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I Want To Know Why Men Want To Share Their Wife With Other Men

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    Why Does He Want Me To Date?

    I can almost understand why a man would like to watch his wife. I might even get turned on seeing him with another woman (although I'm rather jealous and would probably throw a fit). My husband wants me to date and have sex with other men when he is not around. At first I...
    NikkiFarmGurl NikkiFarmGurl 26-30, F 97 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    I originally posted this

    as a confession just about a year ago. I received many private messages, thank you. However, I still don't have a full understanding of our alter persona. What I have learned over the past year is this experience is not as unusual (in both thought AND practice) as one would...
    Michaelated Michaelated 46-50, M Sep 20

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    Why I Encourage My Wife To **** Other Men

    First, to do this you must have a rock solid relationship with you wife and clearly agree on what can or can't be done. Both you and your wife must understand the difference between love and lust. Men, by nature, are generally voyeuristic which is why we like to watch **** so...
    ecc55 ecc55 41-45, M 6 Responses Dec 24, 2012

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    Prejudice Destroys

    You know, I have had so many married women who have been wild for sex with me and have done very wild and naughty things and all the time their husbands thought that they were good little wives. I ask them "why don't you do this with your husband?" They ALWAYS say "He wouldn't...
    thebigo thebigo 46-50, M 8 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    A Curious Shared Wife

    Firstly, my hubby does share me with other men... but it doesn't stop me from wondering why. Of course, I don't mind! I'm still curious though...
    HotwifeKelly31 HotwifeKelly31 31-35, F 14 Responses May 6, 2013

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    Its About Her Recieving Pleasure, About Her Feeling Atractive

    I want her to feel as much pleasure as possible, to know that she is still sexy, desirable, that men lust over her. I have not watched her with another man but the thrill for me would be to be able to observe and take in the arousal she was feeling, to marvel at how mindblowingly...
    bikerdudemmf bikerdudemmf 46-50, M 2 Responses Aug 8, 2013

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    Why Men Want To Share Their Wife With Other Men

    I get very excited when watching my wife with another man and when I know she is alone with another man. This excitement is natural and comes from a phenomenon called "Sp*rm Competition". This is where several males compete for the breeding rights to a female. It is a...
    deleted deleted 26-30 34 Responses Aug 3, 2010

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    Used To Wonder If This Was A Homosexual Tendency Showing Itself

    It was such a desire I had, to watch my girlfriend or wife sucking a guy off. What was going on with me, I wondered.  Was I gay and just couldn't go through with it?  Where did this very strong desire come from, anyway? Well, I found a girl I really liked, finally worked up to...
    ward ward 56-60, M 3 Responses Apr 28, 2013

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    It Is A Beautiful Thing

    I was nervous at first, but it has turned out to be one of the most sexy and beautiful things we have ever experienced.
    030874bk 030874bk 36-40, M 10 Responses Jun 10, 2013

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    My Reasons

    I'm divorced now, but we divorced for reasons unrelated to any sexual play we once had. When I was married to my ex, we had some swinging encounters and incidents where she played alone. It was a very hot and erotic time in my life. This ex was my second wife (yes, I'm that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    With the right people,

    it can be one of the ultimate sexual experiences a couple can enjoy.
    Pairofdice808 Pairofdice808 46-50 5 Responses May 6

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    Yesterday

    Yesterday I was out running errands and stopped off at a place where lots of guys have lunch. I have been there before and have talked with a few of them. They are friendly and fun and of course I do enjoy flirting with them and then text my husband just to tease him. He loves...
    2PleaseHim 2PleaseHim 31-35, F 82 Responses May 11, 2012

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    Considering His Request

    My husband is a great lover, very successful and strong both mentally and physically, confident and so attractive. He has taught me so much and expanded my conservative horizons. For some time he has brought up the idea of me having sex with another guy. I was at first confused...
    2PleaseHim 2PleaseHim 31-35, F 282 Responses Apr 30, 2012

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    I Think I Got It!

                   I watched my ex-wife many times have sex with other men.  I share all the merry-go-round of emotions that wittol or cuckold husbands feel.  I’m a peace, love & music guy.  She never was a possession of mine, but even though she had my permission...
    hotone48430 hotone48430 61-65, M 8 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    There Is Nothing Like The Validation That Your Wife Is Attractive Than Sharing Her With Others.

