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I Want to Learn to Be a Dominatrix

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 94 People

    stilettoJo stilettoJo 26-30, M Aug 9, 2012

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    Need Info

    i have been thinking about doing this for a very long time and have met my submissive he has offered me a great offer but have no idea how to be a domme. Any advice someone is willing to share i would be so thankful.
    dede69 dede69 41-45, F 1 Response Jan 3, 2013

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    Inspired

    The idea first came to mind when I was watching a talk show. One of the guests was sort of like a "soccer mom" by day, domme by night. I'm usually not the type of person that feels comfortable being in charge in some situations, but the idea of being sexually dominant suddenly...
    paperalias paperalias 22-25, F Feb 24, 2010

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    I Want to Rule You ;)

    i want to rule him..make him kiss my feet..spank him when he disobeys..scratch him with my nails and let me use him as my own personal foot stool..rub my back (well rub anything)...tie him up and make him say my name a thousand and one times..i want his **** to be hard when i...
    aries89 aries89 18-21, F 16 Responses Mar 18, 2009

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    Dominatrix Walk

    Dominatrix Walk....:    
    stilettoJo stilettoJo 26-30, M Jun 2, 2012

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    stilettoJo stilettoJo 26-30, M Jul 19, 2012

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    Need To Be In Control

    I want to be a dominatrix so bad. I would love to spank a man and tell him what to do. I want a slave to whip. I need this experience so bad. Stuck in a ongoing cycle of loneliness.. Please help me release all this power within..
    thickmama79 thickmama79 31-35, F 7 Responses Jul 7, 2011

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    No Clue What To Do

    Ok so my husband is wanting me as he puts it to be in charge. Have never thought about doing this before but it does intrigue me. My problem is I don't know the first thing about being a dom. I'm really a shy person so I have a hard time verbally expressing myself and am kinda...
    aprillynne62 aprillynne62 26-30, F 1 Response Jul 6, 2012

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    I Want To Be A Dominatrix

    I want to be a dominatrix! How do I get to be a professional one.
    sabrinaj21 sabrinaj21 22-25, F Jun 16, 2013

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    I Am A New Domme And I Want To Learn

    I have been in a relationship and a domme for about 2 months and all we have done is just experiment because I am still learning,  I know all the basics but I want to know how to rule my slave and make him totally submissive to me.  I need some pointers on how to do...
    marlenepond marlenepond 56-60, F Jan 2, 2010

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    I Want To Meet A Mistress And Become A Male Dominatrix

     I have two requests, the first is that I would like to find someone who will train me to be a male dominatrix. I could not bear the thought of doing this with men. I would only want to do this with women clients in a light and sensual way, because like most men I would...
    peterellis4855 peterellis4855 61-65, M Oct 9, 2009

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    Submissive Guy

    I just joined so I hope it isn't faux pas to post in this forum. Anyway, I have always wanted to submit to a dominatrix. I have done so several times and have always walked away more fulfilled than at any other time in my life. You go girls! Go become Dominatrices!
    bdsminportland bdsminportland 26-30, M 1 Response Dec 3, 2011

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    Knew To All This

    Now that I meet my submissive I would like some tips. I so very knew to this, I wanna be good at it.
    HBIC69 HBIC69 26-30, F Apr 13, 2012

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    "Yes Mistress" Part 2

    This weekend was my boyfriends birthday, we decided to celebrate it in Vegas. As part of my gift to him I decided to try something different. After dinner I handed him a note that read: " I have a little treat for you darling, but first you must obey my every word. If you accept...
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Mar 29, 2012

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    Am I Right In Wanting To Feminize My Chauvinistic Brother

    My brothers a chauvinist in the true sense of the word, girls should be in the kitchen or should just be there to entertain the boys. He's 25 and has had a number of lovely girlfriends that any man would be happy to be with but he just used them, cheated on them and dumped them...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Mar 8, 2013

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