I Want to Leave My Boyfriend But I Still Love Him

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    I Think My Boyfriend Is Gay...

    A couple of years ago I found emails that my boyfriend had been talking to men about hooking up ( very detailed and vulgar emails) he was posting ads and responding on Craigslist ... I was heart broken he cried and begged me to stay saying he was just bi curious.. After a long...
    Chick220 Chick220
    26-30
    Feb 19, 2013

    Stuck In A Rut

    I love my fiance' so much. He seemed like everything I wanted and needed when we met. Sure he had his oddities, but don't we all.  I know I'm not perfect by any means. We'll have been together for a year on January 13th and yes we are already engaged, (which...
    INeedAHug INeedAHug
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    He'S All Wrong For Me But I Love Him Anyway

    I am engaged and supposed to get married in July. I am on the verge of calling off the wedding, and thinking I should leave him all together. I met my fiance over five years ago on MySpace. I knew it was a bad idea to date him (he had gone to jail for threatening his mother, had...
    Mirja Mirja
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Feb 19, 2013

    My boyfriend treats me like crap

    and I don't know what to do because I'm so unhappy but I'm scared of not being with him at the same time even though I deserve better, I fear been alone, I just don't know what to do I'm so stressed and sad, I have that lump just sat in my tummy :(
    elle97 elle97
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jun 2, 2014

    His Paranoia Is Ruining Our Relationship

    I've been dating him for three months now. At first everything was great, as new relationships always are. He would constantly idolize me right from the beginning, telling me that I was the most beautiful girl he'd ever met and that I deserved someone so much better than him. At...
    mnbell2013 mnbell2013
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jul 11, 2013

    Should I Leave Or Stay>.............................?

    i have a lover.i knew him from 5 years. and we are in a relationship since last 2 years. we were classmates in a boarding school.so as i was in touch with him every second i think i know all about him.when we had fall in this relationship that was his bad days.he was very...
    muskan04 muskan04
    18-21
    1 Response May 10, 2012

    I Love My Finacee So Much But Were Not Happy...

    Right where do I start... I'm with my boyfriend/fiancée been with him for 1 year and half. When I met him it was love at first sight. Around 5 maybe 6 months into our relationship I started seeing a change in him, and the relationship. We see each other everyday for the first...
    Courtneyalice Courtneyalice
    18-21
    2 Responses Apr 23, 2013

    I LOVE HIM, So Why Am I Feeling This Way?!

    my current boyfriend chased after me for four months until i finally decided i liked him. at first i knew he was bad news and that i wanted nothing to do with him. i didn't even find him attractive! anyways i fell for him hard and i became infatuated with him. we used to spend...
    imYOUNGandCONFUSED imYOUNGandCONFUSED
    18-21, F
    1 Response Sep 2, 2013

    Is This All Love Has To Offer?

    I am so unhappy in my relationship.. I've been with my boyfriend since I was 15! He's four years and a few months older than me, very quiet and very shy. He and I had a quick but real romance when I was 15-16. I was so in love with my John Doe, he took me away from all the pain...
    TiedToLove TiedToLove
    18-21
    2 Responses Oct 30, 2012

    Love But No Longer In Love

    Four years ago when I walked into his apartment for the first time and saw all those books neatly on their shelves and smelled the wonderful dinner he had made for us my everything just screamed yes. I should have known better. I perused him for four months. I was in love with...
    Missanaleah Missanaleah
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 18, 2013

    My bf and I have been together

    for a long time. we were in a long distance relationship before I moved to be with him and everything was great. We spent time together and everything. But now things just aren't the same. We don't talk, we aren't intimate, we don't spend as much time with eachother, I feel like...
    Deeplyflawed89 Deeplyflawed89
    26-30, F
    May 30, 2015

    Confused And Feed Up Po

    I love my boyfriend but he is very insensative to my feelings. The last 2 days ive cooked for the both of us to spend time together and hes come home after 10 and tonight he came at ten and then left again. He stays at his friends house and play video games all day and leaves our...
    Nikki1216 Nikki1216
    22-25
    Aug 29, 2012

    Boyfriend Trouble.

    Help guys! This is the story: I am in a relationship with a guy for over 1 year. Everything is great, I love him, he loves me and actually he is the best boyfriend I ever had. But there is only one issue between us. I am the ambitious type, I am currently studying at a university...
    curious141 curious141
    22-25, F
    1 Response May 9, 2013

    ''i Leave My Lover''

    I want to leave my lover because i am engaged with my cousin. I want never hurt him and never tell him that's i am leaving her. i am very confused and upset. if someone have any idea so...
    mano334 mano334
    18-21
    Jan 9, 2013

    Annoying

    same thing, same **** tired of hoping i will one day wake up next to my true love, tired of feeling unloved, tired of feeling lonely, done giving chances. I wish I can just get up an LEAVE and walk out and not look back.
    SincerelyJasmineXO SincerelyJasmineXO
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 20, 2013

    Depressed And Scared

    My boyfriend and I have been together going on 3 years in Oct. We moved in together after 4 months of being together. We had an instant strong connection. I love him SO much, he makes me laugh, he always comforts me in bad times. All around he is almost everything I want except...
    lostangel1989 lostangel1989
    26-30
    1 Response Jul 2, 2013

    Do I Love Him??

