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I Want to Know What You Do When You Miss Them

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    As Raw As It Gets...

    He never leaves my mind, I want him back...I need to hear him say "Hey baby girl, I'm home". I tell all of my circle that know who he is funny feelings I've had looking at the boarding passes and other stuff from Halloween. I close my eyes and try to feel him there. I...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    Lonely For Him

    When he's only gone to work and I miss him, then I just text him and wear his shirts lol. But he was a travelling insurance advisor last year, and he was gone for up to a week at a time, sometimes more. Which is the longest we've been apart since we moved in together. I missed...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F Sep 19, 2008

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    In the Past

    In the past, I truly disregarded the saying 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' and instead replaced it with 'absence makes me wander'. When I miss him, I think of him, think of the things we have shared, the conversations we have had and I try to improve myself in some way...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 5, 2009

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    Day to Day...

    Kudos to 'Bass' for creating this group and having one hell of a story...'twas the inspiration for this piece. Sunday morning 10-something A.M. Two days post B-day... What do I do when I miss them? I am not sure but let me give this a shot... When it is about 8 AM on...
    EricS EricS 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    most of the time i try to take my mind off it. other times i put on his adam and the ants tshirt, listen to Boy Least Likely To... and Oh No! Oh My!, curl up, and cry like a baby, and try and curl up so tight so it doesnt feel like my heart is being ripped out.  and just...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2008

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    It Depends, Really.

    When I miss my grandmother, I fiddle with the ring she left me and talk aloud. I know she hears me. When I miss a friend, I check in on them. Whether they know it or not. When I miss an ex-love interest, I evaluate. Reminisce on why things went the way they did. Not drowning...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F Jan 6, 2009

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    Missing My Three Little Babies Ages 4,3,and 2

    Now what happed was I was trying to get my oldest son back from my parents (he is 10 years old) so dcf come over and everything was o.k  but then my they wanted my husband to come by the office to sign papers to close the case but he kept on telling them that he would be there...
    sunnyday80 sunnyday80 26-30 2 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    What Do You Do?

      What do you do when all you want to do is touch her cheek and run your fingers through her hair but you can’t because of the distance between you and your current circumstances? What do you do when the time you do spend together flies by and the time apart drags...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 23 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    DEPENDS On Who I'm Missing

    DWELLING ON PAST LOVE AFFAIRS IS NEVER PRODUCTIVE... ACTUALLY, IT CAN BE SELF-DESTRUCTIVE AND TAKE ON AN OBSESSIVE NATURE, SO I PRAY, READ THE BIBLE, READ LITERATURE RELATED TO SINGLEDOM, AND EVERY TIME I THINK OF 'THE GOOD TIMES' I IMMEDIATELY THINK OF 'THE BAD TIMES'... IF IT...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Jan 6, 2009

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    Hmm...

    text him all day and annoy the hell out of him when he's meant to be working x
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 18, 2008

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    When We Weren't Together...

    ...and we were doing the whole 'let's not speak because it's too hard to contact you' thing. I would cry. Not just little tears and little weeping. I mean full on tears, not breathing, wanting to scream the place down cry. But that would only come after weeks of holding it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Once Upon a Midnight Dreary..

    While I pondered weak and weary.... I wrote. I think of him. :) I always end up writing his name and and then I'll draw some extremely corny hearts and hands holding each other. Recently, I've been writing poetry. Sometimes, I'll write some very sensual, romantic...
    allyrs allyrs 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    ******* "I DARE YOU ! *******
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