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I Want to Know Do Opposites Attract

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    Me and a friend recently had a discssion about this over coffee... At some point in life we both have been told that opposites attract in accordance to our current partners.... Her and her husband are two very different people, like wise me and my husband, are very different...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Definitely

    Yes they do - something about the appeal of someone completely different. But more importantly: Can they live with each other?
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2008

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    Yes They Do

    but like batteries positive to negative it does not always lead to a harmonious life
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T Mar 7, 2013

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    I As A Example

    I am a retired so called OUTLAW...43 year old Hispanic that comes from a very dysfunctional family. SHE a 63 year old retired science teacher(white) that comes from a wealthy family. Which (we) have been together 28yrs now....well, been divorced. But, we got remarried...
    oilfieldhauler oilfieldhauler 41-45, M Mar 6, 2013

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    I Choosed My Opposite ...

    There was this guy i liked since i was 13. I became best friends with him and with time we became like ... the same person. I knew his feelings and thoughts and he knew mines, and our friends would describe us as the same person. We were always together, wanting the same thing...
    VaniliaLover VaniliaLover 16-17 Dec 29, 2010

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    Like Paula Abdul--i Too Think Opposites Attract.

        So I have been thinking a lot this weekend about what I am looking for in a mate and boy does my head ache. LOL   Seriously is it important that we are compatible?  “Most certainly.”  Are there key interests that I want my guy to...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 45 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    Yeah..Living Proof Right Here

    I do believe opposites attract. Like me and my husband for example. Me and him do have a few things in common don't get me wrong but our personalities are a little different among other stuff. Like with me I'm the bashful sometimes quite person. He's always talking to people...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F May 3, 2013

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    Yepp, They Do

    All the men I've ever fallen for have been very, very different from me.
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Sep 15, 2012

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    Opposites Do Not Attract

    I know we are all made of the same Love stuff, yet not all aspect of Love are appealing. The way of Love is that I attract or magnify what I love and repel what I don't.  Put another way, what I want wants me and what I don't want doesn't want me.  For instance, if I eat...
    vector8 vector8 46-50, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Oppisites Attract

    sure thay do if two people are truly destined for each other nothing on earth can tear them apart not even being oppisite and besides two oppisite lovers can have fun and share new things with each other and it will make the relationship more excting
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    I'm Always Attracted to My Opposite

    I can only think of like one time that I actually got a big crush on someone who was similar to me...but usually I'm not attracted at all to girls with my same personality and all.  I have no desire to be with someone just like me...that would almost be like being with my...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    This morning, a totally random, reasonably decent-looking stranger, pulled his car off the road to tell me that he found me attractive and ask whether I was "spoken for." *blush...
    Colormevibrant Colormevibrant 46-50, F 3 Responses Jul 7

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    I never thought I would be the kind of girl who would wear yoga pants...but when I do people notice me and call be beautiful...is this what it takes? I wish I felt and saw that I...
    jackjack600 jackjack600 18-21, F Jul 8

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    I wish I wasn't average... Mediocrity is my worst fear.
    DauntlessRavenclaw DauntlessRavenclaw 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 8

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    I look at myself in the mirorr and wonder why can't I be pretty? It really sucks having to deal with stretch marks and bad acne. Some girls have everything so much easier.
    Gabs96 Gabs96 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I wanted a girl who can listen to my problems and she tells me hers I wanted her to know I really do care about her I wanted know everything about her and I will tell her I love...
    SexyLez101 SexyLez101 13-15, F 3 Responses 5 days ago

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    PISCES SIGN Pisces sign is the sign of eternity in the Zodiac. Pisces sign is difficult to be described exactly. Among Pisces sign there are many creative and artistic people...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    SCORPIO SIGN Scorpio sign is an expression of Ego. Scorpio sign is able to control his character and hypnotism radiates from Scorpio sign eyes. Scorpio sign are brave people and...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    The Dolphin Spirit Animal The dolphin spirit animal represents harmony and balance. Dolphins are both highly intelligent and closely in tune with their instincts, striking a...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 9 hrs ago

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    Yeah, I'm doing this. Seriously, if you think I'm not please comment, i won't be offended (doesnt mean be rude). I just want to know because I think I'm ugly. No one could like my...
    minimuscle minimuscle 13-15, M 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    Let me know what you think
    t1dus10 t1dus10 22-25, M 5 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I am attracted to older men in there 30's or 40's I know it's strange but I like them and I am very horny. ;)
    Beckyy14 Beckyy14 13-15, F 10 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    I can't seem to find any females around where I live that want to mingle.
    justanotherguysearchingfor justanotherguysearchingfor 18-21, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    How attractive am I? 1-10 please be honest.
    SexyEric1 SexyEric1 13-15, M 4 Responses 7 hrs ago

