I Want to Know Your Perfect Guy Or Girl

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    The List.

    I've gotten asked "what type of guys do you go for?" more times than I can count. In the past, I'd always just shrug my shoulders, saying I don't have a type. But for some reason, I've put a lot of thought into "the list" lately. And, ironically, I was scrolling through EP for...
    sweetXOheart sweetXOheart
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jul 7, 2012

    I Know Perfect Doesn't Exist

    but if it did, it would be something like this...makes me laugh....can look past my flaws...reads books just because he wants to...knows that he doesn't know much at all but wants to learn anyway...is aggressive in bed, unless of course I ask him not to be...will open up to me...
    eromreven eromreven
    3 Responses Sep 2, 2008


    He does exist. and I'm truly blessed because I have found him. And i'm even more blessed because I get to spend the rest of my life with him...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Sep 29, 2010

    My Perfect Man

    He's taller than me, he has a nice voice, and kind manner. And when he holds me, he makes me feel all tingly inside.
    KatieJane KatieJane
    36-40, F
    3 Responses Jul 2, 2009

    The Perfect Girl For Me...

    Doesn't have to be a beauty queen. Just not obese. I only say that because it's human nature to be attracted to someone physically. Which I think is important. Not AS important as the chemical attraction, mind you. Anyway, she would be about 5'1" - 5'8" and between 105 - 140 lbs...
    YourRoad2Awe YourRoad2Awe
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2012

    My Dream Dude...errr...man...?

    Hmm, should I make a list? :P Well, honestly, even I don't know what kind of guy would be perfect for me. I'm the kind of person who accepts flaws if I love that person a lot. However, I've always imagined myself with someone who just understands me. I don't want the perfect body...
    DarkAngel123 DarkAngel123
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 22, 2010

    I'm In Love With My Perfect Girl, But She Does Not Feel The Same For Me.

    I have found someone who truly means the world to me, and who I would do anything for. I fell in love with her near instantly. She knows my feelings, but does not completely share them. I have trouble thinking about anything but her, and I find that I miss her terribly (so much...
    ninthpulse ninthpulse
    22-25, M
    1 Response Oct 1, 2010

    Looks- 5'6, Structured Jaw,

    , NOT Super Skinny,Fashionable to some extent. Has a style, but makes it his own. As far as looks go, I find a lot of boys with different attributes attractive, I just generally go for African American,guys with these features. Qualities: Sweet, Funny, Good Mannered, Loving...
    cutedimplesxx cutedimplesxx
    16-17, F
    Jan 5, 2015

    Dont Ask For Much...

    Respect for both himself and I An interest in life and whats going on. He has to know about politics, I want him to care about stuff like I do, someone who will come on 24 hour silent protests with me not to impress me but because he wants to Someone who will read me poetry...
    Tesse Tesse
    18-21, F
    5 Responses Mar 26, 2008

    My Dream Girl

    Well here it is, this is my dream girl. It is pretty hard to find her. Not that it is a list of hundreds of things or something. It is just that i know what it means to get your heart broken. Alright let's start off. My Dream Girl is pretty sweet, she laughs a lot and does her...
    deleted deleted
    5 Responses Aug 26, 2012

    Stil Waiting

    M stil waitin for ma prince charmin..he gotta b intelligent,witty,humorous.. Shld undastnd wt i wanna say o wt i hv n mind bfore i tel him.. Shld mek me feel secured..
    Islifebeautiful Islifebeautiful
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 26, 2012

    Think Perfect

    is something we both work on with each other my choice would be some one smaller i could lift if i wanted and carry not really into breast and love then smaller prefer no drinking or limited prefer non smoking i want someone to stay with till death some one that would like to...
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Sep 11, 2011


    I want someone who is truthful and will say what he really thinks. Someone who is nice, but not *fake* nice and doesn't fall for the first pretty girl they see. I want someone who doesn't judge by appearances. I want someone who is serious about important things, but can still...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response May 28, 2012

    I Just Dont Know

    clearly there is no such thing as perfect, but you know you are with the right person when you can admire and embrace all their faults. i have no clue who my perfect guy would be. i thought i had him, but clearly i was wrong. i know that i like tall guys...of course i'm only 5...
    antiyou antiyou
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Sep 2, 2008

    My Story

    Well hi everyone Im Brandon I'm 17 I'll be 18 in four days, my story goes like this... I was ounce in love with this girl, and I've done everything for her even helped her out of CPS.. (child protectiv custody) I helped her with everything. I had my struggles when she was living...
    BrandonK17 BrandonK17
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jun 20, 2012

    He's Out There ;)

    And I can't wait to meet him. He'll be funny and serious when he has to be. It's all about having a good time. But not being stupid to achieve that.. We'll be goofy together, be romantic, always smiling. He'll be strong and protective, and he'll hold me tight just because...
    LadyC93 LadyC93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 1, 2012

