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I Want to Know Do Opposites Attract

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 46 People

    I'm Always Attracted to My Opposite

    I can only think of like one time that I actually got a big crush on someone who was similar to me...but usually I'm not attracted at all to girls with my same personality and all.  I have no desire to be with someone just like me...that would almost be like being with my...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan 22-25, M 6 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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    Discussions....

    Me and a friend recently had a discssion about this over coffee... At some point in life we both have been told that opposites attract in accordance to our current partners.... Her and her husband are two very different people, like wise me and my husband, are very different...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 19, 2009

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    Yepp, They Do

    All the men I've ever fallen for have been very, very different from me.
    righteouschica righteouschica 18-21, F Sep 15, 2012

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    Yes They Do

    but like batteries positive to negative it does not always lead to a harmonious life
    christinemelody christinemelody 56-60, T Mar 7, 2013

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    I As A Example

    I am a retired so called OUTLAW...43 year old Hispanic that comes from a very dysfunctional family. SHE a 63 year old retired science teacher(white) that comes from a wealthy family. Which (we) have been together 28yrs now....well, been divorced. But, we got remarried...
    oilfieldhauler oilfieldhauler 41-45, M Mar 6, 2013

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    Yeah..Living Proof Right Here

    I do believe opposites attract. Like me and my husband for example. Me and him do have a few things in common don't get me wrong but our personalities are a little different among other stuff. Like with me I'm the bashful sometimes quite person. He's always talking to people...
    tngurl25 tngurl25 26-30, F May 3, 2013

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    I Choosed My Opposite ...

    There was this guy i liked since i was 13. I became best friends with him and with time we became like ... the same person. I knew his feelings and thoughts and he knew mines, and our friends would describe us as the same person. We were always together, wanting the same thing...
    VaniliaLover VaniliaLover 16-17 Dec 29, 2010

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    Opposites Do Not Attract

    I know we are all made of the same Love stuff, yet not all aspect of Love are appealing. The way of Love is that I attract or magnify what I love and repel what I don't.  Put another way, what I want wants me and what I don't want doesn't want me.  For instance, if I eat...
    vector8 vector8 46-50, F Oct 2, 2012

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    Like Paula Abdul--i Too Think Opposites Attract.

        So I have been thinking a lot this weekend about what I am looking for in a mate and boy does my head ache. LOL   Seriously is it important that we are compatible?  “Most certainly.”  Are there key interests that I want my guy to...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm 41-45, F 46 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    Definitely

    Yes they do - something about the appeal of someone completely different. But more importantly: Can they live with each other?
    WyldHoney WyldHoney 31-35, F 2 Responses Sep 5, 2008

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    Oppisites Attract

    sure thay do if two people are truly destined for each other nothing on earth can tear them apart not even being oppisite and besides two oppisite lovers can have fun and share new things with each other and it will make the relationship more excting
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 24, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    Right now whike writting this about to cry but i know i mustn't. really how could a few bad memories hurt you like is there way to gust forget every thing i really wantto know...
    anthoni15 anthoni15 18-21, M Dec 2

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    I'm not sure if that's an actual law of attraction when it comes to human relationships but I really like people who are very different from me. I don't really want someone that...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F Dec 7

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    I think that most people with any kind of social interaction these days suffers from some form of body image problem, or at the very least a desire to appear attractive to others...
    EmperorJulian EmperorJulian 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 19

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    I always feel attractive when I wear something cute. I'm 5'2, I have a small waist but huge butt, I have short legs, and broad/wide shoulder. What will look good on me?
    AtlPunk1D AtlPunk1D 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I don't know, am I? I love to pretend to be pregnant too.
    ResplendentMelissa ResplendentMelissa 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 19

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    I've been getting some really mean comments off my sister and her husband recently, and they just came back from visiting family in England where they tell me they've been...
    EmptySmokeClouds EmptySmokeClouds 18-21, F 5 Responses Nov 29

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    Following my last post, I have found something else that may help people understand, & even use the English language...
    bybybuster bybybuster 56-60, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    leanncc11 leanncc11 26-30, F 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Tip: when you are looking for a companion, do not worry about whether he/she likes you. Only worry about how he/she makes you feel. Stop trying to make everyone like you and...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 1 Response 4 hrs ago

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    So today Dylan and I started out… lets just say, “not conected”. So, I was late to spanish class. Dylan was just staring at me out the door. I opened it and closed it quietly...
    GoldMarine GoldMarine 18-21, F 3 hrs ago

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    I believe in the law of attraction. I began my journey with reading The Secret. What a great book! This has many great stories of how successful the Law of Attraction really can...
    Saramore10 Saramore10 18-21, F 1 Response Dec 3

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    coworker flirting or LIKES me I have been working at this new job for about 6 months and I have noticed this coworker has 'grown on me' and I am attracted to him. The thing...
    tee13gee tee13gee 41-45, F a week ago