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    my name is sophie im 17 but i act a lot younger i think... im a little bit shy but i want to be someone's little princess... i am kind of spoiled but if im naughty i can take my...
    sophieprincess sophieprincess 16-17, F 7 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    As a kid my parents were never the affectionate type, never said 'I love you', never hugged or kissed each other let alone us kids. I wouldn't say I had a bad childhood as we had a...
    megannicole1996 megannicole1996 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 hr ago

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    Cat Spirit Animal The cat totem wisdom tells us about timing in action and courage to explore the unknown. Those who have the cat as spirit animal may be encouraged to develop...
    Skylar2000 Skylar2000 13-15, F 11 hrs ago

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    If you’ve ever interacted with me before you’ll probably already know that gender is something I talk about a lot. I wanted to write an official story about it so my views...
    BewareTheGonzo BewareTheGonzo 13-15 2 Responses 2 hrs ago

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    Hi guys.. Me and boyfriend been together 4 years. I have come to the point where I think it's time we end. He is 26 I am 22. He makes. I effort with anything, our conversations are...
    iana2592 iana2592 22-25, F 5 Responses Jul 6

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    I miss being in love. I want to be there so badly again. I just LOVE the jump in my heart, when I look into her eyes - and I can see that she's looking at me with love too... The...
    milehighHeartbreak milehighHeartbreak 31-35, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    Well then if you want to help someone who wont let you in then Let Go! Be there if they ask or need you or just listen. Sometimes people have their reasons n just want to be alone...
    Janeysunshine Janeysunshine 36-40, F 1 hr ago

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    I just want one ******* human being to talk to and them not judge me by what I say .. I want to be able to tell them about my life and them not be in shock or pitty me for what I...
    imperfectbeauty imperfectbeauty 18-21, F 6 Responses 9 hrs ago

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    The other day, my co-worker was showing me people on Tinder, and one of the men that showed up was someone I knew. He is my ex-boyfriend's brother. Well the problem is, his brother...
    Navia55 Navia55 26-30, F 1 Response 51 mins ago

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    Who doesn't want to know the answer to this question. You must admit that you've longed to post on this subject; you've seen this topic and you've wondered who will find you...
    TheSmartestManOnEarth TheSmartestManOnEarth 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 30

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    To start things off, I never really supported being gay and it actually made me sick to my stomach thinking about, I never understood how it was possible to love another man. I was...
    WhyAmIWhoIAm WhyAmIWhoIAm 13-15, M Jul 7

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    I am a man who tries to take care of myself mentally and physically to the best of my abilities, but lately, I've started to hate my face more and more. My self-esteem is at an...
    findingmyway78 findingmyway78 31-35 1 Response Jul 13

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    How many times do we come across statements like, "I don't care about looks and I only care for what's inside." At the same time, you come across statements like, "I looked at her...
    finitenessofinfinity finitenessofinfinity 22-25, M Jun 30

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    I have read the books from Crowley. His "Ars Goetia" (which is originally not from him but I come to it later), "Liber al vel legis", "magick" and a few grimoires written in latin...
    OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans OnlyDeadHumansAreGoodHumans 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I'm new and I keep seeing posts like this, by both men and women. I'll click on the post, and often it will be someone that I do think is attractive, sometimes it's someone that I...
    Varof Varof 18-21, M 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I am sixteen, but for some reason I find older men attractive. Looks dont matter. I think its because they are more mature, have more experience, and know how to talk to women...
    cloakedgarden cloakedgarden 13-15, F 22 Responses Jul 7

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    I don't need to ask if I'm attractive or not, because I know that those who loves me knows it,and those who hate or insecure will disagree haha.. Beauty of the inside is more...
    Lovesweetlove Lovesweetlove 26-30, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Okay so Im posting again. Some people told me that they cant really give me their opinion because the last photo had effects and makeup on it. So this time... Its an ordinary pic...
    gotawishy gotawishy 16-17, F 17 Responses 3 days ago

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    I think this is a fun group to join.Like many, I have a healthy appreciation for beauty too, and no....nothing freaky like being celebrity obsessed...or being superficial in liking...
    LittleMinxx LittleMinxx 41-45, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Well I'm an older guy attracted to young women not girls. Before anyone jumps to conclusions and thinks I'm a pervert young woman and attraction need to be defined. For me the line...
    ADF37 ADF37 56-60 2 Responses Jul 1

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    Qualification What qualifies a man as a candidate for love? Does he have to be in shape or have a job? Does he have to be a certain type of person? I'm sitting in the dmv looking...
    OneHowlToTheMoon OneHowlToTheMoon 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Haha everyone else is doing it so I may as well! Am I attractive? I don't find myself attractive but I wanna know your thoughts :)
    CharlieSGisenburg CharlieSGisenburg 16-17, M 13 Responses Jul 12

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    I really do believe that it works so my story starts last year the worst year of my life, went through hell and back so last year everything just went downhill there was just a lot...
    Cutestuff2 Cutestuff2 18-21, F 1 Response Jul 13

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    I know that I should appreciate being single and it's benefits, but I've been single my entire life and I'm sick of it. I want someone I can talk to about anything and everything...