    Perfect Man

    Caring, respectful, chivalrous, cute looking, happy, emotionally stable, like cuddling and affection, romantic, independent, bit of a geek, good moral conduct, strong and protective, intelligent, appreciates culture
    Bstuffxbox Bstuffxbox
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 8, 2011


    A man doesn't have to know everything to be called smart. It's how not to look stupid when caught off guard. Mostly laced with humor are branded to be perfect guy.
    zephyr2005 zephyr2005
    41-45, F
    1 Response Sep 13, 2011

    My Type :)

    i used to go out with people just for their looks. but now i understand different .. i would love someone who is game for a laugh :D not serious all the time and has a GREAT personality .. and they have to be faithful.. had too many unfaithfuls :( thats about it really xxx
    deleted deleted
    3 Responses May 22, 2012
    snowberry75 snowberry75
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Aug 29, 2011

    P E R F E C T!! :)

    so here is my description of a perfect guy!! someone who will walk up straight to a gal and say,"I LOVE YOU!!" rather than making huge plans.. discussing it with his friends and keep thinking about it for days and years!! someone who will say,"lets...
    cognition cognition
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Apr 26, 2008

    Is a Decent Non Liar Too Much to Ask For

    I am not too fussy. I just want someone I can get along with and that we can enjoy each others company and have some mutual respect for each other. A person I can adore and who wants to adore me back would be nice.  
    cinfullynn cinfullynn
    46-50, F
    3 Responses Mar 31, 2008

    My Perfect Guy ♥

    i want my perfect guy to be .................................................BUFFISHtall like 5 9.. 6 0 anything around there  ( :blue or green eyes ((SEXY EYES))any kinda hair  AS along as it is not DIRTY and UGLY !!!! haha^^^^^^^^ as you can see thats just the looks lol no...
    shae246 shae246
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 11, 2011

    My Perfection Is Imperfection....

    My perfect guy would be one who accepts me for who I am all my weirdness and embraces it one who gives just enough affection and attention without being overbearing and is protective enough without being obsessive someone who wants to take care of me but also help me to take care...
    sarahoaks sarahoaks
    22-25, F
    2 Responses Jan 19, 2012

    My Perfect Guy...

    accepts me as I am, assists and guides when needed, pushes me when needed, connected with me enough to differenciate those times. One who loves me freely and is comfortable being himself... his true self at all times. One who is open enough to be ok if I do the above for him...
    GoddessNakiBean GoddessNakiBean
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Dec 17, 2008

    Now Accepting Applications *updated*

    My perfect someone would score a [I'm too lazy to total the new score] How about you? Past Relationships __ Have cheated on a boyfriend (-8) __ Have cheated multiple times (-16) __ Have been completely faithful (+15) Total so far ___   Religion/Politics __...
    deleted deleted
    36 Responses Feb 18, 2008

    The Imperfect Guy...

    No guy is gonna be perfect, so let's get that out of our heads, but I believe their is a guy for every girl, a kind of fate and matching that makes you work as a couple. I think for me firstly he'd have to be a man, not these pale imitations who still have their mother doing...
    followthewhiterabbit followthewhiterabbit
    22-25, F
    Jun 5, 2012

    I Don't Think I Ask Too Much

    - someone who can look past my appearance and love me for who I am- someone who is compassionate and loves to do what he/she can for humans and animals- someone who is responsible and stable, mentally and emotionally- someone who understands I have been through a lot in my...
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit
    36-40, F
    2 Responses Feb 21, 2012

    How About This One?...

    The only requirement I'll set is... She must have a pulse and proof of being a girl, not a guy in drag.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    8 Responses Mar 26, 2008

    Almost Perfect

      I think I have met my Mr. Perfect:   Tall and lean Athletic Smart and funny Thoughtful and emphatic Likes CATS and dogs Doesn't smoke Christian Loving and sweet to his parents Hard...
    notyoursbutmine notyoursbutmine
    22-25, F
    May 22, 2012

    I Have A Name For You, Spencer Reid.

    Spencer Reid on Criminal Minds is a fictional character, I know. That doesn't change the fact that I'm massively in love with him. He is my perfect man and I'll tell you what I like. I love how he is so smart that he doesn't get the social things. I love when he's rambling off...
    DaDri DaDri
    26-30, F
    Oct 8, 2011

    The girl of my dreams: She has to have red hair

    and must be close to my height. She must be smart and kind. She must have an open mind. She must be athletic. She must be a bit nerdy. She must encourage me to do what I can never do by myself. She must love me for WHO I AM, not what my wealth makes me. She must be a girl...
    Illinidude Illinidude
    16-17, M
    Nov 19, 2014

    Miss Right

    I think the perfect woman for me is just a myth. I am pretty sure i sabatoge my own happieness with my lofty expectation's. I dont look to a woman to meet some physical standard, I dont care if she works or does'nt, it means nothing if she can cook or even if i have to do all the...
    sprediger sprediger
    41-45, M
    Sep 5, 2011

    Second Time Around

    I already made a post similar to this one under another group but I'll do it again. Besides, I said really random shitt on that post, like they (as in the "perfect" person) has to like peanut butter or be Asian And as much as I wish that were true, it actually doesn't REALLY...
    CrazyHippieChick CrazyHippieChick
    17 Responses Oct 21, 2010

    What Does Perfect Mean Anyway?

