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I Want To Know Your List Of 10 Things You Look For In A Lover

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    HerbertHomebody HerbertHomebody 46-50, M Sep 30, 2014

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    10 Things I Look For In A Lover.

    This is a simple version.1. Honesty.2. Loyalty.3. Passionate.4. Caring.5. Funny.6. Spontaneous.7. Romantic and loving.8. Responsible.9. Respectful towards people and everything else (elders, religion, culture etc.)10. Fun, adventurous, positive and happy.
    LynnAuditore LynnAuditore 22-25, F 4 Responses Oct 30, 2012

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    Attractive Caring Beautiful inside

    and out Likes me for me Motherly instinct Good housewife Good cook Unconditional love Likes animals A good person
    dammetmike dammetmike 22-25, M Feb 27, 2014

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    Now Hiring

    01. lead, follow, or get out of the way.ย  I'm perfectly capable of steering this ship, and I have yet to meet the iceberg that prevents my swimming.ย  If you have nothing to offer, be silent.ย  02. a personal sense of style. This is not about your clothes, though it will be...
    RascallyRabbit RascallyRabbit 31-35, F 24 Responses Apr 28, 2011

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    1. Heady & intellectual* 2.

    Slow paced & steady 3. Very down to earth & not egotistical 4. Funny, of course :) 5. Selfless, devoted, & compassionate 6. Lots of fun! 7. Sexual 8. Creepy & not offended or freaked out easily 9. Mysterious 10. Chill & not overbearing ๐Ÿ˜‰๐Ÿ˜˜
    Dreambrother Dreambrother 18-21, F 3 Responses May 30, 2014

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    1. Has to be a man of God 2.

    Has to accept my son 3. Supportive 4. Affectionate 5. Goal oriented 6. Respects me 7. Not lazy 8. Family oriented 9. Humble 10. Has to have manners
    trishayvette trishayvette 22-25, F May 13, 2014

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    Top 10

    I sooooooo like lists...here it goes; 1. Wit. Being mentally engaged is so stimulating. 2. She needs to be someone I admire as a person. Someone strong enough to take on life without assistance... 3. ...although I don't want a "lone wolf" type of person. Knowing I'm someone's...
    guiltybyassociation guiltybyassociation 31-35, M 2 Responses Oct 14, 2011

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    I have these two people in my life.

    One is my best friend. The other is my neighbor who I haven't been able to shake feelings for for 2 years. I made out with my neighbor (tongue and lip biting) and it was amazing. She fixed things with her boyfriend right after. My best friend lives 37 minutes away and we haven't...
    IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 IDontEvenKnowAnymore1 16-17, M Aug 9, 2014

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    My List

    A woman that can talk about almost anything A woman that is willing to listen to what I have to say no matter the subject A woman who is comfortable in her skin A woman that can make me feel I'm the only man for her A woman that is willing to share herself with me A...
    mtvlm mtvlm 41-45, M 34 Responses May 7, 2010

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    Top Things I Want In A Relationship

    Okay, so this is more than 10 things, but over the years, I've compiled the things I want in my ideal relationship...here they are! 1. Sharing our passions and honoring them even though they may not be the same passions 2. Passionate about our relationship 3. Places...
    dawinla dawinla 56-60, M 11 Responses Oct 1, 2012

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    My ten

    are: Intelligence Height Weight Panache Teeth Confidence Conversation Penis size Hairiness That certain......
    Lecuyer90 Lecuyer90 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 17, 2014

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    Starting Over

    I always wondered why I had such a hard time in relationships. I am always questioning myself, always questioning my own motives, yet everyone would always tell me that is was not me. I kept questioning if it is not me then why am I always in a screwed up relation that is doomed...
    NeoZen NeoZen 46-50, M 4 Responses Aug 12, 2012

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    Perfect For Me!

    Here we go! No particular order! 1. Passionate 2. Loving 3. Committed 4. Compassionate 5. Emotional 6. Cuddly 7. Warm Personality 8. Internal Beauty 9. Eyes sparkle when she sees me 10. She accepts my love for her, completely.
    NorthernMan1966 NorthernMan1966 46-50, M 5 Responses Nov 24, 2012

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    My Best (bet) Of 10 In A Lover.

    ย  1) . . . Well, first thing is first. . . there should be what is commonly called intelligence. Doesn't have to be a scholar, or someone elite. But has the flair to convince and influence men, ofcourse in productive manner. The rest was randomly picked. 2) . . . .Second would...
    ladyryan ladyryan 41-45, F 13 Responses May 21, 2012

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    1. Compassionate 2. Caring 3.

    Good sense of humor 4. Romantic 5. Can listen as well as talk 6. Loyal 7. Honest 8. Likes to have fun 9. Can be spontaneous at times 10. Is a great lover as well as a great friend
    ErraticSarcastic ErraticSarcastic 26-30, F 6 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    What I'd Like A Partner To Have!

