REALLY confusing. Maybe this is a temporary "bug phase"? Everything was, if not great, at least stable. Suddenly about five days ago, there were no more numbers indicating Fans/New Friends, Messages, and Activity...
    SkyFlyBoy SkyFlyBoy 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    I want to report a bug

    that should’ve been resolved a while ago. There seems to be a wrong count in the amount of stories that a person has on their profile. Apparently the story count doesn’t consider removed stories as deleted, as they are still included in the story count on one’s profile...
    SuperiorIntellect SuperiorIntellect 26-30, M 1 Response 6 days ago

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    Seriously EP? What happened?

    This site used to be good for a reason. Because people could express theirselves without limit. Now you're trying to censor? There's a reason why there's a checkbox for 18+ content. Everybody uses this site in their own way for their own reasons. The fact that I have to keep...
    xXGiGiXx xXGiGiXx 22-25, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    Coming Soon! NEW Simplified Privacy Policy On EP!

    Giving members the ability to choose the level of privacy they desire for their EP account has been a fundamental part of making EP a safe and comfortable space where members can be themselves. So, when we heard that some members were confused about the ‘discreet’ and...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 58 Responses Dec 18, 2012

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    NEW! EP Charity Book Project! Nominate Stories To Be Featured.

    Millions of experiences and stories have been shared on EP from members around the world, which have brought comfort, love, hope and a sense of empowerment and inspiration to many. EP for the 1st time will be compiling a book of select stories, with 100% of proceeds going to...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 167 Responses