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I Want to Know What Turns You On

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 204 People

    What Turns Me On?

    Question really should be what turns you off? But if I had to say one thing that really comes to mind would have to be touch to be touched or to touch someone softly such as lightly brushing your fingers along the curve of the arch on a woman's foot or down the side of her face...
    outmymind outmymind
    41-45, M
    Apr 2, 2012


    When he makes me feel wanted, appreciated, cherished.
    Nyxii Nyxii
    26-30, F
    Jan 3, 2012

    Alarm Clock Sex!!

    My poor hubs HATES being  woke up by the shrill sound of an alarm clock.  He has come down sooo hard on snooze buttons he's cracked the clock.  He's also  tossed a few across the room!  A bunch of years back I discovered a  lot nicer way of getting him up in the morning...
    sierra33 sierra33
    31-35, F
    30 Responses Jul 13, 2011


    Hmm... I'll just list stuff I'm attracted to or get excited by. Not necessarily all of them are sexual. :P As Floydess quoted the meaning of the word "turn-on":“turn-on Noun1. A person or thing that causes someone to feel excited or sexually aroused.2. An instance of turning or...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jul 15, 2011

    What Turns Me On the Most...

     Somebody who truly cares about me for who i am Someone with deep thoughtful eyes. Somebody who will be willing to hold me and comfort me if i need it Sexy is always good but not always important well not ot me anyway And most of al trust =) My partner...
    FragmentsOfFaith FragmentsOfFaith
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2009


    I have told a couple of stories in, "not ashamed to love sex" which would apply here.  Some women have been comfortable enough with me to express their fantasies and turn ons.  This makes me feel special because they are being so trusting.  Some have also...
    rw5453 rw5453
    56-60, M
    Jun 30, 2009

    Aside From The Sexual

    Aside from the sexual aspect of what turns someone on, im very fascinated by what turns women on, more-so the aspect of knowing what turns them on. I've been with a few women and each have told me completely different things when i've asked them what turns them on and i always...
    misternobrain misternobrain
    26-30, M
    Aug 7, 2012

    Wow, What Doesnt?

    I like arms, hands and stomach on a guy. Well of course face too. On women, every parts pretty good  from feet to hair :)
    KindaSilly KindaSilly
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Apr 15, 2009


     I get turned on looking at non-human pr0n...Humans just arent my type
    TheKingInYellow TheKingInYellow
    70+, M
    1 Response Jan 14, 2010


     Men in general. Multicultural backgrounds. The ability to speak many languages. Charisma. Artistic, musical and any other kind of talent. Men who cook. Skin. Men in suits. Orange groves. Terraces and balconies. Older men. Tattoos. Some piercings. Passion about life. Wit and...
    LittleMonroe LittleMonroe
    18-21, F
    Feb 13, 2009

    These Are Some Of My Favorite Things

    I decided to repost this from a private message I sent earlier today... What turns me on? Like most guys, I'm very visual person. A lady dressed to impress. Be it casual or formal. Bouncing breasts of an experience woman walking through a room. The shape of a mature womans...
    Yamoo Yamoo
    51-55, M
    1 Response Feb 4, 2011

    Another Long List

    I've done turn-offs, now it's time to be positive! In women: intelligence short curves, curves, curves! nice, heavy perfume thick lips clean-shaven body thick, smooth, dark hair, preferably, but not necessarily long caramel colored skin...
    DeadOfDecember DeadOfDecember
    22-25, F
    Nov 2, 2010

    What Can I Do?

    I know I've written stories (hundreds of them, I think) regarding things similar to this but what can I do? I love talking about men. But if you want someone to blame, it's Jazzy - she got me into writing this! Heehee *hides from SaxophoneJazz05* 1. Eyes. Always the...
    june1999 june1999
    31-35, F
    15 Responses Aug 25, 2009

    Cause I Feel Like It

    -insert interesting introduction here- I stole this one from Theo, but I'm quoting him, so it's okay. "Availability is first and foremost, the idea of having someone sexually available at any time and any place, whether acted upon or not." Yep, that'd definitely turn me on. her...
    Turbulence Turbulence
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Sep 15, 2011

    Cool Guys

    Cool, confident and one who'd protect and fight for me. Aww-w-w ! Such a turn on, babes!!!
    ladyryan ladyryan
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Apr 1, 2012

    Ladies, It's Not Always About the Looks... to Turn Me On, Be a Bit... Curious!

     I'll start with a little human brain psychology... The process by which people decipher other people's personalities is called "trait attribution".  It goes kinda like this: - People's personalities are made up of traits - If a person acts just like they...
    heyMayne heyMayne
    18-21, M
    Sep 3, 2009

    In The Words Of A Great Man.......

    "My anaconda don't want none unless you got buns hun." Nuff' said.....LOL.
    rorschach246 rorschach246
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2009


    Dave turns me on   there, said it, do I need to add more detail?   Just him, nothing else, although sometimes when he snores, it doesn't really do it for me
    deleted deleted
    Feb 13, 2009

    Simple Word....a Favor

    The American Heritage School dictionary defines a favor as a kind or helpful act…usually without expecting anything in return…. Asking for assistance ( favor) is not always easy…however .when we do ask ,there are certain rules both parties need to follow.. …… Don’t...
    weedbychoice weedbychoice
    Jun 5, 2012

    What Turns Me On...

