I Want to Know the Biggest Age Difference In Your Relationship

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    I'm 27, my wife is 48.

    We've been together for 8 years.
    Jononymous Jononymous
    26-30, M
    2 Responses Feb 22

    I am currently with a man

    who is 26 years older than me. His wife left him and he was terribly depressed when I met him. He was my mentor once. He has two kids but they don't live with him. I am very happy with him and I cannot imagine being with someone else.
    EmilySwift08 EmilySwift08
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 23, 2015

    I am a 24 year old and I am in an open

    relationship with a 47 year old. It's the absolute healthiest, happiest relationship I've ever been in.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    He was my dads best friend,

    I was the child he never had. He was 60 and I was 23, 38 years my senior. Because of the strong family ties we had between us I practically grew up around him and he actually lived with my parents before I was born. I moved to Malaysia when I was 4 and came back when I was 8 and...
    AryaFairgloom AryaFairgloom
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Apr 9, 2014

    I'm 42 and she is 22.

    She is heaven sent.
    bigbangFACTS bigbangFACTS
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Nov 7, 2015

    I dated a guy in his 60s

    and had the best time ever
    sandralusk sandralusk
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2015

    A millennium. Or 4 days.

    Both answers are technically correct, since I was born in early 2000 and he was born in late 1999.
    PinksTheNewBlack PinksTheNewBlack
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    15 Years

    I'm 31 and he's 46 and the age gap is absolutely no problem or issue for us whatsoever. This is also the biggest age gap that I have ever experienced in a relationship too.
    celtically celtically
    31-35, F
    5 Responses Dec 2, 2010
    sholdier7 sholdier7
    26-30, M
    Feb 23

    Biggest Age Difference...

    If you go by just having sex; it was 24 years (I was 16 and he was 40), if you mean in a relationship then it was 11 years (I was 18 and he was 29).
    VickyBu VickyBu
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Sep 14, 2012

    I'm with a man who is 42

    and I'm 22.. So almost exactly 20 years.
    ElouiseLou ElouiseLou
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 23, 2015

    I imagine some folks will think badly about this

    but my other half is 30 years younger than myself. does this make me a perv? We are both happy with the current status.
    elimin8or elimin8or
    36-40, M
    Feb 23

    wen i was 17 i was with a guy

    who was 45 i think thats the bigest age diff ive had
    lacipink lacipink
    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    The biggest age difference

    for me was my ex that I had met online. She is now 21 since September and I'm 16. We were together for almost four years, but then we drifted apart.
    RandomExistence RandomExistence
    16-17, M
    Oct 17, 2015

    I was 17 & she was 34 & married,

    she left her husband to live with me ( 4 years ) & we had a son together, SEXUALLY there's no better compatibility ( with desires ) of a 17yr old male & a 34yr old female ( it was a match made in heaven )
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    3 Responses Aug 26, 2015

    30 Years.

    I have always been attracted to older men, I enjoy the stability and that maturity level along with many other perks.  I am 20 years old and until a couple weeks ago the biggest age difference I had in a relationship was with a man who was 34; and that relationship did not...
    annalea annalea
    26-30, F
    69 Responses Apr 19, 2010

    We met at work. I was a customer service

    representative and it was my first job at 18 years old. He was very attractive and very smart, he was the IT guy. We started going to lunch together and having such great conversation and developed somewhat of a romantic relationship. Once we went to lunch to get sushi at a nice...
    baaabybee baaabybee
    22-25, F
    1 Response Oct 16, 2015

    I was 22 and she was in her mid 30s.

