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I Want to Know What Men Want

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    Sammy & a Bj

    It's commonly known that most men are quite pleased when provided with a sandwich and a blow job. Just saying.
    nerdoleptic nerdoleptic 46-50, F 2 Responses Mar 29, 2008

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    Bad Or Good, What Do They Want?

    Ok, I was reading a guy's blog and he says he does not like bad women.  Then he says he does not want good women as he gets bored with them. Am I the only one confused now?!?  Any thoughts?  
    Bluegrass Bluegrass 46-50, F 6 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    Can You Handle the Truth?

    I couldn't agree more! I met my husband in late June '07 we married in October today was 6 months of marital bliss. Yes, I know we are newlyweds and it is supposed to be mushy but the truth is we have been brutally honest with each other from our first conversation. It is unlike...
    Alterego08 Alterego08 31-35, F 4 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Some Types Of Men

    1- the first kind of men is the emotional kind who want to feel romance in every bit of his life , but some times it became selly to have romance every time because if you want to engoy the sugar, just have it after salty meal.2- the other type is ( agresive ) and this kind...
    islamknight islamknight 22-25, M 4 Responses Apr 4, 2012

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    This May Be Contradictory.....

    Loved and cared for but not smothered Alowed  space and not be smothered An Angel in the house and a devil in the bedroom. Constantly surprised. Left alone sometimes Listened too. Made to feel in charge of situations. made to feel Head of the house That he has valued...
    danshakin danshakin 31-35, M 2 Responses Dec 24, 2007

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    What Do Men Really Want

     Gentleman, get your key pads ready and let your fingers glide on the keys, speak your mind, divulge your most secret desires. Tell me what idiosyncrasies of a woman aboslutely drives you crazy, makes you fall onto your knees and be at her mercy. What are the pitfalls? What...
    umathena umathena 18-21, F 25 Responses Apr 11, 2007

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    Lost Beyond Hope

    I don't understand at all! I hear all this stuff about how people find their one perfect guy and then it just goes away. They start talking bad about eachother and it's like all hell broke loose while people were following a floating paper bag. Is it beauty that keeps a mans...
    HanaNoMizu HanaNoMizu 22-25, F 8 Responses Dec 30, 2007

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    Once Apon a Time

    Yes, I USED to want to know. For the sake of knowledge, and for the sake of improving me and my man's relationship. But ya know... the time has arrived in my life... I REALLY DON'T care what guys "want"! On much of ANYTHING! lol. You can take it or leave it... AND THAT...
    emerald emerald 36-40, F 4 Responses Mar 25, 2008

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    What This Man Wants

    Of course, we're all looking for love, both men AND women. And when we can't find it, we take a substitute. Thus, my passion for hiring prostitutes. The ladies of the night take care of my every sexual need, no matter what it might be at the moment. I certainly couldn't...
    TBear64 TBear64 46-50, M 4 Responses Nov 7, 2013

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    I Love Girls

    I just want that girl that well I want any girl that dosent care about lookS
    Rashon123 Rashon123 13-15, M Nov 5, 2012

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    What Do You All Want!

    I know men say women are complicated, but men aren't that easy to figure out either. I just want to know what men want from a woman. Do you want women who are stick thin and look like super models or do you want women who are a little on the plus size or heavier? Do you want...
    earth2bella earth2bella 22-25, F 358 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    Each Man Is An Individual.

    If you want to know what an individual man wants, ask him. It's not that hard. He might be unsure himself. He might lie. But asking him is the best option, rather than trying to second guess what he might want based on his status as the owner of a pair of testicles.
    Ollie1789 Ollie1789 26-30 Nov 5, 2012

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    Men Are Easy to Figure Out

    As a man, I want very little. I want lots of sex, no nagging, good food and mother my children. Do these and I'll move Heaven and Earth till I die for the woman who does. How hard is that?
    deguarddog deguarddog 51-55, M 10 Responses Feb 24, 2008

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    So Hard to Read

    Just when I think that I've got them all figured out and I think I know exactly what they want they always manage to surprise me and completely mess up my logic. All I want to know is what they want in a woman (serious answers, not the stupid ones my guy friends give me). I...
    BleedingMascara BleedingMascara 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 25, 2008

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    What I Want!

