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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    DesiredEmily DesiredEmily 22-25, F 20 Responses Mar 19

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    "If you say you haven't,

    you're a prude. If you say you have you're a slxt. It's a trap. You want to but you can't, and when you do you wish you didn't." -BC
    eyecatching eyecatching 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 5

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 16-17, F 16 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I am a 20 yo university student from sydney

    australia who is still a virgin . I have never been kissed, been in a relationship or held hands. I am a genuine , honest and loyal individual but at the same time have a sexually dirty mind. I just do not know what to do :/
    CrazyAussieGuy CrazyAussieGuy 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 5

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    Baileymill Baileymill 18-21 2 Responses Feb 11

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    I want to lose it to a very beautiful

    and sexy girl! Please help me out! Message me please :)
    1John1990 1John1990 22-25, M Mar 15

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    Want It So Bad

    So, I know people say that their virginity is this special thing and, yeah, maybe it is but honestly, at my age, all I want to do is mount something lol. I want to know what it feels like to have a penis inside me, to do more than just watch people doing it online. I mean, I'm...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    I m 21 years old n I m still virgin I really

    want to lose my virginity I can't here in india coz it's so hard to get a girl in india ....
    chikamac94 chikamac94 18-21, M Feb 21

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    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex. Maybe it's because I'm a bit of a loner or possibly because I don't connect much with guys my age. But sometimes I just...
    lilliana33 lilliana33 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I'm only sixteen but I'm

    so horny right now.
    virginlife101 virginlife101 16-17, F 7 Responses Mar 7

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I want to with the guy I care the most about.

    .. but I'm just nervous & keep holding back.
    kmiracle kmiracle 16-17, F 3 Responses Mar 21

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    I'm almost 17 and all my friends have lost

    their virginity. I want to know what it's like.
    bunnythebear bunnythebear 16-17, F 5 Responses Feb 13

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 60 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I'm 16, but I want to lose my virginity

    so badly. I just want a man to take me and make me feel amazing things I've never been able to give to myself. I play with myself almost every night fantasizing about sex and how ******* good it would feel. I'm desperate to know those feelings.
    callielou callielou 18-21, F 12 Responses Mar 3

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    what should I know before I lose my virginity.

    Does it hurt?? What should I expect. What can I do to make it hurt less? What position?? Does lube help.
    nevergonnabetheuglyfriend nevergonnabetheuglyfriend 13-15 3 Responses Jan 19

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    21 and still a Virgin.

    Wow God great job here you've really outdone yourself in my life :(
    tangledweb94 tangledweb94 18-21, M Jan 28

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    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby 16-17, F 13 Responses May 1, 2014

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 26 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I want to take your virginity.

    Am I a bad person?
    anonpervy anonpervy 31-35, M 2 Responses Mar 20

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    I can't wait to get married

    and lose my virginity to the future love of my life because I feel that's the perfect time.
    Babyblue95 Babyblue95 18-21, F 3 Responses Nov 1, 2014

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    i am scared to have sex.

    i want to with my boyfriend, but i'm also really nervous. he has been with a lot of girls... and i'm a virgin. i'm really self-conscious... and now i'm realizing that i will be compared to all of the girls that came before me that were probably way prettier and more skilled in...
    daydreamer27 daydreamer27 16-17, F 4 Responses Mar 14

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 20 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    But, I feel and fear like it's never going to

    happen, 'cause, I feel like, no one will ever fall in love with me
    Naockey Naockey 18-21, F 5 Responses Mar 29

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    I'm in a Long distance with my bf.

    He lives far away from me and is coming to visit me in June. But I have sexual urges bc I'm a virgen and I know a guy I want to fvck! I don't want to wait...
    OkaycooI OkaycooI 16-17, F 4 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    As I expected, nothing

    but horny guys who want to get laid. Any women posting here want love and marriage beforehand. Nothing wrong with that, I think the guys here want to hurry up and get laid and move on. I admit to be one of those wanting to get laid as well.
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 29

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    pankass pankass 18-21, M Feb 2

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    I have never been touched by a girl before.

    it is really quite sad. if desperate there's brothels in nevada(not vegas) that have about 5 legal brothels with legal prostitution but the costs are high nearly $300 just for a HJ.. anyways id never plan on going there just curiously looked it up. I'm not into prostotute
    matrixwolf matrixwolf 16-17, M Feb 1

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    kathrineBelieber kathrineBelieber 13-15, F 17 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    13agercuriosity 13agercuriosity 13-15 2 Responses Feb 14

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    I know i am young but i really want to lose it

    but i am so shy. Very shy. I know a few guys but they don't understand i am shy and most boys don't even look at me cause i am ugly and flat chested. I want to lose it so bad, i don't even cause if the guy likes me
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa 13-15, F 14 Responses Mar 8

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    Well, I certainly want to 'experience' someone.

    The difficulty is that I'm not sure I want my first time to be with an escort. I'd like it to be someone who means something to me. The only places to meet women seem to be awful clubs, so I don't know where to meet women who are going to be compatible with me. I'm sick of...
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 30

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    So, for anyone who has read my stories,

    you know that I want an unconventional sort of family in the future. I fully support a nude, sexually open family. I think that a family marriage bed is probably the best thing ever and I love the idea of sexual freedom in the house. That being said, I'm 25 and pure as fresh...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    For 24 years I have waited.

    As a man I hope the day comes soon. I admit to really wanting to discard my virginity. Is that so wrong?
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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