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I Want to Know Why Married Men Fool Around

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    Really?

    If you're going to fool around..DON'T get married. If you aren't happy in you marriage..get out of it first BEFORE you cheat. What's the problem?? For women who go after married men...you're all idiots and ******.
    RubyLane RubyLane 46-50, F 1 Response Apr 15, 2012

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    Because You Let Us

    Are you serious? If the opposite gender wasn't allowing contact or interest to anyone. there wouldn't be any fooling around. Somebody's looking. somebody's lonely. somebody's horny, pick one! Just don't gender bash, it's an excuse for anyone that isn't satisfied w/ their own...
    pretorian pretorian 46-50, M 1 Response Nov 5, 2008

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    There's this guy at work that's making me feel

    uncomfortable. He told me that he liked me but is married. I have told him I just want to remain friends/work colleagues, but he acts so strangely around me. Recently he has become quite rude and is ignoring me, it is really uncomfortable and unprofessional, I don't know...
    wishfulsoul wishfulsoul 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 15, 2014

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    NO i don't. I know why.

    Its obvious why. Ignorant females let hubby check out mini skirts yet when they actually cheat is wrong? What? Obviously he found someone better than an old used up hag. He likes younger sexy little things. A fresh youthful face and everything. Keep being ignorant, the more...
    XXLovelyPoisonXX XXLovelyPoisonXX 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 4, 2015

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    The reason why men fool around cause they are

    insecure about them self.. I caught my man fooling around I packed his **** said I wish ur happy.. Lol he texted ur the only one that can please me haha well he should of thought of that how much I meant.. All I gotta say is men think with ur head not ur little penis lol
    Amelia40 Amelia40 36-40, F 2 Responses Apr 27, 2014

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    Why I Cheated.

    I was in a relationship with my wife in some form since I was sixteen. We started having problems after we were married 6 years. Looking back on what happpend, I am still not sure what the catalyst was that caused the collapse of our marriage. My wife seemed to become a...
    Juke75 Juke75 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 30, 2011

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    Through His Eyes

    I am attracted to a man I can not have. He pursues me shamelessly, but he's married. I ask him why me and he replies, "I know what I like." What a confusing statement! He makes me feel alive again. He tells me I'm beautiful, sexy, and intelligent. But I have to let him go...
    Cntrygurl Cntrygurl 41-45, F Feb 14, 2013

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    Just did a post on tumblr about this go check

    it out chanelconoco.tumblr.com
    someoneforyou12 someoneforyou12 22-25, F Nov 4, 2014

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    Why Married Men Fool Around?

    Because they don't feel satisfied with their wife... Either emotionally or physically...
    pursueg pursueg 26-30, M Aug 17, 2013

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    Because You Let Us

    Are you serious? If the opposite gender wasn't allowing contact or interest to anyone. there wouldn't be any fooling around. Somebody's looking. somebody's lonely. somebody's horny, pick one! Just don't gender bash, it's an excuse for anyone that isn't satisfied w/ their own...
    pretorian pretorian 46-50, M Nov 5, 2008

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    Instinct

    one reason is instinct they want to spread thier seed, thier ********, the have waited a long time for thier wives to put out, the thout of being bad, and they are in control of thioer wives they can have fun but the misses can't
    unclesmokeyslongbong unclesmokeyslongbong 31-35, M Mar 27, 2011

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    I got a question what is it always assumed

    that just married men fool around?? married women fool around and more often then not they cheat more than men but just don't get caught... I'm sick of people always exploiting men as cheaters however there are just as many women doing the same thing...
    Gibbs302 Gibbs302 22-25, M 1 Response Dec 7, 2015

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    Ugh. I'm tired of the ***

    who flirted with me and now won't speak to me. Ignores my messages and emails. I ask why and get no response. Really? Yes I know you're married. You use social sites with an old pic to lure women in. I feel for your wife. I wonder if she knows how lead women on. I wasn't looking...
    Cohadej Cohadej 46-50, F Oct 2, 2014

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    I'm Sure There's Many Varied Reasons

    But I think it's telling that one of the biggest and fastest growing groups on this site is the "I live in a sexless marriage" group. I haven't strayed, but damnit if I don't feel the urge every single day. There's more to it than just "Men are scum".
    MechanicalBull MechanicalBull 36-40, M 11 Responses Dec 25, 2009

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    Because

    They are asshats and not all men fool around.
    donixa donixa 36-40, F 4 Responses May 16, 2008

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    Because hos want to get them in trouble.