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    I dream about it everyday. My simple wedding. Not inviting too many people. As long as it's me, him and my baby girl there. Oh and a few close friends. And his family, not so much...
    Singlemother78 Singlemother78 31-35, F 5 hrs ago

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    Well i made it before i grew up. Since i never truly grew up. But pals want me breathing and chatty. But after watching pussycat dolls i hurt. They warn of wishes...
    OddlyScintilating OddlyScintilating 46-50, M Nov 18

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    1)My name is Tessa. 2)My real name is Theresa actually but people call me Tessa. 3)I'm American. 4)I'm originally from Washington. 5)I moved to New York 2 years ago. 6)I have a...
    Tessa3 Tessa3 22-25, F Dec 5

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    I don't want to know if you think I'm attractive, I already know the answer. If you saw my photo you might say, "No, not attractive". Probably would say that. Ugly even. However...
    pcflvly pcflvly 46-50, M 2 days ago

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    Always been attracted to guys double my age or more. I don't mean to diminish any guy around my age group or anyone within 10 years of me BUT its true I honestly am attracted to...
    MisssValentine MisssValentine 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 24

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    lol funny group. Consider a girl in my class. I don't find her attractive but my friend does. At first, I didn't understand why this happens but now I realized that...
    ashrith ashrith 18-21, M 1 day ago

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    I remember the first time I was attracted to a girl... I was 15 and she was my friend, a few years older than me. We were at camp, in a cabin, just talking with each other and...
    bellabird bellabird 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 26

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    I've never acted on it in any way and I don't plan to but I find my cousin to be rather attractive. She's pretty, she's smart, she's funny, and is a similar kind of strange. She's...
    PunkOfSteam PunkOfSteam 22-25, M Nov 27

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    Hi all, When I started college I met this guy, Mark, who was in my halls. (We were around 80 people in the halls.) I noticed him from the beginning but he had a girlfriend. I am...
    PaolaGarcia PaolaGarcia 18-21, F Nov 30

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    1-I'm a male,though that term has some connotations I don't share. 2-I was born in July 9th,1987. 3-I like overthinking about anything. 4-I have always been a very hard sleeper...
    theWolfUndertheMoon theWolfUndertheMoon 22-25 Dec 6

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    Everyone I've seen who posts in this group is attractive. Are attractive people more insecure about their looks or do unattractive people know they are unattractive, and don't...
    dub000 dub000 26-30, M 7 Responses Dec 9

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    I hate how people who know they are super attractive post things asking if they are attractive just to be an attention wh*ore. Just saying.
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    Younger women dating older men mainly because younger women are attracted older men. older men mature, confident, stable .Mature guys always know how to treat their women.These...
    tessacc12 tessacc12 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I asked myself once. If someone who should be better half is in another part of this world, should I work hard for him? And the answer since then, yes. I believe distance won...
    rockettothemoon08 rockettothemoon08 18-21, F 6 hrs ago

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    Alright. I know I might be judged severely. But I am 15 years old and I'm in love with a 23 year old man. He has a girlfriend. I'm the other 'woman' (yes I realize I am still a...
    cydneyxx cydneyxx 13-15, F 4 Responses Nov 21

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    Just for clarification, "older guys" is not synonymous with old men. The attraction comes from experience, maturity, stability and security. There also has to be a physical...
    DebbieG17 DebbieG17 18-21, F 7 Responses Nov 26

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    100% honest, do you think I'm attractive. Personally, I don't think I'm attractive lol but I don't really care about looks. (Disclaimer: I'm not looking for creepy old men to...
    123me321 123me321 13-15, F 10 Responses Dec 1

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    Trust me I was going through here and all were somewhat attractive, everyone has one part of then that is perfect. So my answer is that you are attractive! :)
    EmojiGirl EmojiGirl 16-17, F 3 Responses Dec 5

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    This happened to me three times while working at this resturant. 24-28 year old black guy that speaks slangish but very proper when need to. Always happy and in good mood, don't...
    Icanhelpjustask Icanhelpjustask 26-30, M Dec 6

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    Just recently there were an bunch of Arabs where I live from Qatar and they were the most attractive guys I have ever seen. They would all stare at me apparently because I'm fair...
    mrenae0211 mrenae0211 18-21, F Dec 7

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    So, as I mentioned before I find chubby girls very attractive. I myself am also chubby and love being chubby, however I want to remain healthy. Recently this girl started talking...
    ilovefatforsomereason ilovefatforsomereason 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    My dream is to be a modern day Casanova. I wanna have the ability to attract girls and connect with them on an emotional level. I know I wouldn't abuse the power, but that is my...
    Experiencezzzz Experiencezzzz 18-21, M 6 days ago

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    How do i know if he's still married? I met this guy two months a go. He's 10 years older than me. From the first time i met him i can totally feel that there was a mutual...
    LovelyLilly13 LovelyLilly13 22-25, F 4 days ago

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