    Intelligence, wit, southern accents, good-sized ****, broad chest, nice arms...talent, ambition, levelheadedness, a great sense of humor, a good sense of adventure....  :P  
    filthydieseltech filthydieseltech
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 8, 2009

    Respecting My Time

    When a man respects my time. When he says he will meet me at a certain time, I'm confident he will be there for me on time because he always has been. & If an exception occurs there's a prompt apology. a) This makes me feel like I'm a priority. I am worth the effort. If he...
    Nyxii Nyxii
    26-30, F
    Oct 2, 2012

    Turn Me On

    Stare into my eyes Say something witty Make me laugh Bring me a gin martini Have an intelligent conversation with me; the longer, the better Pin me against the wall to kiss me hard Make me feel irresistible Take it slow, but not too slow Ok, your turn...
    ModLulu ModLulu
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 21, 2010

    Some Qualities In a Guy...

    Brazilians. i have had an addiction to them for a few years! i think it has to do with the Portuguese language (music to my ears). Russians/Europeans/italians are good too..I think the tall dark and handsome look works well! Although i use to be in love with the surfer boy look...
    lOvEisWiCkEd lOvEisWiCkEd
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 29, 2009

    The Curious Case Of UncleTeo

    There are a few things that turn me on in a woman. Red hair - I'm a redhead myself so that's obvious. Raven black hair a close second. Short stature - 5' 2" or less, especially the chunkier ones. Wide hips, round ***, thick thighs. Heavenly. Birth defects - This is my...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 13, 2010

    The Top 10 Things That Turn Me On.

    I don't believe that I am going to do this,but here it goes, 10-Asian women 9-Watching women exercising 8-A women's soft voice 7-A hard bodied woman(Just a hint of muscle,not too much) 6-Women who dress respectfully for their own body type 5-Older women(Cougars!!) 4-Multi...
    midnighthour midnighthour
    36-40, M
    Nov 15, 2010

    I Just Cant Help Myself

    My biggest turn on is my boyfriends, legs and arms and tattoos and piercings and the music he listens to, the clothes he wears, the way he kisses, the way he holds me, THE WAY HE SMELLS, everything about the man turns me on to no extent, even his name turns me on. Last night I...
    YoucancallmeJuliet YoucancallmeJuliet
    26-30, F
    Dec 9, 2009

    The Storytelling Trait

    An attractive young man writing short fantasy stories to/with me every so often. Every once in a while. We'd be genuine friends, with a hint of attraction for each other, nothing too serious. He'd be someone with behaviours and qualities I'd admire. He'd be someone my parents...
    Nyxii Nyxii
    26-30, F
    1 Response Oct 14, 2012

    Formosa Es

    I'm not going to include a lot of things, a lot of things I'm not proud of being turned on by. Availability is first and foremost, the idea of having someone sexually available at any time and any place, whether acted upon or not. Kittens cats felines kindness male chests the...
    theologian theologian
    18-21, M
    8 Responses Sep 5, 2011

    We all have our turn ons

    and sometimes it can be the simplest thing.... the most gentle caress... but for me the biggest turn on is anticipation.... nothing beats it
    xXxsilvermistxXx xXxsilvermistxXx
    26-30, F
    1 Response Aug 30, 2015


    Men.Women's boobs.Good music.
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    Dec 15, 2011

    The Pleasure Of Looking (Not In A Sexual Way)

    I get a lot of pleasure out of looking. I don't mean "observing", but "looking", with my eyeballs. The colours, the shades, the shadows, the way objects seem to move against each other when I walk, the different degrees of shininess and shimmeryness, how colours fade and glide...
    Nyxii Nyxii
    26-30, F
    1 Response Mar 18, 2013

    I Like The Idea Of This Group

    It's really interesting discovering what turns people on. And how it changes. I think back at what has turned me on over the years and it has changed... as often as my favourite breakfast food! Sexuality is so broad, multi-faceted and flexible (and that's just mine). There is...
    2xRocks 2xRocks
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jul 11, 2010

    A Few Of My Favourite Things ....

    A dirty mind ... a soft mouth ... the sight of a hard on desperate for release ... A well-muscled shoulder ... a well-penned reply to one of my erotic stories ... A strong grip around my wrist ... warm breath against my neck ... A smooth, shaved cheek ... a few well chosen...
    womaninbliss womaninbliss
    51-55, F
    4 Responses Jan 1, 2010

    My Turn On

    straight man or lesbian woman turn me on clean shaved good smell good looks muscle,muscle and curve cleanliness arms, and legs,and boobs and butt dominant tattoes,and pierces health life dark hair wealth smart strong
    staticonveyor staticonveyor
    22-25, M
    Dec 27, 2010

    Flipping The Switch

    Electricity in Europe is weird, Milky thinks. And not just because the outlets are very different from American outlets. Not just because some of the light switches are placed in strange places. Because the outlets are each controlled by little tiny switches next to the three...
    milkynips milkynips
    46-50, F
    1 Response Aug 8, 2011

    What Turns Me On

    I am turned on by men. It seems unnatural, but it is a part of my life. There is nothing better than pure pleasure from being aroused.  I am gay, so it is natural for me. Every time I look at a men, I get excited. I notice their various features. I look at their hands, and...
    dave0903 dave0903
    18-21, M
    Jan 14, 2010
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