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    When I was younger people told me I looked like

    a tomboy just because I wasnt 'girly' enough, they said I was ugly and even tho they didnt say it straight to my face I still overheard them and it really hurt. The kids would look down on me and think I was a joke. My parents once told me 'I wish you'd never been born' and that...
    possiblyali possiblyali 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I need to get this off of my chest,

    and even though no one might not read it I will had shared it. Its been festering and usually I can just shake it off like water on a duck but it won't go away tonight. Its a few things that my parents have said to me over the years and just recently like to,would weeks ago. The...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 28, 2015

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    After embarrassment and emotional trauma,

    I told my own mother, through tears and in detail,that I was raped, she didn't believe me, citing a story about how her sister once lied about it. She just watched me cry, and sat without a change of expression on her face.
    malanxious malanxious 22-25, F 4 Responses Feb 1

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    That I look like a fat cow in front of everyone

    at school( oh I how I loved teenage years, I know I was chubby but not a cow ) and one of my teachers said I won't finish high school because I'm dumb! Well surprise surprise, things sure have changed and I finished uni too! Who's laughing now
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I was really fat a few years ago &

    when I took my clothes off in front of my ex he said "it looks like you're melting". It's funny now because I'm slim but back then it hurt as if a brick was thrown at me.
    selina1986 selina1986 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    ok, so i have pretty long eyelashes

    for a guy ( i hate the **** out of them), anyways, back in third grade, we used to have gym with the fourth grade. there was this one really mean kid and his friend who would just annoy the hell out of me. so one day, one of these guys comes up to me and asks me: "hey do you use...
    Reef182 Reef182 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    "You're the worst daughter one can have.

    " dad "I hate you, you're useless." mom "Guess what? you're annoying, no one likes you." mom "Stop acting like you're smart, you're annoying" mom again. damn asian parents- I kinda never face them in the same way again.
    huangzitao huangzitao 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 1

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    "Anyone who talks to you

    for more than 5 minutes call tell you're slow" Yeah and my sister wonders why i don't talk to her. I know im not to bright but damn that was uncalled for but shouldn't surprise me in the family i have. They believe in tearing each other down.
    PanHead1989 PanHead1989 26-30, M 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    "Stop whining, girls like you are

    so noisy and complain too much, that's why girls are annoying," I was 9 and someone I respected said that to me. I'd never been the same since.
    XallaXeX XallaXeX 16-17 Feb 1

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    Dad: I'll always love/support you no matter

    what Me: then you didn't GrandMother: You're an abomination! You and all of those helpful people are going to hell. Me: Thanks Fam First Sis: This is all your fault Me: Kill urself fkin betch
    ToBeFuckinSame ToBeFuckinSame 18-21, T Jan 11

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    That Id grow up to be a dummy

    and get pregnant ...I was destined to be a *****... Im fat...im ugly.. Im no good like my father. ..i deserved it... etc. ... well i have a genius i.q...i didnt get pregnant until I was 40 and my baby was planned because I wanted him... i have a beautiful heart... and im not...
    Myeyestellu Myeyestellu 41-45, F 3 Responses Jan 11

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    "If you leave, I'll kill myself" I never

    wanted to be with him, I never wanted to be kissed by him, I never wanted to he manipulated by him, but I also didn't want him to die. luckily he didn't because he moved to another state and broke up with me. I haven't seen him in two years but I'm still scared one day he'll...
    Smileyabbs Smileyabbs 22-25, F 4 Responses Jan 31

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    "I didn't tell you where I went

    and when I'd leave because I don't need you as extra weight over my back, you slow me down" my own big brother
    hyper64 hyper64 18-21, M Jan 11

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    My teacher last year said to me "I think you've

    failed all of your exams, you just don't have what it takes. Then when you get your results you'll just give up like you always do and you know what? You'll never amount to anything and that's all you deserve." Such a lovely teacher... I'm now at university studying her subject...
    Becky18 Becky18 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    The Ugliest Thing Ever...

    wasn't said to me, but to an acquaintance, in high school. I suspect it affected her forever, and it changed my attitude about guys for a long time, too.It had to do with a nice looking boy at school, "Keith". He was very confident, cocky, even, and he had a way of charming you...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 56-60, F 5 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    Your stupid and Ugly,

    you will never amount to anything. Says the stepmother, To a ten year old child. Oh, I almost forgot no one will ever love you.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jan 12

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    My 8th grade English teacher told me I'd never

    go to college if I couldn't spell it (I spelled it colledge).
    Hemingwayhero54 Hemingwayhero54 51-55, M 4 Responses Jan 11

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    Mom

    I saw this experience and I was trying to think of the worst thing I have ever been told.  It took a while but I finally remembered.  There have been two things, unfortunately, both things were told by my mother.  The first one was when I was about 10 years old.  My...
    TexasLily TexasLily 56-60, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    Once at a funeral. .I was about 20 .

    .. and Id lost alot of weight. .an old, ugly moron came up to me and goes. ."wow! you're beautiful. .i remember when you were short and fat and ugly! Well you halfwit...I was shorter because I was a little child the last time you saw me... I may have been chubby but I was...
    Myeyestellu Myeyestellu 41-45, F 2 Responses Jan 12

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    "I finally had my proof

    when she turned up at the door and looked scared, and guilty". "Are you sure you didn't ask for it? You didn't just want some attention and you got it, just not what you wanted?" Those are the words my Mum said at the end of last year when we had a massive fight over the...
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody 31-35, F 5 Responses Feb 2

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    "What you did last night was not ok,

    you can't kiss me or grope my boobs, just because you think I was asleep. Not cool, especially when you know what my grandfather did to me. I was half awake and I know everything you did." -my now ex girlfriend "What are you talking about? I was asleep too" -me
    Username4369 Username4369 18-21, M Jan 31

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    I hate you don't ever talk to me again.

