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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    I'm 21 and I desperately want to lose my virginity. I've never had a girlfriend before (never had a first kiss either) and I just don't know what to do. I am pretty shy in public...
    Randepic Randepic 18-21, M 1 Response Feb 27

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    Anyone here from queens, NY(girls only plz..)
    hotchilli123 hotchilli123 18-21, M Mar 18

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    I want to expirence sex, i sounds like it feels great and i want to try it for myself
    A7Xfan99 A7Xfan99 13-15, M 2 Responses Feb 24

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    I want to.. I'm 19 and a virgin. I know most are but still. I have a boyfriend and want to lose it to him. I have sucked him but I think he wants more. Gosh... Men.
    daphnexoxo daphnexoxo 18-21, F Feb 12

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    Should i loose my virginity to someone I'm going out with or is it okay to get to know a guy for a few weeks before giving away the greatest deed?
    cutiepatootie96 cutiepatootie96 16-17, F 5 Responses Mar 19

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    Does anybody know how I can get laid to any girl without being a jerk?
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 3 Responses Mar 25

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    When I Am Married - I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Am 22 and 320lbs I want to wait till I have a girlfriend and we both in love and lose it with her and spend my life with her but in uk for guy my size that a hard thin to do so as...
    scottishbigguy scottishbigguy 22-25, M 2 Responses Apr 9

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge! The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 5 Responses Mar 28

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    I just want to loose it late one night with someone special.
    boyfromthecountry boyfromthecountry 16-17, M Apr 3

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    I Feel Awkward Regarding Intimacy? - I'm scared I'm gonna be bad at everything. I'm shy and awkward. In my mind I imagine how I would do things to my boyfriend but then when it...
    prettyflower56 prettyflower56 13-15, F 4 Responses Dec 2, 2013

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    I want to.. I'm 19 and a virgin. I know most are but still. I have a boyfriend and want to lose it to him. I have sucked him but I think he wants more. Gosh... Men.
    daphnexoxo daphnexoxo 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 12

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    Would any one who reads this post believe that I am a 47 year old man and I'm still a virgin? You may wonder why? Or how? Allow me to explain. In my time of growing up HIV was...
    AGothicOdyssey AGothicOdyssey 46-50, M 3 Responses Mar 9

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    Im 13, I want to lose my virginity to my boyfriend of a year. I think I am ready, we will use protection, I told him to still pull out before he c**** though just to be safe, we...
    chloeydg chloeydg 22-25, F 10 Responses Mar 12

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    I Want To Help Someone Who Really Wants To Lose It - I am here to support and help those who finally want to lose it. Someone who dont like such advices:   "Wait for when you're...
    darkblueproton darkblueproton 31-35, M Apr 20, 2013

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    I want to.. I'm 19 and a virgin. I know most are but still. I have a boyfriend and want to lose it to him. I have sucked him but I think he wants more. Gosh... Men.
    daphnexoxo daphnexoxo 18-21, F 6 Responses Feb 12

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    I understand that I have to lose weight.. I mean my friends tell me all the time " You don't have to" or " quit being hard on yourself", No, just shut up. Like I am so tired of...
    PitchDaffy PitchDaffy 22-25, F 4 Responses 6 days ago

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    I'm A Virgin. - Not yet though. I want to get married first. But the thing is, I need a guy. And that guy must like high voltage. Well...What exactly would you consider as "losing...
    Fractalist Fractalist 16-17, F 6 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    What do guys do the first time when they have sex with a virgin
    Monicajrez Monicajrez 18-21, F 11 Responses Feb 7

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    All my friends talk about sex! I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest...
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 16-17, F 8 Responses Mar 28

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    I can wait for the right girl . I want it to be perfect and fun with no regrets .
    adamsoweird adamsoweird 18-21, M 1 Response Mar 28

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    Virginity should be loose or keep until the marriage if loose then in what age..??
    hotchilli123 hotchilli123 18-21, M 3 Responses Mar 13