    I'm currently single and I am planning to be so for a while for personal reasons but if I ever to find someone I'd love her to have those things that I am going to mention.1- She has to appreciate the good and close friendship in a relationship. 2- Has the same religious views...
    AYearWithoutRain AYearWithoutRain 22-25, M 5 Responses Sep 18, 2012

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    My Short List

    1. Honesty-he must be honest. I forgive but I don't forget...Once you lie to me, it is the beginning of the end. Man up, tell me what you need, what is working, what is not working.. 2. Communication-must speak in complete, intelligible sentences..No grunting, no groaning unless...
    akindheart akindheart 56-60, F 18 Responses Nov 13, 2011

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    1. Lots of guns 2. Plenty of ammo 3.

    NRA membership 4. IQ no higher than her shoe size 5. Sexual availability at my beck and call 6. A few good teeth 7. No interest in reading 8. No education 9. Pro life 10. Pro war
    Sharpie7 Sharpie7 51-55, M 2 Responses Apr 5, 2014

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    My 10 List Of Ideal Traits

    good at cooking good at cooking really good at cooking an amazing cook knows how to make a mean sandwich is pleasing in the kitchen knows how to turn on my taste buds has no problem with cooking can cook and have sex at same time no back...
    lmpulsive lmpulsive 22-25, M Aug 11, 2012

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    1. Honesty 2. Loyalty 3.

    Shared interests 4. Friendship 5. Sense of humor :) 6. Practicality 7. Affection 8. Optimism 9. Passion and 10. Compassion
    Antoinette1120 Antoinette1120 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 1, 2014

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    1. Honesty 2. Loyalty 3.

    Passion 4. Chivalry 5. Sense of Humor 6. Intelligence 7. Confidence 8. Hygiene 9. Trust 10. They need to love to cuddle... ;)
    RaynieLove RaynieLove 26-30, F 1 Response Dec 30, 2013

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    1. A true Christian 2.

    Honest 3. Kind 4. Loyal 5. Caring 6. Selfless 7. Rich 8. Devoted 9. Loving 10. Funny
    1lonelydaisy 1lonelydaisy 46-50 1 Response Oct 11, 2014

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    In no particular order: 1.

    A similar Sense of humor. Laughter is a big part of who I am, so they would need to have an appreciation for the kind of humor I like. Black comedy, dry humor, weird random humor, and they'd need to find the cartoons I watch hilarious because I plan on spending hours...
    Anais92 Anais92 22-25, F 1 Response Mar 11, 2014

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    What A Girl Wants

    Now this list is not exhausted and I reserve the right to change it or add to it at any time!!1. Honesty2. Intelligence3. Kindness4. Respectful5. Passionate6. Romantic7. Attentive8. Affectionate9. Spontaneous10.Fun
    sexxydiva sexxydiva 36-40, F 11 Responses Jun 10, 2012

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    Touch And Passion

    !.) To feel your eyes burning into my back when you walk into a room looking for me.2.) My breath to catch in my throat even though I just had you.3.) The ability to make me lose my control when we make love.4.) Someone that sees only me, needs only me, wants only me.5.) Holds me...
    moondancelady moondancelady 51-55, F 6 Responses Sep 15, 2012

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    1. Patience!!! 2. I don't want a player.

    .. aka, if he loves me, it must be because of my personality, in a natural manner (getting to know each other first) 3. I don't want to be a freaking "rebound"... _-_ 4. He is not judgmental on my looks (like, if I were to gain weight he would dump me or vice versa...) 5...
    Sil833 Sil833 18-21, F 1 Response May 26, 2015

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    1) Intelligent 2) Kind 3) Romantic 4)

    Physically fit - healthy 5) Ambitious 6) Sense of humour 7) Sensible - acts appropriately (time & place for everything) 8) Outgoing 9) Honest 10) Strong will - may lose temper but will "stick it out" till things are done (+ stay with me through thick and thin) Not sure if or...
    Shiznitone Shiznitone 22-25, M Jun 8, 2014

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    1.) someone who is my best friend above all

    else 2.) someone I can trust completely and who can trust me as well 3.) someone who doesn't mind my little quirks and is able to accept me for who I really am 4.) someone who understands and is okay with my sexuality 5.) an animal lover 6.) someone with similar morals and...
    SqueezeTheLemon SqueezeTheLemon 22-25, F 1 Response Jan 12

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    Save The Kittens

    10 things in no particular order (or gender, you may notice) ย  Funny as hell (and not afraid to use dirty, dark, sarcastic, satirical, or corny humor when appropriate) RHC (Red Hot Chemistry) (and this you can only tell in person) Not already married to someone else (seriously...
    Fallflower Fallflower 36-40, F 23 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    Gorgeous eyes Nice

    smile Adventurous Funny Kind Good with kids/animals Understands my depression Romantic Respects me Someone I can call at 3AM
    thelastfirstchoice thelastfirstchoice 13-15, F Aug 4, 2014

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    1-different 2-someone not afraid to be

    themselves 3-someone who cares for me 4-laid back 5- sensible (not an idiot) 6-open minded 7-that's really it.
    lullabymom lullabymom 46-50, F May 14, 2014