    . Why don't you just go to sleep and never wake up... Just go cut yourself...
    Lillyisawesome Lillyisawesome 13-15, F Jan 15

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    "You'Re Not Even Worth Killing."

    I just realized that I haven't written a story about my schooltime bullying yet. Sorry for being so lazy, I really have to do that sometime. I guess it will be quite entertaining. Anyway, one of the "highlights" of my bullying experiences can be summed up with being told this...
    flowerlesswall flowerlesswall 22-25, M 6 Responses Mar 17, 2013

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    Men And There Dicks

    Would any man shove his **** up me on htis website. Im not a virgin but all the men on this website wont speak to me xxxxxxxxxxxx by hollie
    luckmypussy luckmypussy 22-25, F 18 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    Some of the worst things anyone ever said to me

    are: 1. I don't love you more because you're different. 2. I will kill you. 3. I hate you. I was just pretending to be your friend. 4. Joe can't possibly really love you. He goes for girls who have a lot of money and who are popular in society. 5. Nick can't possibly really want...
    loveismyfriend loveismyfriend 36-40, F 1 Response Feb 1

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    One of the worst things ever said to me was

    here. I was explaining to a man that the NAACP was not a racist organisation that excluded whites; it was founded by whites, with the famed W.E.B. Dubois and has included renown white members (including Albert Einstein), over the years. The man was becoming angrier and angrier...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 56-60, F 8 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    Walking home from work one night,

    a truck pulled up next to me. The passenger side window rolled down, and I could see a male (driver) and female passenger. "Hey honey," he shouts to me, "You must eat well because you are one fat ******* c*nt!" He and his cohort started laughing like crazy and sped off before I...
    iSpyce iSpyce 31-35 5 Responses Jan 12

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    osnapitzama osnapitzama 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 1

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    I don't even register things being said to me

    as bad. I know all of the good things but I scale words from good to neutral. Mere words don't have a negative impact on me.
    ValhallaAwaits ValhallaAwaits 22-25, M Jan 31

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    I was standing in 7-11 (convenience store)

    when a guy was trying to fort with the cashier. He said to her that she could any man. He then turned to me, looked me up and down and said ,"I know you ain't got nobody ". Then he walked out. Now granted I did not look my best but wtf. He didn't have to say all of that. Just...
    kitakat00 kitakat00 26-30, F 6 Responses Apr 20, 2015

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    The Worst Thing My Mom Ever Told Me

    She looked me straight in the eye when I was twenty two years old and told me she didn't love me more because I'm different. I do not care how you try to change it around, hearing that from someone who birthed and raised you is NEVER nice. I cannot help that I was born with less...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    The worst thing anyone ever said to me was

    when I was in high school and my mom was yelling at me. She said "The best part of you ran down my leg the day you were born!!!" I've never been the same since.
    iowateri8309 iowateri8309 51-55 1 Response Jan 31

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    In college I was engaged to a beautiful woman

    that I thought was my soulmate. She called off the engagement without ever giving me a real reason. When she return the diamond ring, she said "I hope we can still be friends... in fact I would really like it if you had this diamond cut in two and give them to me as diamond...
    AlwaysGood AlwaysGood 51-55, M 13 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    When my husband of 12 years

    and I found out we were unexpectedly expecting triplets. We already had 7 and 10 year old boys. He said "now I can cheat on you all I want and do whatever I want because you can never raise 5 kids without me". I told him not to bet on it and ended up a very happy successful...
    jalea1 jalea1 51-55, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    True story. Mean people.

    I was twenty five years old. Had my little girl with me. We were travelling across country by train. (1970) A man approached me and asked if she was my daughter. I said yes she is. He said he didn't believe me. Like an idiot, I asked him why, and he said "Well, because SHE...
    Serenitree1 Serenitree1 70+, F 5 Responses Feb 1

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    "You need to cover your butt" Oh my.

    .. That sentence repeated unleashed a beast within me. I am a very upfront honest person, what you see is what you get. I threw the worst temper tantrum of my life and it just had to be in a board meeting. I shoved myself away from the table and stood proudly before them all...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 10 Responses Apr 19, 2015

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    "You're a bad mother,

    the worst mother I've ever known" (by my grandmother, just because she disapproved of me letting my son see his dad because she didn't like him) and "the only reason another man would ever want you is for your body" (by one of my ex-boyfriends)
    stephanie29 stephanie29 31-35, F 7 Responses Aug 19, 2015

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    "I never loved you, you were just an obsession".

    Something my first love said that sticks around. It may not be the worst, but it makes me feel sad from time to time.
    TellyLuv TellyLuv 22-25, F 2 Responses Jan 31

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    "He didn't make it." My world stopped

    and has not been quite the same since that night.
    LuvinKitty LuvinKitty 51-55, F 6 Responses Jan 31

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    "You're a total waste of a human being.

    " My ex-husband and father of my son.
    sugarfooties sugarfooties 66-70 8 Responses Mar 13, 2015

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    Suspect00 Suspect00 13-15, F Feb 2

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    lesbianpeter lesbianpeter 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    my ex wife told me "I never loved you,

    I just used you to get out of where I was"
    Ruadon Ruadon 36-40, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    "life is just a game,

    and it seems to me you suck at it" my dad to a 11 year old me I mean come on! too soon!
    hyper64 hyper64 18-21, M 3 Responses Jan 15

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    Total Creep Factor

    "I will do everything in my power to make you want me" and "No power on this Earth can stop me from having you" are just two things a mannish boy here on EP who continues to stalk me and make new ids to contact me on has said. Blocking doesn't seem to work for him. Invisibility...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Aug 16, 2013

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