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    Want To Give It Away - I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex...
    lilliana33 lilliana33 18-21, F 22 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Innocent Beyond Belief. - I have always been the type of girl who was the friend that was to weird to be with in a relationship because we were such pals. And I put that off. And...
    cesmith2012 cesmith2012 18-21, F 9 Responses Nov 8, 2012

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    I had been wanting to for so long and only 5 months ago I did at the ripe age of 26. I had always wanted to protect myself & wait til marriage (I'm not really religious but I do...
    mzn86 mzn86 26-30, F 3 Responses Mar 1

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    That's it, i said it!!! I want to have my first experience :'(
    Oti91 Oti91 22-25, M 3 Responses Mar 25

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    I really want to lose my virginity and I want someone to make me feel special(:
    Tessa95 Tessa95 18-21, F 22 Responses Jan 9

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    I really want to! Someone help me!
    kathrineBelieber kathrineBelieber 13-15, F 19 Responses Mar 15

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    Right Now - I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 29 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    I'm still young, only 16. But I constantly have this thought about wanting to lose my virginity. I keep getting this idea that sex feels much better than having to ********** with...
    EG0IST EG0IST 16-17, M 1 Response Mar 3

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent, and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 6 Responses 21 hrs ago

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    I have never done it but I would like to real soon
    tonya13 tonya13 13-15, F 8 Responses Mar 7

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    I Wish I Could Just Lose My Virginity Already. - My best friend lost her virginity and she's 14. I don't agree with her being so young, or how she lost it, but a part of me is...
    asj16 asj16 16-17, F 13 Responses Oct 24, 2013

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    Since I was 13 I've been ready. But I'm waiting.. Patiently. Im so freaking patient. Lol >.>
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 9

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    Please Read This (cross Posted) - T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Hi, my names Bill and im a virgin, and im 24. obviously like most virgins in there 20's, its because there shy, nervous under pressure, and every day that goes by it gets harder. I...
    Bill89xpxp Bill89xpxp 22-25, M Mar 27

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    I'm nineteen and I feel like I'm ready emotionally for this, I know I want it to be with someone special but at the same time I know that person isn't necessarily going to be the...
    marylizz marylizz 18-21, F 15 Responses Feb 17

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    Southern Cali, Anyone? - I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 17 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much...
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 83 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Hey... Erm so I'm 17 nearly 18 and still a virgin... All my mates have done it and I want it! I think it's my hormones that make me want it so bad and rough!
    Jessielovehearts Jessielovehearts 16-17, F 14 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    Says it in itself. I'm 18 needing a women to make love to me
    Loverboy2412 Loverboy2412 18-21, M 1 Response 4 days ago

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    i want to lose my virginity but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find...
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 16-17, F 6 Responses Jan 6

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    I wish I could understand what's wrong with me. People have told me that I should just wait for the right person to come along but I am seriously tired of waiting. I would love to...
    forever6219 forever6219 18-21, M 1 Response Apr 7

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    I am 18 and it feels like ****... getting my first kiss would be nice too...
    matthewnew matthewnew 18-21 2 Responses Mar 15

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    I'm at a new point in my life where I'm finally starting to see myself in a positive form and I want to lose it. I never let being 19 (almost 20) and being a virgin bother me...
    simplethings27 simplethings27 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 27

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    I've been pretty ready to do this since I was 15 but I didn't want to lose it to someone I wasn't in love with. Now that I am in a solid relationship with someone I am crazy about...
    awkwardailey awkwardailey 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    Sooner Than Later - I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 32 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity. Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 16-17, F 11 Responses Jan 16

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    Yes... - I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 26 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I Want To Make Love Already - Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess 18-21, F 31 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I Know I'm Ready - I'm 27 and a virgin. I have hated being a virgin since I was 20 now I'm 27. I want to lose my virginity, I don't want to have sex with just anyone. I want to...
    NikkiAliceLamb NikkiAliceLamb 26-30, F 30 Responses Oct 23, 2013