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I Want To Learn To Love Myself Without Doubt

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 115 People

    This Is Sooo Important

    I want  to look in the mirror and love what I see, even though it isn't perfect. I want to love myself enough to allow others to love me too.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 17, 2010

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    The End....

    I kinda told you the way I feel and I realized you don't even care.  I hate you now, I cant help it, it's the way I feel.  In this moment I just wish I could stop seeing you.  I have been a fool for so long, thinking that maybe someday you would wake up and realize...
    lookingforsomeonespecial lookingforsomeonespecial 22-25 Dec 13, 2010

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    My Life

         I have doubts about my self. I just hope that I get over these doubts. I love that I have a guy that is in my life. He helps me to fill better about my self. I always thought that no one would want to be with me at all. That has been one of my biggest...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2010

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    I guess the person that needs me most is me. I don't want to abandon myself anymore. I want to not judge myself anymore either. I want to see my limitations and instead of cringing...
    liveurbestlifenow liveurbestlifenow 31-35, F Nov 25

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    Yes I Love Myself...It took me awhile to get to this level of love with myself, but now that I am here...THANK YOU GOD! My GOD, My Creator loves me and ALL whom HE created...Thank...
    yvyie1 yvyie1 51-55, F 1 Response Nov 24

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    Dear whoever you are, Was married to my best friend for 10 years but she left me 9 months ago and I haven't seen her since. I've made peace that she's never coming back and the...
    okletstrythisagain okletstrythisagain 31-35, M 19 Responses Dec 4

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    For quite some time now I have seemed to be deeply unhappy with myself. I can't tell you how many days I woke up and just felt like I was nothing. I still don't love myself as much...
    RubyRayne RubyRayne 26-30, F Dec 9

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    Im actually just starting to learn about myself and my body. Changes, what to expect, acceptance.
    ownfrnchseplaya ownfrnchseplaya 26-30, M Nov 22

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    This life is like a dream. By the blink of an eye, it can all disappear. Everything. We don't wake up in the morning because we are good people. We all do bad things. We all...
    GhostBride GhostBride 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 1

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    A letter- by A.Leek I decided that it's about time to just focus on me. To love myself unconditionally. I've not only neglected but I have been so abusive to myself. I have put...
    alxvii alxvii 18-21, F Dec 1

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    As I began to love myself I found that anguish and emotional suffering are only warning signs that I was living against my own truth. Today, I know, this is “AUTHENTICITY”. As...
    nivanvc nivanvc 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 9

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    I seriously am in love with myself. That statement may sound narcissistic but it really isn't. I spent a lot of time caring about what people thought of me that I didn't take the...
    CuriousCupcake7 CuriousCupcake7 26-30, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I'm at the age where people are dating, losing their virginity but I can't date. How am I supposed to like someone when I don't even love myself. I'm too insecure. I sometimes feel...
    walkinwonder walkinwonder 16-17, F Nov 23

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    i love myself and nothing will change that
    ninaaaaaaaaxo ninaaaaaaaaxo 16-17, F Dec 5

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    Really want to hurt myself right now. :(
    yonnie97 yonnie97 16-17, F 2 Responses Dec 5

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    Not yet but I'm hoping to one day. My best friend tells me that she wishes I would see the woman she sees in me. I can't, I'm not there yet. I'm still trying to undo years of...
    bzylady bzylady 36-40, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I want a man That will hold my hand I want a guy That will take his time I want a boy That will be himself and no one else I want a he That will except me I want a him Who knows...
    Alli13146 Alli13146 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    I want a lover, a beloved, a sweet heart. I want a lover who is my best friend, a lover who i can trust, a lover who will always be there through thick and thin. I want a lover who...
    shadow2233 shadow2233 18-21, M 5 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want a lover who is also my bestfriend! Please? Anyone ? 😊
    Nathalia04 Nathalia04 18-21, F 35 Responses 4 days ago

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    I want a lover who is also my best friend!! Please ? Anyone ? 🙈
    fucklovee fucklovee 18-21, F 10 Responses 4 days ago

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    THE REASON I WANT A LOVER TO BE ALSO MY BEST FRIENDS BCOZ I WANT TO KNOW HER FROM THE DEPTH AND CAN TRUST HER AND CAN BELIEVE HER
    waris1 waris1 16-17, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    Yo. So yeah, I do cut myself. Been cutting for two years now. Call me "emo", sick, whatever you like. It's a release that I'm thankful for, but not so much anymore now that my...
    MakaWolf MakaWolf 13-15, F 2 Responses Dec 4

