I Want to Know How to Deal With a Midlife Crisis In My Spouse

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    I Believe He Had A Midlife Crisis...

    In January 2008 my then husband informed me that "I am done" justlikethat, I actually turned to him and said "done what" and was informed our marriage as far as he was concerned was over.  He said there was nothing to discuss or worth saving, and he walked out.  Nine...
    doublesmom doublesmom
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Feb 15, 2010

    Spouse In Midlife Crisis???

    My mid 30's husband has always had some bi-polar tendencies, but this time is different. He's always been a dyed in the wool cowboy, head to toe. WAS a horseshoer (farrier) and horse trainer. Within a few days, he decided he was giving up farrier work and training, put the cowboy...
    priehl priehl
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Apr 8, 2009

    Here is a long story made very short: My

    husband, who I love with all my heart and soul and have been with for 17 years, married for 13 of those years, said "I love you, but I'm not in love with you. I need to find myself. I can't do that with you. I want a career at sea as a Merchant Marine so I can travel the...
    aml321 aml321
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Dec 17, 2014

    My husband of soon to be 15 years told me he is

    no longer in love with and feels nothing for me. The thing is he is still living with me, sleeping in my bed, and acting normal until we are alone. He says he doesn't care what or who I do. I know he is going through a crisis and it sucks that I am the one getting hurt by all of...
    Jazz217 Jazz217
    36-40, F
    4 Responses Jun 16, 2014

    So, I turn 40 and I'm looking around at my

    friends. Husbands are dropping left and right. One ladies husband left her hanging with five children. Another ladies husband comes home and announces that he quit his job and they are all moving to sacramento (several hundred miles away). Another ladies husband gets a 24...
    ratgirl73 ratgirl73
    41-45, F
    1 Response Oct 19, 2014

    My boyfriend and I have been together

    for almost 10 years. This past December I found out he had been talking to a woman on Facebook and it was, in his own words, more than friends. He is about to turn 52 and has told me he feels like he is not where he thought he would be or wanted to be at this age when it comes...
    helpmekeepittogether helpmekeepittogether
    36-40, F
    1 Response Feb 5

    My ex husband is so mean.

    ...why? My ex husband left two years ago to be with another woman (which he still denies). Pathetic. Anyhow, in moving on and don't ask him for a thing other then to keep me in the loop regarding his intentions of picking up out sons 11 & 15. Everything else can and is...
    kruby79 kruby79
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Sep 28, 2014
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