    Women are the root of all evil. They should be in chains and used for what they are. Hos. We will marry garden hos as they are more of a woman than any other female. God bless us all and may god have mercy on dem hoz.
    TheAnonymousTroll TheAnonymousTroll 16-17, M 2 Responses Nov 5, 2014

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    Seriously. And its not

    even the ones with the frumpy wives. If my wife looked like Sophia Bush and was willing to switch it up, I wouldnt wanna stray just because it might mess up what I already have.
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 5 Responses Oct 3, 2014

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    So today he answered me.

    ..finally. He said he is really busy, reads my messages and forgets to reply. Hmmm really? I know he is busy BUT part of me is saying don't believe him. NO we are not having an affair and I never would with him. It would be hell. Just not having him respond to my messages makes...
    Cohadej Cohadej 46-50, F 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    So I found out the other day

    that my ex was married while we were dating... The whole time... I am in no way okay with this and if I ever find out who his wife is, I am telling her. We were dating for almost a year and a half and the whole time he was always talking about "when we get married"... What a...
    savedbygrace030312 savedbygrace030312 26-30, F 2 Responses Jan 25, 2014

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    Get real, women fool around too,

    it's human nature sadly. Let the perfect person step forward! Women, if you were cheated on, look at what you might have done, or not done for it to happen. Men... See above!
    AidanMac AidanMac 51-55, M 1 Response Oct 3, 2014

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    Is there any man out there

    that are married and have had an affair with younger single women? I want to know what goes through your minds. Why you choose to see younger women. what are your true intentions? Are there any feelings there? Or is it purely based on your sexual pleasures? Do you believe these...
    reccos234 reccos234 26-30, F 4 Responses Jun 8, 2014

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    Why tho? lol I want to know what makes me so interesting
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    YES! They certainly are! Hahaha it's so awesome too! I wanted to post this because I speak my mind on ep in a lot of debates about men, animals women's rights and so on. I...
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    That or why you keep me in your circle? I am genuinely curious and free praise is always welcome. LOL If you do let me know, dear peeps, it will give me a chance to say why I...
    justmerae1 justmerae1 46-50, F 8 Responses 1 day ago

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    Since I started going out with my partner 4 and a half months ago, I can completely see this lasting between us and is both wanting to settle down together. There's a rather large...
    CiorstaidhNicAnToisich CiorstaidhNicAnToisich 18-21, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm forever curious and often annoyed! I don't have a large friends list for status. I do allow possibility to grow from letting a person lurk in my friends list if there might...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire 61-65, T 10 Responses 2 days ago

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    My new husband was a single child and lived a sheltered life. We have only been married a few weeks now, and since he comes from a religious family, we lived strictly apart until...
    bakeddolores bakeddolores 18-21, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    People add me to their list, don't talk to me, and then delete me after a while. I don't know what the point of that is.
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 5 Responses 2 days ago

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    I mean one day sure... Though that's def far into the future
    Qwertman1234 Qwertman1234 22-25, M 3 days ago

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    Not now of course. But I definitely want to when I'm older
    Harryp0tter Harryp0tter 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    I would like to get married for that forever life , partner, life, love life struggling, fun, love everything with a person that has that same goal ...
    MrsNeedit MrsNeedit 41-45, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    ' i used to have a fantasy of marrying at 18 but im already 17 ????
    sxhidxh sxhidxh 16-17, F 4 Responses 4 days ago

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    It's awful. I've already slept with 4 married men. All of which would wine and dine me and their wives never found out, at least I don't think they did. Anyway. Don't care.
    deleted deleted 26-30 9 Responses 5 days ago

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    My stranger for a Mother has refused to pay my bills once again. I have a $2000 bill to pay. The only reason that I ran it up was because I was working, but my stranger for a...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 6 days ago

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    I want to get married someday to a beautiful woman
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 6 days ago

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    As a girl who believes in traditional marriage roles, I'm trying to do everything now. I want to try it with another girl, go me with 5 guys at once, there's just a lot. I know...
    Victoria6868 Victoria6868 22-25, F 3 Responses a week ago

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    If you're interested and in Germany, let me know!
    stefanbanner stefanbanner 46-50, M Feb 1

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    Sometimes, on nights like this (when I'm dreading the next day), I wonder why...Why I do the things I do? I'm trying to help everyone else and that selflessness comes at the...
    PassiveActivist PassiveActivist 70+, F Jan 31

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    I have been told that it is not natural, a real man does not have inner feminine feelings or desires, you will not be accepted socially, only weak men have inner girl feelings and...
    alexiswcd alexiswcd 56-60, T 3 Responses Jan 30

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