I Want to Know Why I Always Attract the Crazy People

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    I Certainly Do.

    I don't know why they find me but it seems like all the crazy people wind up in my life in some way. Crazy friends, crazy family, crazy inlaws. They even find me here on EP!! What the hell is it about me? I really need to pay attention more. Sometimes I think it's because I am...
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 23, 2012

    Crazy Magnet??- Being Freindly Is Not Always The Best Mo

    Since I was a teen, (now in fifties) I attracted all sorts. I think its because I am friendly and smile at everyone (big mistake). In the malls the MR folks usually wave at me which is fine and harmless.. Recently I was approached by a beggar in my neighborhood who later in the...
    barbmazzjazz barbmazzjazz
    56-60, F
    2 Responses Apr 10, 2012

    Yeah. It happens to me.

    I attract perverts, psycho. I don't know why. I mean, why it always me? I have stalkers, psycho that keeps threaten me with stuff and then texting me no matter how many time I've change my phone number. Just go away, please...
    TulipsLover TulipsLover
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 29, 2014

    My Friends Live Their Life Through The Drama That Finds Me.

    It started clear back in high school. A girl attacked me with my own frying pan because I was hanging out watching a movie with a girl who was just a friend. I have been cyberstalked numerous times. One girl faked a pregnancy AND a miscarriage (she finally admitted it was fake...
    syates33 syates33
    31-35, M
    2 Responses Jan 29, 2012

    A Series Of Unfortunate Boyfriends

    Every guy I have ever dated has had some strange or scary flaw, I don't do it on purpose I swear, they just find me. I have dated people with problems holding onto reality, guys who have explosive rage disorders, narcissistic men, obsessive clingy men, possessive and jealous...
    bex22 bex22
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Jun 12, 2012


    they say water seeks its own level... Crazy is, Way more interesting...Ive had much more fulfilling conversations with people that are just a bit off center...( As long as they arent put off by my straight jacket)... LOL
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses Oct 17, 2013

    I Think I'm A Crazy Magnet

    All my friends are crazy, but that's good. They're fun to hang out with, but sometimes kinda embarrassing in public, lol. But I don't mind. I love my friends. ^_^ However, I also attract crazy guys. *cringes*   Stalkers, perverts, paedophiles, delusionals - the majority of...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 17, 2010

    What Is Crazy?

    Crazy people are great because they introduce you to another way of seeing the world. Crazy to me, is someone who challenges my perspectives and ignites my senses. To the crazy person, they're the "normal" one and the rest of the world is stark raving mad. It would be...
    wombatism wombatism
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Apr 24, 2008

    Your Honor.......

     ReeceH aka Crabapple aka Son  .... from the land of OZ, need  I say more? Just look at that face :) TrprBadass aka  the Fuzz aka Husband ..... also lovingly referred to as "The Warden" around the house :)  Yes, and then there's this one. ...
    giggles4488 giggles4488
    56-60, F
    19 Responses Dec 15, 2010


    I can walk into a room filled with 102 mentally stable guys and 1 total nut job. Within seconds the whack-job is on me like white on rice. Sometime I swear I'm equipped with some Lojack device that transmitts signals only bat-**** crazy guys can hear. Inevitably I will end up...
    sec1911 sec1911
    41-45, F
    4 Responses May 11, 2012

    Crazy People Likes Me

    I always had some out of ordinary friends. Some of them actually crazy. But that doesn't meant that they are crazy in a bad way. I'm sweet, good listener and never judge what they say or do - everyone is responsible for their own choices - I guess that's why they like me.
    kady4e kady4e
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 16, 2012

    What The Hell?

    For some reason I have people that think I am the dumping ground for their emotional issues and secret perversions I would like you all to know something: Just because I say hello, doesn't mean that I want to hear the confessions of your life. I'm sorry, I really dont care if...
    TheFabulousKilljoy TheFabulousKilljoy
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Aug 9, 2011

    The Crazies Returns

    I am writing this entry to update my status as far as the crazy chick from the BIG EASY. I was recently informed that this young nutty lady was released from the previous company I worked for.   According to my sources, she was spreading around rumors about the director of the...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1
    36-40, F
    1 Response Aug 10, 2013

    It Might Be That I'm Crazy, Too

    What makes people crazy? Trying too hard? Being a dork (and not in a good way)? Have no sense, or an excessive sense of humor? I've no idea, but these people described as above, I've met them all and because I'm generally too nice and will not put my foot down after excessive...
    justlikeyou justlikeyou
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 22, 2007

    There's Good Crazy And Bad Crazy

    I fall for good crazy, but if there is a drug or alcoholic problem..hell no. Or hearing voices and mood swings that are abusive. I'll have to say goodbye. But being who I am, I need that eclectic offbeat mate or friend.
    deleted deleted
    4 Responses Aug 24, 2010

    I Wonder Why

    I think that I attract all the crazy people.  I think someone put a curse on me.  I could just be sitting in the park, have a woman walk up and just start talking craziness.  I am glad that I am not the only one!!!
    llady99 llady99
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Jun 27, 2011