    She matured me in many ways as I was used to women about my age and the games they played
    Penguin47 Penguin47
    70+, M
    4 Responses Dec 5, 2015

    she was 42 I was 20! Good times,

    mutual understanding, no harm done!
    Carma500 Carma500
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Feb 22

    well i'm ** years old,

    and my pizza is 2 days old, but still i love it the same
    Nelly123321 Nelly123321
    22-25, F
    Jan 26
    SweetAsSugar10 SweetAsSugar10
    4 Responses Nov 29, 2014

    I dated an online friend

    for a year, I was 14 and they were 17 to almost 18. It wasn't much of a relationship since we barely talked and when we did it was just them asking if we were still together. Our friendship never changed even if we were dating, we just had the occasional flirting and...
    carazami carazami
    Nov 6, 2015

    I am Eva, 20 years old

    and my boyfriend is 56. I love him so much and I enjoy every moment I spend with him. But, I am so afraid from the future, what will happen and how long will we stay together! No body knows about us, we act as friends in front of my family and his. I sometimes have headaches...
    Eva122 Eva122
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Mar 31, 2015

    in terms of a proper relationship my current bf

    is 39 years older. I'm 31 he is 70. I did have sex with a 72 year old when I was 20
    su4old su4old
    31-35, F
    16 Responses May 22, 2015

    My Swedish catfisher

    who I now live with and have a child with is 29 years older than me. Amazing.... The amazing part is I can say that to people with out cringing and feeling ashamed. If some one else told me about such a thing- Oh, no. I'd be all feminist up in your face and think the worst of...
    TenaciousSmile TenaciousSmile
    22-25, F
    1 Response Feb 23

    So... I was, note: was,

    in a secret relationship with a man 30 years older than me. I am 18 and he is 48. The reason we do not have a relationship anymore is because my mum found out and ended it. She hates him because she says that he manipulated me. I have no idea where I stand and to tell the entire...
    BadLuckIsMyHabit BadLuckIsMyHabit
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 16, 2015
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Mar 14, 2015

    I Was 17. He Was 31.

    I was 17, and he was 31 when we met at the grocery store where we were both working. I was a part-time cashier, and he was one of the buyers. We had a very sexual relationship right from the beginning, and it evolved into some ageplaying games between us that we still play...
    jesystar jesystar
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 23, 2011

    In high school i had an affair with my German

    language teacher. She was 42, i was 17.
    deleted deleted
    Oct 17, 2015


    I'm 19 and my current BF is 58, almost 59. I LOVE that he is older. He LOVES that I'm younger then his kids. It works 4 us.
    daddysemma daddysemma
    18-21, F
    15 Responses Jul 8, 2011

    I have a friend with whom I have a

    non-exclusive relationship. He recognises that he can't keep up with me all day and all night. I keep him satisfied and he is happy for me to be with others closer to my age. I am 21 and he is 63. He is very open minded. Sometimes before going out I satisfy him then come home...
    cassieo21f cassieo21f
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 23, 2015

    We answered an ad in an on line swinger's group

    and have been "Playing" with this couple now for 2 years. I am 30 years older than her and my wife is 21 years older than him.
    phph phph
    66-70, M
    Jan 28

    When I was 12 ( still is ) I dated a guy like

    in his 20s but he was cute asf and nice so I didn't care
    prettyme12 prettyme12
    13-15, F
    1 Response Jun 12, 2015

    On March 2 1990 at the Justice of Peace in N.

    Texas I was 26 my wife was 17 years and 2 days old (Feb. 28 her d.o.b.) and I was holding are almost 1 year old son (March 18 sons d.o.b.). I was told by a million people are marriage would not last. Well on March 2, 2115 we celebrated 25 years of marriage. Thank you very much...
    Slickfinish Slickfinish
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Jun 29, 2015

    If you're talking about an actual relationship,

    I once lived with a woman who was 6 years years older than me. I was 44, she was 50. If you want to count "hook-ups" then my greatest gap would be with a 19 year old girl, when I was 52.
    baddaddyii baddaddyii
    51-55, M
    2 Responses Oct 16, 2015

    In my case, it was 31 years.

    I was 18; he was 49.
    DrWhom DrWhom
    2 Responses Sep 29, 2015

    I am 18 & my husband is 29.

