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I Want To Learn To Love Myself Without Doubt

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    My Life

         I have doubts about my self. I just hope that I get over these doubts. I love that I have a guy that is in my life. He helps me to fill better about my self. I always thought that no one would want to be with me at all. That has been one of my biggest...
    acjf acjf 22-25, F 1 Response Sep 4, 2010

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    This Is Sooo Important

    I want  to look in the mirror and love what I see, even though it isn't perfect. I want to love myself enough to allow others to love me too.
    SpiritOfTheRabbit SpiritOfTheRabbit 31-35, F Dec 17, 2010

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    The End....

    I kinda told you the way I feel and I realized you don't even care.  I hate you now, I cant help it, it's the way I feel.  In this moment I just wish I could stop seeing you.  I have been a fool for so long, thinking that maybe someday you would wake up and realize...
    lookingforsomeonespecial lookingforsomeonespecial 22-25 Dec 13, 2010

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    I have had a whole life of daddy and mommy issues. I recently went through a very tragic experience that has changed my life extensively. It has made me realize how insecure I am...
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    I've been longing to know who I am, and what I am supposed to be doing with my life. I'm sure many others out there feel the same way. However, I wonder how many can also include...
    GlamGasm GlamGasm 22-25, T Oct 6

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    "All of our relationships depend on our relationship with ourselves. If you don't love yourself, you can't possibly love anyone else" ~unknown. i never understood this when i was...
    AThousandThoughts AThousandThoughts 18-21, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    But I'm not IN love with myself ;) Seriously, though, what I have learned about loving the person you are is that if you don't, it is awfully hard for someone else to love you...
    shoehorny shoehorny 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 1

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    How can you love yourself when you don't feel good about yourself ? This is the question I ask myself, because when I think about it the answer is. I don't feel good about myself...
    Sara600 Sara600 56-60, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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    I am TRYING to learn this & I am having problems with it. In the past 2 years, I have nearly died twice (sepsis & a heart attack), have dealt with cancer, the heart attack...
    ImBatmanNow ImBatmanNow 51-55, M 3 Responses 1 day ago

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    I want to be the unique and beautiful goddess I once was. Right now, I am ugly and undesirable. I loved myself last week and the week before, but something happened this week that...
    WingsofTime WingsofTime 22-25, F Oct 3

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    In order to truly love my partner I have to love myself first
    emily036 emily036 18-21, F Sep 28

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    In order to truly love my partner I have to love myself first
    emily036 emily036 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 28

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    I'm not entirely sure if I'd want to stuff myself until it kills me, but I would rather die weighing 1,000 pounds than 100 pounds!
    ifrive1974 ifrive1974 13-15, M 3 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am craving a lover. Someone who will not only make love to me but who is also a amazing friend in the process. Someone who is caring and a shoulder I can lean on. I want to be...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 5 Responses Sep 27

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    I long for a loving, caring woman in my life. One that would be respectful of my feelings & generosity towards her. I want a lover to be honest w/ me & enjoy our time together as...
    mo0se809 mo0se809 46-50, M 1 Response Sep 21

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    I just want a boyfriend more than anything right now. I'm tired of the meaningless sex and random hookups. It makes me feel cheap and it's not a good feeling. I want to love...
    markinicole markinicole 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 30

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    What I want and what I need are clearly becoming two separate things. I want a guy who is kind and caring and understanding. Someone who will ask me how my day was and make sure...
    LostBoy9236 LostBoy9236 22-25, M 2 Responses Oct 8

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    Well of course! Why would I "just" want a lover?
    TheEmberLeader TheEmberLeader 22-25, M 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Pain, beauty, self I carry the weight, to love, you must love all, and though I feign, to rise you must first fall, flat floored, grounded Moore, shamed poor, rough and boor, The...
    ymfas ymfas 26-30, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I think I might be in love with myself... Is that a good thing or a bad thing? Well, I don't really care. I am most important to me. Of course, I don't always put myself first. I...
    ashfaaqb ashfaaqb 18-21, M Sep 30

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    A nod, a quiet hello. That's all i get from people. All because I'm different. We were so different when we were young. So understanding, not caring about what others looked like...
    Ferality417 Ferality417 16-17, F 2 Responses 14 hrs ago

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    I'm trying... I really am. I don't want to do it again, I want to know I'm normal- I want to not need this - I want to feel....... So dumb- I just want to feel without feeling bad...
    Kate197979 Kate197979 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Slowly but surely it's a tough thing. It's easier to believe the bad stuff about myself than the good stuff. I need more self-compassion.
    GetYourFreakOn GetYourFreakOn 16-17, F 5 days ago