    I want my wife to value me, to make me feel special and let me make her feel special.  I don't want my hugs and kisses to made to seem like they are a burden to bear, I want them to be enjoyable to receive.  I want my wife to be the initiater part of the time. I don't...
    Longrun Longrun 46-50, M 3 Responses Feb 19, 2008

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    What A Man Want

    A man what a women who can handle her business and do all that a pornostar can do but only in the present in bed and show how powerful her man and her together and seek those men's and women who are haters to there sucess as a team. And to always entertain his mind .
    strong2weak strong2weak 36-40 Nov 11, 2013

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    All I Want

    all i want is a loyal woman who will help me get through my life as easily and stress free as possible while i try my best to do the same for her...but its give and take for me...im loyal if you are loyal...if your nice to me im the greatest guy you will ever know but if your a...
    stovalltj stovalltj 18-21, M Jun 26, 2012

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    Want to Know, But Woman Are Even Harder to Understand.

    Men... funny creatures aren't they??? lol.. well ofcourse i wanna know what they want at times, cause there is just no way in reading a man's mind. But in truth, do you really want to understand the male mind? I'm not sure i do, i know i do when he's rude for no reason, or when...
    Ella06 Ella06 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 9, 2008

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    Confusing

    What do men really want from a relationship? Is it as simple as them jsut wanted sex and companionship or is it really a lot more complicated than that?
    TheatreGirl TheatreGirl 26-30, F 21 Responses Aug 18, 2008

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    I Am a Man

    I want exactly what I have.  A wonderful marriage, a loving wife, trust, and intimate relations.  We usually enjoy each other EVERY DAY. 
    JimRobley JimRobley 51-55, M 2 Responses Jan 21, 2008

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    I Truly Do

    For me, I think I can say I like high heels, pretty clothes and men make me happy. It's simple. What is it that makes men happy? Is it as simple as sex, sports and beer? Is that all there is. I don't know and I'd really like to. Then again I just can't imagine a real...
    Josie06 Josie06 56-60, F 8 Responses Oct 14, 2008

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    Living A Creative Life

    I introduce myself as a marketing person working for a pharma company. I am single and live with my Mother. I enjoy working and meeting new people. This way I use my time creatively and keep myself busy in various activities. Recently, I am observing that I have lost interest...
    paku59 paku59 51-55, M 3 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    Man Loves Otherwise...

    My way of thinking is very traditional,and on this crazy time is very hard to find understanding for each other....but without that life cant go... i know,a lot i m wrong,but a lot of i m not... I try to understand mans way of thinking,and collect everyday opinium,experience ans...
    skyfone464 skyfone464 41-45, F Feb 1, 2013

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    I Got What I Wanted…

    At the age of 19 I got it all. I fell in love with a 32-year-old lady immediately I met her on December 11th. We were married on March 11th (1st Saturday appointment at the Registrar) and that was over 40 years ago. Our eldest son (from her 1st marriage) I adopted and we have...
    jhbusfan jhbusfan 66-70, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2013

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    Speaking For All Men

    Men just want romantic walks on the beach. Kisses at unexpected times. We like to get flowers on holidays. Mostly we want to be told our hair looks pretty and how much we are loved. We want romantic attention that isn't just to get sex. Oh, wait... I see what MEN want! sorry...
    JustSillyStuff JustSillyStuff 46-50, T 31 Responses Apr 7, 2008

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    So Many Times

    i have asked myself that question...what do men want?  really, what do they want?  do they want just sex? most of them probably yes.  do they want to hang out, be friends, hope something more than just sex develops?  not likely.  i don't know.  nor...
    KinkyFlower KinkyFlower 31-35, F 15 Responses May 6, 2009

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    Cut to the Chase

    It would be so nice and save so much time if both parties could just cut to the chase and put their cards on the table and lay it all out. Expectations are usually so high and do not get met and that always causes major problems. I say have a nice honest open talk about wants and...
    cinfullynn cinfullynn 46-50, F 16 Responses Apr 8, 2008

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    Related Experiences

    I know what my man needs and that's all I worry about. As for you other men, your just s.o.l. and you'll have to find someone to look after you own needs.
    TanTwink TanTwink 22-25, M a week ago

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    I've been through a really bad break up lately - My fiance of 1 year and I just weren't able to make it through the wedding planning phase - we'd met in university, decided we...
    Susumu999 Susumu999 22-25, F Apr 6

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    This is my experience with love and doubt (read on- it's not all rainbows and butterfly's, there's a twist). I welcome all of your feedback (and ridicule) and would love to know if...
    HopefulLovelyLioness HopefulLovelyLioness 26-30, F 2 Responses Apr 9

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    I'm a 16 year old girl. My whole life I have been trying to make my parents proud, but I've never been able to socialize properly with kids my age, I was always numb or upset...
    AGirlSearchingForAnswers AGirlSearchingForAnswers 16-17, F 1 Response Apr 10

