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I Want to Know At What Age You Lost Y Our Virginity

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    To My Brothers Best Friend

    I was 16, and he was 13. My parents were away for the weekend and my brother had a few friends over for the night. I was supposed to be in charge. It was kind of late but we decided to watch a movie. My brother and his other friend fell asleep so it was just me and his friend...
    FunKatie83 FunKatie83
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Aug 18, 2012

    Country School

    We were in a country school, gradesx1-8. The older kids would smooch rach other. A ten year old showed us his erection. Also there was a girl who played with her self. All in all, it was a bunch of kids involved with one another. We would poke, play, wrestle and at times have sex...
    deeny deeny
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Aug 18, 2012

    My First Time ...

    I was 17 and had been going out with my boyfriend for about nine months.  It was the first time for both of us.  I remember it very clearly as being something we didn't take very seriously and remember him slapping my backside as we ran upstairs to the bedroom, giggling...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Sep 28, 2009

    I Was 12

    On holiday with a girl of the same age. It was in a public toilet. She wanted to go to the toilet but did not want to go on her own. She pulled her shorts and panties down, straddled the toilet opened her legs and peed. First time I had seen a girl with her panties down. She...
    A1kxt A1kxt
    Apr 15, 2012

    It Sucked.

    I lost my virginity at age 14. This guy was an idiot and most of the times he thrusted he missed. How I miss innocence :)
    lassiecamehome lassiecamehome
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Nov 10, 2011

    I Didn'T Lose It, I Just Misplaced It ...

    I forgot to check under the couch. Or the front seat of her VW bug. It's easy to lose track of all kinds of stuff with two tall people in the passenger seat of one of those things.
    Daedalus99 Daedalus99
    51-55, M
    Sep 19, 2013


    I was dating this guy who was a year younger than me, so he was 16. We worked together and we were both in high school and we just happened to have the same spring break. One day, his parents were at work, my parents were at work and we both had cars. We had hinted that it...
    GypsySun GypsySun
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Mar 15, 2010

    The Tender Age Of 14

    I didn't even know the guy I lost my virginity to. I knew him casually, had talked to him, and he had flirted with me before. He asked me to ditch my next class with him, and even though we hadn't really hung out before I knew on a certain level that I was about to lose my...
    cephaloscotti cephaloscotti
    26-30, F
    Mar 27, 2012


    when I was younger I used to spend time with my friends drinking an trying to pull girls. One day I got very lucky an a girl agreed to come with me somewhere private. We were both 14 an very inexperienced at sex as you would imagine any 14 yearolds to be. We spent ages kissing...
    Jstevens30 Jstevens30
    26-30, M
    Aug 16, 2011

    My Virginity

    i was 14 in my garage i got pushed on back by my brothers friend it was wearing shorts and he just pulled them to one side and stuck it in me it hurt so bad but was over very quick and he just got up and left no kiss or anything there i lay with *** running down my ***
    bridget89 bridget89
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Feb 28, 2010

    Send Your Kid To Camp!

    Summer I was 13. Interfaith Camp up in the mountains. Kids of all ethnic and religious backgrounds. He was 15, a cocky, smooth-talking guy from North Long Beach. Black and horny and proud of it. Took him about 15 minutes to talk me into touching "it" and by nightfall I was doing...
    sarahcantstop sarahcantstop
    26-30, F
    21 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    When I Fell In Love

    I have dated a lot of guys since I was 14 ... But have never had sex with any of them ... Until I met him in January 09' I was 20 ... After we have been together for 3 months ... I have belonged to him and become complete woman ... Before that I was very innocent...
    DollyDiva DollyDiva
    26-30, F
    18 Responses May 28, 2009

    I Was 20 And She Was 16

    Yup because had controlling parents i never put my **** in a ***** until i had my own place. I had lots of oralsex starting when i was 7
    deleted deleted
    Sep 24, 2012

    Worth The Wait

    I was 25, her 23 and we were engaged. We planned to wait until we were married and almost made it! It was a wonderful experience that we've repeated thousands of times since then.
    twofer5 twofer5
    May 2, 2012

    Sad But True But Good!

    Most of you would say I was a late bloomer. During high school I was just shy with girls so my opportunities were narrow in scope. Fast forward to my freshman year in college and everything changed. It was just the second week of classes and a junior girl took a liking to me...
    PC2629 PC2629
    56-60, M
    2 Responses May 18, 2012

    I lost mine with my b/f at the age of 18 in the

    backseat of car. Being raised in a strict religious household, I had all these mixed emotions and instead of enjoying my first time, I was full of guilt and the fear of pregnancy.
    louiselloyd louiselloyd
    70+, F
    7 Responses Apr 19, 2014

    I Was 15 Years Old

    How I lost my virginity was weird. At 15, I was a technical virgin.     I would engage in oral (no anal), fingers, but that was pretty much it.  A guy that I had been seeing a lot of, but who was not my boyfriend, we used to play around...
    nobodycares2014 nobodycares2014
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2008

    Willingly? Or Forcefully?

