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    Join The Conversation - Live Chat Corner Thursday 12pm-2pm PST

    We're hosting the 1st, of what will be regularly site-wide chat sessions between staff and members! It's a fun, informal way to share your thoughts, ideas, and suggestions for new features--as well as converse with your peers and staff, all in real time. You'll receive a...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 405 Responses Aug 8, 2012

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    I've noticed that the spammers are males

    between the age of 31 and 35
    Overdrive18 Overdrive18 18-21, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    adaair adaair 31-35 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Newly Released: Story Editing + Better Spam

    Filtering + More! It's been a couple weeks since our last update and since then we've been plugging away, working on building a number of requested features to help make EP easier and more enjoyable to use by strengthening our spam filters, releasing story editing, creating...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 181 Responses Apr 16

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    The new messaging system is awful.

    . I am on an iPad.. Since we cant start new messages, I have to scroll all the way back to the top through tons of old messages with my finger in order to respond to the person Im speaking with... WHY has the option to create a new message been taken away from us? I swear I'm...
    SweetEmotions SweetEmotions 36-40, F 6 Responses Aug 19

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    EP Updates: What We've Been Working On And A Look Ahead

    It's been a month since our last update and since then we've been working on a number of features to help make EP easier to use and give members more ways to interact with the people and content they care about most. If you missed last month's list of updates, you can find them...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 99 Responses Apr 16, 2013

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and A Look Ahead

    Since our last update 2 weeks ago, we've introduced a number of features to help you connect with members and find the content you care about most. We've also gotten started on introducing better tools so you can sort, organize and keep track of the posts that are most meaningful...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 142 Responses Nov 12, 2012

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    By posting with a lewd,

    crude attitude!
    thelonerinyourbed thelonerinyourbed 70+, F 4 hrs ago

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    OK. I have a question.

    When I post something I like to post to all my relevant groups. However that fills the home page up with multiple posts from me. How can I post to my groups and not fill the home page with each post to each group? I don't want to be a nuance.
    rlvitt rlvitt 56-60, M 5 hrs ago

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and A Look Ahead

    We've been plugging away here, working to make sharing, browsing and connecting with others on EP easier and more enjoyable--after all that is what EP is all about! Here are few things we've worked on over the last couple weeks: **Getting you more comments + fresh content! Each...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 159 Responses Oct 24, 2012

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    Hey Arsineh~

    I just came across,yet another, ****** story. I know I can flag it, so you can come around have the pleasure of reading it too. But I have a better idea... The story was in the group "I Like Taboo Sex." It's a very popular EP group, with 10,954 members. As I did a scroll...
    Lilt Lilt 46-50 36 Responses May 4, 2013

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    Use Total Whiteboard Total Rights Due To Attacks

    Arsineh , THIS IS A FORMAL REQUEST please reinstate the rights to be able to delete all content from our whiteboards even if they are locked posts with abusive Content /Attacks as it seems to take far to long for a response from EP Tech support , The way It used to be worked far...
    Paschar Paschar 61-65, M 28 Responses Jun 2, 2013

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    About responding to the EP newsletters

    now appearing on the notifications part of our profiles. Can we introduce a sticky system, or guidance on responding to EP posts please? I think it will save everyone a lot of time and heartache. Personally I think the EP staff are doing a great job and the newsletter shows it...
    cloudsoflife cloudsoflife 26-30, M a week ago

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    Your Own Worst Enemy?

    Ep, even though you don't seem to realize it, you have become your own worst enemy. You are.... day by day.....step by step....."improvement" by "improvement"..... ruining this site. Older members are now reaching the point of real dismay or anger at how dysfunctional the site...
    datura datura 56-60, F 44 Responses Jun 23, 2012

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and What's Coming Soon!

    With 2013 here, we have many new projects underway for the New Year which will help you connect with members, build friendships, and sort, organize and keep track of the posts that are most meaningful to you. If you missed our last list of updates, you can find it here: EP Link...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 74 Responses Jan 9, 2013

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    Is anyone else "experiencing" a problem with

    ads again? Now personal messages are truncated and are very difficult/ impossible to read, as only a portion of the message appears on my computer screen at any point in time. This is now within the last two hours, at least for me. EP, if if you're following along at home...
    Kim1girl Kim1girl 56-60, T 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Epicalworld Epicalworld 13-15, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I'm tired of checking the popular stories

    and seeing mainly sexual stuff. Have some decency, people, don't promote that.. Especially knowing there are children on here.. Would you want your kids exposed to filth?
    akaShaun akaShaun 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 16

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    EP Admin!! For God's sake stop F*****g things up

    for us!! Are you purposely trying to upset us? If you are, you're certainly succeeding. Just when I thought you couldn't make the Private Messaging service any worse, you go and prove me wrong. A month ago it was good: then you 'Improved' it and made it bad. Now you've...
    ladyarwyn ladyarwyn 36-40, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The help center seems to be very informative

    and adds links to ways of doing what I ask. Instead of having the answers there, why isn't there just a button on the pages to do what I was looking for in the first place?
    drewdeen37 drewdeen37 41-45, M Aug 17

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    EP Updates: EP Chat + New Mail Inbox + More Features Coming Soon!

