I Want to Know Why You Added Me to Your Circle

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    That or why you keep me in your circle?

    I am genuinely curious and free praise is always welcome. LOL If you do let me know, dear peeps, it will give me a chance to say why I think you are special. So, do you want some free love...wait that didn't come out right! Oy vey! ;)
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Feb 7

    Curious

    I am always curious....it seems to me most people are just trying to collect friends. Especially when someone fans me but doesn't bother to say hello, read/comment on my stories, etc. Annoying!
    TattooedMissez TattooedMissez
    26-30, F
    8 Responses Dec 12, 2011

    Often one of the first questions I ask.

    I like to know what about my profile, stories or experiences drew you to my profile so I can see what we have in common and what interested you about me.
    HeyLookItsGemma HeyLookItsGemma
    26-30, F
    15 Responses May 19, 2015
    Parker0325 Parker0325
    31-35, M
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    Just because I'm curious

    and have had bad experiences I'd like to know why you added me to your circle.
    Pather2013 Pather2013
    46-50, M
    1 Response Feb 25

    I'm forever curious and often annoyed!

    I don't have a large friends list for status. I do allow possibility to grow from letting a person lurk in my friends list if there might be potential for words. I allow most to friend me because they have enough similar experiences. I wish those that do would respond in...
    JoanieNewHampshire JoanieNewHampshire
    61-65, T
    8 Responses Feb 7
    vickieprince vickieprince
    51-55, F
    23 Responses Aug 15, 2014
    Natureismagic Natureismagic
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 26

    For Everyone In My Circle, This Is Why....

    I am not a random "friend collector" so if you find yourself added to my circle, consider it a very big compliment. You have proven yourself to have the ability to brighten my day with a few smiles or to impress me with your insight and intelligence in such a way, that I...
    RobertaSunset RobertaSunset
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Feb 5, 2012

    Why do people add me to their circle

    but never message me ?
    XjadeeX XjadeeX
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    like you added me randomly

    and I don't even know the reason why :(
    BlueBerryCheesecake000 BlueBerryCheesecake000
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 13

    No Clue

    Sometimes people add me and we have no groups in common. I wonder how they even found me let alone why they add me.
    ItsTheSmallThingsInLife ItsTheSmallThingsInLife
    36-40, M
    May 5, 2013

    Why do people add me to there profiles

    and then don't talk lol or if they do they say one or two lines lol ....when u do see who else they add they have block added and the profiles have had no activities for ages.....
    lovebustyladies lovebustyladies
    41-45, M
    2 Responses May 19, 2015

    Please tell me why you think I'm awesome

    because I can't figure it out
    serenagirl87 serenagirl87
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Mar 1

    I only wonder why people add me

    when I haven't seen them heart or respond to any of my posts The randomness of seeing a profile I have never seen before adding me to their circle always throws me off.
    SapphicMinion SapphicMinion
    26-30
    3 Responses Oct 26, 2014

    Just tell me ... Even

    if you don't remember lie to me tell me anything I love the words from your mouth
    ashless ashless
    22-25, F
    8 Responses Nov 5, 2014

    Alot of people add me to there circle .

    ..and I wonder why so if you do add me can you tell me why please . Thank you :) Or if you already have or want to ...just tell me why !
    HappyGirlAlways HappyGirlAlways
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Oct 29, 2015

    Okay, here's a rather simple request.

    For people and EP members who add me, can you leave a message saying why you added me to your circle? :) Saves me the time to message you. Hahaha. Yes, I'm that lazy. xD
    TheMisanthropeOtaku TheMisanthropeOtaku
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Oct 21, 2015

    Was it because you read one of my mature posts

    and you want more details(maybe you're one of those role players?)? Or where you drawn to the more philosophical rants of mine? Don't just add me and say nothing. Draws my ire, it does.
    yourguardingangel yourguardingangel
    22-25, M
    3 Responses Oct 27, 2015

    I truly want to know,

    especially for the people who add me but never speaks to me.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 21, 2014

    I've messege some of them

    when they suddenly add me because i thought that maybe they were interested in getting to know me, but some turn out to act very cold and it feels like they don't want to talk to me. Kind of weird. I guess adding someone to your circle carries a different meaning for everyone
    knock2knock knock2knock
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 19, 2014
    osnapitzama osnapitzama
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 8

    Always wondering why?

    .... I like to add people that i have 100+ experiences in common... if we chat, there has to be some common ground. its a good start.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Nov 18, 2015

    Actually I don't really want to know

    why you chose me to be part of your circle, but thank you for adding me all the same. I love reading all the different activities of the friends in my circle. The way they think and how we are all so different in our own unique way. Some sad, some not so sad but with each a...
    Lee124 Lee124
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Jan 10, 2015

    So I disappeared for all of 24 hours,

    and when I came back 12 messages from guys that simply say hi (imaginative) and 17 guys with no message at all add me to their circle. I'm flattered but...WHO ARE YOU???
    unlimitedshyness unlimitedshyness
    31-35, F
    2 Responses Dec 8, 2014

    Yeah I'm kind of curious to know why?