    idk what you consider "loosing your virginity" is it willingly or forcefully? Forcefully... I was sexually abused for as long as I can remember and at some point I think he tried to rape me.  I was so young I did not know or understand what he was doing to...
    sexywoman2010 sexywoman2010
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 31, 2009

    I Was 15

    I was 15 when I lost my virginity. I lost it to my boyfriend, who I parted ways with a few years later. I don't have any regrets about the experience. He wasn't the greatest, but we were both virgins and the same age. For the most part, he was caring and considerate.
    Vioulette Vioulette
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jun 1, 2009

    The Hotel

    Im a lesbian and i lost my virginity to a girl when i was 14. You might be thinkin well you cant lose it to a girl. Yes. Yes you can. Trust me!! But anyway i was wtih this girl and we had been best friends for 3 years. I was moving away and she was helping me and my mom pack. My...
    xSonnyx xSonnyx
    18-21, F
    Aug 12, 2011

    20 Years Old...

    In today's society I understand that this is a very rare thing...I've never really believed in the stigma and general hype associated with virginity—it's all a matter of mentality, what do labels and statuses matter when you can't see the thing you're big-noting? I was also an...
    missmoriarty missmoriarty
    22-25, F
    Dec 29, 2011

    I Was 17 And She Was 14.

    I was a high school senior and she was a freshman. She was my first love. (And in some ways my last--but that's another story) We had been enjoying each others company for about a year, and both of us really wanted it. When it finally happened, it was better than either one of us...
    RayanneA RayanneA
    56-60, M
    1 Response May 4, 2012

    Younger Than I Wanted..

    It was at the age of 16 and I was soon to be 17. I was getting patronized a lot by my friends because I was the only virgin in the lot of us but I knew so much about the subject itself I was considered a nympho lol It drove me crazy but I didn't want to just give a way my...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Aug 23, 2009

    Just to Young

    I was really to young to know the dangers,but it was a lot of fun,I dont regret it
    sunnyjulia sunnyjulia
    8 Responses Oct 5, 2009

    Young Girl, Older Guy

    I lost my virginity when I was 16 or 17 to a much older guy. I won't say how much older, but he was quite a bit older. I didn't feel good to be honest. It kind of hurt, and I didnt care for the bleeding part. Good news is that it's a lot better nowadays!
    honeybunch honeybunch
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Mar 28, 2009

    I Was ...

    I was 9, & no it wasn't forced on me.
    daddysemma daddysemma
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Jul 9, 2011

    Ahhh The Memories

    Lost mine at 16 but it was only 4 days before my 17th birthday to a girl I met only a matter of hours before. Thought I was king of the world
    goodman72 goodman72
    41-45, M
    Feb 7, 2012

    Lesson Learned

    I was 17 when I lost my virginity. I also lost my independence and got pregnant got married and had 5 daughters. Then I realised what was causing it so I bought a telly. Lmao Sorry don't joke, but that is true *still sniggering Although I did marry the dad I divorced him (he...
    MadamJulia MadamJulia
    46-50, F
    Sep 16, 2013

    15, On Purpose

    i was 15.  having been intensely curious since age 12, i had read a lot of about it being difficult to tell the difference between sexual feelings and feelings of love.  i knew i wasn't going for the traditional trajectory of waiting for marriage.  (it was 1970) so i figured...
    Lucinnda Lucinnda
    61-65, F
    6 Responses Sep 20, 2011

    Late Starter

    19.. OK? there I admit it! I am so ashamed!
    JustSillyStuff JustSillyStuff
    46-50, T
    5 Responses Sep 8, 2008


    when I was younger I used to spend time with my friends drinking an trying to pull girls. One day I got very lucky an a girl agreed to come with me somewhere private. We were both 14 an very inexperienced at sex as you would imagine any 14 yearolds to be. We spent ages kissing...
    Jstevens30 Jstevens30
    26-30, M
    Aug 16, 2011

    Just My Luck

    I was 19 and my girlfriend (who is now my wife) was 16. I was very shy back then with girls. On my birthday she said we could go all the way. It was great for both of us, very intimate. After I came and pulled out I was shocked to find the condom ripped. Lesson of the day, don't...
    Rdrngr Rdrngr
    51-55, M
    1 Response Sep 6, 2012

    It Was A Horrable Experiance

    I lost my virginity at the age of 20, I was going out with him for 4 years and when it happened, it didn't happen because i wanted it, it happened because I felt obligated. oh how it hurt, he didn' t brake me the first time because I stopped him, it hurt so much. only on his...
    Friendlybabe Friendlybabe
    31-35, F
    1 Response May 25, 2010

    My First Time

    I was 14 when I lost my virginity to a divorcee down our block. She used to sit for me and change my diapers when I was a baby. When she seduced me I had just finished mowing her yard and she invited me in to cleanup & have refreshments. Then one thing led to another and...
    Spockk Spockk
    70+, M
    5 Responses Mar 29, 2013

    I Was 18

    I was 18, not sure what I was waiting for. It was with an older guy who cooked in the restaurant I was waitressing at, and I lusted after him. We weren't dating, I basically threw myself at him. He never called me to do it again, but I threw myself at him several more times...
    wifekelly wifekelly
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Apr 12, 2012

