I Want to Leave My Alcoholic Boyfriend

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    How Do You Leave Someone You Love?

    I have been with my fiance for 23 months. He goes on these drinking binges.We just finished a 7 day binge and today he started another one. I did not know he was an alcoholic until we had been together for 10 months.He is a wonderful, smart man. He loves me very much, he just...
    tink99er tink99er
    51-55, F
    3 Responses Sep 22, 2009

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