    We are happily married 💕
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Oct 24, 2014

    Age Doesn't Matter

    I'm 18, hes 45 We have an age gap of 26-27 years, but I've never loved anyone like I love him. We are very similar people but also have different interests which keeps things interesting. I'm not exactly ready to tell my family because I know they wouldn't accept this, but I...
    bella1639 bella1639
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 19, 2012
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    Nov 14, 2015
    Spanishtorture Spanishtorture
    22-25, F
    7 Responses Jun 11, 2015

    I Fell In Love

    She was 17 I was 42. I don't know how it happened but we were very attracted to each other when we met. She had been touched by an older guy when she was way younger so maybe it was a reenactment she wanted with me. Anyway, it worked for 2 years until she left me for another...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Aug 7, 2012

    I am 52 and she was 24,

    and we had many things in common. She had to move with her job, and that ended it!
    nudistdom23 nudistdom23
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2015

    33 years. i'm 16 and he's 49,

    although we're not officially together, i love the bones of him and we're deeply in love.
    Blenkinsop4 Blenkinsop4
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Sep 5, 2014

    17 years when I was 17 (

    that relationship lasted 4-4 1/2 years ( and eclipsed her marriage )
    cashetty69 cashetty69
    51-55, M
    Nov 5, 2015

    wife is 36 im 25 we have been married

    for 2 years now and may i just say with God all love is possible amen.......he is the center and motivation of our marriage
    Gwriter90 Gwriter90
    22-25, M
    Jan 25
    jenniferc78 jenniferc78
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Nov 28, 2014

    I was 23 and he was 45.

    NYPD detective. Gorgeous Italian who was great in bed. Still miss him to this day.
    nygirl91 nygirl91
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Jan 26

    For now its just two years difference.

    ...but if I wanna date someone older it will definitely be like Russell from the tv show new girl ,I'm talking about looks n personality..his is like to die for ;)
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Nov 23, 2015

    on the over, she's 16 years older

    than me, on the under, she's 25 years younger. before that was 21 years younger. wow, the whole span from youngest to oldest is 41 years.
    jayciedubb jayciedubb
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 22

    Five years. I've always dated someone older

    than me for some reason lol.
    deleted deleted
    Nov 22, 2015

    36 years of difference.

    ' Daddie' who I've been seeing about 5 months. He's 58. I'm 22.
    KendraKitty KendraKitty
    22-25, F
    12 Responses Dec 8, 2013

    My wife was 15 when we met,

    I was 35. We married when she turned 18 and have been happily married for 13 years now.
    GlenAP GlenAP
    51-55, M
    1 Response Nov 6, 2014

    my ex is 19 yrs older.

    husband now is 12 yrs older.
    LilMsLonley LilMsLonley
    41-45, F
    2 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    Rite now im 19, and my gf is 15.

    We are deeply in loveee, it seems like we been dating forr years. Wen we first, she had a bf but I liked her wanted her. We still kinda but then fall off. We started talking again this year, finally she was single. We stopped talking to each other bout a year and half. But...
    Legend1boyy Legend1boyy
    1 Response Jan 26

    i was 28 at the time

    and he was 48. We dated roughly 9 months... May have been longer if it weren't for unforseen circumstances.
    shecanonlydream shecanonlydream
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jan 31

    my second bf was 44 when i was 19 :^_^ lol it

    was a great relationship, aint gonna lie!
    apperentlyicanthavemynameagain apperentlyicanthavemynameagain
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Jun 12, 2015

    Oh My Goodness!!

    i feel so...strange right now! first of all, a difference in age has been a very typical thing in my love life. up until recently, most of the guys i have dated have been younger than me. two of them by 11 years. somehow i have almost always ended up with younger guys...
    sneakygirl1 sneakygirl1
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Feb 21, 2012

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    cougarloving cougarloving
    31-35, F
    1 Response Dec 24, 2015

    Cradle Robber - Guilty As Charged!

    I met this wonder girl via the world wide web in 2010 and she was 28 . She had this profile that really spun my top - cute brunette, smart, very curvy, and she seemed very sweet. I was thousands of miles away, and 18 years older, but I contacted her, then she gave me her phone...
    AlaskanHero AlaskanHero
    46-50, M
    6 Responses Mar 3, 2012
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