I Want To Know How I Can Stop Being Insecure

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    Why Us?

    My depression relly truely sucks.I have these little voices in my head.And it has part a real hurting on my marriage.I get these thoughts that run into my mind, and it's like they take over my right from wrong nknow the difference but still end up going around that corner. Hoping...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Nov 1, 2010

    Me

    I wish I knew what females really want ina relationship. I am now married and it is still as crazy as before . It is just like being single again, She tells me one thing then does some thing different than what she says. I just do not know where I stand I mean come on you tell...
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    26-30
    Jan 23, 2011

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