    But it is more than that...it is allowing her to explore here hidden desires, it is about watching your own live action **** that you can participate in, and it is about showing her how accepting you are of her no matter what.
    Raoul6t9 Raoul6t9 51-55, M 7 Responses Aug 16, 2013

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    Other Motivations For Wife Sharing

    In my earlier post I discussed the Madonna complex as explaining why some men want to share their wives with other men, Here are some other basic reasons: Most men think their wife is beautiful and sexy. They like watching her have sex. It is a form of voyeurism. It is better...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 14 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Why I Share My Wife With Other Men

    i met my wife,leah when i was 16,and she was 17.i met her at a amvets dance.her older brother was there with other friends of mine.i noticed that leah was danceing with acouple of older guys,and going to the parking lot with them.as i went outside for some fresh air,i noticed her...
    shelbycpl shelbycpl 41-45 4 Responses Dec 4, 2011

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    Still Figuring This Out

    I am married and love my hubby very dearly. In all honesty I am still trying to figure out how his mind works. He initiated the idea but I can't imagine sharing him whom I so love so dearly with other women. Don't get me wrong, I do enjoy this lifestyle very much and I personally...
    sweetliz sweetliz 41-45, F 34 Responses Nov 24, 2010

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    Found Some Of My Favorite Stories At Joan's Site

    Joan's true ********* story site has been a favorite place for me to read great ********* stories. I posted a couple true stories there myself.  You can find them here at EP too, the ones about Julie and Dave and me.  Some of mine on here are true, the ones which are not I...
    ward ward 56-60, M 2 Responses Dec 1, 2013

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    I Want To Know

    A study has shown that cuck and swapping fantasies are common in couples who are otherwise leading a happy and sex citing married life. Strangely cuck fantasies are common in guys who have sexy and pretty wife. Study has also shown that women confide there hidden sexual fantasies...
    bottomgaypaki bottomgaypaki 26-30, M 3 Responses Jun 3, 2013

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    I Am Currently Sharing Another Man's Wife

    There are various reasons why men want to share their wives. The one that I have found most common has to do with a husband's inability to perform sexually for medical reasons. I am currently in a relationship with a married couple and am meeting with another couple later this...
    lingalong lingalong 51-55, M 4 Responses Jul 11, 2011

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    Wanting An Adulteress Wife

    Hi, First of all, let me say that my wife and I love each other very much. For a long time now, I have always fantasized about my wife dating another man. This fantasy has grown extremely strong over that past ten years.  I would so much enjoy it if she would have a couple of...
    fuckotherwives fuckotherwives 56-60, M 26 Responses Apr 20, 2012

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    Just A Few Reason's Why I LOVE To Share My Wife

    We have a wonderful relationship (married to each other) and have fantastic sex, which is important to both of us. I have always wondered during sex how hot she would be to watch from a different angle, you guessed it, while some other male was making love to her. Another reason...
    mnjcalifornia mnjcalifornia 51-55 15 Responses Sep 29, 2012

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    I Do Not Understand This Either!

    I have no flipping clue why. If I was married to the lady of my dreams; sorry guys, but I am going to be extremely greedy over my lady!
    wjk1849 wjk1849 46-50, M 1 Response Apr 26, 2013

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    A Few Truths

    One reason--It's Real live ****- another-We are VERY proud that others find our wives sexy-even if they don't have a perfect body- & we enjoy our wives having pleasure(Men spend a lot of time& effort trying to find ways to make thier wives happy(flowers-candy...
    jettys jettys 56-60 2 Responses Oct 17, 2012

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    Love And Lust

     LUSTWell as you know we are all interested in sex at least some what. It is an urge given us by nature, some have a stronger urges than others. That being said I feel that every one has thought about sex with some one other than your chosen partner or lover. Maybe it's...
    toolgnomb toolgnomb 51-55, M Sep 18, 2012

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    The Madonna Complex

    Even today, many men see women as either saintly Madonnas or a *****. The two are mutually exclusive, offering women one of two paths. And the idea is that their wife is the Madonna, the mother of their children, the good girl, prim and proper, without blemish or flaw, innocent...
    outofbiz outofbiz 36-40, F 5 Responses Dec 16, 2012

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    Because My Wife Is So Beautiful & Sexy

    I love seeing my wife get sexual pleasure & give sexual pleasure from another man. When she ******* another man he is just like a sex toy to her to be used for her sexual pleasure. I get to **** her any time I want, but the other guy can only **** my wife when we allow him to. To...
    watchedwife watchedwife 31-35 3 Responses Oct 19, 2010

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    Cuckold Vs Hotwife

    I became familiar with Experience Project awhile back when i googled cuckold and hotwife and ended up here. Why did I google those words? Because my husband had broached the subject, and I, probably like most wives, thought he was crazy. But I played along with it during sex...
    KellyTravels KellyTravels 36-40, F 10 Responses Sep 3, 2013

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    Sharing My Wife A Life Changing Experience

    MY wife and i have been married for several years as with any couple after time things get to routine. When we first were together she dressed sexy when she went out either with friends or myself as time went on it faded away. One day i convinced her to start dressing SEXY...
    construction construction 56-60, M 6 Responses Aug 20, 2013

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    SPH For Me

    I totally get off on sharing my girlfriend with other guys. I have an SPH fetish and I am aroused by being visually out-manned in her eyes by another guys much bigger **** as well as watching her being ******. i love watching as they make her squirm and ****** like I never do...
    litlebigman2 litlebigman2 51-55, M Feb 2, 2013

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    Explain It To Me

    My husband loves watching me with other men. I don't understand it at all, but I don't complain because it is a lot of fun. The thought of him with another woman makes me sick to my stomach, so I really can't understand why he'd want to see me with another guy. At first I...
    wifekelly wifekelly 26-30, F 5 Responses Apr 11, 2012