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    I am already in my early twenties and I still get bothered and stressed out that my parents don't like each other. Ever since we were little, though they didn't fight in front of...
    ayumiofaries ayumiofaries 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 2

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    (Mild Trigger Warning. Don't read if you don't like.) Staring out to the clouds, I wish that I could be with you. Why do you have to be so far away, far away that you are but a...
    DisembodiedLied DisembodiedLied 18-21, F Apr 10

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    I am so angry. Angry with him. About the last relationship that we had. The way he treated me. The way things have been happening I can't forget I was so hurt It really knocked me...
    lilygeorge12 lilygeorge12 22-25, F 1 Response Apr 12

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    Hey! I'm new here at EP and I really need someone to talk to, good advice, experiences and such.. I don't know what to do! My boyfriend did do drugs and tried to take his own life...
    lilcarey lilcarey 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 27

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    Came to realize a few things but I still feel lost; like I'm living through the motions of life just to live. For so long I've held on to the baggage of my past. Too many times I...
    halfdead25 halfdead25 26-30, F 1 Response Apr 4

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M Apr 3

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    Ever since this girl first walked into our school for the first time, I couldn't take my eyes off her, and I know I probably wasn't the only one gazing at her beauty. Through my...
    elugo123456789 elugo123456789 18-21, M 4 Responses Apr 8

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    I'm 17 this year and I originally wanted to become a doctor , not because I was extremely passionate about medicine or anything but just because I had good grades and found it...
    rebekahmak rebekahmak 18-21, F Mar 25

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    I'm 20 years old taking up Info Tech. Before, i studied HRM for 2 years. I wasnt able to finish it cause as time passes by my interest is gettin low. And now, in this course i'm...
    elel110993 elel110993 18-21, F Mar 31

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    You entered: Talynn _____ _______ You like to control everyone within your influence, to shape things to your own liking. If positive, you develop high spirituality, as you have a...
    Talynn Talynn 18-21, F Apr 14

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    "I wasn't lucky enough to have ever found what I wanted to do. Don't get me wrong-- I did nicely. But I never found my passion." -Said an elderly woman in the Humans of New York...
    Lapoeta2nv Lapoeta2nv 22-25, F 4 days ago

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    i love this person , i genuinly unconditionally love this person and i have no idea what to do with myself sometimes. we both love eachother, the feeling IS mutual, and i first...
    george96 george96 16-17, M 3 days ago

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    I can't really deiced which path to choose honestly A or B, I've always wanted to leave this country and live somewhere else and now that i have a chance i'm too scared to leave.my...
    SAVEtheHER0 SAVEtheHER0 16-17, F 4 Responses 17 hrs ago

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    I don't know what I want to do, what I can do. I don't know what I'm passionate about. I don't know my capabilities. I don't know what I should be doing for a living. I don't know...
    blackbirdie blackbirdie 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 1

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    The good news is that I'm in college and I'm about to have an associate degree in general studies. The bad news is that I really don't know what to do with my life and it's kind of...
    JaimeJackson JaimeJackson 18-21 1 Response Apr 5

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    I always think about this if I ever get asked the question of "what super power would you have if you could only have one". And I always say I wish I could read minds. I want to...
    ideclarethumbwar ideclarethumbwar 13-15, F 4 days ago

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    knowing what you want is different when you know yourself , if you do not know yourself you do not know what you want
    Nichalas Nichalas 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    I've been living with an eating disorder for about three years now. Last year, I lost a lot of weight and finally felt good about myself. My period stopped coming (although I was...
    Nickyta Nickyta 16-17, F 1 Response Mar 24

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    I have a friend who lives in South Carolina who calls me often anytime she has trouble with her husband or her three kids. Now, I've known this girl for years, but when she calls...
    Whoami30 Whoami30 26-30, M 2 Responses Mar 25

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    I wanna know how it feels to be kiss.How it feels to missed by a person that can't go on without you.i want to be held and hear the words "Your beautiful ".Ive seen people wear...
    jayseca jayseca 16-17, F 2 Responses Apr 1

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    I'm sitting, feeling week, sleepy and tired. I don't want to move my body. Whats on my mind is my brothers death. I don't mean to be bad but his presence is like a threat in our...
    elel110993 elel110993 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 3

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    I really don't know what to do. I have a bf a wonderful loving bf don't get me wrong I love him to death been together 7 months now. But it's this one boy that just won't give up...
    jsabree18 jsabree18 18-21, F