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I Want to Know How to Mend a Broken Heart

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    Heartbroken & Confused

    I have been with my bf for 1yr...the 1st day i met him i knew i wanted to spend the rest of my life w him. We moved in 2gther 2 months after meeting...ever since then our relationship has tooken a turn for the worst...I have caught him cheating on me multiple times and have seen...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 18, 2012

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    Never Left Alone (song)

    Slowly, I fade away. Surely, I can't escape. 'Cause when you look at me with those big brown eyes, there is no place that I can hide. And when you kiss me with your soft, soft lips, I can feel my heart doin' flips. And when you take my hand in yours, suddenly I...
    malloryhwkns malloryhwkns 16-17 1 Response May 29, 2011

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    Stud Fix

    I wanna no know ta mend ah broken heart so i cn mend the females hearts ive hurt wit out knowing nd too them im deeply sry,, nd the other reason i wanna no how ta mend ah broken heart is so that i cn mend the females tha was hurt be4 they came ta mie so they never wanna leave mie...
    IAmTrevorBrentMAXX IAmTrevorBrentMAXX 18-21, F Jan 17, 2011

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    Trying to Help a Friend....

    A friend wrote us ( my friends and I ) off for a girl he thought he was going to be with for a long time. Six months go by and nothing but we stay calm - friends will love you when you come back anyways. He tells me she wants nothing to do with him anymore today...
    SleepingLion SleepingLion 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 5, 2009

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    Roberta

    Missing the one I loved or my best friend I still remember the day in 7th grade when I was called to the office to be a buddy to a new kid in school. Thought out the day we grew closer to each other and strange thing happened between us, it was like we had a mental connection...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2 61-65, M May 30, 2011

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    How To Cope

    How do I cope with this. I miss him i hate him i love him. If he cant man up and communicate with me what am i waiting for. Everytime i get my courage up I remember how hard it would be at night...like now..alone in my room.Ive never felt alone before..
    whydoineedasn whydoineedasn 18-21 2 Responses Sep 23, 2012

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    If Anyone Knows....

    If anyone knows how to heal a broken heart. Please let me know, it could be really useful to know! especailly when I am helping someone who is going through a broken heart!
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Oct 5, 2009

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    Only One Who Knows

    The God and Father of my lord and saviour Jesus Christ (in the Church epistles addressed to the believers He is the God and Father of "our" lord and saviour Jesus Christ).  He is the only One Who can know this.
    HealedHeart HealedHeart 46-50, M 2 Responses Mar 6, 2009

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    Because I Only Know How to Make Things Worse

    Time after time I get my heart broken and each time I just feel worse... I obviously cant fix this one on my own
    annathom annathom 26-30, F 2 Responses Jun 18, 2008

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    Me Too

    Well I have known her for 7 years now and she was married to one of my cousins. They were together for 10 years and had two beautiful daughters. One fine day my cousin walked out from their lives. Because we were really good friends I started to be close to her.. I started...
    Kkarki Kkarki 26-30, M Jun 17, 2012

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    Healing Is a Process

    I respect faith, but doubt is what gets you an education. —Wilson Mizner And it never seems to end.
    1Babe 1Babe 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 1, 2009

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    It Wont Happen..

    I know time heals all wounds and I need to surround myself with friends.. But what I need is you. You were the only one that could make me feel better.. So how do you get better without the one who always fixed you?.. The pain is just too great.. I know people have been through...
    Amay408 Amay408 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 10, 2011

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    How To

    Cry and let everything out.Pig out.Tell ourselves we are humans and we will survive.Exercise.Reach out to someone we trust.Go out.Consult a mental expert if is too hard on us.Tell ourselves positive things and try breaking the negative thoughts..
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Jun 25, 2011

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    I don't really have an idea, and maybe that's mainly because I back out on something before I know it's going to burst into a fireworks of unecessary pain. I'm not only talking...
    acitythatneverwakesup acitythatneverwakesup 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 6

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    Unfortunately too often. Or fortunately. Depending on what i want to be. Saint or jerk.
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    mother1983 mother1983 26-30, F Sep 4

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    I think I'm bout to go through another one
    cjohnson1983 cjohnson1983 31-35, F 1 Response Sep 11

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    Does anyone know how to mend a broken heart and make a wish come true?? :(
    SexyNightmare SexyNightmare 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 13

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    This is the story of me and a boy named joey a met on a teen program in my cruise. We're still friends after all of this, but I'm scared that we'll never get back together because...
    SteffXRocker SteffXRocker 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 23

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    I Have a Broken Heart I met him four years ago, we never grew up together so I didn’t see him for what he was: my cousin. Yes I know, gross. I know. I know. I always knew. But I...
    danee012 danee012 18-21, F Sep 3

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    I met him four years ago, we never grew up together so I didm;t see him for what he was: my cousin. Yes I know, gross ******. I know. I know. I always knew. But I have accepted the...
    danee012 danee012 18-21, F Sep 3