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    I Hope I

    have husband who willing to share me. I feel husband real love his wife to allowe her to enjoy also with other men. He not jealous because he so much love his wife and want to make her happy . Is it true? why men want to share their wife.
    tirowki tirowki 31-35, F 5 Responses Aug 24, 2012

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    When my husband first started talking to me

    about sharing I was confused and hurt. I just couldn't understand how he could even think those things. I mean didn't he love me? But then in a weak moment it just kind of happened. The opportunity presented itself to me, it was vanilla. I had never had vanilla that wasn't...
    2PleaseHim 2PleaseHim 31-35, F 8 Responses Jun 4

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    A Single Male's View Of Wife Sharing

    I have played with 3 couples over the last few years and I feel there are a lot of reasons why people love wife sharing. A lot of men were raised to believe that their are two differnt kinds of women. The "Nice Girls" that you marry and have kids with and then there are the "Bad...
    robin12 robin12 36-40, M 25 Responses Dec 17, 2010

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    Why I Want To Share

    It's funny I want to see my wife with another man, not to be treated like a **** are down graded. What I would love to see is her so turned on full of lust that she can't stop her self. My wife and I have a great sex life, but one of my favorite things is watching her have a...
    harvester989 harvester989 36-40, M 4 Responses Aug 19, 2012

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    I Want To But Not Sure

    Me and my wife have to show her having sex with black guys she has had it in the past. but we have yet to do it together I'm not sure of how that will work out. or how we should go about it if it should be somebody we know someone from your past or someone off the street. what...
    whiteguy26 whiteguy26 26-30, M 1 Response Apr 24, 2013

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    You'll Never Know Unless You Try It.................................

    First a little background is in order: my wife and I have been together now for 12 years and are very happily married -- the first marriage for both of us although we were in our 30's when we started dating. So we were neither young (and impulsive !) nor sexually inexperienced...
    propinquitee propinquitee 41-45, M 4 Responses Aug 23, 2010

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    His Plan Excites Me

    I've been trying to understand my husbands sudden desire to share me in this way, when he has always been so possessive and the jealous kind.... it just hasn't made sense to me. I am willing to do this to please him and am kind of acting like the only reason I would is for him...
    neverwannastop neverwannastop 36-40, F 27 Responses Oct 2, 2012

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    I'll Share Your Wife :)

    I don't think I'd want to share my wife with another man. But I'd be willing to experience your wife if you want to share her with me, whether it's so that I can satisfy her or satisfy your fantasy, or maybe you want a baby but don't have viable *****.
    gregff gregff 41-45, M 1 Response May 2, 2013

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    Maybe it is The Contradiction Of Long Accepted Belief That is So Exciting

    It just occurred to me that I was taught as a young person to believe that women did not like sex and I continued to believe that in spite of all the contrary evidence. Finally, when I got to experience what I thought was true intellectual intimacy with a woman, I wanted to test...
    ward ward 56-60, M 4 Responses Jun 12, 2013

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    Wife's Lovers

    I am a husband who enjoys my wife having sexual intimacy with other men. We have been married for 30 years and i can honestly say it has enhanced not only our sex lives but life in general. She is her own person and if she wants to make love with another man thats fine with me...
    jonny9 jonny9 56-60, M 22 Responses Jun 2, 2012

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    The Infidelity Effect - The Natural Attraction To Unfaithful Women

          A husband comes in from work, his wife meets him in the hallway somewhat surprised that he is home, even though its the normal time. He leans in to kiss her and she seems flustered as though she has lost track of time. She has the slight hint of...
    deleted deleted 26-30 23 Responses Aug 11, 2010

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    Okay, every story I've shared here has been

    censored by EP and disallowed even without any words that would be considered not normal conversation. Therefore I thought I would write this and see if it gets censored to. I love chocolate, dark chocolate. My husband loves to make sure I have all the chocolate I want, he...
    2PleaseHim 2PleaseHim 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 4

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    I So Agree

    I don't have a problem if a couple has an open relationship and like sharing photos of each other but it does seem a bit weird that guys love to show off their wives so much. What disturbs me though is some of the men here probably are showing pictures of their wives without...
    nowandlater nowandlater 51-55, M 1 Response Jun 19, 2013

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    Why?

    I want to because my whole life I ****** all the hottest girls and women. My wife was the same way she ****** any cute guy . I tease her that she aeen more **** than a urinal at penn station. My feelings is, a ring doesnt change who you are inside. I always look back with regrets...
    Countingclocks Countingclocks 36-40, M 9 Responses May 5, 2013

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    My Biggest Turn On

    is seeing my woman enjoying the pleasure of being with a new man. It's a huge turn on for me to watch her being pleasured plus knowing that she's so desirable to others. I don't expect it to be something everyone enjoys but its my biggest turn on, and my GF never complains about...
    boisesugardaddy69 boisesugardaddy69 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 5, 2013

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