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I Want to Know What You Do When You Miss Them

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    Lonely For Him

    When he's only gone to work and I miss him, then I just text him and wear his shirts lol. But he was a travelling insurance advisor last year, and he was gone for up to a week at a time, sometimes more. Which is the longest we've been apart since we moved in together. I missed...
    sugarburn sugarburn 22-25, F Sep 19, 2008

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    Hmm...

    text him all day and annoy the hell out of him when he's meant to be working x
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Sep 18, 2008

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    As Raw As It Gets...

    He never leaves my mind, I want him back...I need to hear him say "Hey baby girl, I'm home". I tell all of my circle that know who he is funny feelings I've had looking at the boarding passes and other stuff from Halloween. I close my eyes and try to feel him there. I...
    TheRealWoman TheRealWoman 31-35, F 6 Responses Mar 16, 2009

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    DEPENDS On Who I'm Missing

    DWELLING ON PAST LOVE AFFAIRS IS NEVER PRODUCTIVE... ACTUALLY, IT CAN BE SELF-DESTRUCTIVE AND TAKE ON AN OBSESSIVE NATURE, SO I PRAY, READ THE BIBLE, READ LITERATURE RELATED TO SINGLEDOM, AND EVERY TIME I THINK OF 'THE GOOD TIMES' I IMMEDIATELY THINK OF 'THE BAD TIMES'... IF IT...
    fukkboii fukkboii 36-40, F Jan 6, 2009

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    In the Past

    In the past, I truly disregarded the saying 'absence makes the heart grow fonder' and instead replaced it with 'absence makes me wander'. When I miss him, I think of him, think of the things we have shared, the conversations we have had and I try to improve myself in some way...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Jan 5, 2009

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    Day to Day...

    Kudos to 'Bass' for creating this group and having one hell of a story...'twas the inspiration for this piece. Sunday morning 10-something A.M. Two days post B-day... What do I do when I miss them? I am not sure but let me give this a shot... When it is about 8 AM on...
    EricS EricS 26-30, M 2 Responses Oct 26, 2008

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    It Depends, Really.

    When I miss my grandmother, I fiddle with the ring she left me and talk aloud. I know she hears me. When I miss a friend, I check in on them. Whether they know it or not. When I miss an ex-love interest, I evaluate. Reminisce on why things went the way they did. Not drowning...
    lastleafoffall lastleafoffall 26-30, F Jan 6, 2009

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    ...

    most of the time i try to take my mind off it. other times i put on his adam and the ants tshirt, listen to Boy Least Likely To... and Oh No! Oh My!, curl up, and cry like a baby, and try and curl up so tight so it doesnt feel like my heart is being ripped out.  and just...
    Tesse Tesse 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 18, 2008

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    What Do You Do?

      What do you do when all you want to do is touch her cheek and run your fingers through her hair but you can’t because of the distance between you and your current circumstances? What do you do when the time you do spend together flies by and the time apart drags...
    bassplayer bassplayer 46-50, M 23 Responses Sep 18, 2008

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    Once Upon a Midnight Dreary..

    While I pondered weak and weary.... I wrote. I think of him. :) I always end up writing his name and and then I'll draw some extremely corny hearts and hands holding each other. Recently, I've been writing poetry. Sometimes, I'll write some very sensual, romantic...
    allyrs allyrs 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    When We Weren't Together...

    ...and we were doing the whole 'let's not speak because it's too hard to contact you' thing. I would cry. Not just little tears and little weeping. I mean full on tears, not breathing, wanting to scream the place down cry. But that would only come after weeks of holding it...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 5, 2009

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    Missing My Three Little Babies Ages 4,3,and 2

    Now what happed was I was trying to get my oldest son back from my parents (he is 10 years old) so dcf come over and everything was o.k  but then my they wanted my husband to come by the office to sign papers to close the case but he kept on telling them that he would be there...
    sunnyday80 sunnyday80 26-30 2 Responses Oct 21, 2011

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    Bigkahunaburger Bigkahunaburger 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    "Khakis" Well she sounds hideous. Whenever I hear someone ask what are you wearing I think of that State Farm commercial lol
    lunalight21 lunalight21 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 13

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    Oh, I know EXACTLY what I'm doing by collecting all these groups... $_$
    ThatAwkwardPanda ThatAwkwardPanda 13-15 Aug 13

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    ​Short shorts;I just love slipping short shorts on in the morning. My wife said the pink shoes really didn't work so I should put some black ones on, What do you gurls think?Pink...
    stefiecdtv stefiecdtv 51-55, T 4 Responses Jul 23

