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I Want To Know Why Men Want To Share Their Wife With Other Men

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    The Hidden Sexual Dynamics Of Sport, Humiliation And Doggie Part 1

    I was visiting my uncle who lived in another country and I got a crush on this girl Michelle who had a boyfriend. He was a great swimmer, popular and extremely good looking, but also very arrogant and unlikeable. His name was Robert. I had been flirting with Michelle, but she was...
    charlescarmichael charlescarmichael
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Jan 3, 2012

    My Reasons

    I'm divorced now, but we divorced for reasons unrelated to any sexual play we once had. When I was married to my ex, we had some swinging encounters and incidents where she played alone. It was a very hot and erotic time in my life. This ex was my second wife (yes, I'm that...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Aug 16, 2013

    Why I Encourage My Wife To **** Other Men

    First, to do this you must have a rock solid relationship with you wife and clearly agree on what can or can't be done. Both you and your wife must understand the difference between love and lust. Men, by nature, are generally voyeuristic which is why we like to watch **** so...
    ecc55 ecc55
    41-45, M
    4 Responses Dec 24, 2012

    Is Cuckolding Species Preservation Instinct?

    I have a question for cuckolds. How long has it been since your lady friend has had a child? Could it be that if a couple has sex for a period of time without conception that we instictively subconsciouly change partners. In other words maybe even we are using some form of...
    lookingbetween lookingbetween
    Sep 14, 2012

    The Infidelity Effect - The Natural Attraction To Unfaithful Women

          A husband comes in from work, his wife meets him in the hallway somewhat surprised that he is home, even though its the normal time. He leans in to kiss her and she seems flustered as though she has lost track of time. She has the slight hint of...
    deleted deleted
    20 Responses Aug 11, 2010

    I Do Wonder....

    I have a lovely wife who enjoys our particular arrangement, which is that she gets to have sex with other men, and I only get to have sex with her, but only right after she has had another man. I find it to be a real turnon when the first thing in the morning she gets a text...
    lenoirshusband lenoirshusband
    3 Responses Mar 14, 2011

    Its About Her Recieving Pleasure, About Her Feeling Atractive

    I want her to feel as much pleasure as possible, to know that she is still sexy, desirable, that men lust over her. I have not watched her with another man but the thrill for me would be to be able to observe and take in the arousal she was feeling, to marvel at how mindblowingly...
    bikerdudemmf bikerdudemmf
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Aug 8, 2013

    Prejudice Destroys

    You know, I have had so many married women who have been wild for sex with me and have done very wild and naughty things and all the time their husbands thought that they were good little wives. I ask them "why don't you do this with your husband?" They ALWAYS say "He wouldn't...
    thebigo thebigo
    46-50, M
    7 Responses Oct 19, 2011

    A Curious Shared Wife

    Firstly, my hubby does share me with other men... but it doesn't stop me from wondering why. Of course, I don't mind! I'm still curious though...
    HotwifeKelly31 HotwifeKelly31
    31-35, F
    12 Responses May 6, 2013

    Because We Both Enjoy It.

    We (wife and I) like to share eachother with others, same room, same place because... (in no particular order) 1. I love to see her pleased. 2. She loves to see me pleased. 3. I enjoy sharing in other's wives. 4. We can do so without jealousy. 5. We know the difference between...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Oct 5, 2010

    SPH For Me

    I totally get off on sharing my girlfriend with other guys. I have an SPH fetish and I am aroused by being visually out-manned in her eyes by another guys much bigger **** as well as watching her being ******. i love watching as they make her squirm and ****** like I never do...
    litlebigman2 litlebigman2
    51-55, M
    Feb 2, 2013

    A Single Male's View Of Wife Sharing

    I have played with 3 couples over the last few years and I feel there are a lot of reasons why people love wife sharing. A lot of men were raised to believe that their are two differnt kinds of women. The "Nice Girls" that you marry and have kids with and then there are the "Bad...
    robin12 robin12
    36-40, M
    21 Responses Dec 17, 2010

    Why Men Want To Share Their Wife With Other Men

    I get very excited when watching my wife with another man and when I know she is alone with another man. This excitement is natural and comes from a phenomenon called "Sp*rm Competition". This is where several males compete for the breeding rights to a female. It is a...
    deleted deleted
    29 Responses Aug 3, 2010

    Cuckold Vs Hotwife

    I became familiar with Experience Project awhile back when i googled cuckold and hotwife and ended up here. Why did I google those words? Because my husband had broached the subject, and I, probably like most wives, thought he was crazy. But I played along with it during sex...
    KellyTravels KellyTravels
    36-40, F
    8 Responses Sep 3, 2013

    I originally posted this

    as a confession just about a year ago. I received many private messages, thank you. However, I still don't have a full understanding of our alter persona. What I have learned over the past year is this experience is not as unusual (in both thought AND practice) as one would...
    Michaelated Michaelated
    46-50, M
    4 Responses Sep 20, 2014

    I Want To Know

    I definitely want to share my wife with another man. I don't know why. It just really, really turns me on when I fantasize about seeing her open her legs and welcome another penis into her vagina. I want to see that look of utter satisfaction, pleasure, and lust on her face...
    jb0664 jb0664
    46-50, M
    3 Responses Aug 8, 2012

    Is It Worth It….

