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I Want to Know What Men Want

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    Bad Or Good, What Do They Want?

    Ok, I was reading a guy's blog and he says he does not like bad women.  Then he says he does not want good women as he gets bored with them. Am I the only one confused now?!?  Any thoughts?  
    Bluegrass Bluegrass 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    Each Man Is An Individual.

    If you want to know what an individual man wants, ask him. It's not that hard. He might be unsure himself. He might lie. But asking him is the best option, rather than trying to second guess what he might want based on his status as the owner of a pair of testicles.
    Ollie1789 Ollie1789 26-30 Nov 5, 2012

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    What A Man Want

    A man what a women who can handle her business and do all that a pornostar can do but only in the present in bed and show how powerful her man and her together and seek those men's and women who are haters to there sucess as a team. And to always entertain his mind .
    strong2weak strong2weak 36-40 Nov 11, 2013

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    What Do You All Want!

    I know men say women are complicated, but men aren't that easy to figure out either. I just want to know what men want from a woman. Do you want women who are stick thin and look like super models or do you want women who are a little on the plus size or heavier? Do you want...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 356 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    Speaking For All Men

    Men just want romantic walks on the beach. Kisses at unexpected times. We like to get flowers on holidays. Mostly we want to be told our hair looks pretty and how much we are loved. We want romantic attention that isn't just to get sex. Oh, wait... I see what MEN want! sorry...
    JustSillyStuff JustSillyStuff 46-50, T 31 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    So Hard to Read

    Just when I think that I've got them all figured out and I think I know exactly what they want they always manage to surprise me and completely mess up my logic. All I want to know is what they want in a woman (serious answers, not the stupid ones my guy friends give me). I...
    BleedingMascara BleedingMascara 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    Living A Creative Life

    I introduce myself as a marketing person working for a pharma company. I am single and live with my Mother. I enjoy working and meeting new people. This way I use my time creatively and keep myself busy in various activities. Recently, I am observing that I have lost interest...
    paku59 paku59 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I Got What I Wanted…

    At the age of 19 I got it all. I fell in love with a 32-year-old lady immediately I met her on December 11th. We were married on March 11th (1st Saturday appointment at the Registrar) and that was over 40 years ago. Our eldest son (from her 1st marriage) I adopted and we have...
    jhbusfan jhbusfan 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Sammy & a Bj

    It's commonly known that most men are quite pleased when provided with a sandwich and a blow job. Just saying.
    nerdoleptic nerdoleptic 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2008

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    Confusing

    What do men really want from a relationship? Is it as simple as them jsut wanted sex and companionship or is it really a lot more complicated than that?
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 21 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    Want to Know, But Woman Are Even Harder to Understand.

    Men... funny creatures aren't they??? lol.. well ofcourse i wanna know what they want at times, cause there is just no way in reading a man's mind. But in truth, do you really want to understand the male mind? I'm not sure i do, i know i do when he's rude for no reason, or when...
    Ella06 Ella06 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    I Love Girls

    I just want that girl that well I want any girl that dosent care about lookS
    Rashon123 Rashon123 13-15, M Nov 5, 2012

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    Some Types Of Men

    1- the first kind of men is the emotional kind who want to feel romance in every bit of his life , but some times it became selly to have romance every time because if you want to engoy the sugar, just have it after salty meal.2- the other type is ( agresive ) and this kind...
    islamknight islamknight 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    Okay

    In a nut shell, someone who actually cooks dinner as if it is a requisite . A woman who doesn't fuss, rant , and rave about silly things. A woman who doesn't believe that a man should be all- do all and in exchange the woman believes the sex alone is the proper exchange. A woman...
    Ferrez1 Ferrez1 70+ Nov 9, 2013

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    Words

    Tell me All i want is to make you happy You look at me and i have no idea what thoughts are running through your head Am i going to fast? All i want to know is what they want me to do?
    fallensnow44 fallensnow44 18-21, F 5 Responses Feb 5, 2010

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    I Truly Do

    For me, I think I can say I like high heels, pretty clothes and men make me happy. It's simple. What is it that makes men happy? Is it as simple as sex, sports and beer? Is that all there is. I don't know and I'd really like to. Then again I just can't imagine a real...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 8 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    Generally men want to do,

    some want to think but generally want to impose their will on things. Feeling something is not so important because, it is believed yo be unimportant. Below is  a quote From Harry Potter and the Order of the PhoenixA slightly stunned silence greeted the end of this speech...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Dec 20, 2013

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    What I Want!

