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I Want To Know The Worst Thing Anyone Has Ever Said To You

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    When I was about 11 or 12,

    I had a teacher that bluntly said to my parents and myself that because I was born with a disability that I would never amount to anything. He basically told me to give up all my hopes and dreams and never aim for anything because having a disability to him meant that I was...
    mattywheels25 mattywheels25 26-30, M 5 Responses Jan 20

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    "I was never your friend.

    Not even from the start"
    Dottyz Dottyz 22-25, F 1 Response May 10

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    "You're a total waste of a human being.

    " My ex-husband and father of my son.
    sugarfooties sugarfooties 66-70 8 Responses Mar 13

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    "I slept with you last night

    because I needed to make sure I didn't love you anymore" Yep...that's right kids...had to screw me one last time JUST to be sure... Thanks be to the Lord that this loser dumped me!
    pinkstarburst pinkstarburst 41-45, F 8 Responses Apr 20

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    hmmm, that's a toughy!

    People have said tons of things that have hurt me. It wasn't about me but my three year old niece that I love dearly. She was born premature. She fought for her life, she truly did but my grandmother had told my mother that she had hoped she didn't make it and that oh, well...
    EarthyLocks EarthyLocks 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 12

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    kxCobra kxCobra 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 12

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    My mom told me "you always ruin the things I

    love" when i accidentally broke a piece of jewellery she owned when I was in primary school. She probably doesn't remember it, but I do.
    AlDhari AlDhari 18-21, F 4 Responses Mar 12

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    I went out with you on a dare ~laughing~ Like

    someone could ever seriously love you ~more laughing~
    MrOttawa MrOttawa 46-50, M 5 Responses Feb 25

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    Translated into english from spanish: " you're

    such a disgrace, you piece of ****" -dad.
    CosmicBear01 CosmicBear01 13-15, F Apr 20

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    I was socially excluded in my secondary school,

    so normally I was walking alone. There was this group of girls in my last two years of school who always had to laugh at me and say things. I remember one day I was walking out of school, feeling like crap anyway because that was probably when I was at my lowest (with regards...
    The2ndLaw The2ndLaw 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6

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    ok, so i have pretty long eyelashes

    for a guy ( i hate the **** out of them), anyways, back in third grade, we used to have gym with the fourth grade. there was this one really mean kid and his friend who would just annoy the hell out of me. so one day, one of these guys comes up to me and asks me: "hey do you use...
    Reef182 Reef182 16-17, M 3 Responses Jun 3, 2014

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    "Everyone thinks you're bulimic

    and anorexic." Might not sound like much but i have had problems with my weight for a while, I eat so much but I still look painfully thin. I was very self concious about my weight necause my parents used to (and still do) crititse me about being fat. I am not fat, but i used to...
    kathygrindley kathygrindley 13-15, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    You love your daughter now

    because she is small, but wait til she grows up. you won't love her the same way. -my mom
    elnleah elnleah 22-25, F 2 Responses Dec 25, 2014

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    She looked me right in the eye,

    not drunk, not high and sneered, "I hate you."
    MrFoolery MrFoolery 41-45, M 1 Response 1 day ago

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    My teacher last year said to me "I think you've

    failed all of your exams, you just don't have what it takes. Then when you get your results you'll just give up like you always do and you know what? You'll never amount to anything and that's all you deserve." Such a lovely teacher... I'm now at university studying her subject...
    Becky18 Becky18 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 23, 2014

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    I need to get this off of my chest,

    and even though no one might not read it I will had shared it. Its been festering and usually I can just shake it off like water on a duck but it won't go away tonight. Its a few things that my parents have said to me over the years and just recently like to,would weeks ago. The...
    CaliGurl2007 CaliGurl2007 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 28

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    Men And There Dicks

    Would any man shove his **** up me on htis website. Im not a virgin but all the men on this website wont speak to me xxxxxxxxxxxx by hollie
    luckmypussy luckmypussy 22-25, F 19 Responses Dec 1, 2010

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    There are so many horrible things

    that have been said to me that I could go on for years typing them but I wont therefore I'll share the most recent horrible thing that's been said to me. My fiancé and I were at a party and his friend said "when the cops pull over a white man with a black woman, they know she's...
    Msprissy Msprissy 36-40, F 4 Responses Apr 20

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    My bestfriend said she considered me

    as one of her baggages she needed to get away from, or let go of. She said she couldn't let herself go down with my negativeness (she was the only one who thought I was a pessimist, which in reality I'm not).
    raivelle raivelle 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 22

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    It was my first day in a new school

    where I didn't know any one. I walked into my class a bit late and some one seid "this is America u speak English or you speak Spanish you Asian *****!" And after that every one kept speeding rumors and saying rude things to my face when I smiled my eyes would squint so every...
    xXLONERXx xXLONERXx 13-15, F 3 Responses Jun 12, 2014

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    People don't say it to my face,

    cause they know I will bust there face tho
    StevieOakley14 StevieOakley14 13-15, F May 10

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    One of the worst things ever said to me was the

    day I told my mother my father was molesting me...her response "yes I know it's your fault for being so skinny". She then took me to my boyfriend house (who I had been seeing for 2 weeks) and left me there the entire weekend! I had to tell his parents what was going in and thank...
    StressedOut2 StressedOut2 36-40 2 Responses May 11

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    "You're not worth anything,

    you never were. I wish your suicide attempt would've been successful."
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 21

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    Total Creep Factor

    "I will do everything in my power to make you want me" and "No power on this Earth can stop me from having you" are just two things a mannish boy here on EP who continues to stalk me and make new ids to contact me on has said. Blocking doesn't seem to work for him. Invisibility...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F Aug 16, 2013

