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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Can it just fuckking happen already?

    !?!?? Im tired of being a virgin!!!
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    23 will be 24 in two weeks.

    Not waiting for marriage. I was in a relationship for 3.5 years with zero intimacy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 27

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 22-25, F 28 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    im 24, bbw, and really want to just get it over

    with. I dated one guy but we never went further than kissing, because i have quite a lot of strech marks and i never let him see my body. Now i think that it would be far more easier without emotional involvement. So Im looking for a nice patient guy, preferably older than 26...
    denim221 denim221 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    I'm looking for some virgin guy friends.

    I'm 29 and never had a girlfriend or approached a girl. we can talk about video games and ****
    monotonouso monotonouso 26-30, M 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Mar 19

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    Anybody close to St. Louis wanna ****

    and lose their virginity with me?
    fruitcakeunknown fruitcakeunknown 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    I am now 24 and I want to lose my virginity

    but nobody seems to want me
    cane4500 cane4500 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I am 25 years old and still a Virgin.

    It has come to a point where I am depressed most of the time now and it's just become too damn hard.
    Mtalha711 Mtalha711 22-25, M 5 Responses Jul 20

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    hashtagbitch hashtagbitch 16-17, F 12 Responses Jul 6

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    Me too. I'm pretty down about it.

    It gets to me. I don't want to hire an escort bc I'm afraid of being robbed or busted by police.
    pfffmeh pfffmeh 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    Unfortunate but true.

    I am a 45 year old Virgin, and I have been getting serious with someone I love, but a few days ago, she tried sexting me, which I had never heard of, so I guess I messed up right off the bat, and now she says she doesn't have time to "Teach" me, that she needs someone with lots...
    lonely98266 lonely98266 41-45, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex. Maybe it's because I'm a bit of a loner or possibly because I don't connect much with guys my age. But sometimes I just...
    lilliana33 lilliana33 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    Just a 17 year old guy

    that wan't to have some fun, i don't care what girl will be the lucky one, I JUST WANNA ****.
    leoxen leoxen 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    me & my bf are both 16 & virgins we

    both are mature, ready for sex & committed but i feel like its a sin to lose it & i promised my mom i wouldn't lose it until i get out of high school but we don't want to wait, he already is a amazing boyfriend and doesn't mind losing his V to me but i feel like i would...
    xbabybeeovoxo xbabybeeovoxo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    I'd pay for sex, without much hesitation,

    if I weren't a virgin. There's something that feels regrettable about paying for one's first time, though. Thinking about it, I'm not sure why. It just becomes an annoying psychological block in the way of finally having some fun.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M Jun 20

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jul 21

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    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    i cant tell you when i first wanted to have sex

    but i am always i the mood but no girl is ever around to help. i dont expect any to be around because im always on the run or im always working on the farm. what should i do?
    christophzzzs christophzzzs 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    I Want To Make Love Already

    Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess 18-21, F 30 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm really looking forward to this.

    would love some dirty chatting to relieve tension.
    haloman713 haloman713 26-30, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    kathrineBelieber kathrineBelieber 13-15, F 18 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    in this group just boys want to lose there

    virginity. no girls why.........?
    amirkhan1992 amirkhan1992 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    I have been searching

    for the right person and I was hoping someone here could help me find them, I live in utah
    cheetahlord cheetahlord 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Want It So Bad

    So, I know people say that their virginity is this special thing and, yeah, maybe it is but honestly, at my age, all I want to do is mount something lol. I want to know what it feels like to have a penis inside me, to do more than just watch people doing it online. I mean, I'm...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    I'm 20 almost 21 and I have never been kissed.

    I'm not ugly, I have been told that I'm "Pretty" and "Cute" but intimidating to boys my own age. I can be very intellectual getting caught up in a subject I'm passionate about. I'm a bit socially awkward and can't tell when someone flirts with me (and I can't flirt to save my...
    Britt4994 Britt4994 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 12

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 62 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    any takers? females only!

    I'm in a predicament!
    haloman713 haloman713 26-30, M 2 days ago

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    I want an older man to take it

    but I don't know how to ask someone :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 22-25, F 19 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    I'm 17 and I'm not in a relationship

    but I want to lose it, and the only thing that makes me unsure it that people say you'll regret it not being with someone special when you're older
    NiamhN NiamhN 16-17, F 5 Responses Jul 19

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    I have never had sex.

    I have dated some good looking men and almost did it too but none of them could remove that last piece of underwear. :-D Looking back, I both do and do not regret it. I do regret it because I wish I could experience it. I do not regret it because I did not trust or respect them...
    2095TwistedTransistor3684 2095TwistedTransistor3684 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I know i am young but i really want to lose it

    but i am so shy. Very shy. I know a few guys but they don't understand i am shy and most boys don't even look at me cause i am ugly and flat chested. I want to lose it so bad, i don't even cause if the guy likes me
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa 13-15, F 12 Responses Mar 8

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Being bisexual is a problem?

    I am confused.. Why can't I be normal..
    Winsonlinn Winsonlinn 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I've been waiting for the right guy forever,

    but now I feel like I've missed my chance. I just want to try it, but I don't wanna just do it with some random guy either. Confused.
    emilyhearts emilyhearts 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 19

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    I'm ready to do it with my guy the only problem

    is that he is quite blessed in that.."area", and we are having trouble getting it in. Every time we try I have to make him stop because it is really painful. I want him so bad but I feel like my body is working against me. He is so understanding and I feel bad getting him all...