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    I don't treat me as well as i should, and when people say nice things to me i don't believe them it seems fake or as if they are only saying those things just because, that's how i...
    angiestones angiestones 18-21, F 3 days ago

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    Hello There ! Inspired by people introducing themselves..... I thought of introducing myself. but before I start, I request all of you, not to be judgmental. So I am Rajan, 43...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M Oct 10

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    I can only wish. I'm 15 years old, male, and 130 pounds. While I'm satisfied with my weight, I'd love to be fatter. Way fatter. I'd love to eat and be online all day, without any...
    ifrive1974 ifrive1974 13-15, M Oct 11

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    im not a narcissist or anything. but yeaa! if you learn to love yourself, its the greatest feeling ever! i always feel happy inside and nothing could bring me down if anyone is...
    ninjadentistinspace ninjadentistinspace 16-17, F Oct 11

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    This the 4th time I wrote this story. Hopefully it dnt flag me :( S3x was sooo amazing last night I tapped out & went to sleep then this morning I had rd.2. I was laying in bed...
    thelovelytay thelovelytay 22-25, F 6 Responses 6 days ago

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    Deprived of love in SM, I need a Best Friend who can be my lover here on EP. One and someone special who can feel and understand my cravings without judging. I am honest and...
    Raajan71 Raajan71 41-45, M 1 Response Oct 4

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    I want him to understand and appreciate me fully..... I want to learn n grow with him. Can't wait to meet my best friend... When the time is right....
    lovenlight84 lovenlight84 26-30, F 15 Responses 3 days ago

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    I hate looking at myself and I hate what people see and how they view me I want to be better I can't love with myself I'm not good enough, I just want to die, I'm so sick of this...
    katstho katstho 18-21, F 2 Responses Oct 7

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    I actually have a guy best friend and we met in highschool we become such good friends for the rest of highschool we have the same exact birthday we have the same favorite movie...
    nayjackcity nayjackcity 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 24

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    I want to so badly. I haven't in a decent while and I won't do it too much or too deep. My girlfriend doesn't want me to do it but it makes me feel better, I can only hurt myself...
    ImNotReallyFine ImNotReallyFine 13-15, M 2 Responses Sep 25

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    I want to meet a woman who will accept me for who I am. I want to be able to cherish someone who accepts me, pushes past our differences and is commuted to improving our...
    Winbu Winbu 16-17, M 2 Responses Sep 27

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    I want a big d to go deep in me and feel all of his warm juices hitting my walls
    Pwolf Pwolf 26-30, M 5 Responses Sep 29

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    Of course I do, I'm 6 months pregnant. Last night 2 of my partners came over at the same time. Recently I have started to lactate. While one partner was filling me up with his seed...
    wanting1992 wanting1992 22-25, F 16 Responses Oct 7

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    I want to find a trans or a girl with a ******* who lives in Michigan
    Hottim101 Hottim101 18-21, M 2 Responses Oct 12

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    It's such a terribly naughty prospect, isn't it... unprotected sex in an era where we are much better educated about STD's and their prevalence... and it most certainly is rare...
    lola101202 lola101202 36-40, F 11 Responses Oct 12

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    I wish I had a guy best friend that is at least taller then me he doesn't have to be perfect but he does have to be there for me and i will be there for him then maybe we could...
    nimy29 nimy29 13-15, F 5 Responses 6 days ago

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    This is all I want lately. I can't help it
    Lovelifee22 Lovelifee22 22-25, F 17 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am very happy with my Bestfriend who is also my lover . We have no secrets and I find myself smiling non stop when I'm texting or talking to him . Things couldn't be more happier...
    Fanteyzhuh Fanteyzhuh 22-25, F 5 Responses Sep 21

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    I cut myself again and I want to do more. Sometimes it never goes away.
    nofrankinway nofrankinway 16-17, F 3 Responses Sep 21

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    I love that feeling of skin on skin.. There is something so pure about it. It gets me going just thinking about it.. Starting slow....
    Jodyann1 Jodyann1 36-40, F 29 Responses Sep 22

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    I've never enjoyed sex more than the last 2 years since I came off contraception to try make a baby. Knowing that each time we make love, we could also be making a life is...
    crochetedgirl crochetedgirl 22-25, F 7 Responses Sep 22

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    I'm honestly rather addicted to cutting myself. I stopped 5 years ago but recently relapsed. I don't want to be like that either, but the pain from cutting makes me feel better. I...
    Verasayshi Verasayshi 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 23

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    I'm three weeks clean..that's the longest I've ever gone, but your body knows what it needs and I need to hurt myself so badly, maybe I can just 'accidentally' fall off of a cliff...
    XxBadXVibesxX XxBadXVibesxX 13-15, F 7 Responses Sep 27

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