    I Was 15

    I cant remember how old the guy was - i know he was older and been with other girls before.It hurt so much and made me feel uncomfortable i couldnt understand why people liked it.He was some random guy off the internet..
    sandjimmy sandjimmy
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jan 9, 2010

    A Very Busy Two Months

    I had my first adult kiss on my eighth birthday from my uncle - eight of them, plus eight birthday swats. Since he was the only man in the house and mom let him do the babysitting, the "grooming" period was brief. Fingering, oral, anal, and finally cherry-popping all took place...
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Jan 25, 2010

    Silly Way To Say It

    I've never understood why people keep using the phase, "Lost my virginity."As for me, I didn't lose it, I gave it away the very first chance I had. But honestly, no one 'loses' their virginity. I can just picture some teenage girl, about to get out of the car at her house after a...
    AlbertSAT AlbertSAT
    66-70, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2012

    17 And Terrible

    I was 17 and I'm sure it wasn't the greatest experience for her. One of the things I remember the most about the experience was that both of us were very quiet, as if it was wrong to say anything.
    karlmartink karlmartink
    36-40, M
    Mar 27, 2012

    The Neighbor Downstairs

    My stories contain sexually graphic and explicit material and as such it is not suitable for minors. If you are a minor, please leave now, as it is illegal for you to be here. If it is illegal for you to read or view sexually explicit material in the community you view such...
    Barefeet151 Barefeet151
    18-21, M
    Sep 17, 2013

    I Was 13 And Don't Regret One Minute

    It was the day after i turned 13, I had been picking up things from around our pool were I had had my 13th bday party the nite before. I thought I was alone. Then's friend came to the pool area. I said can I help you he said looks like a party I said it was a birthday...
    Mrsmom Mrsmom
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Nov 15, 2009


    I was 14 and skipping school when i lost my virginity we did it behind a building and after we were done we did it again at his house.
    dopey85xxx dopey85xxx
    31-35, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2011

    9 Years My Step Brother

    He was 12 years old and he was left in charge of my brother and I when my mom worked..... He was really abusive to my little brother and I.. One evening he threw me down on the floor and held a knife to my throat.. and then I wasn't a virgin anymore...
    deleted66 deleted66
    41-45, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2010

    I Was An Older Virgin...

    I was a virgin until 3 December 2011 and had just turned 30 in October (of 2011). I am so relieved that I finally lost my virginity. Being a 30-year-old virgin was a burden. I felt like guys found me unattractive. I mean, seriously, it seemed like no guy wanted to be with me...
    hikerchick2011 hikerchick2011
    31-35, F
    6 Responses Jan 5, 2012

    I Was Waiting Til Marriage But

    I was gonna wait til marriage but about a year ago this guy I had known since I was 6 was in town and we were hanging out a lot and he found out I was a virgin so we did it! one week later I found out he was engaged and cheated on his fiancé because she had cheated on him
    ashblds ashblds
    22-25, F
    Sep 16, 2013

    Probably Too Young But I Didn't Think So At the Time

    For some reason -- probably trying to keep my persona here from being identifiable as me -- when I posted a short paragraph here back in 2008, in stead of describing the circumstances of my losing my virginity, I retold the story my 1st boyfriend (the one with whom I lost my...
    samanthawriter samanthawriter
    46-50, F
    12 Responses Nov 17, 2008


    I was 12 when I was raped, but to me thats not when I lost my virginity... virginity cant be taken, its given, so I was 13, with a14 year old. We were together about 6 months. No I dont regret it, No I dont think I was too young, No I dont wish I had waited for the 'one', No I...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Sep 7, 2008

    I Was 15 And He Was 21

    I thought at the time that I just "had it going on" so much that 21-year-olds dug me. Wrong. He plied me with a few weeks of "I love yous" and picking me up from basketball practice with a 40 ounce for me to start on. I remember we were in a a pick-up truck in a corn field (yes...
    gruuvygirl gruuvygirl
    41-45, F
    1 Response Aug 4, 2011

    I Lost Mine

    i lost mine when i was 18 i was still in school when virgin
    vovlo90 vovlo90
    18-21, M
    Nov 10, 2011

    Technical Question

    Well, there are all kinds of virginities, you know. If you mean vaginal sexual intercourse with a guy, the answer would be 13. But as for the OTHER virginities, I would have to say 5, 7, 10, 12 and 18.
    sarahcantstop sarahcantstop
    26-30, F
    11 Responses Jul 22, 2010

    Young Silly Party Girl

    I was going to older parties from age 12. Sure i snogged, and got felt up when drunk.but aged 13 i went to this party and must have been spiked 'cos i woke up being sick on a bed with a bleeding sticky crotch, and 8 used condoms tied in my hair. I was sore for weeks, and i heard...
    nymphbabe nymphbabe
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Jul 17, 2009


    to the  my hubbythe love of my life   the  only one. june16 1975 it was awesome he took his time made me feel great  gave me the real hot love  had 3 great kids and he was older  i was 19 he was 30 am still smiling
    lisaheavy lisaheavy
    51-55, F
    9 Responses Oct 23, 2011
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