    In just the few short days since I have joined this site, I have been in many rooms and read many stories about why men want to “share” their wives. Since I am in this position myself (it is a HUGE fantasy of my husband’s to see with me with another man), I am curious as to...
    flsunshinegirl4u flsunshinegirl4u
    41-45, F
    10 Responses Oct 18, 2011

    I'm Not Complaining, Not One Bit

    My own opinion is that "free love" is more natural for us than monogamy. I think it dates all the way back to thousands of years of small human tribes before anyone established big societies and started enforcing sexual rules. Monogamy just seems forced, and married men and women...
    MaxTurgid MaxTurgid
    51-55, M
    May 22, 2012

    Just A Few Reason's Why I LOVE To Share My Wife

    We have a wonderful relationship (married to each other) and have fantastic sex, which is important to both of us. I have always wondered during sex how hot she would be to watch from a different angle, you guessed it, while some other male was making love to her. Another reason...
    mnjcalifornia mnjcalifornia
    14 Responses Sep 29, 2012

    I'll Share Your Wife :)

    I don't think I'd want to share my wife with another man. But I'd be willing to experience your wife if you want to share her with me, whether it's so that I can satisfy her or satisfy your fantasy, or maybe you want a baby but don't have viable *****.
    gregff gregff
    46-50, M
    1 Response May 2, 2013


    I want to because my whole life I ****** all the hottest girls and women. My wife was the same way she ****** any cute guy . I tease her that she aeen more **** than a urinal at penn station. My feelings is, a ring doesnt change who you are inside. I always look back with regrets...
    Countingclocks Countingclocks
    41-45, M
    7 Responses May 5, 2013

    I Want To But Not Sure

    Me and my wife have to show her having sex with black guys she has had it in the past. but we have yet to do it together I'm not sure of how that will work out. or how we should go about it if it should be somebody we know someone from your past or someone off the street. what...
    whiteguy26 whiteguy26
    31-35, M
    1 Response Apr 24, 2013

    Familiarity, Boredom, And Mediocrity?

    In so many of the stories that I read from people who are enjoying sharing situations they often say things like "I have been with my (husband/wife) for twenty years (or more) and we have a very strong relationship.  We love each other dearly and are very secure with each other...
    bluelady1021 bluelady1021
    41-45, F
    13 Responses Oct 13, 2011

    I Hope I

    have husband who willing to share me. I feel husband real love his wife to allowe her to enjoy also with other men. He not jealous because he so much love his wife and want to make her happy . Is it true? why men want to share their wife.
    tirowki tirowki
    31-35, F
    3 Responses Aug 24, 2012

    Or Women

    Seriously -- this is one totally unknown and un-understood area to me.  I just do NOT get it.  I am married, and let me tell you something right now and completely upfront... I am NOT into sharing my wife.  Nor is she into sharing me.  We did NOT get married...
    SaratogaGirl SaratogaGirl
    26-30, F
    26 Responses Aug 9, 2010

    His Plan Excites Me

    I've been trying to understand my husbands sudden desire to share me in this way, when he has always been so possessive and the jealous kind.... it just hasn't made sense to me. I am willing to do this to please him and am kind of acting like the only reason I would is for him...
    neverwannastop neverwannastop
    36-40, F
    22 Responses Oct 2, 2012

    My Biggest Turn On

    is seeing my woman enjoying the pleasure of being with a new man. It's a huge turn on for me to watch her being pleasured plus knowing that she's so desirable to others. I don't expect it to be something everyone enjoys but its my biggest turn on, and my GF never complains about...
    boisesugardaddy69 boisesugardaddy69
    46-50, M
    Aug 5, 2013

    Explain It To Me

    My husband loves watching me with other men. I don't understand it at all, but I don't complain because it is a lot of fun. The thought of him with another woman makes me sick to my stomach, so I really can't understand why he'd want to see me with another guy. At first I...
    wifekelly wifekelly
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 11, 2012

