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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    Im 13, I want to lose my virginity to my

    boyfriend of a year. I think I am ready, we will use protection, I told him to still pull out before he c**** though just to be safe, we are planning on doing it this weekend. Im so scared. But we both really want this.
    chloeydg chloeydg 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 12

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    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I want to expirence sex,

    i sounds like it feels great and i want to try it for myself
    A7Xfan99 A7Xfan99 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I'm 13 years old, I want to lose my virginity

    but I'm a Christian. my parents say I should wait till marriage but i keep getting this urge. Almost everyday I think about sex. People at my school always talk about sex and how good it feels and I just want to experience it also. But I don't want to disappoint my parents.
    izzycakes izzycakes 22-25, F 7 Responses 1 day ago

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    I really want to lose my virginity

    and I want someone to make me feel special(:
    Tessa95 Tessa95 18-21, F 22 Responses Jan 9

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    I'm going to lose my virginity

    when I get married ❤️ I am still freshhhh! 😂 (HAHAHHA)
    Callmesexychan Callmesexychan 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 26 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I'm 21 and I desperately want to lose my

    virginity. I've never had a girlfriend before (never had a first kiss either) and I just don't know what to do. I am pretty shy in public and so that really plays into my sex life being so down. I just want to meet a nice looking woman in Butte County, California who will show...
    Randepic Randepic 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 83 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Hey... Erm so I'm 17 nearly 18

    and still a virgin... All my mates have done it and I want it! I think it's my hormones that make me want it so bad and rough!
    Jessielovehearts Jessielovehearts 16-17, F 14 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    I understand that I have to lose weight.

    . I mean my friends tell me all the time " You don't have to" or " quit being hard on yourself", No, just shut up. Like I am so tired of people beating around the bush and lying to me. Straight to my face. I know that I can be attractive and probably will be very attractive when...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 4 Responses Apr 11

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 29 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 32 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 7 Responses 6 days ago

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I can wait for the right girl .

    I want it to be perfect and fun with no regrets .
    adamsoweird adamsoweird 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    I read other friends experiences

    who are both older and younger than me who has had sex. I get so jealous and envious and mad at myself asking why I haven't yet...I want too so bad but I just can't do it. I'm waiting for it to be perfect. Am I waiting for something that's not there? Should I keep waiting or...
    JEJ22 JEJ22 22-25, M 1 Response Mar 19

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    Anyone here from queens,

    NY(girls only plz..)
    hotchilli123 hotchilli123 18-21, M Mar 18

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    That's it, i said it!

    !! I want to have my first experience :'(
    Oti91 Oti91 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I Want To Take A Girl's Virginity

    I'm a genuinely loving, caring and romantic guy, also very passionate and skilled. I have never been with a virgin, I've never been a girl's first time and now I really want to be that first unforgettable loving guy who introduces her to love making and pleasure. I would set a...
    AndySc AndySc 22-25, M 8 Responses Jul 22, 2013

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    I Want To Make Love Already

    Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess 18-21, F 31 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I am 18 and it feels like ****.

    .. getting my first kiss would be nice too...
    matthewnew matthewnew 18-21 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I'm at a new point in my life

    where I'm finally starting to see myself in a positive form and I want to lose it. I never let being 19 (almost 20) and being a virgin bother me before but now I just feel like the odd girl out everywhere I go. I always wanted to give it to the right guy, someone I was in love...
    simplethings27 simplethings27 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 27

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    I'm A Virgin.

    Not yet though. I want to get married first. But the thing is, I need a guy. And that guy must like high voltage. Well...What exactly would you consider as "losing your virginity?"A. First experience of sex with a personB. First experience of sex in general (people and animals...
    Fractalist Fractalist 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 16-17, F 11 Responses Jan 16

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    I Know I'm Ready

    I'm 27 and a virgin. I have hated being a virgin since I was 20 now I'm 27. I want to lose my virginity, I don't want to have sex with just anyone. I want to lose my virginity to someone that is kind, gentle, a good listener, I need to be attracted the men I have sex with and I...
    NikkiAliceLamb NikkiAliceLamb 26-30, F 30 Responses Oct 23, 2013

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    Innocent Beyond Belief.