    When we ask members why they enjoy EP, among the top answers we receive are the conversations, friendships and connections formed. For this reason we're always working to introduce better ways for members to get know each other and communicate across the site.  It's for this...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 197 Responses Jun 6, 2013

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    Some of the things I see on this site at night

    are absolutely outrageous. The mods need to crack down on this activity. I got no problem with sexual activity or feelings but some of the blatant creeping, messaging and posts that occur at night and day are outrageous. Something needs to change because EP is being torn apart...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 17

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    Some things I find interesting

    but haven't experienced myself. Wouldn't it be nice to be able to follow experiences without joining them? This allows members to keep up to date with their interests without saying they did the same thing while that's not true. That makes the list of someone's experiences more...
    Uncertain153 Uncertain153 26-30, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    Over the last couple of months our team has

    been working on improving our filters and developing better ways to communicate to our members our community guidelines (which each member agrees to when joining the site) as well as working on ways to better enforce and quickly address violations. Today marks a milestone in...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 597 Responses Jan 9

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    EP Staff, Get Down Off Your HIGH Horses

    Yes. Get down off those damn horses. LISTEN TO THE PUBLIC! For ONCE in your life! Now, just take a glance at the Q&A section and tell me if there is a SINGLE person who is happy with the new notification system. I assure you, 99% of the members are freakin' annoyed at it The...
    deleted deleted 26-30 11 Responses Sep 5, 2013

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    But Wanting Doesn'T Change Anything.

    Forgive me for yet another story about how things were back in the old days. But I'm mad right now. The fact that I'm not alone doesn't matter. I remember when this site first started, and this group was a big one. We would post things in here, mostly trivial things...and you...
    onceandfutureglow onceandfutureglow 31-35, F 20 Responses Jun 27, 2013

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    You're Cordially Invited: EP Meetup San

    Francico, CA, May 1st!In appreciation for our members we'll be hosting our next MeetUp in San Francisco, CA (previously held in New York City) and hopefully coming to your hometown one day in the future.Come spend an evening with EP staff and fellow EPeeps in San Francisco...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 448 Responses Apr 1

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    roselani2005 roselani2005 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    EP Update: What We've Been Working On...and A Look Ahead

    Since our last update a couple weeks ago, we've been plugging away working to add features to help members discover and browse interesting content, connect with others and more easily and comfortable share experiences. If you missed our last list of updates, you can find it here...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 97 Responses Dec 5, 2012

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    Over the last couple months,

    some EP pages and processes have gone through significant changes. Though our product team made these changes with the intent to make sharing and connecting with others on EP easier and more enjoyable--we missed the mark in some ways. We want to make things right. We're working...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 311 Responses Mar 17

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    Can We get rid of the taboo groups?

    After reading a friends concerens I looked up some of these groups. The worst one Dear EP Admins should make You cringe,and ashamed that it exist! "I Discovered That EP Is a Great Place to Discuss Taboos"! Well,it shouldn't be! Shame on You for letting this go on!
    The1960texan The1960texan 51-55, M 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    Seperate the 18+ age group from all those 17-

    by implementing an age verification process into account creation steps. On some older mobile browsers the age/gender selection tabs in the search process are don't register any selection made.,defaulting to all/all once the search is activated. Or add an account default...
    dust4484 dust4484 36-40, M 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I use the EP app in Australia

    and I love it. It's easy to use and navigate around. It's hard to find other users inside Aus. though.
    theGirlwhosNeverBeenLoved theGirlwhosNeverBeenLoved 22-25, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    Update: Less Scrolling + Free Gestures + More Recent Fixes

    Though we're always working to improve EP, we're certainly not perfect and with the recent changes rolled out (the last of a site-wide revamp) there were a number of bugs and usability pain point brought to our attention which we've been working to quickly iron out.But aside from...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 242 Responses Jun 25, 2013

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    Chat Corner Recap!

    Many thanks to those who logged on to participate in our chat session. It was the very 1st session we've hosted and we had an unexpectedly large turn out. We are going to spend the next couple weeks improving the chat feature significantly to accommodate our large group and...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 178 Responses Aug 9, 2012

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    Do You Really Care?

    So Experience Project staff members. I pose a question. Do you really care? Why do I ask. Just look here: http://www.convertiv.com/a-review-of-the-experience-project/#comment-25737 These comments are from at least TWO YEARS AGO. And nothing has changed. you are once again...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Help Brighten Someone's Day--Leave a Note!