    Bring Me Your Crazies, Your Offbeat and Downright Strange

    No matter where I go, the oddball will always seek me out. I have no idea of why, but there you go. If someone is just a little bit off-they want to be my best friend. It has been like this all of my life. When I worked in the city, a homeless woman would wait for me at the top...
    francineo francineo
    41-45, F
    3 Responses Apr 20, 2008

    Nice Girls Finish Last

    I dont know why, but I always seem to attract the wrong kind of friends. I consider myself to be an awesome friend. I'm the one taking you in when you get kicked out of your house or picking you up when you are way too smashed to drive home. Yet, every girl I have ever been...
    xxevilxangelxx xxevilxangelxx
    26-30, F
    7 Responses Nov 15, 2011

    It's Like a Magnet

    No matter where I go or what I am doing I attract out of the ordinary people like flies. It has even happened on here and is happening while we speak......
    cinfullynn cinfullynn
    46-50, F
    55 Responses Apr 11, 2008

    Every Single Ex Girlfriend..

    Every single ex-girlfriend that I've had has turned out to be crazy. I tend to be attracted to the type of girls that tend to tell you that they'll kill themselves as soon as you break up with them.
    alex12921 alex12921
    3 Responses Feb 27, 2012


    I mean, i know i'm kinda crazy and all that but from the bum on the streets to a certify crazy person, they all tend to gravitate towards me. As if i were some sort of crazy people magnet. Sometimes it's scare the living SH!t out of me and sometimes i laugh my head off...
    andreinac13 andreinac13
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Nov 6, 2008

    I Know Really..

    It's what Shawn has always said... I ask for it.. Damn I'm on ep aren't I? Maybe they just see a kindred spirit..  I am Crazy - I even have the experience to prove it.
    Littlemisssomebody Littlemisssomebody
    31-35, F
    17 Responses Jun 24, 2010

    So Tired Of These Nutjobs

    Friends, boyfriends, bosses. I'm at a point where I know MY THINKING; my Vibes are attracting this B.S. I am DONE. It is now declared. yes. so, there.
    soulshadow soulshadow
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Nov 24, 2010

    I've Managed To Run Into Another Basket Case

    So, I started a new job back at the end of March. It is a contractor gig at the headquarters of a well known corporation.  I'm thinking finally a breakthrough.  No more ghetto azz call centers doing tech support  .  This position is more of a professional but tight wad...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1
    36-40, F
    1 Response Jul 13, 2013

    Not That I'm Complaining... I Am One Of Them Myself

    Could that be why I'm a crazy/weird people magnet? What's that saying, like attracts like? Eh, doesn't matter why.  I found that the most insane and weird people out there are actually the most sane, ironically enough.  That being said, I love my crazy and retarded people and I...
    deadmoon deadmoon
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 5, 2012

    I know why I attract crazies.

    ...because I'm one too! Crazies come in all shapes and sizes same but different. Basic life lessons haven't been learnt. Hopefully they will soon.
    Nelaew Nelaew
    51-55, F
    2 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    There Are Some Real Nut Jobs On Line Huh!!!!!!

    Yes i couldnt stop laughing when i read the titile of this group.... coz i was like WOOOOOOPPPPEEEEE there are others in the world that feel like they attract real nut-cases as well huh.... Yeah i couldnt agree more...its not just this site, its any website i try i seem to...
    ButterOnBothSides ButterOnBothSides
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 17, 2012

    Why Oh Why Do I Get Crazy People?

    It seems to be a curse, it always starts out I want to help them you know? They're depressed...or overly stressed...they're coming out of a bad relationship, their pet died...they just need a friend. But it's like they turn stalker and obsessed with me...I have a beloved fiance...
    DiMaiosGirl DiMaiosGirl
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 3, 2012

    I Am A Crazy Magnet!

    I have plenty of stories about crazy people which is a shame actually.Well I already made a confession about this "psycho girl" who is obsessed with me but I have another story about crazy people.One of my old friends has a stepfather in his upper thirties basically almost forty...
    rainbow1691 rainbow1691
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    More Importantly....

    why am i always attracted to them?! all my ex's, and the majority of my friends, are really quite unstable.... and i love them... ive had a couple of normal boys come after me but i just dont feel it.... they more ****** up they are the more attractive i find them... not 'bad...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 6, 2008

    2 serious relationships I have had in my life,

    I had one who was possessive and flipped out if I wasn't near her. I ended up putting a restraining order against her. My just recently broken up partner, she was very negligent but always lost her temper when I wanted attention and I have been in fear that she would have turned...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 5, 2015

    Why? Why Me?

    What did I ever do? Is there some big bright neon sign that says "Lost Souls Who Have Misplaced Your Sanity! Swarm Upon This Humble, Innocent Knighty!"? Let me share a little.... exchange... which occured earlier in the day.He Who Is Without Sense: "Hey" So already I'm thinking...
    KnightyKnight KnightyKnight
    22-25, M
    1 Response May 3, 2013

    I Have a Sign On My Butt!