    I have always been the type of girl who was the friend that was to weird to be with in a relationship because we were such pals. And I put that off. And then in high school I messed up all my relationships beyond belief with guys to the point where I very much regret how I...
    cesmith2012 cesmith2012 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I had been wanting to

    for so long and only 5 months ago I did at the ripe age of 26. I had always wanted to protect myself & wait til marriage (I'm not really religious but I do have a fairly traditional family). I always felt by holding back I wasn't allowing myself to get close enough to the men I...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    I've been pretty ready to do this

    since I was 15 but I didn't want to lose it to someone I wasn't in love with. Now that I am in a solid relationship with someone I am crazy about I don't feel guilty! I think people's virginity is their own business and they should do with it as they please. I for one am...
    awkwardailey awkwardailey 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Would any one who reads this post believe

    that I am a 47 year old man and I'm still a virgin? You may wonder why? Or how? Allow me to explain. In my time of growing up HIV was rampant. AIDS was all over the news with horror stories of how people died from it at an early age,with no cure or treatment. This scared the P...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    I'm nineteen and I feel like I'm ready

    emotionally for this, I know I want it to be with someone special but at the same time I know that person isn't necessarily going to be the person I spend the rest of my life with. I just don't know how other girls get boys, I've only ever had 2 guys show any interest, I just...
    marylizz marylizz 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 17

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    I have never done it

    but I would like to real soon
    tonya13 tonya13 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 7

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    What do guys do the first time

    when they have sex with a virgin
    Monicajrez Monicajrez 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 7

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    boyfromthecountry boyfromthecountry 16-17, M Apr 3

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    I'm still young, only 16.

    But I constantly have this thought about wanting to lose my virginity. I keep getting this idea that sex feels much better than having to ********** with my own hands, hence why I wanna lose my virginity
    EG0IST EG0IST 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    Virginity should be loose

    or keep until the marriage if loose then in what age..??
    hotchilli123 hotchilli123 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 13

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    Hi, my names Bill and im a virgin,

    and im 24. obviously like most virgins in there 20's, its because there shy, nervous under pressure, and every day that goes by it gets harder. I haven't even gotten my first kiss. I have no problems talking to girls as long as I know there's nothing expected. When I go on...
    Bill89xpxp Bill89xpxp 22-25, M Mar 27

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    Does anybody know how I can get laid to any

    girl without being a jerk?
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 3 Responses Mar 25

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    No, you don't! Save yourself

    for marriage! Poor, naive, young girls.. 😵
    majesticmaddy majesticmaddy 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 28

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    kathrineBelieber kathrineBelieber 13-15, F 19 Responses Mar 15

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    Since I was 13 I've been ready.

    But I'm waiting.. Patiently. Im so freaking patient. Lol >.>
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 14 Responses Feb 9

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    Should i loose my virginity to someone I'm

    going out with or is it okay to get to know a guy for a few weeks before giving away the greatest deed?
    cutiepatootie96 cutiepatootie96 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    Hmm

    I had my 16th birthday in school on the 17th of October and I was walking through school with my friends and the boy who I like was walking with his friends behind us. After a minute or two one of his friends pinched my ***. I turned around and just simply said "stop it" and then...
    PrincessBitch123 PrincessBitch123 18-21, F 6 Responses Nov 3, 2013

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    Am 22 and 320lbs I want to wait till I have a

    girlfriend and we both in love and lose it with her and spend my life with her but in uk for guy my size that a hard thin to do so as of late I been thinking of going out and just doing 1 night stands but then I h8 my self cos I hate it when guy only want 1 night stand and just...
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex. Maybe it's because I'm a bit of a loner or possibly because I don't connect much with guys my age. But sometimes I just...
    lilliana33 lilliana33 18-21, F 22 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I Feel Awkward Regarding Intimacy?

    I'm scared I'm gonna be bad at everything. I'm shy and awkward. In my mind I imagine how I would do things to my boyfriend but then when it comes to it I always chicken out. I'm 15, and so is he but he has had many girls. I feel like I'm a bad person because he always tells me...
    prettyflower56 prettyflower56 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    So Like No Joke....

    I'm really considering having sex this weekend and getting it over with. **** the whole "its suppose to be special" etc etc....I just want to do it. And I do like and trust the guy I want to give it to...so.....yea.....
    Serabi Serabi 18-21, F 19 Responses Feb 22, 2011

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    I wish I could understand what's wrong with me.

    People have told me that I should just wait for the right person to come along but I am seriously tired of waiting. I would love to set up a long term relationship with someone who loves me and I love back, unfortunately no one wants a semi-good looking, nice, respectful and...
    forever6219 forever6219 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    Loverboy2412 Loverboy2412 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 13

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    I want lose weight and eat healthier but everytime i start I quit after 2 weeks.I want to have friend who also want lose weight so we can support eachother.
    antt33 antt33 13-15, F 3 Responses Mar 31

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    so just randomly but... wouldnt u say losing your virginity as a girl makes a bigger impact then losing your virginity as a boy?? i know it aint nice either way but wat does a guy...
    midnight001 midnight001 18-21, F 2 Responses Mar 26

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    Hi i am aakriti....and i am gonna share a experience which was sudden and scary also.This is the story of how i lost my virginity.I am a good looking girl with a decent attitude...
    Aakriti1212 Aakriti1212 22-25, F 1 Response 6 days ago

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