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I Want to Know Why Married Men Fool Around

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 227 People

    Through His Eyes

    I am attracted to a man I can not have. He pursues me shamelessly, but he's married. I ask him why me and he replies, "I know what I like." What a confusing statement! He makes me feel alive again. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, and intelligent. But I have to let him go...
    Cntrygurl Cntrygurl 41-45, F Feb 14, 2013

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    Why Married Men Fool Around?

    Because they don't feel satisfied with their wife... Either emotionally or physically...
    pursueg pursueg 26-30, M Aug 17, 2013

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    Because You Let Us

    Are you serious? If the opposite gender wasn't allowing contact or interest to anyone. there wouldn't be any fooling around. Somebody's looking. somebody's lonely. somebody's horny, pick one! Just don't gender bash, it's an excuse for anyone that isn't satisfied w/ their own...
    pretorian pretorian 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2008

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    Because

    They are asshats and not all men fool around.
    donixa donixa 36-40, F 4 Responses May 16, 2008

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    Because You Let Us

    Are you serious? If the opposite gender wasn't allowing contact or interest to anyone. there wouldn't be any fooling around. Somebody's looking. somebody's lonely. somebody's horny, pick one! Just don't gender bash, it's an excuse for anyone that isn't satisfied w/ their own...
    pretorian pretorian 46-50, M Nov 5, 2008

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    I'm Sure There's Many Varied Reasons

    But I think it's telling that one of the biggest and fastest growing groups on this site is the "I live in a sexless marriage" group. I haven't strayed, but damnit if I don't feel the urge every single day. There's more to it than just "Men are scum".
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull 36-40, M 11 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    So today he answered me.

    ..finally. He said he is really busy, reads my messages and forgets to reply. Hmmm really? I know he is busy BUT part of me is saying don't believe him. NO we are not having an affair and I never would with him. It would be hell. Just not having him respond to my messages makes...
    Cohadej Cohadej 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    Is there any man out there

    that are married and have had an affair with younger single women? I want to know what goes through your minds. Why you choose to see younger women. what are your true intentions? Are there any feelings there? Or is it purely based on your sexual pleasures? Do you believe these...
    reccos234 reccos234 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    There's this guy at work that's making me feel

    uncomfortable. He told me that he liked me but is married. I have told him I just want to remain friends/work colleagues, but he acts so strangely around me. Recently he has become quite rude and is ignoring me, it is really uncomfortable and unprofessional, I don't know...
    wishfulsoul wishfulsoul 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2014

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    The reason why men fool around cause they are

    insecure about them self.. I caught my man fooling around I packed his **** said I wish ur happy.. Lol he texted ur the only one that can please me haha well he should of thought of that how much I meant.. All I gotta say is men think with ur head not ur little penis lol
    Amelia40 Amelia40 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2014

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    So I found out the other day

    that my ex was married while we were dating... The whole time... I am in no way okay with this and if I ever find out who his wife is, I am telling her. We were dating for almost a year and a half and the whole time he was always talking about "when we get married"... What a...
    savedbygrace030312 savedbygrace030312 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25, 2014

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    Ugh. I'm tired of the ***

    who flirted with me and now won't speak to me. Ignores my messages and emails. I ask why and get no response. Really? Yes I know you're married. You use social sites with an old pic to lure women in. I feel for your wife. I wonder if she knows how lead women on. I wasn't looking...
    Cohadej Cohadej 46-50, F Oct 2, 2014

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    Just did a post on tumblr about this go check

    it out chanelconoco.tumblr.com
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F Nov 4, 2014

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    Seriously. And its not

    even the ones with the frumpy wives. If my wife looked like Sophia Bush and was willing to switch it up, I wouldnt wanna stray just because it might mess up what I already have.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 6 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    Get real, women fool around too,

    it's human nature sadly. Let the perfect person step forward! Women, if you were cheated on, look at what you might have done, or not done for it to happen. Men... See above!
    AidanMac AidanMac 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    Instinct

    one reason is instinct they want to spread thier seed, thier ********, the have waited a long time for thier wives to put out, the thout of being bad, and they are in control of thioer wives they can have fun but the misses can't
    unclesmokeyslongbong unclesmokeyslongbong 31-35, M Mar 27, 2011

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    Why I Cheated.