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    Hi. Please read this cause I would like to explain a concept lots of you seems to misunderstand. There I was forcing laughters faking smiles. Lying to myself that I'm actually...
    TheLadyYves TheLadyYves 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 22

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    whenever you are in a relationship, whether you think you are destined to be or you are soul mates, always leave space for disappointments or you can internally have a broken heart...
    blackstarunity blackstarunity 16-17, F 4 Responses Sep 13

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    My wife of 3 1/2 years wants a divorce and she is actually going through it. Both of us are in the military and she has been in korea since June while I'm at the state side. The...
    brokenheartedagain44 brokenheartedagain44 41-45, M 10 Responses Sep 8

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    HEART & TOOTH ..... broken heart is the 3ed phase after happy heart and tortured heart , it's the sift from happiness to extend torment that results in broken heart . to explain...
    xthedreamerx xthedreamerx 41-45, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    My mom, she's never here. She doesn't notice how my smile's so cracked And through the cracks you can hear my sobs. She doesn't hold me when I'm falling apart inside. When I was...
    IvyEstelle IvyEstelle 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 3

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    I want to have conversations with people. I want to befriend them. I want to learn about their lives and what they enjoy doing. But I never seem to know how to go about it. I...
    modinski modinski 18-21, F 3 Responses 5 hrs ago

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    Isn't being in a relationship with a broken heart harder then being out of a relationship with a broken heart?
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    I really don´t know how to start this, but the need to talk to someone has become so big. I have Friends and Family, but they think that I have such a perfect relationship and I...
    BrokenandlostX BrokenandlostX 36-40, F 5 Responses Aug 22

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    I thought I had it under control. I thought I was strong enough to make it through a day without crying. Why does today feel as sickening as my first day without him? Why does my...
    sar4952 sar4952 26-30, F 4 Responses Aug 29

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    I am not a singer so belting out my hurt won’t help. I am not an artist so painting my broken heart with the tormented colours of my palette won’t work. So, I play the music...
    Bandiliu Bandiliu 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 27

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    Having this broken heart is either going to turn me into an angry ***** or it's going to drive me further into depression and I'm not going to want to talk to anyone. I can't see...
    sugarcakes143 sugarcakes143 18-21, F 2 Responses 5 days ago

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    Feeling used and broken hearted :(
    diana2389 diana2389 22-25 4 Responses Sep 13

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    My partner of 4 years broke up with me a week ago. We were planning to be married next year. We are originally from India but currently live in the US. When I first met him, I was...
    mkist mkist 22-25, F 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I try very hard to stay positive with everything that's goes on in my life, however I don't seem to be able to keep it up for long. Life seems to be able to jump up and kick me in...
    Lightandshadows Lightandshadows 31-35, M 1 Response Sep 7

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    I don't know if I should answer him "yes", because I don't know which is which, is it because I love him or pity him? I don't even know what should I feel about him right now...
    Misaki7590 Misaki7590 16-17, F Aug 22

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    I want to help people but its hard. I can barely help myself. I have so many issues too. When I go to get some "me" time I end up leaving my friends to suffer alone. I feel so bad...
    ponycupcake ponycupcake 18-21, F 6 Responses Aug 22

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    108 ibs, 5.3 feet. I don't really know how I feel about that.
    ColourfulDreams ColourfulDreams 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 27

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    I don't know how to flirt. Nor even do I want to Say what you mean, mean what you say is how I like to live.
    dontcareforlabels dontcareforlabels 41-45, M 1 Response Aug 30

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    I want one and need one but don't know how to ask plz help
    livelovehopefree livelovehopefree 13-15, F 2 Responses Sep 5

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    The bible tells us "not to throw our pearls before swine" Do not take the things that are precious to you and allow others to trample them under foot. Test the waters first. You...
    Myalee Myalee 41-45, F 6 days ago

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    I never learned how. This summer on vacation my kids tried to show me how to swim. It almost worked but it was embarrassing being an adult trying to figure out how to swim in an...
    SashaAmazon SashaAmazon 31-35, F 2 days ago

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    I really don't know how to talk to girls. I can't seem to figure them out. I be myself and try to have normal conversations with them but they never seem to be interested. I never...
    Justadarkhole Justadarkhole 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 26

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    I think this experience thread is a little one sided and hypocritical. Firstly, every person has a limit of stress and pain that they can handle, which to them when pushed beyond...
    AnonR AnonR 70+, T 1 Response Sep 1

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    For as long as I've known myself I've always been closed off. My mother raised me in a closed off world where school was the farthest I could go into the outside world. I was never...
    FriscoWolf FriscoWolf 18-21, M Sep 1

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    I know that probably sounds absurd. I'm not sure why, and I have taken notice to it, but do not know how to change the way I address them! Maybe it's social anxiety/awkwardness...
    JaidIsAWildflower JaidIsAWildflower 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 6

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