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    One of the worst things ever said to me was

    here. I was explaining to a man that the NAACP was not a racist organisation that excluded whites; it was founded by whites, with the famed W.E.B. Dubois and has included renown white members (including Albert Einstein), over the years. The man was becoming angrier and angrier...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 8 Responses Aug 25, 2014

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    after my mother had a heart attack

    when I was 9 my father strangled me and said it was my fault mum is going to die.
    godnox godnox 18-21, M a week ago

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    When my husband of 12 years

    and I found out we were unexpectedly expecting triplets. We already had 7 and 10 year old boys. He said "now I can cheat on you all I want and do whatever I want because you can never raise 5 kids without me". I told him not to bet on it and ended up a very happy successful...
    jalea1 jalea1 46-50, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    When a relative molested me

    and held me captive for a few hours and my mother said, "That never happened. I talked to your father about this. He said he would pay for a psychiatrist."
    Thia999 Thia999 56-60, F 1 Response May 12

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    This Is It.. So Far ?

    I was 19. Always sensitive about my weight, specially since it had only ballooned up once I left high school. I was at an Aunt & Uncle's house & had been babysitting their grandson. They'd just come home & we're getting ready to pay me (yep, I was chargin' for my services.. if I...
    deleted deleted 26-30 13 Responses Jun 20, 2012

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    "you're not even supposed to be alive.

    I would have aborted your *** if I hadn't have had too many before you." -mother
    millerandm1 millerandm1 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 20

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    "Grace, you're not even

    that funny." Like are you ******* kidding me? I'm Hilarious..
    Bflyboo14 Bflyboo14 13-15, F 4 Responses Apr 23

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    I don't really know what is the worst thing I

    have been ever told, but one that has come to my mind frequently in the past years was the time that after a strong quarrel my ex told me that it would have been better if I had not existed. Those words struck me like lightning. I could not reply anything. Fortunately they...
    Danceofhours Danceofhours 41-45, M 1 Response Apr 21

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    "How did I bring up such horrible children?

    " My mum said that to me. The women which has so many views which are not appropriate.
    internationalkoala internationalkoala 18-21, F 3 Responses May 10

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    My mom called me a heifer.

    Not explicitly to my face- she accidentally sent a text to me in which she was complaining about me and the word was used. A huge argument followed. Also, my dad's catchphrase was "I couldn't care less." Whenever I got scared or emotional as a child.
    PendulEmPlum PendulEmPlum 18-21, F 1 Response May 10

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    "I wanted a son I could do things with.

    " said by my father to me on several occasions when my brother won't hang out with him but I want to.
    QOE23 QOE23 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20

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    That I look like a fat cow in front of everyone

    at school( oh I how I loved teenage years, I know I was chubby but not a cow ) and one of my teachers said I won't finish high school because I'm dumb! Well surprise surprise, things sure have changed and I finished uni too! Who's laughing now
    lostCake lostCake 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    The Worst Thing My Mom Ever Told Me

    She looked me straight in the eye when I was twenty two years old and told me she didn't love me more because I'm different. I do not care how you try to change it around, hearing that from someone who birthed and raised you is NEVER nice. I cannot help that I was born with less...
    blossomingbeauti blossomingbeauti 36-40, F 4 Responses Sep 2, 2013

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    I don't know if this is the worst thing

    but one time I had a boss tell me if it was up to him he wouldn't have hired me. It was in front of HR in a mediation session, we hated each other. Yes I cried. I'm over it now.
    georgiakd georgiakd 26-30, F 1 Response May 9

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    The Ugliest Thing Ever...

    wasn't said to me, but to an acquaintance, in high school. I suspect it affected her forever, and it changed my attitude about guys for a long time, too.It had to do with a nice looking boy at school, "Keith". He was very confident, cocky, even, and he had a way of charming you...
    bijouxbroussard bijouxbroussard 51-55, F 5 Responses Apr 26, 2013

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    In college I was engaged to a beautiful woman

    that I thought was my soulmate. She called off the engagement without ever giving me a real reason. When she return the diamond ring, she said "I hope we can still be friends... in fact I would really like it if you had this diamond cut in two and give them to me as diamond...
    AlwaysGood AlwaysGood 51-55, M 15 Responses Mar 29, 2014

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    Mom

    I saw this experience and I was trying to think of the worst thing I have ever been told.  It took a while but I finally remembered.  There have been two things, unfortunately, both things were told by my mother.  The first one was when I was about 10 years old.  My...
    TexasLily TexasLily 51-55, F 9 Responses Oct 7, 2009

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    Songsinshadow Songsinshadow 18-21, M 5 Responses Apr 20

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    My stepfather said I was the load

    that should've been shot in the toilet -step farther
    Daddyslovingarms Daddyslovingarms 41-45, M 3 Responses Apr 20

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    slimmmerman slimmmerman 41-45, M a week ago

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    It may not be the worst,

    but I consider it bad. My dad use to shoot down my ideas for businesses or other goals when I was a teenager by saying "You can't do that". It would leave me feeling incredulous like "What? Why not?"
    justbeit justbeit 51-55, M 5 Responses May 12

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    "You need to cover your butt" Oh my.

    .. That sentence repeated unleashed a beast within me. I am a very upfront honest person, what you see is what you get. I threw the worst temper tantrum of my life and it just had to be in a board meeting. I shoved myself away from the table and stood proudly before them all...
    HotMessExpress101 HotMessExpress101 31-35, F 11 Responses Apr 19

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