    Maybe it is the sign on my butt or maybe because i am crazy*shrugs* maybe! All i have to do is make eye contact and every wacko in the area will just come out of thin air! Like when you are pregnant and everyone thinks they should touch your tummy ...Yes that is my life!
    redheadsrule redheadsrule
    36-40, F
    14 Responses Mar 2, 2008


    Infact, I'm not sure I actually do want to know. It may be something mean like I'm crazy too....sigh...people these days are soo mean...
    Luangi Luangi
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 21, 2007

    Why Me? Why Me?!

    I am used to it by now, but I still wonder, "Why me?" Ever since I was able to date I have always attracted those weirdos that hang around you, because you are like a magnet to them. I don't know WHAT it is that makes them drawn to me, but I seriously want it to STOP. When am...
    nativewarrior nativewarrior
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 20, 2012

    Why Do People Take Offence To Everything?

    I've belonged to a forum for quite a while now, in which I personally know all of the members. I may not know them all well, but we've all hung out at some point. Many members, however, are actually very close to me. Recently, however, I received a private message from the...
    EarthElk EarthElk
    22-25, F
    Aug 30, 2012


    does anyone have an answer to the question? why do YOU attract crazy people? maybe if you tell me yours, i can tell you mine! LOL
    wsbe wsbe
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    Is There a Sign That Says

    i never understood it from the time i was 11 i have had insane people like seek me out. i am 20 now and have put a grand total of (thi is a rounh estimate) of 12-15 restraining orders on people, not just men but women as well. i dont know what it is. I become friends with or date...
    wallflower20 wallflower20
    18-21, F
    2 Responses May 1, 2008

    Its Funny You Know

    Its funny that this is even a "group". After all it is pretty plain and easy to see, and relatively easy to appreciate that the answer my friends is right before your eye ball holes. Why do I always attract crazy people? Becuase, Senior ash hat. They are locked in the same...
    NotLarryBubkiss NotLarryBubkiss
    36-40, M
    4 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    I Was Always a Sucker. Part 1 Draft 1

    I felt bad for the kids at school or the ones in the neighborhood who wasn't part of the group.  So I would pull them in, but if that didn't work, I would still befriend them. They would turn out to be good friends. As I got older, I was in a whole different crowd of...
    WarriorMom WarriorMom
    51-55, F
    11 Responses Oct 18, 2008

    I'm Another Crazy Magnet!

    I can never figure out why I always attract the crazy women? I've been stalked by a couple of them after breaking up with them and both times they cheated on me. If you are going to cheat on someone, why would you want them in your life after they leave? One woman I was with...
    slimmmerman slimmmerman
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 16, 2011

    The Crazies

    I think there's something in my genes that attracts the weird and deranged. No matter how low I try to fly out of their radar's sight, they always seem to sniff me out like bloodhounds. So my recent episode of random weirdness involves a co worker. This young girl is extremely...
    caramelLova1 caramelLova1
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Mar 23, 2013

    One Last Try

    i was raped by 7 men..on diferent occasions in my lifetime... five men when i was about thirteen and two when i was pregnant one of them being my daughter's fathers' best friend.... i guess i got what i deserved, because i ran away anyway, over a man my parents did not want me to...
    arieastronaut arieastronaut
    7 Responses Sep 25, 2011

    this guy told me his fantasy was

    for me and him to be burned alive together
    deleted deleted
    Feb 22, 2016

    Why Me???

      I could tell you a lot of stories about my crazy-magnetism, but it's not worth it - the crazy people I attract can be separated in groups, because they seem to follow the same patterns of craziness:  - the guy with whom I make accidental eye contact while in the mall/bus/ etc...
    MissNN MissNN
    26-30, F
    5 Responses Jan 23, 2012

    Its My Niceness Isn't It?

    its probably because i am too nice to them and they probably mistake it for love...or something..
    anonymous182 anonymous182
    18-21, F
    Jun 24, 2010

    Always Attract Way Older Men

    Never been approached by someone my age...and the older men that do approach me creep me out.
    ladynau ladynau
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Feb 25, 2008

    I Wanna Know

    I wanna know,Why is it,I always attract the crazies?Is it me?The way I am?The way I think?What is it?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Mar 24, 2012
    lillexy05044 lillexy05044
    18-21, F
    Jul 19, 2014

    I Am Not Crazy But I Sure Attract Them!

    I have been very successful in my life. I have scores of wonderful true friends most of whom  I have known for more than 10-20 years. I am very happy. I have to say that despite all the friends I have who truly care about me, there have been a handful of people who upon...
    mrsbarrett mrsbarrett
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 11, 2009

    She Said She Had A Historectomy!

    My girl Deb told me she had a historectomy b/c of cancer. She's 44 and Im in my early 30's. She's now pregnant! She lied to trap me in this relationship! Turns out shes on disability for being mentally ill and is stalking me to all ends of the earth! Shes actually blaming me for...
    ihatedebchadrow ihatedebchadrow
    31-35, M
    2 Responses May 23, 2012
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