    Maybe you liked my story posts?... Or maybe you've always wanted to meet someone who is a mess of gorgeous chaos xD (:
    amessofgorgeouschaos amessofgorgeouschaos
    22-25, F
    1 Response Nov 12, 2015

    Why is there people adding me to their circle

    if they are not bothering to talk to me!!! Why did you add me for?
    lorrena19 lorrena19
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Jul 17, 2015

    Something I Always Ask Myself

    We all know how Ep works pretty much. Someone see's something they like or can relate too and they fan you. But you don't always get the chance to find out what that was or why they did.Although it is something that I ask myself often.As I peruse their profile, read their work...
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jan 24, 2012
    theguywiththeredhair theguywiththeredhair
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Nov 13, 2015
    deejustdee6969 deejustdee6969
    46-50, F
    2 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    Give it to me straight,

    I can take it! My sense of humor, witty repartee, dashing good looks, deep philosophical rap, my big ego, my problem solving ability or (insert your own reason here)
    grower629 grower629
    51-55, M
    Feb 15
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Oct 9, 2014

    If you are going to ADD me / friend me,

    you better believe it I won't accept that , unless we have spoken prior or have had some type of EP communication. Be it vis a vis story comments, Q and A and so on. Oh and you are welcome to write to me in my mail. I don't think my settings allow for anyone to put a message...
    Lunadelobos Lunadelobos
    41-45
    2 Responses Jan 9
    ColeSweety ColeSweety
    22-25, F
    6 Responses Nov 12, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Feb 1, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    1 Response Nov 14, 2015
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    2 Responses Jan 9

    yes i really want to know!

    tell me. if you want to chat please don't answer in short messages. like damn you can even write a book to me if u want just don't write short messages! thanks
    SilverUniicorn SilverUniicorn
    70+, F
    3 Responses Jan 11

    I think if someone adds me

    and really wants me to add them back then they should tell me why they added me.
    LovelyyLexii18 LovelyyLexii18
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Nov 12, 2015

    Seriously... What Made You Go "Hey,

    She Might Be Awesome!" ?
    Erie23 Erie23
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Oct 20, 2015

    I find it creepy as its mostly older guys.

    :c And then some add me but don't ever talk to me. ._.
    xMikayla xMikayla
    16-17, F
    3 Responses Jun 29, 2014

    surely i'm not that interesting.

    and it's definitely not for my looks
    p0ppunknotpills p0ppunknotpills
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Sep 27, 2015

    You can ask me why I added you

    if you are interested.
    NoRegretLife NoRegretLife
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2015

    Yea, just curious about

    why you added me to you circle. What made you decide to do that?
    WanderLustAlethiology WanderLustAlethiology
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 15

    Yes, add me and there's a good chance I'll

    message you and ask you what brought you to my profile.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    5 Responses Jan 8
    Majin1712 Majin1712
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Jan 2, 2015

    Lately I've had a huge amount of people adding

    me to their circle but I don't get any messages from them, no comments on posts, nothing. Why would people add me and then not interact at all? What's the point?
    an2012 an2012
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Jan 11, 2015

    If it involves humor sarcasm witty banter

    horror sex mythology true story bro or anything that can be shenanigans then I'll most likely add you to my circle. ******* laughs are meant to be had, don't be a sour dry ***** with brittle ticks.
    stonergypsybang stonergypsybang
    31-35, F
    4 Responses Nov 11, 2015
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    1 Response Apr 15

    When people add me to their circle,

    I often ask them why if we haven't been in a conversation together. So, if you ever plan on adding me to your circle, keep this in mind. 1. I will ask you why you added me. 2. I'm not being rude. I appreciate making new friends, and don't mean any offence. I'm just interested...
    dabram71 dabram71
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    Especially when someone adds you

    and you accept and then they never interact with you afterwards lol
    AliceAlice19 AliceAlice19
    18-21, F
    Jun 13, 2015

    Usually if you add me I won't really think

    anything of it. If you message me or comment on something of mine asking me to add you I will then sometime in the conversation I'll kinda just smoothly glide in with "Sooo Why did you want to chat?" Sounds mean but I ask it :P
    Raptax231 Raptax231
    22-25, M
    Oct 1, 2014

    I had to delete my last post

    because I was getting so many negative comments about my breasts. My breasts are on display because I love them and I love showing them off. That does not make me your se* toy. All I'm saying is -- talk to me!!! I will not share other pictures or get into it if you don't. And...
    QueenBee479 QueenBee479
    36-40, F
    7 Responses Jun 9, 2015
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