I Want to Know What Turns You Off

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    Things That Turn Me Off

    Silly surveys that try to reduce a personality to an over-simplified form. Especially when the avatar is a middle aged dude in a bikini. Middle aged dudes in bikinis. Any dudes in bikinis. Dudes. People who are self-centered. False affection. Gossip. People without a sense of...
    Bfinally Bfinally
    51-55, M
    Dec 17, 2012

    Turn Offs

    I  am kind of kinky, I like so many things that turn others off, example-I like hairy men, see what I mean? I have read a few stories about preferences for shaved men. Not me, the hairier the better, Rub it on me or let me rub myself on you, is it getting hot in here? :)The...
    djw1 djw1
    61-65, F
    2 Responses Apr 17, 2012

    You Want To Know?

    You want to know what turns me off? Sagging pants. Pull your pants up! That is not attractive in any way, shape or form. Also, the "Swagg (sp?)" style. It is so unbelieveably hideous. The gangster style as well. Also, a cocky, arrogant attitude, or a mannerless demeanor is...
    duClo duClo
    18-21, T
    1 Response Aug 18, 2012

    Here Are The Biggies!

    I don't really have a "type," strictly speaking. That being said, I do have preferences-and turn offs (who doesn't?) Here are some of the latter- I guess the number one thing is men lusting after me without any intention of having a real relationship. While it is true that I...
    PrincessPumpkin81 PrincessPumpkin81
    31-35, F
    Jun 15, 2012

    What Turns Me Off?

    Talking about anal sex. Talking about yourself too much. Talking of certain s and m pursuits. Oh don't misunderstand I like a few s&m things, but anything other than a human penis in my ***** just makes my skin crawl. Yes, I like whips, especially if I'm using it on you! Yes...
    aoutdouze aoutdouze
    22-25, F
    Sep 9, 2013

    Mini Things

    I don't know . There are just stuff from some people that **** me off. I have no right to though. What if I do the same stuff....
    NotBackingDown NotBackingDown
    13-15, F
    Sep 10, 2012

    Self-centered Narcissists

    People who think the world revolves around them turn me off. People who base their lives on trying to make people believe that they are "god's gift" turn me off. Being absorbed in yourself, thinking the world revolves around you, throwing temper tantrums when things don't...
    calendulagrower calendulagrower
    31-35, F
    Jul 12, 2012

    Unsanitary , Hairy , And Rude

    I hate Nasty smelling , sweaty guys. I dont like any hair like armpits and pubic hair is fine but chest, back, and butt is YUCK ! also guys who are always trying to show off in front of people , people that act like they are better than you, such a TURN OFF.
    MrsChisholm MrsChisholm
    13-15
    Jul 28, 2012

    Yeah Right!.....

    Men that leave demanding messages on your whiteboard "Add me back ok" i dont think so mate. Or the old fav "Add me so i can view your pics" Like whats the point in that? The days are long gone im afraid im much more selective now, and only add someone if i think they are on my...
    Blondevixon Blondevixon
    31-35, F
    18 Responses Jan 7, 2011

    Guys

    That doesn't know how to work with what they got in bed. Remember penis size don't matter
    joycub joycub
    18-21, F
    Aug 8, 2012

    Big Turn Offs

    Improper grammar and poor spelling (there is no reason for it especially in EP posts when spell check is easily available). Poor hygiene, sloppy appearance, facial hair, tattoos, piercings, skinny men and women. Drunks, smokers, drug users. Inconsiderate people, rudeness of any...
    iwritebiographies iwritebiographies
    41-45, F
    1 Response Jun 10, 2011

    Ignorant Bigoted Mean People

    I've said over and over again that intelligence is sexy. But intelligence doesn't mean you are a college grad or have a high IQ. Intelligence to me is that you are thoughtful, accepting of others, kind, generous, have a sense of humor, and can hold a good conversation...
    1nourmindseye 1nourmindseye
    31-35, M
    5 Responses Sep 21, 2011

    Hmmm...that's a Good Question.

    The top three turn-offs for me   1. Well, I dislike having to be labeled or fit within a certain group. I  hate it when it others do that as well. 2. People expressing a "genuine" interest in you for superficial reasons like wealth, looks, and even...
    Tummie Tummie
    26-30, M
    3 Responses May 11, 2008

    This Has Got To Be A Turn Off For Everyone...

    I would say the biggest turn off on a person is the smell! How in the world are you soppose to get close to someone, or even talk to someone when you have to be holding your breath because they have a bad odor! I understand some people can't help it or they have a hard time...
    MarcyJo MarcyJo
    22-25, F
    Jun 6, 2012

    Men Who Just "assume" You're Attracted To Them In Real Time....ughhh...

    I deal with a LOT of men.  I wok  with over 20 of them and they're ALL really fit and nice looking men.  None of them have any issues with the ladies except maybe a few have too many  ladies in their "juggling act"  But that's their business.  My issue  is with guys who...
    sierra33 sierra33
    31-35, F
    37 Responses Oct 24, 2011

    Huge Turn Off... For Me At Least...

