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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    I know this place is not

    for judging anyone, but the truth of losing virginity is that it's like anything else in life. It's not "special", it's nothing guys pursue and girls save, it's not going to hurt if you don't worry about it. BFs and GFs will pass through our lives and will hurt us anytime for...
    datxexu datxexu 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 19

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    23 will be 24 in two weeks.

    Not waiting for marriage. I was in a relationship for 3.5 years with zero intimacy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Jun 27

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    me & my bf are both 16 & virgins we

    both are mature, ready for sex & committed but i feel like its a sin to lose it & i promised my mom i wouldn't lose it until i get out of high school but we don't want to wait, he already is a amazing boyfriend and doesn't mind losing his V to me but i feel like i would...
    xbabybeeovoxo xbabybeeovoxo 16-17, F 4 Responses Jun 14

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 62 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Anybody close to St. Louis wanna ****

    and lose their virginity with me?
    fruitcakeunknown fruitcakeunknown 18-21, M 1 Response Jun 18

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    I am 24 single male from UK,

    not even kissed a girl, trying to find someone willing to take my virginity, i'm not majorly fussed on age, although as long as you are female will most likely be fine
    rapsel rapsel 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 11

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 22-25, F 19 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex. Maybe it's because I'm a bit of a loner or possibly because I don't connect much with guys my age. But sometimes I just...
    lilliana33 lilliana33 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I'm 17 and I'm not in a relationship

    but I want to lose it, and the only thing that makes me unsure it that people say you'll regret it not being with someone special when you're older
    NiamhN NiamhN 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 19

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    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Mar 19

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    I am now 24 and I want to lose my virginity

    but nobody seems to want me
    cane4500 cane4500 22-25, M 3 Responses Jul 10

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    I'd pay for sex, without much hesitation,

    if I weren't a virgin. There's something that feels regrettable about paying for one's first time, though. Thinking about it, I'm not sure why. It just becomes an annoying psychological block in the way of finally having some fun.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M Jun 20

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    Being bisexual is a problem?

    I am confused.. Why can't I be normal..
    Winsonlinn Winsonlinn 18-21, M 3 Responses Jul 1

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I'm 20 almost 21 and I have never been kissed.

    I'm not ugly, I have been told that I'm "Pretty" and "Cute" but intimidating to boys my own age. I can be very intellectual getting caught up in a subject I'm passionate about. I'm a bit socially awkward and can't tell when someone flirts with me (and I can't flirt to save my...
    Britt4994 Britt4994 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 12

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    I have been searching

    for the right person and I was hoping someone here could help me find them, I live in utah
    cheetahlord cheetahlord 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 10

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    Honestly i'm at the point

    where i want to get it over with. I'm 18 and really overweight. Everyone around me has already lost it and i don't want to lose it just because of that but i want to do it for me. I'm working on losing weight but it's not something that will happen overnight. It's so frustrating...
    g13xx g13xx 18-21, F 20 Responses Jun 11

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    in this group just boys want to lose there

    virginity. no girls why.........?
    amirkhan1992 amirkhan1992 18-21, M 1 Response Jul 13

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    I want to lose my virginity.

    but not to random guy. I want my first time to be special, with someone I love. but I haven't met that special guy yet.
    Jacque1994 Jacque1994 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 18

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    I've been waiting for the right guy forever,

    but now I feel like I've missed my chance. I just want to try it, but I don't wanna just do it with some random guy either. Confused.
    emilyhearts emilyhearts 18-21, F 10 Responses Jul 19

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    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    I am waiting until I'm 18.

    I don't want to end up a pregnant highschooler. I want to lose my virginity to my best friend/boyfriend. I trust him so much and he would never hurt me. He is so amazing and he doesn't see it. I love him so friggin much. We'll do other sexual things but I want to just go all the...
    helloo12121 helloo12121 13-15, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Me too. I'm pretty down about it.

    It gets to me. I don't want to hire an escort bc I'm afraid of being robbed or busted by police.
    pfffmeh pfffmeh 31-35, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    So, for anyone who has read my stories,

    you know that I want an unconventional sort of family in the future. I fully support a nude, sexually open family. I think that a family marriage bed is probably the best thing ever and I love the idea of sexual freedom in the house. That being said, I'm 25 and pure as fresh...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    I love popping cherries.

    The feeling of entering for the first time, the look on her face when she realizes whats happening, and the look of fear/worry to pleasure and ecstasy. If you want to lose your virginity, I can help you, judgement free. I am 27, STD free, average build, ask for photos in...
    chess4steven chess4steven 26-30, M 4 Responses Jul 19

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    hashtagbitch hashtagbitch 16-17, F 12 Responses Jul 6

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    I want to lose it before I get to college to

    get it out the way... And I'm just tired of being a virgin. I WANT SEX! Lol
    tootaloo tootaloo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Just a 17 year old guy

    that wan't to have some fun, i don't care what girl will be the lucky one, I JUST WANNA ****.
    leoxen leoxen 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 8

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    i cant tell you when i first wanted to have sex

    but i am always i the mood but no girl is ever around to help. i dont expect any to be around because im always on the run or im always working on the farm. what should i do?
    christophzzzs christophzzzs 13-15, M 1 Response Jun 23

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    Being virgin @23 is very hard.

    ...Wanna loose it ...:p
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 2 Responses Jun 11

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    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby 18-21, F 13 Responses May 1, 2014

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    I'm ready to do it with my guy the only problem

    is that he is quite blessed in that.."area", and we are having trouble getting it in. Every time we try I have to make him stop because it is really painful. I want him so bad but I feel like my body is working against me. He is so understanding and I feel bad getting him all...
    KawiiKay KawiiKay 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    I want an older man to take it

    but I don't know how to ask someone :(
    deleted deleted 26-30 4 Responses Jul 1

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    I know i am young but i really want to lose it

    but i am so shy. Very shy. I know a few guys but they don't understand i am shy and most boys don't even look at me cause i am ugly and flat chested. I want to lose it so bad, i don't even cause if the guy likes me
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa 13-15, F 12 Responses Mar 8

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    one thing is that when you Gay

    and there's a bunch of good D's around..... its hard to stay pure and find a good Bf that can satisfy you
    jontony jontony 18-21, M 2 Responses Jun 14

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    Can it just fuckking happen already?

    !?!?? Im tired of being a virgin!!!
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    im 24, bbw, and really want to just get it over

    with. I dated one guy but we never went further than kissing, because i have quite a lot of strech marks and i never let him see my body. Now i think that it would be far more easier without emotional involvement. So Im looking for a nice patient guy, preferably older than 26...
    denim221 denim221 26-30, F 5 Responses Jun 28

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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