    I want my wife to value me, to make me feel special and let me make her feel special.  I don't want my hugs and kisses to made to seem like they are a burden to bear, I want them to be enjoyable to receive.  I want my wife to be the initiater part of the time. I don't...
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    Man&Woman Relationship

    Both of them keep transperant realtionship in every activities
    kamasuthra69 kamasuthra69 51-55, M Nov 10, 2013

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    Cut to the Chase

    It would be so nice and save so much time if both parties could just cut to the chase and put their cards on the table and lay it all out. Expectations are usually so high and do not get met and that always causes major problems. I say have a nice honest open talk about wants and...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 16 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    Lost Beyond Hope

    I don't understand at all! I hear all this stuff about how people find their one perfect guy and then it just goes away. They start talking bad about eachother and it's like all hell broke loose while people were following a floating paper bag. Is it beauty that keeps a mans...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu 22-25, F 7 Responses Dec 30, 2007

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    Once Apon a Time

    Yes, I USED to want to know. For the sake of knowledge, and for the sake of improving me and my man's relationship. But ya know... the time has arrived in my life... I REALLY DON'T care what guys "want"! On much of ANYTHING! lol. You can take it or leave it... AND THAT...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    Ask Me Anything And I Answer You

    Ask me anything and i answer you
    wackojohn wackojohn 36-40, M Aug 4, 2013

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    So Many Times

    i have asked myself that question...what do men want?  really, what do they want?  do they want just sex? most of them probably yes.  do they want to hang out, be friends, hope something more than just sex develops?  not likely.  i don't know.  nor...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 15 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Man Loves Otherwise...

    My way of thinking is very traditional,and on this crazy time is very hard to find understanding for each other....but without that life cant go... i know,a lot i m wrong,but a lot of i m not... I try to understand mans way of thinking,and collect everyday opinium,experience ans...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Feb 1, 2013

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    What A Man Really Wants From A Woman.

    Ok so its true that men love sex alot its part of our genes to make children otherwise there would be no children. But thats just not all were about. We want a woman who is so very faithful and kind towards us. loyal women are something to be cherished in my opinion at least. So...
    bluedragon2112 bluedragon2112 41-45, M Nov 29, 2012

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    All I Want

    all i want is a loyal woman who will help me get through my life as easily and stress free as possible while i try my best to do the same for her...but its give and take for me...im loyal if you are loyal...if your nice to me im the greatest guy you will ever know but if your a...
    stovalltj stovalltj 18-21, M Jun 26, 2012

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    Can You Handle the Truth?

    I couldn't agree more! I met my husband in late June '07 we married in October today was 6 months of marital bliss. Yes, I know we are newlyweds and it is supposed to be mushy but the truth is we have been brutally honest with each other from our first conversation. It is unlike...
    Alterego08 Alterego08 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Men Are Easy to Figure Out

    As a man, I want very little. I want lots of sex, no nagging, good food and mother my children. Do these and I'll move Heaven and Earth till I die for the woman who does. How hard is that?
    deguarddog deguarddog 51-55, M 10 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    What This Man Wants

    Of course, we're all looking for love, both men AND women. And when we can't find it, we take a substitute. Thus, my passion for hiring prostitutes. The ladies of the night take care of my every sexual need, no matter what it might be at the moment. I certainly couldn't...
    TBear64 TBear64 46-50, M 3 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    This May Be Contradictory.....

    Loved and cared for but not smothered Alowed  space and not be smothered An Angel in the house and a devil in the bedroom. Constantly surprised. Left alone sometimes Listened too. Made to feel in charge of situations. made to feel Head of the house That he has valued...
    danshakin danshakin 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 24, 2007

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    recently started a new relation around 3-4

    months back. i have this amazing man , but i really want to know what pleases men , as i am too young for his age and he is more experienced . when i ask him he just laughs .... he says i should be uninhibited thats it and ready to explore the world with him .he really wants me...
    tiarababy tiarababy 22-25, F 4 Responses May 6

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    From My Own Experience......

    Having been a man for a while, maybe I can weigh in?  Men are pretty simple, and many women would say simple-minded.  But that's ok, and men, like women, are not a homogenous group, with almost as many variations as there are numbers of men in the world.  But here's my...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jan 20, 2012

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    What Do Men Really Want

     Gentleman, get your key pads ready and let your fingers glide on the keys, speak your mind, divulge your most secret desires. Tell me what idiosyncrasies of a woman aboslutely drives you crazy, makes you fall onto your knees and be at her mercy. What are the pitfalls? What...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 25 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    I She Swung The Malaccan Slicing Free A Buried Self

    not just a part of English school history not just a powerhouse erotic toy both intimacy and an occasion by stepping out of place i stepped into her offering a possibility i could not let go of slicing free a flesh buried self
    harvard2 harvard2 61-65, M Nov 4, 2013

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    I Am a Man

    I want exactly what I have.  A wonderful marriage, a loving wife, trust, and intimate relations.  We usually enjoy each other EVERY DAY. 
    JimRobley JimRobley 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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