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    It's been 4 months and I'm doing pretty well considering how close I was to losing myself the first couple of weeks. I was shattered. Crushed beyond repair. People who I'd never...
    queenettejeanette queenettejeanette 13-15, F Nov 25

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    Fear. The one thing that I hate about love is the fear it gave me. I got so scared of loosing it yet I am screaming longing for it. I got scared when I saw they got sick. Would it...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I just dont find the need to explain myself to someone when I know Im right.
    Spencer024 Spencer024 22-25, F 5 days ago

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    Happy Birthday to me. I turned 23! I knew nobody would bother to remember my birthday so guess what I remembered me and my existence :-) Got me a slice of blueberry cheesecake and...
    thewildkind thewildkind 22-25, F 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I was thinking back and realized I've had a lot of experiences with super obese people and people who have eaten themselves to immobility, so I see the size and issues first hand...
    afatpandaburr afatpandaburr 18-21, M Dec 4

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    So, a while ago - I wrote about how I'm a jealous girl and too bad; take it or leave it. But recently, I've been uncovering the true reasons behind my insecurities: it goes way...
    DreamChristine DreamChristine 31-35, F 4 Responses Dec 10

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    Why do we have to struggle so much to be empathetic to others? Is it because we are so different from them? Is it because we cannot understand their behaviour patterns? Or is it...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 1 day ago

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    I feel this is exactly what i had with my now ex. The few months before our mutual break up were difficult for us. we lost our way together. But we still love each other, it just...
    funkyleggs funkyleggs 18-21, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    People think that I'm the happiest person because I smile and laugh a lot. But actually I'm not. Sometime I just want to end everything when everyone that i trust cut all the...
    Julietxxx Julietxxx 16-17, F Nov 22

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    What's love without passion? ... It's nothing
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 7 Responses Nov 24

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    What you fail to understand is the complexity of the human mind. We are not all one way. No one is, however we have been conditioned to act a certain way that's parallel with what...
    AndrogynousBeauty AndrogynousBeauty 22-25 Nov 26

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    I was walking my dog one afternoon and I saw this beautiful woman seating around the tennis court watching two men playing tennis. When you have a dog you get connected to people...
    Domini7 Domini7 36-40, M 2 Responses Dec 2

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    but I don't think that I'm meant to do what I dream to do. I have BPD so I virtually have a weak identity. My interests change very quickly and I have a tendency to fall apart and...
    hellaborderline hellaborderline 22-25, M Dec 4

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    Ever since i was a small boy i have been fascinated by fat and getting fatter. In 7th grade i remember going out to a buffet with my family and stuffing myself till i felt like i...
    Mrhikro Mrhikro 56-60, M 6 days ago

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    To my other half: What I hate about you ( What hurts me): 1. I didn't see you laugh (anymore) everytime you are with me. I really wat to see you smile/happy/less serious when we...
    crimoholic24 crimoholic24 22-25, F 6 Responses Nov 25

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    I can't stand myself at times. I'm selfish and cruel. I don't want to be those things but I can't help myself. I wish I could stop
    WearyBeautyLeah WearyBeautyLeah 16-17, F 1 Response Nov 25

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    I wanted to and I did. I stuffed myself beyond full today. First came appetizers, I mindlessly snacked on deviled eggs, putting one after the other in my mouth. Then came the feast...
    stephjo2505 stephjo2505 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 27

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    I am extremely depressed. I feel so bad. I just want to die or hurt myself really bad. No one likes to be around me. I'm a burden to my family. I feel like I have an anchor tied to...
    yonnie97 yonnie97 16-17, F 3 Responses Nov 30

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    I have never hurt myself but it has crossed my mind multiple times. I like to think that its just a thought and I would never hurt myself but I am afraid that one day I really wont...
    cheybear96 cheybear96 18-21, F 4 Responses Dec 1

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    I just want one person I can connect with on every level. That gets me and I can just set around and bull **** with, that I can be serious with, intimate ect. Some one that I am...
    ImJustJen ImJustJen 26-30, F 4 Responses Dec 5

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    OMG!!! I would love to cut myself tonight but im having to sleep on the sofa and look after my mum because she had an operation today xxx
    james3950 james3950 13-15, M 1 day ago

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    Hi, my name is Zoe, from California. Two kids, married, one dog. I stay home with kids at the moment. I love cooking healthy, baking, etc. I love to get good recipe recommendations...
    ZoeQuinn ZoeQuinn 41-45, F 1 Response Nov 22

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    How do you fight off overwhelming urges to cut myself?
    rokrchik1211 rokrchik1211 18-21, F 4 Responses