    We've all experienced times in life when we're feeling down or uninspired and need a little boost. In the form of a comment to this story, please share a short message that you think would cheer someone up and make them smile. [If you're sharing a famous quote, please attribute...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 1172 Responses Aug 30, 2012

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    I’ve noticed a very funny trick to circumvent

    the very limited number of people visible in the last online box of your circle. When you place your cursor in the search my circle box and press backspace it will then show you all 20 friends (only if you have that many or more) that were last online. I don’t know why they...
    SuperiorIntellect SuperiorIntellect 26-30, M a week ago

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    Why can't you delete

    if you mess up a post????
    jenadvice jenadvice 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 16

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    Everyone in my circle has this: No recent

    activity. Let's fix this! Check out our most active members, or see some of the latest stories posted on EP, and add the authors you like to your circle! Come on then, EP. Let's fix this.
    damselfly damselfly 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    Some Questions About "Improvements"...or Why Are You Ruining EP?....UPDATED

    UPDATED  JUNE 20, 2013 You took away our avatars. You took away our ability to give private gifts. You took away our ability to subscribe to stories. You took away cards. You have not replaced the chat feature. You took away our libraries. Special stories I selected and wanted...
    datura datura 56-60, F 59 Responses Jun 13, 2013

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    The site would greatly benefit from deleting

    and banning all fictional stories and there are too many on this site which claims to be the experience project and not fiction writing project.
    Soniador1963 Soniador1963 46-50, M 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    10K pieces of spam removed,

    Threading of Private Messages, New iOS app released and an Android App coming soon + much more. It's been a couple weeks since our last update and since then we've been plugging away, working on both the iOS and android app as well as ridding the site of spamming and developing...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 86 Responses Aug 7

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    Okay EP Admin. You win!

    I, and all my Private Messaging circle friends have all deleted our existing message threads and we will no longer be using the now totally pathetic and virtually unusable Private Messaging service. If you no longer wish to provide the service why couldn't you have the guts to...
    SolarKing SolarKing 31-35, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    The new inbox lay-out isn’t all

    that satisfying. It’s not all bad, but there are certainly several issues that could be improved. Positives: It actually doesn’t look so bad. It appears more smooth and business-like than the old-lay out. The old lay-out desperately needed an update. It is very similar to...
    SuperiorIntellect SuperiorIntellect 26-30, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can NEVER see the bottom of the

    "notifications" to see who has responded to my comments on their stories? Now when I try to respond to private messages, the adds are plastered over the little box we write in. You can't even finish OR click on "post."?! I was told to delete cookies? If I knew where they were I...
    ceywat ceywat 51-55, F 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    NEW! EP Charity Book Project! Nominate Stories To Be Featured.

    Millions of experiences and stories have been shared on EP from members around the world, which have brought comfort, love, hope and a sense of empowerment and inspiration to many. EP for the 1st time will be compiling a book of select stories, with 100% of proceeds going to...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 165 Responses Oct 11, 2013

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    I think a religious status could be helpful.

    When I approach a person, it would be helpful to know their stance on the issue, as not to offend them or otherwise give them advice about something they don't see eye to eye on. I don't like telling people I'm not religious and then giving advice not knowing if they are...
    Lateralus07 Lateralus07 18-21, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Newly Released: Better Spam Filtering + Added

    Blocks and Filters to Protect Minors + More! It's been a couple weeks since our last update and since then we've been plugging away, working on building a number of requested features to help make EP a more enjoyable and comfortable to use.FREE private photo sharing: We've made...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 141 Responses May 15

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    Was it really necessary to put in a separate

    scroll bar on the message inbox screen? One to scroll the page and one to scroll the messages. I wouldn't have a huge problem with it if the messages window was actually big enough to make it efficient. Right now it's just an annoyance, the only thing to say that comes to mind...
    Mokyu Mokyu 22-25, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    Coming Soon: Free EP Tokens + A Simplified Point System

    We are always working to improve EP and listening to your suggestions and feedback.  As a result we are simplifying the point system, rewarding you with 5 free tokens and will be adding more ways for you to earn free tokens in the future for your contributions to the site...
    EPArsineh EPArsineh 26-30, F 488 Responses Feb 12, 2012

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    Flagging Pedo's And Other S3x Offenders

    OK I have recently flagged 2 child molesters. One is making a big deal about how he loves 10-12 year old boys and doesnt see anything wrong with it, the other is asking for a 15 year old girl to peg him. Both these members still have their illegal stories up. Both these members...
    Gemzaayy Gemzaayy 26-30, F 70 Responses Jul 20, 2012

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    This is a self-help site.

    People are bound to exchange long messages, and the new layout, though it looks better and doesn't take a million years to load, it is ridiculously small and I can't see large portions of text without scrolling down and stuff, and it's such a hassle. And when I type long...
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda 13-15 2 Responses 1 day ago

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