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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    I hate having a high sex drive

    and not being able to lose my v-card. My friends have all frightened me into waiting for the "right guy" whatever the hell that means, but I also feel like I'm missing out like crazy by not having a great sexual experience yet. It gets really frustrating, especially because I'm...
    crypticcrime crypticcrime 18-21, F 12 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm ready to do it with my guy the only problem

    is that he is quite blessed in that.."area", and we are having trouble getting it in. Every time we try I have to make him stop because it is really painful. I want him so bad but I feel like my body is working against me. He is so understanding and I feel bad getting him all...
    KawiiKay KawiiKay 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 23

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I am 26 and just want to be able to experience

    sex with someone who knows what they are doing but am to nervous to ask anyone
    curiousyoungguy curiousyoungguy 22-25, M Aug 20

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    Unfortunate but true.

    I am a 45 year old Virgin, and I have been getting serious with someone I love, but a few days ago, she tried sexting me, which I had never heard of, so I guess I messed up right off the bat, and now she says she doesn't have time to "Teach" me, that she needs someone with lots...
    lonely98266 lonely98266 41-45, M 1 Response Jul 28

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    Goralski Goralski 46-50, M 1 Response Aug 2

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    I want to lose it before I get to college to

    get it out the way... And I'm just tired of being a virgin. I WANT SEX! Lol
    tootaloo tootaloo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 22-25, F 28 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 22-25, F 19 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    So Im a trans guy (female to male).

    Im on hormones but havent had surgery yet. And im really curious about guys. I've never been with one really. So, how do I meet a guy? Anyone in montreal? :)
    Frankyun Frankyun 16-17, T 3 days ago

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    haloman713 haloman713 26-30, M Aug 5

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    I'm looking for some virgin guy friends.

    I'm 29 and never had a girlfriend or approached a girl. we can talk about video games and ****
    monotonouso monotonouso 26-30, M 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Hi I'm 13 and a girl

    and I want an older boyfriend, one who will love me and will treat me right, I want to lose my virginity to that person, message me if you might be that guy
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    I'm still a virgin cause I've always been self

    conscious. I'm not bad looking and I'm one of the nicest guys. Just social interaction is hard. I'm not looking for some random sex romp. I want to get to know the women and connect with her. If you don't then what's the point? If I just wanted to get off its not that difficult...
    cifer21 cifer21 22-25, M Aug 4

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    Im a guy who wants to lose his virginity your

    all saying that oh thats every guy thats still a virgin tbh im not any guy or every other guy i want to lose it but i want to lose it to the one i love and stay with them its kinda sad how bad society has become how being titles a virgin is a bad thing to be honest i dont care...
    ZenDreams ZenDreams 18-21, M Aug 11

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    I have a high sex drive

    and would like to have fun, but still don't want to just lose it to the next guy who walks by me. I want there to be trust between us first, since I'm the one getting hurt
    ferretthefred ferretthefred 18-21, F 4 Responses 10 hrs ago

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    I've been waiting for the right guy forever,

    but now I feel like I've missed my chance. I just want to try it, but I don't wanna just do it with some random guy either. Confused.
    emilyhearts emilyhearts 18-21, F 12 Responses Jul 19

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 6 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I have to lose it before I go to college.

    It's the biggest musts of ALL MUSTS.
    StudCanadian StudCanadian 16-17, M 6 Responses Aug 1

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    who want to help me with

    that pleasure of helping me lose my virginity online or other ways don't be shy
    MickyCrazy MickyCrazy 18-21, M Aug 17

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    Tbh I'm 16 just trying to lose my virginity

    right now. And when I say right now I mean right now
    deleted deleted 26-30 Aug 9

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 26 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    I m 19 years old and still a virgin.

    ..I want to lose it before university life. .
    harry8461 harry8461 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 13

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    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses Mar 19

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    I'm a 44 year old male virgin.

    Becaue of my upbringing, I was very introverted, shy and negative. I used to tear myself down and make myself depressed and hopeless. About 6 years ago I decided to move to another country, and try anything different. And it's been very hard and frustrating. I've tried to...
    Tumblepeep Tumblepeep 41-45, M 1 Response 7 hrs ago

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    Can it just fuckking happen already?

    !?!?? Im tired of being a virgin!!!
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 16-17, F 9 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    Want It So Bad

    So, I know people say that their virginity is this special thing and, yeah, maybe it is but honestly, at my age, all I want to do is mount something lol. I want to know what it feels like to have a penis inside me, to do more than just watch people doing it online. I mean, I'm...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 10 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    I'm really looking forward to this.

    would love some dirty chatting to relieve tension.
    haloman713 haloman713 26-30, M 1 Response Jul 27

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    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex. Maybe it's because I'm a bit of a loner or possibly because I don't connect much with guys my age. But sometimes I just...
    lilliana33 lilliana33 18-21, F 16 Responses Oct 28, 2013

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    I've once slept with a girl

    but she rejected me before we did it. I feel worthless and disgusting. I used to tell her how much I love her and how I wanted to stay with her for my whole life. She ended up abandoning me for another guy. Until this day I still don't know what was wrong with me. I am having a...
    MakishimaShougo MakishimaShougo 22-25, M 1 Response 3 days ago

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    deleted deleted 26-30 20 Responses May 27

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    I Want To Make Love Already

    Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess 18-21, F 30 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    From: Sydney. Let's just go wild.

    I love trying new things. Message for more details.
    johnno99 johnno99 16-17, M Aug 2

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 62 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 10 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    I've never been too concerned with losing it

    and I don't feel ashamed that I haven't, but at 23, I do think about it sometimes. I would never want to lose it just to lose it--it would have to be with someone I actually cared about. I've never really put myself out there, so I'm not blaming it on anyone. But maybe if I...
    NevanB887 NevanB887 22-25, M 2 Responses Aug 23

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    i want to experience sex with a woman never

    done it before since i feel invisible to women
    lassengan lassengan 22-25, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    InternationalSpaceStation InternationalSpaceStation 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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