I Want to Know Do Opposites Attract

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 55 People

    I Choosed My Opposite ...

    There was this guy i liked since i was 13. I became best friends with him and with time we became like ... the same person. I knew his feelings and thoughts and he knew mines, and our friends would describe us as the same person. We were always together, wanting the same thing...
    VaniliaLover VaniliaLover
    16-17
    Dec 29, 2010

    Definitely

    Yes they do - something about the appeal of someone completely different. But more importantly: Can they live with each other?
    WyldHoney WyldHoney
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Sep 5, 2008

    I As A Example

    I am a retired so called OUTLAW...43 year old Hispanic that comes from a very dysfunctional family. SHE a 63 year old retired science teacher(white) that comes from a wealthy family. Which (we) have been together 28yrs now....well, been divorced. But, we got remarried...
    oilfieldhauler oilfieldhauler
    46-50, M
    Mar 6, 2013

    Opposites Do Not Attract

    I know we are all made of the same Love stuff, yet not all aspect of Love are appealing. The way of Love is that I attract or magnify what I love and repel what I don't.  Put another way, what I want wants me and what I don't want doesn't want me.  For instance, if I eat...
    vector8 vector8
    46-50, F
    Oct 2, 2012

    Yepp, They Do

    All the men I've ever fallen for have been very, very different from me.
    righteouschica righteouschica
    18-21, F
    Sep 15, 2012

    Yes They Do

    but like batteries positive to negative it does not always lead to a harmonious life
    christinemelody christinemelody
    56-60, T
    Mar 7, 2013

    Oppisites Attract

    sure thay do if two people are truly destined for each other nothing on earth can tear them apart not even being oppisite and besides two oppisite lovers can have fun and share new things with each other and it will make the relationship more excting
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    Yeah..Living Proof Right Here

    I do believe opposites attract. Like me and my husband for example. Me and him do have a few things in common don't get me wrong but our personalities are a little different among other stuff. Like with me I'm the bashful sometimes quite person. He's always talking to people...
    tngurl25 tngurl25
    26-30, F
    May 3, 2013

    This is me.. From 41 question test.

    . Your personality type: "Engaged Idealist" Popular and sensitive, with outstanding people skills. Externally focused, with real concern for how others think and feel. Usually dislike being alone. They see everything from the human angle and dislike impersonal analysis. Very...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 19, 2015

    Like Paula Abdul--i Too Think Opposites Attract.

        So I have been thinking a lot this weekend about what I am looking for in a mate and boy does my head ache. LOL   Seriously is it important that we are compatible?  “Most certainly.”  Are there key interests that I want my guy to...
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    41-45, F
    45 Responses Aug 24, 2008

    I can be flighty, I don't like being told what

    to do, I hate being questioned like I've done something wrong, I don't like having to explain myself either, or explain that I'm a good person. I'm sure to a man of structure, organization, and control, I can, and will test every bit of their patience. I don't know why or...
    rottenrobi rottenrobi
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Dec 13, 2015

    Discussions....

    Me and a friend recently had a discssion about this over coffee... At some point in life we both have been told that opposites attract in accordance to our current partners.... Her and her husband are two very different people, like wise me and my husband, are very different...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response May 19, 2009

    I'm Always Attracted to My Opposite

    I can only think of like one time that I actually got a big crush on someone who was similar to me...but usually I'm not attracted at all to girls with my same personality and all.  I have no desire to be with someone just like me...that would almost be like being with my...
    RopinTexan RopinTexan
    22-25, M
    6 Responses Sep 10, 2008

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