Chill Kid, you know you have a mellow heart; enjoy this day; share happiness with your family and friends; make new friends; don't dwell on what's past but remember the good times; don't worry about the future - it all works out; three cats are enough - get a dog.
Dear Past Me,
Trust your intuition more. . .really! Don't act apologetic or sorry for WHO you are. Really put the focus on your problems and not everyone elses. Reveal your heart when you love and do not continue sharing it when it is not recognized...simply move on...
Don't leave her bed side even if she tells you to, that's the last time you'll see her alive!
Keep studying, don't let her death affect your schooling, she wanted the best for you.
Be more attentive to your computer classes, it will pay off.
Listen to your mother when she says...
Ok first off I'm one of those people who doesn't regret anything and really wouldn't change anything about my past because it's gotten me where I am today (yeah I know - soooo cliche) but boy would I warn my past self about somethings...
Breathe!!! Seriously when you stop...
Advice to my younger self.
Less is more.
Find harmony and sanctuary within.
Find my self in the things that I do, not by doing things to find my self.
Learn what simplicity is.
Learn that simplicity is!
It does not matter how much you want love, learn that you ARE love, what you send out, you get back.
You create much of your own reality, so, be kind to yourself.
Be busy entertaining peace and avoid drama, embrace tenderness and gentility in your life always.
It is your...
as I wasn't even that fat when I was younger I look back at the pictures and think dam I wasn't even big but was still bullied and also to be careful who I ***** to. The photo was me when I was younger to the girl on the left was me and I was bullied for being fat hmmm
now won't matter in 5 years. That not everyone you think will be around forever is. Cherish every moment as it comes and don't worry about tomorrow. Moments soon become memories and not every memory can be lived. Give second chances, accept that the past is passed and you can't...
I would tell myself to stand firm on your beliefs, your morals and your convictions. People will come and go in your life. Do not give up any part of yourself to someone else. A true friend would never ask you to anyway.
and more than anything wish I had the chance to go back in time and slap some goddam sense into my younger self.
Some of the advice I would give:
• Have a decent try at everything you wish to achieve. Try to avoid regret.
• Don't let fear rule your life. Seize every...
Finish high school and go to college NOW! ...getting up at 6:30am to go to class for a few years isn't so bad, it's definitely not a good enough reason to quit school and get a GED instead (especially since you're a straight A honors student!!) Doing it now will prevent you...
when they say focus on school over boys." Don't get me wrong I did excellent in school, but if you are like 11 trying to already seriously date you have hurt after hurt until your chemicals are unbalanced for life. There's a reason most parents want a dating age. Immature minds...
Don't be afraid, this is a message sent by yourself from the future. You're atleast 5 when you get this so I'm going to give you some tips of what you should do. When you're chasing your friend in a game of water tag, walk past the car. When you come accross your very first bully...
In no particular order:
*Don't be so self-conscious.
Alanis Morissette said it best-
I wouldn't have compromised so much
so much of myself for fear of
having you hating me
I would've sung so loudly
it would've cracked myself!
I became self-conscious
1. finish high school
2. date more girls and actually get into a sexual relationship with them instead of being a pansy and just occasionally holding hands.
3. don't quit that one really laid back mall job you had that paid you really well.
4. do more illegal drugs and don't...
For every moment of doubt or confusion or indecision, or insecurity these are some of the words I wish I could have said to myself when I was a teen...
Hold on tightly
learn Japanese,Spanish and Norwegian...they'll be the most ...
Don't ever smoke a cigarette. I don't care how cool and grown up looking it is, cigarettes are the devil.
Don't color your hair. Ever. As addicting as smoking, and almost as expensive.
Don't ever loan anything you want back, or want back in...
and independent before moving out of my parents. I hate that when I look back I can't say I was ever self sufficient, now I'm trying to prove that I can take care of myself and my children without a man.
Just let go.
Face your fears.
Don't rush things.
It's okay to say no.
Trust your intuition.
Don't be a preacher.
Make time for friends.
Don't take it personally.
Take a few [healthy] risks.
Make your own decisions.
away - it gets more serious, lots of responsibilities, more problems and boring as you get older so just enjoy your childhood and teen years!
Life is all about risks so take that chance otherwise you will regret it!
You have to go out of your comfort zone if you want something...
Dear younger me,
I miss you. I miss being you. I know you are still in here somewhere. I still feel your presence sometimes, hidden in the dark, like a ghost in the shadows.
When I'm not too busy being the adult me I still try to "be" you. ...
Dear Candace, you are so unique, funny and smart. Oh and yes, you are very pretty. However, your looks do not define your value. You have so much more to your character, than the physical. Put down the money and the attitude, you don't need it. It's...
and worst are yet to come. Don't try to prepare or change things. Live in each moment whatever that moment brings. Let the past stay there and don't look to tomorrow. Enjoy today. Some days are good some are bad. No matter how bad a day is it is not worth revisiting tomorrow.
During many years i keep asking- WHY so cruel things happens to me all the time, WHY so cruel ppl are only around me, WHY they are so cruel if i'm too kind to everyone, WHY when i do something good to someone i always get bad in toward.... etc, etc... Now i'd said myself - don't...