    Sex has been to closely related to love making

    for so long that it has repressed our primal instincts through a social taboo. All people want all people, and if they don't then I believe they are repressed. It is only natural to want multiple sexual partners. It's everyone's ultimate fantasy. If people happen to be...
    PresumingGreig PresumingGreig
    22-25, M
    2 Responses Jun 9, 2015

    Wife's Lovers

    I am a husband who enjoys my wife having sexual intimacy with other men. We have been married for 30 years and i can honestly say it has enhanced not only our sex lives but life in general. She is her own person and if she wants to make love with another man thats fine with me...
    jonny9 jonny9
    56-60, M
    18 Responses Jun 2, 2012

    I Can't Understand

    Why on earth would you want to share you wife with another man? I can't understand this. Any answers please?
    lazycrazybasket lazycrazybasket
    46-50, M
    8 Responses Dec 10, 2011

    You'll Never Know Unless You Try It.................................

    First a little background is in order: my wife and I have been together now for 12 years and are very happily married -- the first marriage for both of us although we were in our 30's when we started dating. So we were neither young (and impulsive !) nor sexually inexperienced...
    propinquitee propinquitee
    41-45, M
    3 Responses Aug 23, 2010

    Wife's Choice, My Agreement

    My wife and I are an older married couple and a little over 10 years ago we entered into the cuckold lifestyle. My wife has dominate tendencies and I am bi and submissive. She took on a lover and he has satisfied her for the last 10 years. I clean her up with my mouth when she...
    stevenewbi stevenewbi
    56-60, M
    2 Responses Sep 11, 2011

    Why I Want To Share

    It's funny I want to see my wife with another man, not to be treated like a **** are down graded. What I would love to see is her so turned on full of lust that she can't stop her self. My wife and I have a great sex life, but one of my favorite things is watching her have a...
    harvester989 harvester989
    36-40, M
    3 Responses Aug 19, 2012

    Why Does He Want Me To Date?

    I can almost understand why a man would like to watch his wife. I might even get turned on seeing him with another woman (although I'm rather jealous and would probably throw a fit). My husband wants me to date and have sex with other men when he is not around. At first I...
    NikkiFarmGurl NikkiFarmGurl
    26-30, F
    73 Responses Apr 20, 2012

    Why I Share My Wife With Other Men

    i met my wife,leah when i was 16,and she was 17.i met her at a amvets dance.her older brother was there with other friends of mine.i noticed that leah was danceing with acouple of older guys,and going to the parking lot with i went outside for some fresh air,i noticed her...
    shelbycpl shelbycpl
    1 Response Dec 4, 2011

    I Want To Know

    A study has shown that cuck and swapping fantasies are common in couples who are otherwise leading a happy and sex citing married life. Strangely cuck fantasies are common in guys who have sexy and pretty wife. Study has also shown that women confide there hidden sexual fantasies...
    bottomgaypaki bottomgaypaki
    26-30, M
    3 Responses Jun 3, 2013

    I So Agree

    I don't have a problem if a couple has an open relationship and like sharing photos of each other but it does seem a bit weird that guys love to show off their wives so much. What disturbs me though is some of the men here probably are showing pictures of their wives without...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jun 19, 2013

    Love And Lust

     LUSTWell as you know we are all interested in sex at least some what. It is an urge given us by nature, some have a stronger urges than others. That being said I feel that every one has thought about sex with some one other than your chosen partner or lover. Maybe it's...
    toolgnomb toolgnomb
    51-55, M
    Sep 18, 2012

    I Am Currently Sharing Another Man's Wife

    There are various reasons why men want to share their wives. The one that I have found most common has to do with a husband's inability to perform sexually for medical reasons. I am currently in a relationship with a married couple and am meeting with another couple later this...
    lingalong lingalong
    51-55, M
    4 Responses Jul 11, 2011

    Anything To Keep My Wife

    orced To Become A Cuckold Posted February 27th, 2012 at 3:12PM We had been married for 20years when our 3 children had left home when my wife announced there were going to be some changes in the bedroom. She said that life had got boring she still love me but wanted a younger...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 28, 2012

    With the right people,

    it can be one of the ultimate sexual experiences a couple can enjoy.
    deleted deleted
    7 Responses May 6, 2014

    Because My Wife Is So Beautiful & Sexy

    I love seeing my wife get sexual pleasure & give sexual pleasure from another man. When she ******* another man he is just like a sex toy to her to be used for her sexual pleasure. I get to **** her any time I want, but the other guy can only **** my wife when we allow him to. To...
    watchedwife watchedwife
    2 Responses Oct 19, 2010
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