    I was in a relationship with my wife in some form since I was sixteen. We started having problems after we were married 6 years. Looking back on what happpend, I am still not sure what the catalyst was that caused the collapse of our marriage. My wife seemed to become a...
    Juke75 Juke75 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    Really?

    If you're going to fool around..DON'T get married. If you aren't happy in you marriage..get out of it first BEFORE you cheat. What's the problem?? For women who go after married men...you're all idiots and ******.
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2012

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    Because hos want to get them in trouble.

    Women are the root of all evil. They should be in chains and used for what they are. Hos. We will marry garden hos as they are more of a woman than any other female. God bless us all and may god have mercy on dem hoz.
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 13-15, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    love popping that cherry...
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    Ugh I need a girl to talk to
    ifjehfjd ifjehfjd 13-15, M 1 Response 8 hrs ago

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    I don't know why there are girls who send me nude photos after telling me I'm pretty... Every time I open my inbox, I always get surprises. haha!Not that I don't like women's...
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    I would rather hard spanking the kid knows she earned than mild with no explanation!
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    Hi I want to find the section where women are having sex with married men
    Tinkerbell1302 Tinkerbell1302 41-45, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I been going to SA meetings...
    BANG29 BANG29 31-35, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I am a married dude looking to conversate and chat with another married dude hmu..
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    I am just an ordinary girl in an ordinary world seeking escapism from my solitary existence as a college student. No time for Partying just an ever expanding brain being...
    FarrellLover FarrellLover 18-21, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    My favorite chats are when the married guys are chatting with me with their wives in the house or next to them even! Second is probably when they are at work!
    abbybear2 abbybear2 18-21, F 11 Responses 3 days ago

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    life is happy without any dappy
    shairu123 shairu123 18-21, M 3 days ago

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    the secrecy and knowing a married man would rather be with me than his wife. His want for me vs his love for the wife is like a constant tug of war match.
    abbybear2 abbybear2 18-21, F 13 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want to get married one day but the guy I am dating thinks marriage is a waste of time and that they normally don't last...but we are also only in our 20's and guys tend to...
    tyeshamari tyeshamari 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i want to sleep with u. if u r agree than don't heart or response me. if u response or Heart I'll thought u wanna sleep
    shairu123 shairu123 18-21, M 4 days ago

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    Marriage shouldn't exist anymore. Everyone don't follow the rules. Everyone fuckkk everyone else but they're husband or wife. Why get married? You know you can't control your...
    lorrena19 lorrena19 18-21, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    but I am truly running out of time. I have not found someone real yet.
    colasc41 colasc41 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I am 32 years old and have been with my husband for 13 years, married for 6.5 years. We have a 4 year old daughter together. When we first met he was everything I ever wanted (I...
    Yummymummy32 Yummymummy32 31-35, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    31/m guys or girls...kck me dirtesoxlvr
    dirtesoxlvr dirtesoxlvr 26-30, M a week ago

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    I was discussing this with my best friend and we had those thoughts of proposals,settings ,and the theme. I find marriage is something where you want to live with someone forever...
    Dinaa18 Dinaa18 16-17, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Why am I like this? Why do I feel like crap all the time? This cannot be life.
    scales121 scales121 26-30, M Jun 19

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    I asks questions on ep (both non sexual and sexual) and I still get people messaging me instead of putting it in the answering section which I find odd...why don't you put in the...
    PetiteChica PetiteChica 18-21, F 2 Responses Jun 19

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    Wifey's gone for the weekend...get my attention ladies
    Hubbynxtdoor Hubbynxtdoor 41-45, M Jun 19

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    Wifey's gone for weekend get to know me
    Hubbynxtdoor Hubbynxtdoor 41-45, M 1 Response Jun 19

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    My boyfriend and I have been dating for about a year and we have talked about getting married to each other, is that too soon? For me the long term goal of dating some one is...
    Greengurl22 Greengurl22 18-21, F 5 Responses Jun 18

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    I don't know why I keep watching the same movie and expect a different ending??? One of these days maybe my common sense will catch up to my (supposed) intellect....
    alteregoeleven alteregoeleven 46-50, M 1 Response Jun 16

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