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    1. Has a good sense of humor

    and can laugh at themselves 2. Loves animals 3. Loves kids/ Wants children one day 4. Compassionate 5. Understanding 6. Good listener 7. Remembers the little things 8. Sees the good in others 9. Gives second chances 10. Can make me smile no matter how bad my day has been
    HarleyQuinn830 HarleyQuinn830 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 6, 2015

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    I May Be Young But I Know What I Want

    Ten things I look for in a guy? Easy. (1) sweet(2) understanding (3) has a sence of humer (4) protective but not overly protective (5) fun loving (6) a good listener (7) won't force me to talk about things (8) loves me for who I am (9) tough(like I won't cry because my dog died...
    Artemishatake Artemishatake 13-15, F 5 Responses Jan 28, 2012

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    1) Their Smile - A lady

    who can make ME smile simply by smiling. Sounds odd, I know. 2) Open-Mind - It fascinates me when someone has a wide view of the world and situations, and takes those into consideration. 3) Gamer Girl - Yup, a girl who loves to play video games. Haha. 4) Kindness - A lady who...
    LReid23 LReid23 22-25, M Jan 29, 2014

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    My list is (in no particular order): 1)

    ambitious 2) kind 3) interesting 4) empathetic 5) healthy 6) funny 7) comfy (I love cuddling) 8) adventurous 9) charismatic/lovable (with 4 brothers, he needs it) 10) gentle Of course, good looking, rich and trendy never hurt either :D
    MileyNova MileyNova 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2014

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    1) accomplishments- I want a man

    that has a career not just dead end jobs. Has he done volunteer work? Someone who has achieved things in his life. 2)sense of humor- I enjoy being goofy and silly (I do have 2 kids that I love playing with) so he has to be able to make me laugh and isn't insecure about being...
    lonelyinms lonelyinms 26-30, F Sep 27, 2015

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    Top Ten

    a. sense of humor- must be able to have fun, be witty, sarcastic...not ALL the time, there is a time to be serious... and be able to know which is needed. b. have pride about himself and me... jeans and a tank top are great for doing yardwork... but if we are going out somewhere...
    SweetKiester SweetKiester 41-45, F 3 Responses Aug 18, 2013

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    10 Things I Love About You

    1. Intelligence - someone i can discuss philosophy, science etc with. 2. Humour - this is like the ultimate trait I'm always attracted to. If a guy has a great sense of humour and can make me smile, he's already in my good books. 3. Kind - will not judge others and look at both...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123 18-21, F 2 Responses May 28, 2010

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    Is this you? If you look

    for things in a lover, you fail to see the lover. These are the things I find, when I am not looking - they are so much more precious that way! A questing intelligence An appreciation of life and of our world A love of fine art and fine music A connection to the energy of...
    yulico yulico 70+, F 5 Responses Jun 27, 2014

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    1. Intelligent 2. Funny 3.

    Romantic 4. Respectful 5. Hard working 6. Older than me 7. Kind 8. Good hygiene 9. Lover of the arts 10. Tough
    agm0829 agm0829 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 5, 2014

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    My Top 20 Things I Like In A Man

    1. Nice personality 2. common life goals 3. fun 4. sense of humor 5. independent 6. romantic 7. smart 8. things in common 9. knows how to treat of woman 10. honest 11. healthy life style 12. No drugs or alcohol 13. open minded/ non judgemental 14.has a big heart...
    awarren98 awarren98 36-40, F 5 Responses Oct 19, 2011

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    Animal Lust

    My lover, my lover must be: 1) As brave as a lion 2) As wily as a fox 3) As cute as a bad boy bunny 4) As wise as an owl 5) As strong as a gorilla 6) As loyal as a fuzzy wuzzy hound 7) As deep as a dragon 8) As funny as an orangutan 9) As cuddly as a bear 10)ย With the intense...
    KatarinaVonSweet KatarinaVonSweet 36-40, F 7 Responses Nov 11, 2012

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    Lol I don't even think I have 10 things-

    because once I like you- I like you- no matter how awful you end of being ๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜๐Ÿ˜ฃ But I will try: 1) Someone who will keep their penis in their pants 2) Someone who will pay me attention (I personally don't even think that's too hard- but I suppose it is...) 3) Someone...
    Nottobeohsoblunt Nottobeohsoblunt 18-21, F 4 Responses May 22, 2014

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    1) Born again Christian 2) Wisdom 3)

    Intelligence 4) Faithful 5) Conservative After this point it is pretty much just preference 6) Nerdy 7) Comfortable with herself 8) Pro-humanity 9) Slightly timid/shy 10) Willing to debate, not just argue
    StarSage StarSage 22-25, M Sep 27, 2015

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    My List-2011a

    I look for no lover. I look for a lifetime mate. Honesty. Availability. Meaning single. Intelligence. Good humour. Intimacy. Cherishement. A sense of adventure, exploration. Openmindedness. Loyalty. Strength of mind, body, love.
    PoetryNEmotion PoetryNEmotion 51-55, F 2 Responses Jun 12, 2013