    Hairy backs... seriously hairy backs... the ones that are so hairy that the back of their shirts look bulged from the immense amounts of pressure caused by their man fur pushing against it... serious turn off for me... And of course the normal - poor hygiene, mullets, cockiness...
    phidget phidget
    31-35, F
    5 Responses May 19, 2008

    Super Hairy Guys!

    Treasure trail only, please ;)
    whitepudding whitepudding
    22-25, F
    Jul 4, 2012

    A List

    1) odor 2) lies 3) kisses that are more like mouth-rapes than anything 4) inappropriate excitement (if you want details i'll give them to you) 5) pity parties 6) arrogance/sense of entitlement to be continued as i recall more
    journeyfulloflaughter journeyfulloflaughter
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2008

    A man once asked me if I wanted him to come on

    my face. If you have to ask, the answer is always NO.
    ossibus ossibus
    46-50, F
    May 24, 2014

    Grinds My Gears

    people with bad teeth, i am just unable to deal with that, sorry everyone.
    younggirllost younggirllost
    18-21, F
    Jul 10, 2012

    What turns me off.

    1.chewing food with your mouth open. 2. Cursing every 5 seconds. 3. Smelling bad. 4. No table manners. 5.acting immature
    daisyem daisyem
    18-21, F
    Dec 5, 2013

    No Thank You

    Disclaimer ~ I realize we all have bad days and can't honestly say that we haven't struggled with the things I have listed here.  And I am understanding enough to take those bad days into consideration.  The turn off comes when these issues are prominent, and unchanging...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 22, 2012

    These Bug The Crap Out Of Me!

    And in no particular order... Swearing all the time. If you hurt yourself, swear. That is fine. Don't use these stupid words frequently. I love words. Not these. They offend my ears. Dishonesty. Be honest no matter what. I value it tremendously. Otherwise leave me alone. I do not...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jul 5, 2012

    Look At Me!

    People who constantly have the need to draw attention to themselves....those who wear a lot of "bling" and attention-getting clothing and makeup, and who always have to be the center of attention and tries to get everyone's approval. Those who "brown-nose" up to the boss at work...
    leyna2007 leyna2007
    46-50, F
    9 Responses Jan 5, 2011

    People That Sit Around All The Time.

    Racism. A closed mind. A person that dislikes music. Rude people. People that are TOO quick to argue about politics! People that have issues with having money. People that have issues with not having money. Workaholics. Alcoholics. Drug addicts. Smokers. People that are afraid to...
    lostoqua lostoqua
    70+
    4 Responses Jun 1, 2011

    Oh, That Picture!

    For one, that picture of a muscular guy with long hair and bikini briefs.  Other turn offs:  Rude or nasty people, bad breath, smoking, head games, liars, and thieves.
    think2much think2much
    46-50, M
    1 Response Jan 16, 2008

    Um... No.

    None of these do anything for me: - A lack of sexual effort on my partner's end... you better work, because we both know I'm going to. :P - A lack of imagination/willingness to experiment. Missionary is only fun so many times in a row. - Passionless kisses... or now that I think...
    OblitusAuri OblitusAuri
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Apr 27, 2012

    Ugh

    yellow teeth,ugly feet,slouchy clothes
    misunderstood2012 misunderstood2012
    31-35, F
    1 Response Jun 29, 2012

    One worded responses Obnoxious people Horrible

    listeners The inability to take subtle hints When people try too hard Douche bags Not being romantic Inconsideration
    xxMixedParadisexx xxMixedParadisexx
    26-30, F
    Dec 28, 2014

    What Turns Me On

    I wrote a story a few days ago about what turns me off. It had nothing to do with the person I am currently in love with. Unfortunately, he took it that way and I'm in the cathouse. :-P (Like the doghouse men go to? I dunno... cathouse sounds like the right metaphor). But really...
    lisa36 lisa36
    36-40, F
    13 Responses Oct 4, 2010

    Insecurity!!! That's the biggest way to get a

    "HELL NO" from me. Jealousy. Bad breath Talking to much about sex Can't hold a conversation Small penis Close minds Know it alls No affection Bad teeth Bad hygiene To many kids No ambition I got a list five miles long.
    Honorthycurves Honorthycurves
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jan 13, 2014

    for me its got to be hair lol,

    hair and really boring undies can be such a trun off, girls should embrace their curves because us dudes love it haha xD
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Dec 21, 2013

    A Few Things

    This will always be at the top of my list: SAGGING PANTS. Then there is bad grammar. That also goes for bad texters. I also hate it when a guy thinks they are all that. Well I hope you enjoyed reading my list. If I think of anything else I will add it.
    nomeatforshrimp nomeatforshrimp
    18-21, F
    Nov 25, 2012

    I'm curious about yours!

