I Want To Lose My Virginity

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 7,745 People

    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Apr 17, 2014
    all4fun420 all4fun420
    31-35, M
    Feb 25

    I want to lose it before I get to college to

    get it out the way... And I'm just tired of being a virgin. I WANT SEX! Lol
    tootaloo tootaloo
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Aug 3, 2014

    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Nov 15, 2014

    My boyfriend and I have been speaking about

    having sex for the last couple months. We've been in a relationship for a long time and are fully committed to each other. I believe I'm ready, I'm just scared of what could happen to us or if it won't be good enough. I want to go through with it, but I fear the outcome awaiting...
    kmiracle kmiracle
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Mar 19

    Anyone live in Wisconsin?

    Fox valley area.
    baseball952 baseball952
    22-25, M
    Mar 16

    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby
    18-21, F
    14 Responses May 1, 2014
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    15 Responses May 27, 2015

    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    15 Responses Mar 19, 2015

    Another great story censored by EPAllie.

    Catch you on the flip side.
    9minute 9minute
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Mar 22

    with some one who is also virgin

    and nice girl living in uk and she does care about looks and she is nice and simple girl and she does not use drugs or go to dance clubs.who does not lie.
    asif25 asif25
    26-30, M
    1 Response Apr 16

    I have a high sex drive

    and would like to have fun, but still don't want to just lose it to the next guy who walks by me. I want there to be trust between us first, since I'm the one getting hurt
    ferretthefred ferretthefred
    22-25, F
    10 Responses Sep 2, 2015

    Not a virgin, but need to join to post.

    live in Ontario, willing to help people out. need advice? ask, have questions? ask, think you just want to get it over with, you're legal and female? ask. first before I get flooded with should I wait or not. Only you can answer that. Are you satisfied with the wait so far...
    PsychoticEGG PsychoticEGG
    26-30, M
    Feb 21

    I've been waiting for the right guy forever,

    but now I feel like I've missed my chance. I just want to try it, but I don't wanna just do it with some random guy either. Confused.
    emilyhearts emilyhearts
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jul 19, 2015

    I know i am young but i really want to lose it

    but i am so shy. Very shy. I know a few guys but they don't understand i am shy and most boys don't even look at me cause i am ugly and flat chested. I want to lose it so bad, i don't even cause if the guy likes me
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa
    13-15, F
    12 Responses Mar 8, 2015

    I'm a woman, 21, from Colombia.

    All guys seem to be jerks and I just want a decent guy to lost my virginity to but idk at least in my country it seems extremly hard to find one.
    mari21 mari21
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Mar 22

    I Want To Make Love Already

    Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess
    22-25, F
    30 Responses Nov 5, 2013
    chelsey200214 chelsey200214
    13-15, F
    4 Responses Feb 14

    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7
    22-25, F
    26 Responses Dec 29, 2012

    I'm 23 years old virgin I really want to lose

    my virginity but I want it to be special but at the same time I just want to lose it a soon as I can I can't take much longer I just get horny and ************ doesn't cut it anymore 😞. The downside is that I'm extremely shy bad it hard to go out and meet people because of...
    jen1992 jen1992
    22-25, F
    9 Responses Oct 13, 2015
    edwin8 edwin8
    16-17, M
    Apr 18

    Hi folks! I just joined this group

    and I've already got offers to help me with it! lol I just want to put it out there that I've boyfriend and I love him. We've just decided to wait because we're not ready. Every time he tries I get terrified and back out.
    Judy394 Judy394
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 21
    cente55 cente55
    18-21, M
    Feb 11

    I'm 16 and from Texas.

    I want to lose if but with someone special
    whitneyshaee whitneyshaee
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Nov 19, 2015

    okay so here's the deal.