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    I'm getting dressed this evening. Having a new friend round. I have painted my toenails red and will wear a pair of see through blue knickers, very tight denim booty shorts, a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 28

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    I regularly wear a Rago 1294 OBG in size 6X. Today I bought one in size 7X and it is super comfy. My wife likes it on me :) but she wants to cut off the garters :( So today I am...
    CrossdresserLauren CrossdresserLauren 46-50, T 3 Responses Aug 5

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    My thongs, my secure coral pink Asian Short shorts incase I have to run out of the building when in a fire alarm goes off and my gray sport shirt
    TransAsian TransAsian 26-30, T 1 Response Aug 5

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    Flyleaf - Bury Your Heart. Lately I've been listening to Flyleaf when I decide I'm going to zone out for a while XD
    Holdontothefire Holdontothefire 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 8

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    I think at this point you can figure it out. My screen name is a dead giveaway. Or look at other posts. Although every once in awhile i do sleep nude.
    thongluvr582 thongluvr582 31-35, M Aug 13

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    Mines elder, march 28th. Anybody no what it means?
    charliebarton14 charliebarton14 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 29

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    Take me to the abyss. Why? Hey if you did good and didn't eat meat for your pleasure. You will be ok where you go!
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 29

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    "He was crippled, But only his body was cracked. It's not simple, nor is it an easy matter to explain. Let's just leave it at that she says and closes the holy book of lies. She...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 16-17, F Jul 30

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    mine would be: Im sorry Alyssa, i was never as strong as you... please dont forget me, and if you fall in love with another, im coming back to set you straight. To my family and...
    GhostieDSE GhostieDSE 18-21, M Jul 30

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    I would say: I left a billion dollars in...in ( die) then everyone is like I want the billion dollars Death troll
    mrmudkip16 mrmudkip16 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 30

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    I would like to impart some pearls of wisdom, but the young don't listen the middle aged know it all, and the older ones just don't care..! So my final words will be " thank...
    off2heavenIgo off2heavenIgo 13-15 Jul 30

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    TIL that Orson Scott Card is a ... great-great-grandson of Brigham Young ... so perhaps what we look on as "magic" underwear is really just a superior undergarment technology from...
    AldousHuxtable AldousHuxtable 41-45, M Aug 1

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    What would you say in your mind if you had seen me at school?
    silverthewulf silverthewulf 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 7

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    What's the worse that could happen
    Z00Z00Z Z00Z00Z 36-40, M Aug 10

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    My personality is something of one of the kind...I'm a little bit of everything. So what's your personality type...
    AchCailin001 AchCailin001 18-21, F Aug 10

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    Bye ! (What a depressed/pessimist title)
    fauxlady fauxlady 22-25, F a week ago

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    FUUCCKKK!!!! I want to go down with some humor :D
    MovieJunkie MovieJunkie 13-15, F 1 Response a week ago

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    "Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if only you remember to turn on the light." Dumbledore
    TooTired2Think TooTired2Think 31-35, F Jul 28

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    You **** me, you ******* with the best- al Pacino's scarface
    kamachulu kamachulu 22-25, M Jul 30

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    "Chew your food, you're an animal!!" - Matilda
    Johnny316 Johnny316 31-35 Jul 30

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    "Isabel, my best mate, mother and sister... It is time now... delete my internet history" And if she doesn't I'll come back as a zombie and show up at her house saying "wtf man...
    ledarkknightess ledarkknightess 13-15, F 1 Response Jul 30

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    My last words for real would be "Mom I Love you"
    ClassicLady ClassicLady 16-17, F Jul 30

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    ...+cough+ "..**** the police... I hate .. +cough+ america still.. bastards cant do **** right...i wanna be cremated.. dont you ***** up on me and cry..Gonna go chill with lucifer...
    1Lostcause 1Lostcause 16-17, T 1 Response Jul 30

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    Mine would be "I love you I'm so---"
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F Aug 10

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    On my way to **** your *****
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    I'll save you a seat in hell alright
    PanicAtTheDiscount PanicAtTheDiscount 13-15, F Aug 11

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    I had on a black leather skirt that went to my knee and black and white blouse white open bottom girdle tan stockings white nylon panty white playtex 18 hour bra wig make up and...
    Betty9953 Betty9953 51-55, M 3 Responses 8 hrs ago

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    Right now I am wearing taupe No Non-Sense pantyhose without underwear, a black Rago 1294 HWOBG, and Black 42C plunge bra by Lane Bryant under my male things.
    CrossdresserLauren CrossdresserLauren 46-50, T 2 Responses Jul 21

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