    I know mine are: 1) drunkeness 2) no education 3) no manners 4) no self respect 5) when a girl knows when something is against her morals and knows it's wrong but does it anyways. 6) being selfish
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Apr 11, 2015

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    BAD BREATH TARDINESS BODY ODOR IGNORANCE
    Lauraleedee Lauraleedee
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Jun 27, 2012

    What Turns Me Off

    Rats and Kiss *****. I work with a woman that was very nice looking when first saw her. but she got ugly quick. She was a big flirt which i liked. but thaqn I saw her realy sucking up to boss. man that turned my stomac. i can t stand *** kissers! All so talking bad about fellow...
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    4 Responses Jan 11, 2012

    Random Turn Offs

    lets see, i hate guys that assume I am a certain way because of the way I look or act. I may be open about sex but that does not give you the right to try to start a cyber conversation with me. mama's boys are a turn off. creepy guys are a turn off. guys who try to hard are a...
    EastWestLady EastWestLady
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Jun 1, 2008
    taylercm taylercm
    18-21, F
    Jan 11, 2014

    Turn-offs

    CockinessNarcissismUnintelligent (this also includes not being able to use basic grammar/spelling and feeling the need to abbreviate or slang everything)Bad mannersBad breathSuper hairyBody OdorDrugsImmaturityLazy/ no goals in life...and all the normal ones like lying, cheating...
    ItsJustMe888 ItsJustMe888
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Jul 11, 2012

    Want To Know What Turns Me Off

    Smelly body and unclean *****
    ZackJordan ZackJordan
    26-30, M
    Jul 1, 2012

    My Turn Offs

    These are some qualities that turn me off, mostly in a romantic partner: Pessimism - If she's depressed, I'm okay with that, and hopefully I could help her out of it. What I don't like is a girl who's negative and cynical for no reason at all. I would much rather talk to a girl...
    GreenFreak1230 GreenFreak1230
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Dec 28, 2012

    My Turn-offs

    Always being in a hurry every time we hit the road. Gotta pass every vehicle on the road, pass with oncoming traffic, must drive 10 mph or more over the speed limit, blow through stop lights, etc, etc, etc. I like to enjoy my drive. Take my time and take in the scenery. You can...
    wxmann2 wxmann2
    36-40, M
    Dec 1, 2012

    Guys Like My Estranged Husband.

    1- comparing me to other women 2- Always talking about money 3- putting others down because of things they can't control 4- overprotectiveness. Its the same thing as jealousy. 5- Control freaks. 6- Tell me I can't. I will show you I will. 7- I hate a cuddler. lol 8- hacking...
    dancingfree dancingfree
    22-25, F
    Jan 26, 2012

    Just a Few Things Really...

    Physically: Back hair, nose hair, ear hair and puss-filled ears. (LOL I couldn't resist CC) Body Odor.. Bad Breath.. Non brushed teeth...That should cover it... Other: Undeserved arrogance, stupidity, rudeness, and over-confidence.
    fungirlmmm fungirlmmm
    46-50, F
    14 Responses Jul 12, 2008

    I Was Fat But Now I Found A Sulution If Want Try And You Gonna See It's So Easy

    hi..! all am a guy and am 27 yrs old and I was so fast and I hate my body & I cant see my self in the merror and all my friend could me ''the big boy'' and I don't like that name but after I do some resersh in internet I found a book who can help you to lose weight fast and...
    mosayf mosayf
    26-30, M
    Aug 1, 2012

    Turn Offs

    These are in no particular order: Cell phones. I don't want to see it, hear it, or know that it exists. Cigarettes. Goes without saying why. People that think they're better than someone else. Materialistic people. I don't care what kind of clothes you wear, what...
    Imzogelmo Imzogelmo
    31-35, M
    4 Responses Jul 25, 2010

    Just For Starters...

    The guy in the logo.  Bad breath.  Bad teeth.  Ear hair.  Crusty ugly feet.. Well, feet.  Hairy *****.  Man boobs.  Speedos on wrinkly old men.  Arrogance. Cockiness.  Misogynists.  Cheap shirts.  Wife beaters (both kinds...
    Myonis108 Myonis108
    56-60, F
    22 Responses Oct 17, 2008

    My List Of Turn Offs..long Story

    Skinny guys who refuse to work outGuys who let themsevles get too fat.Guys that are too metrosexual. (Just look at the things they wear, turn me off just as much as wife beaters and tighty-whities)Too sensitiveMakeup on a guyToo little fashion senseToo much fashion senseA Jersey...
    Gurlwithgun Gurlwithgun
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 7, 2012

    I'd like to know what you're turn offs are,

    I find it interesting how one person's turn on can be another person's turn off.
    PandaLovee PandaLovee
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jul 9, 2014

    What Turns Me Off...

    Whiners, overly girly girls, mathmatics, smokers, prudes, work stress and bitchyness.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Jun 26, 2012

    Men With

    big fat beer bellies.. they want women to keep in shape and look good all the time.  most men don't find pregnate women attractive but they have no problem  with that big belly that looks like they are about to give birth,
    autumnbrookblue autumnbrookblue
    46-50, F
    4 Responses Jan 15, 2008

    Turn Offs For Me ....

    Bad teeth bad hygiene altogether really I am not very good with hair ... armpit hair is as much as i like apart from whats on your head lol when someone is instantly TOO rough (and that's just the way they are ... and they don't know how to be gentle) don't get me wrong a little...
    deadinsideout deadinsideout
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 23, 2013
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