now won't matter in 5 years. That not everyone you think will be around forever is. Cherish every moment as it comes and don't worry about tomorrow. Moments soon become memories and not every memory can be lived. Give second chances, accept that the past is passed and you can't...
Don't ever smoke a cigarette. I don't care how cool and grown up looking it is, cigarettes are the devil.
Don't color your hair. Ever. As addicting as smoking, and almost as expensive.
Don't ever loan anything you want back, or want back in...
Look at yourself in the mirror and be be brutally honest with yourself - your strengths and your flaws. in particular your insecurity and deal with it. Get help if necessary.
Get back on the course you were on stay disciplined and true to your dreams, desires and goals...
Don't be afraid, this is a message sent by yourself from the future. You're atleast 5 when you get this so I'm going to give you some tips of what you should do. When you're chasing your friend in a game of water tag, walk past the car. When you come accross your very first bully...
Advice to my younger self.
Less is more.
Find harmony and sanctuary within.
Find my self in the things that I do, not by doing things to find my self.
Learn what simplicity is.
Learn that simplicity is!
and worst are yet to come. Don't try to prepare or change things. Live in each moment whatever that moment brings. Let the past stay there and don't look to tomorrow. Enjoy today. Some days are good some are bad. No matter how bad a day is it is not worth revisiting tomorrow.
Chill Kid, you know you have a mellow heart; enjoy this day; share happiness with your family and friends; make new friends; don't dwell on what's past but remember the good times; don't worry about the future - it all works out; three cats are enough - get a dog.
Don't leave her bed side even if she tells you to, that's the last time you'll see her alive!
Keep studying, don't let her death affect your schooling, she wanted the best for you.
Be more attentive to your computer classes, it will pay off.
Listen to your mother when she says...
don't pretend you're not. Don't be ashamed of yourself, it's how you were made and no one should judge you for it and if they do, just turn the other cheek.
Also, get rid of those shoes, like seriously, what are those? Don't say I'm being mean, you know they're dreadful.
and independent before moving out of my parents. I hate that when I look back I can't say I was ever self sufficient, now I'm trying to prove that I can take care of myself and my children without a man.
Just let go.
Face your fears.
Don't rush things.
It's okay to say no.
Trust your intuition.
Don't be a preacher.
Make time for friends.
Don't take it personally.
Take a few [healthy] risks.
Make your own decisions.
During many years i keep asking- WHY so cruel things happens to me all the time, WHY so cruel ppl are only around me, WHY they are so cruel if i'm too kind to everyone, WHY when i do something good to someone i always get bad in toward.... etc, etc... Now i'd said myself - don't...
it will help later on with your career. work at a career that will provide you with a sense of appreciation and good pay, you won't be sorry in the long run. always were a condom or don't do it, going without will be a mistake, unless you want to be father. don't count on...
I would tell myself to stand firm on your beliefs, your morals and your convictions. People will come and go in your life. Do not give up any part of yourself to someone else. A true friend would never ask you to anyway.
and more than anything wish I had the chance to go back in time and slap some goddam sense into my younger self.
Some of the advice I would give:
• Have a decent try at everything you wish to achieve. Try to avoid regret.
• Don't let fear rule your life. Seize every...
Don't hurt yourself over something like that. You were and are beautiful an you didn't have to make that turn. Just think about the people who love you and you'd be fine. Everyone loves you don't worry.
Dear Past Me,
Trust your intuition more. . .really! Don't act apologetic or sorry for WHO you are. Really put the focus on your problems and not everyone elses. Reveal your heart when you love and do not continue sharing it when it is not recognized...simply move on...
as I wasn't even that fat when I was younger I look back at the pictures and think dam I wasn't even big but was still bullied and also to be careful who I ***** to. The photo was me when I was younger to the girl on the left was me and I was bullied for being fat hmmm
when they say focus on school over boys." Don't get me wrong I did excellent in school, but if you are like 11 trying to already seriously date you have hurt after hurt until your chemicals are unbalanced for life. There's a reason most parents want a dating age. Immature minds...
In no particular order:
*Don't be so self-conscious.
Alanis Morissette said it best-
I wouldn't have compromised so much
so much of myself for fear of
having you hating me
I would've sung so loudly
it would've cracked myself!
I became self-conscious
Dear Candace, you are so unique, funny and smart. Oh and yes, you are very pretty. However, your looks do not define your value. You have so much more to your character, than the physical. Put down the money and the attitude, you don't need it. It's...
You don't love those guys and they don't love you. In fact, just ask the questions you want to ask, instead of letting yourself be used.
I know you want to feel wanted but that's not a healthy way. I know being shy is in our nature but don't let it control you, try new things...
It does not matter how much you want love, learn that you ARE love, what you send out, you get back.
You create much of your own reality, so, be kind to yourself.
Be busy entertaining peace and avoid drama, embrace tenderness and gentility in your life always.
It is your...
1. finish high school
2. date more girls and actually get into a sexual relationship with them instead of being a pansy and just occasionally holding hands.
3. don't quit that one really laid back mall job you had that paid you really well.
4. do more illegal drugs and don't...
My Dearest Past Self:
I am writing to you from your future. I know you are only 16 years old and graduating from high school today. This is my present to you.
Two years from now you will meet a man that seems to be perfect. He is rich and a congressman's...
For every moment of doubt or confusion or indecision, or insecurity these are some of the words I wish I could have said to myself when I was a teen...
Hold on tightly
learn Japanese,Spanish and Norwegian...they'll be the most ...
She won't love you
Hope is pointless
It won't happen
No One will recognize all your hard work
Nothing can be done about it
Intellect can't save you from pain
Never regret your mistakes
Give Up trying to control it all
I was obsessed with improving myself, and thought that the...
away - it gets more serious, lots of responsibilities, more problems and boring as you get older so just enjoy your childhood and teen years!
Life is all about risks so take that chance otherwise you will regret it!
You have to go out of your comfort zone if you want something...