    I'm 23 and still a virgin. sex has been on my mind everyday ever since high school. there have been times where I almost pulled girls from the bar back to my place but I hesitate and don't close the deal. I feel sad and pissed that I still haven't lost it yet. I have thoughts of...
    seppy2 seppy2
    22-25, M
    4 Responses Feb 15

    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too shy. I'm 18 and have never had a boyfriend or had sex. Maybe it's because I'm a bit of a loner or possibly because I don't connect much with guys my age. But sometimes I just...
    lilliana33 lilliana33
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Oct 28, 2013

    I would love to with someone

    who would teach and be gentle
    brooklynboyd2002 brooklynboyd2002
    26-30, F
    4 Responses Apr 16

    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin
    18-21, F
    14 Responses Jun 7, 2014

    Everyone around me is having sex

    and I feel awkward. Because I've never done it. And people keep talking about it. So I want to have sex with someone. The thing is, I don't know anyone I can lose it to. Not a random guy
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 11, 2015

    I'm 20 from Staffordshire,

    England I need to lose my virginity obviously a woman message me .
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    Mar 16

    35 male tired of waiting,

    looking to lose his virginity to a female preferable a virgin must be 18+
    LonelyMan4 LonelyMan4
    31-35, M
    Mar 12

    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike
    18-21, M
    3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded
    18-21, F
    11 Responses Dec 3, 2014

    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek
    22-25, F
    15 Responses Jun 11, 2013

    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW
    18-21, F
    16 Responses Dec 30, 2012
    IndigoDualist IndigoDualist
    18-21, M
    Feb 15

    Let me start by saying I'm demisexual (it's a

    form of asexuality) but Part of me wants to just lose it to get it over with. The other part thinks I should just wait it out but I don't believe in that finding someone special crap.
    deleted deleted
    26-30
    8 Responses Dec 20, 2015

    any ladies feel the need to loose there

    virginity? .. im not a virgin but virgin ladies is my thing. drop me a inbox ;)
    ukguy070 ukguy070
    26-30, M
    Feb 21
    AB710303 AB710303
    70+, M
    1 Response Mar 1

    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee
    18-21, F
    57 Responses Dec 24, 2013

    Any ladies in Northern KY,

    want to lose their virginity, msg me. Must be at least 18.
    LonelyMan4 LonelyMan4
    31-35, M
    Mar 17

    I am twenty one i live in old greenwich

    connecticut. I want to lose my virginity
    JoeyVampire JoeyVampire
    18-21, M
    Mar 15

    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Mar 28, 2014
    razoreye001 razoreye001
    22-25, M
    Feb 21

    18 M in Vancouver, Canada.

    Doesn't matter if you are virgin as well. Just wanna have a good time :)
    3818919M 3818919M
    18-21, M
    Mar 4

    A 21 year old girl in this world

    who does not like to have sex may have a reason. Many girl say they don't want it for x number of years. Because they want to remain virgins till marriage. But eventually at some age they will have sex. When they start, there is no stopping. My wife was 21, when I got...
    AB710303 AB710303
    70+, M
    Mar 3

    any virgin girls feel free to add me

    before this app leaves :( ki. k : lmay_01 or snap.chat : ukguy070
    ukguy070 ukguy070
    26-30, M
    Mar 29

    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    InternationalSpaceStation InternationalSpaceStation
    18-21, F
    8 Responses Sep 8, 2012

    Any australian girls out there?

    ?? I'm 18 and in Melbourne, just a nice guy looking to trade virginities with a nice girl!
    BoyfromAU BoyfromAU
    18-21, M
    Apr 17

    I am 40 and still a virgin.

    I need to lose it bad. It is bad enough I am considering going to Vegas to a brothel.
    clarktm1275 clarktm1275
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 30
    browndude77 browndude77
    18-21, M
    1 Response Jan 29

    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward
    22-25, F
    24 Responses Apr 16, 2010

    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 20, 2013
    TheMindBlower TheMindBlower
    13-15, M
    1 Response Apr 15

    Do you think that your first time should be

    with someone you love or have been with for a while? Or do you think that it doesn't matter. I've been told that you should lose your virginity to someone you love but I can't really wait. My friend regretted losing hers to a friend that she just wanted to get it over with. I...
    pb98 pb98
    16-17, F
    12 Responses Feb 17

    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

    Need some advice. So I'm 18

    and still a virgin which sucks but a buddy of mine is going to let me **** his gf at a party. My friends told me that it feels way better if you don't use a condom but I'm afraid to ask my buddy if I have to were one because I don't want him to get mad and change his mind. I...
    Rockstarben97 Rockstarben97
    18-21, M
    4 Responses Feb 12

    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose
    18-21, F
    9 Responses Jan 16, 2014
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