    My perfect girl, I think I've figured out is one who simply would tolerate me and love me... After that, I really don't think it matters.
    drcynic drcynic
    26-30, M
    1 Response Mar 9, 2008

    I mean, I have an idea of what the perfect

    person for me would be, but that doesn't mean they would have to be restricted to these specifics. If I really connected with someone, they could be the furthest thing from perfect. But, if I had to describe the perfect person, this would be it; Girl: She would have to be...
    Shynerdwriter66 Shynerdwriter66
    16-17, M
    May 3, 2015

    My Perfect Guy

    There's no such things as perfect and what comes close to perfect for me:I like a guy:Who has compassionWho's there for me when I need itWho treats me like a person and not a disposalWho makes me laugh & smileWho loves me like no otherWho takes me for the person I amWho wants the...
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr
    36-40, F
    1 Response Sep 12, 2011

    Would Love To Introduce Her To You

    but she gave her life in viet nam way to many years ago
    rickibrat2 rickibrat2
    61-65, M
    Oct 12, 2011

    Smart Guys Finish First In My Book

    You Fall for the Smart Type You tend to be full of new ideas and potential - big potential. Ideas like yours could change the world, if you build them.You are attracted to similarly brilliant people. Brains definitely turn you on.You love to talk about everything and anything...
    ItsWindy ItsWindy
    56-60, F
    Oct 2, 2011

    Hmm...lets See

    personality - i like confidence, humor, intelligence, optomism, and a care free attitude looks - arent too big of a deal; but i must like your butt....and your eyes have to catch my attention...long eye lashes, thats always a plus picky traits - definition in the arms. i...
    antiyou antiyou
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Feb 16, 2008

    Perfect.. Guy...

    so used to guys being imperfect( not that girls are perfect)!! Its difficult to picture about a perfect one... sorry guys.. will actually think of one and update this post!!
    cognition cognition
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 8, 2008

    Perfect Guy <3

    I never had a certain type. But thinking about it, i know what i truly want. A boy that's taller then me. I want to tip-toe to kiss him. He needs to be older then me. A perfect age is maybe 3 or 4 years older. Clean hair! It can be long or short just keep it clean. A rocker...
    OpenLife OpenLife
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Sep 30, 2012

    A Simple Truth

    I'm dying for someone who'll love. Nothing much. Just someone to hold, kiss. Someone who won't get freaked out by the amount of time I spend thinking about them, how many times I remind them of how I feel. I'm just looking for someone I can share life with. Nothing else
    DGSteele DGSteele
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 24, 2012

    I Don't Know...

    I don't know what  he should look like or something like that. I just need somebody to love and be loved. A person that's supporting me on whatever I do. A person to love unconditionally. Somebody I feel safe with. Somebody, I can be myself with.
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Feb 15, 2008

    The Dream Is For Me

    for a long long time my heart was set on meeting a guy at university in the law library and maybe I would meet him in a lecture or at the coffee shop on campus ... he would be clever and genuinely like me ... cute and youthful and ready to help me in any way he could.or at...
    czaristacrystals czaristacrystals
    36-40, F
    Jun 5, 2012

    Looks : Medium build/Curvy/Thick - Not a fan

    of the very skinny girls Brunette Tattoos are nice same with piercings Any color eyes besides brown Personality / Interests : Humorous but serious when needed Laid back True to herself and her goals. Always keeping it real. Kinda like my above "true to herself" but i want a...
    akaShaun akaShaun
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 20, 2015

    My Perfect Guy?

    When I meet him, I'll let you know ;-)
    earth2bella earth2bella
    22-25, F
    1 Response Mar 9, 2008

    My Perfect Girl?

    Well when I'm asked this, I kind just shrug it off. But through the weeks, people kept asking me. And I had to think about it for a few minutes. But after thinking about it, I've come to the "Perfect Girl". Perfect Girl? It's a girl who is comfortable with me. Someone who trusts...
    JokerArtist JokerArtist
    18-21, T
    Jul 19, 2012

    He's The Best!

    My boyfriend Seth is the sweetest guy! He is always telling me he loves me and is always looking out for me.  When we first started dating he came to the park just to see me even though he lives on the other side of town. We hugged and talked a lot. I'm sure if my little cousin...
    cutekylie28 cutekylie28
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Oct 25, 2011
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