    We technically broke up but we still talk like we're together. I love him, I think.. We've broken up before and he can't seem to drop my past. I became a Christian and he won't drop my past relationships. I don't talk to any of my ex's except for 3, 2 were more friends than...
    Hemiola16 Hemiola16
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 6, 2013

    Paste Of Living Or Plain Frustration

    We have been together for almost 2 years, but it feels like its been more, I am 23 and he is 28, I am getting my degree on graphic design in a month and my boyfriend got he's Journalist degree 6 moths ago. Recently I have been getting attracted to other men, fantasizing, and...
    coquitah coquitah
    22-25
    Aug 12, 2013

    ok so I really need help with this.

    my boyfriend and I have been together about a year now and everything was perfect until a few months ago. I am a very ambitious person and I wasn't to do a lot in my life and I'm working towards meeting those goals. my boyfriend is younger than me and really immature and...
    Autumnrw97 Autumnrw97
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 30, 2015

    I love him .. But then

    why do i want to leave him ? It makes no sense . I know I am wrong but i guess apart of me hopes he still that he can change . That he loves me enough to make a change and want more . Not to exactly want what I want , but want something .. Anything . He loves me , made...
    AliForever AliForever
    18-21, F
    1 Response Feb 1, 2014

    Thanks

    Hello! I want to share my testimony with all of you. Dr booma gave me the possibility to start my new and happy life with Michael. The commitment and Marriage spells worked beyond my imagination. 5th of June will be always in my memory as the start of our new life. We had the...
    sandra464 sandra464
    26-30
    Jan 12, 2013

    Why Am I Still With Him??

    I have been with my boyfriend for almost 2 years now. He has 3 kids and is still married to his ex. She tries to control his life because I am with him and tell her kids that I am the reason mommy and daddy will never get back together. I ask him why he wont divorce her and he...
    lonelyatheart15 lonelyatheart15
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Jun 3, 2012

    I Want To Leave My Boyfriend But I Can't

    hi there ... hmmm this is the first time that i couldn't know how to act i was searching and i found this site and i like it so i rly want someone to help me i want to leave my boyfriend because he was going out with another girls and i just hate it, when i go out with my...
    didi8 didi8
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Sep 13, 2012

    It Is Confusing

    He is perfect at relationship matters...I mean, he is caring, sweet, shows he wants to be with me, is there whenever I need him without acting too attached at the same time, great sex, he likes me as I am, perfectly faithful, makes me laugh, likes kids, kind with animals, my...
    Dreamsage Dreamsage
    22-25
    2 Responses Oct 7, 2013

    I believe he is a habitual liar.

    He's lied to me about many things. He convinced me to let him move in after knowing me a month. I'm missing items and money. He's lost his fifth job since he's been here. I can't take much more. It's a holiday week and he's decided to have his son over because he can see I'm...
    lirvie lirvie
    31-35, F
    Nov 23, 2014

    Contract bases

    IVE BEEN WITH MY PARTNER FOR THAN A DACADE, WE HAVE A SON OF MORE THAN 5 YRS...EVERYTIME WE TALK ABOUT OUR FURTURE WE END UP FIGHTING ABOUT SEX, MONEY,MARRIAGE,FAMILY TO CHEATING. EVERYTIME I TRY TO LEAVE HIM I END UP BEING THE BAD GUY. I MEAN THIS MAN HAS NO PROBLEM WHEN IT...
    taboosue taboosue
    31-35
    Jun 22, 2013

    I Want To Leave My Lover

    i have one lover. i love him last 1 year . he has 1 little boy but we both love to each other . but i don't want to breck his merriage life and also i don't want to hurt my parents . i was try many time for leave him but we both can't leave with out each other . i told him for...
    mahijani mahijani
    22-25
    2 Responses Oct 14, 2012

    Love Is Hard.

    I am currently in a long distance relationship with a man I have known since my teens. We have dated for a year after a 2 year seperation when his parents moved away. In total we have been together 3 years. He is my soul mate and I have always loved him, and the hardest part is...
    Crawriel Crawriel
    22-25, F
    1 Response Sep 14, 2013

    Idk What To Do

    Ok so I know I love my boyfriend. And he loves me too....but we are so different .. We recently moved in we've been together for a year and a half( I'm 2 years older) and we argue almost everyday. I feel like we love each other but were not in love anymore..I pay most of the rent...
    Missconfused1234 Missconfused1234
    26-30
    1 Response Feb 28, 2013

    We've been off and on

    for almost a year. I love talking to you, hearing you laugh and telling you things that no one else knows. I honestly don't know how much longer I can do the long distance thing, i love you unconditionally and you know that.. But I don't know if you feel the same.
    fuckingdisaster fuckingdisaster
    18-21, F
    Jan 4, 2014

    But I Love Him.......... Wrong You Don't!!!

    "But I love him.......", wrong!! What you really mean is that you lust him. Women always try to find some excuse/reason to stay with someone they shouldn't be with. Confusing love with lust this line is used too often in unhealthy relationships. Lust is what carries a...
    SilentStoryteller SilentStoryteller
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 9, 2012

    It"s Complicated

    I always thought about staying single for the rest of my life but never thought I would give up a chance like this because I keep saying I love you to him but something keeps saying you don't and I keep thinking that it's a lie ans it's a hoax because it can't be true. I just don...
    Enigmaove8671439 Enigmaove8671439
    13-15
    2 Responses Nov 28, 2012

    i started loving my bf accidentally

    when i ws tryng to get rid off an childhood fren/classmate who had crush on me n ws spreading rumours everywhere tat no 1 shd look at me cz im hs property.... i got a heard of it frm smwhere n i decided to stop him der itslf by hvng a fake relationshp vt a fren(my current bf). i...
    givemedeath givemedeath
    22-25, F
    1 Response Aug 9, 2014

    Me And My Partner Had A Child Quite Quick And He Has Anotherone Before Me And Now Everything Is Getting Too Much

    Me and my partner have been together a year and on the first night of him moving in I concieved, We both decided tokeep the baby. My partner looked after his other child at his exs house at first like even staying over while she was on the ****, they had been previously split up...
    adviseplz adviseplz
    22-25, F
    Oct 4, 2013
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