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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 28 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    vyne18 vyne18 18-21, M Apr 22

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    im 26 bbw f, and never have

    even kissed anyone. i want to find someone who would be gentle wih me and would be my giude into these things, because i feel if i wait any longer i might never experience it and just condemn myself for never even trying to meet anyone.
    denim221 denim221 26-30, F 4 Responses May 9

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I just.. I feel like I'm still a child a bit

    with my virginity and I don't like it. I mean I don't care that I still am but all of the sudden I'm finding out all my friends aren't virgins anymore and In a way I'm proud k still have it. But I also feel like I'm a bit insecure and awkward because , I've never really done...
    curiouslyinsecure curiouslyinsecure 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 22

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 18-21, F 16 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 12 Responses Apr 25

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    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby 18-21, F 13 Responses May 1, 2014

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    I am a boy that thinks a lot about being a girl

    and I have made out with some guys before and kind of played around with guys but never went all the way. I want to lose my virginity. I know girls can do it to you if they use something but idk if that would be the same feeling
    imjaylee imjaylee 16-17 4 Responses Mar 30

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    I really want to lose my virginity

    but I can't really get girls and I don't know why because I'm not that bad looking and I have a good personality
    thatyoungmetalhead thatyoungmetalhead 16-17, M 3 Responses Apr 25

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    31 now, feel so stupid

    that Ive went this long
    Jonto84 Jonto84 31-35, M 1 Response May 14

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    I know i am young but i really want to lose it

    but i am so shy. Very shy. I know a few guys but they don't understand i am shy and most boys don't even look at me cause i am ugly and flat chested. I want to lose it so bad, i don't even cause if the guy likes me
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa 13-15, F 13 Responses Mar 8

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    JamesB20 JamesB20 22-25, M 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    I'm 16 and all the grade 11's at my school

    but me are virgins. I want to find that special girl but I'm starting to think she's not in my city.
    Taylor222222 Taylor222222 16-17, M 2 Responses May 24

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    i want to lose my virginity on my wedding night.

    . I choose to be abstinent till my wedding night for the right one..its special to do so for purity in love..People said i am attractive its impossible no one ever touch me or kissing me..i am not type of nerd or introvert..i am extrovert and have a lot of friends...there is a...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 3 Responses May 19

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    I want to lose it before I get to college to

    get it out the way... And I'm just tired of being a virgin. I WANT SEX! Lol
    tootaloo tootaloo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 18-21, F 10 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    AudrinaM AudrinaM 22-25, F 10 Responses 5 days ago

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    chocolatebabygirl chocolatebabygirl 18-21, F 6 Responses 2 days ago

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses Mar 19

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    I have never had sex.

    I have dated some good looking men and almost did it too but none of them could remove that last piece of underwear. :-D Looking back, I both do and do not regret it. I do regret it because I wish I could experience it. I do not regret it because I did not trust or respect them...
    2095TwistedTransistor3684 2095TwistedTransistor3684 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    I want to lose my virginity to a girl.

    I live in Lynnwood wa. I'm 16. Imean the only one in my friends who's still a virgin please help
    Jose000 Jose000 16-17, M 1 Response May 9

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    For 24 years I have waited.

    As a man I hope the day comes soon. I admit to really wanting to discard my virginity. Is that so wrong?
    secretlyhonest1 secretlyhonest1 22-25, M 1 Response Apr 1

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    So, for anyone who has read my stories,

    you know that I want an unconventional sort of family in the future. I fully support a nude, sexually open family. I think that a family marriage bed is probably the best thing ever and I love the idea of sexual freedom in the house. That being said, I'm 25 and pure as fresh...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    I Want To Make Love Already

    Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess 18-21, F 30 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I am 18 and I am going to uni soon

    so I want to lose my virginity before i go. however i am scared of doing this so I dont know how to get over it and just get it over with
    shannonmoore00 shannonmoore00 18-21, F 6 Responses May 23

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    I am a 18 year old boy

    who wants to lose my virginity
    robert8182 robert8182 18-21, M 2 Responses May 20

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    I want to so bad. I tried,

    but I was too big to fit ?? I want that one girl....
    Christals2 Christals2 18-21, M Apr 27

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    28 white male in sd cali,

    need to lose my v card
    fml769 fml769 26-30, M May 20

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    im 18m from melbourne australia

    and i want to loose my virginity with another virgin but its hard to find someone who is one these days :(
    vyn18 vyn18 18-21, M 3 Responses Apr 15

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Can it just fuckking happen already?

    !?!?? Im tired of being a virgin!!!
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    "If you say you haven't,

    you're a prude. If you say you have you're a slxt. It's a trap. You want to but you can't, and when you do you wish you didn't." -BC
    deleted deleted 26-30 6 Responses Apr 5

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    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    I've been in a relationship

    for about 6 months, and I've been thinking about going further. My boyfriend and I are both very awkward when it comes to things like that, and we haven't gone any further than making out. I was thinking next time we were making out to go for his zipper and see where it goes...
    pineapples17 pineapples17 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 18, 2014

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    I am 13, I know it's young

    but I really what to lose it and know what it feels like
    smicka111 smicka111 13-15, M 1 Response 5 days ago

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 62 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    RyanDes RyanDes 18-21, M Apr 23

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    I really want to get laid,

    but afterwords I want the guy to want to be with me forever. Is that so much to ask for?!
    deleted deleted 26-30 7 Responses Apr 27

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...