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I Want to Know Why Married Men Fool Around

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    Because You Let Us

    Are you serious? If the opposite gender wasn't allowing contact or interest to anyone. there wouldn't be any fooling around. Somebody's looking. somebody's lonely. somebody's horny, pick one! Just don't gender bash, it's an excuse for anyone that isn't satisfied w/ their own...
    pretorian pretorian 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2008

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    Because You Let Us

    Are you serious? If the opposite gender wasn't allowing contact or interest to anyone. there wouldn't be any fooling around. Somebody's looking. somebody's lonely. somebody's horny, pick one! Just don't gender bash, it's an excuse for anyone that isn't satisfied w/ their own...
    pretorian pretorian 46-50, M Nov 5, 2008

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    Really?

    If you're going to fool around..DON'T get married. If you aren't happy in you marriage..get out of it first BEFORE you cheat. What's the problem?? For women who go after married men...you're all idiots and ******.
    RubyLane RubyLane 41-45, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2012

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    Is there any man out there

    that are married and have had an affair with younger single women? I want to know what goes through your minds. Why you choose to see younger women. what are your true intentions? Are there any feelings there? Or is it purely based on your sexual pleasures? Do you believe these...
    reccos234 reccos234 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 8

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    Instinct

    one reason is instinct they want to spread thier seed, thier ********, the have waited a long time for thier wives to put out, the thout of being bad, and they are in control of thioer wives they can have fun but the misses can't
    unclesmokeyslongbong unclesmokeyslongbong 31-35, M Mar 27, 2011

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    The reason why men fool around cause they are

    insecure about them self.. I caught my man fooling around I packed his **** said I wish ur happy.. Lol he texted ur the only one that can please me haha well he should of thought of that how much I meant.. All I gotta say is men think with ur head not ur little penis lol
    Amelia40 Amelia40 36-40, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    Why Married Men Fool Around?

    Because they don't feel satisfied with their wife... Either emotionally or physically...
    pursueg pursueg 26-30, M Aug 17, 2013

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    Why I Cheated.

    I was in a relationship with my wife in some form since I was sixteen. We started having problems after we were married 6 years. Looking back on what happpend, I am still not sure what the catalyst was that caused the collapse of our marriage. My wife seemed to become a...
    Juke75 Juke75 36-40, M 3 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    There's this guy at work that's making me feel

    uncomfortable. He told me that he liked me but is married. I have told him I just want to remain friends/work colleagues, but he acts so strangely around me. Recently he has become quite rude and is ignoring me, it is really uncomfortable and unprofessional, I don't know...
    wishfulsoul wishfulsoul 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15

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    Because

    They are asshats and not all men fool around.
    donixa donixa 36-40, F 4 Responses May 16, 2008

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    So I found out the other day

    that my ex was married while we were dating... The whole time... I am in no way okay with this and if I ever find out who his wife is, I am telling her. We were dating for almost a year and a half and the whole time he was always talking about "when we get married"... What a...
    savedbygrace030312 savedbygrace030312 26-30, F 1 Response Jan 25

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    I'm Sure There's Many Varied Reasons

    But I think it's telling that one of the biggest and fastest growing groups on this site is the "I live in a sexless marriage" group. I haven't strayed, but damnit if I don't feel the urge every single day. There's more to it than just "Men are scum".
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull 36-40, M 12 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    Through His Eyes

    I am attracted to a man I can not have. He pursues me shamelessly, but he's married. I ask him why me and he replies, "I know what I like." What a confusing statement! He makes me feel alive again. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, and intelligent. But I have to let him go...
    Cntrygurl Cntrygurl 41-45, F Feb 14, 2013

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