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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    I know i am young but i really want to lose it

    but i am so shy. Very shy. I know a few guys but they don't understand i am shy and most boys don't even look at me cause i am ugly and flat chested. I want to lose it so bad, i don't even cause if the guy likes me
    SadAlyssa SadAlyssa 13-15, F 12 Responses Mar 8, 2015

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    A part of me really want to just get it over

    with but there's another part of me saying to wait. It shouldn't be this complicated
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority 18-21, F 8 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    deleted deleted 26-30 18 Responses May 27, 2015

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 7 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    A part of me just wants to get it over with

    and have sex with some guy. But the other half wants to wait for someone special
    DiamondAuthority DiamondAuthority 18-21, F 11 Responses Oct 3, 2015

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 11 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    My name is Anthony and I'm 23yrs.

    I want to lose my virginity to someone that I love. But, I'm just not able to find a girlfriend who will stay with me no matter what I'm going through
    Anthony2400 Anthony2400 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 21

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    The relationship is complicated,

    too much troubles, too much stress, plus i really got some rage caged inside my soul and i feel like my life is passing by and marriage is still a long way to reach... Am not sure anymore about what the hell is going on, will losing my viriginity make me feel better?!
    khaledalqadyy khaledalqadyy 22-25, M 2 Responses Jan 9

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I am 40 and still a virgin.

    I need to lose it bad. It is bad enough I am considering going to Vegas to a brothel.
    clarktm1275 clarktm1275 36-40, M a week ago

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Let me start by saying I'm demisexual (it's a

    form of asexuality) but Part of me wants to just lose it to get it over with. The other part thinks I should just wait it out but I don't believe in that finding someone special crap.
    Shortandsweet1999 Shortandsweet1999 18-21, F 9 Responses Dec 20, 2015

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    InternationalSpaceStation InternationalSpaceStation 18-21, F 9 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    I'm 16 and from Texas.

    I want to lose if but with someone special
    whitneyshaee whitneyshaee 18-21, F 10 Responses Nov 19, 2015

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    Joshreese Joshreese 16-17, M 1 Response Jan 9

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    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jan 27

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    deleted deleted 26-30 Dec 10, 2015

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    I want to make love to a virgin girl I just

    want to connect to one girl that hasn't been there done that I want to be the one to make that one girl feel so special I'm in Wales in UK
    elmo1981 elmo1981 31-35, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 18-21, F 9 Responses Jan 16, 2014

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    incesttalk incesttalk 22-25, M 2 Responses Nov 28, 2015

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    I finally lost mine to a man

    that I love .....a very " big "man at that xD
    KawiiKay KawiiKay 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 23

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I'm 24 from, NYC and turning 25 soon

    and really want to lose my virginity.
    matt12291 matt12291 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 2

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    Want It So Bad

    So, I know people say that their virginity is this special thing and, yeah, maybe it is but honestly, at my age, all I want to do is mount something lol. I want to know what it feels like to have a penis inside me, to do more than just watch people doing it online. I mean, I'm...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 12 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    I am the youngest girl in my grade

    and my friends bully me because I haven't had sex or done anything remotely sexual. (Embarrassing as it is I've never even seen a penis outside a textbook) I wish I was more outgoing and adventurous as my friends but I have a habit of flirting but then being a prude. I want to...
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses Nov 27, 2015

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    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae 18-21, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    Hi any ladies in the uk wanting to loose their

    virginity? ultimate boyfriend experience waiting for you I don't care how big or small you are I don't care about looks either its what's inside that counts I am 34 years old ex ******** so I know how to look after ladies and make them feel she is the only girl in the world and...
    elmo1981 elmo1981 31-35, M Jan 16

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby 18-21, F 14 Responses May 1, 2014

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    browndude77 browndude77 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 29

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    im not a virgin but id love to meet up with a

    lady and help her loose hers... message me if you wanna
    ukguy070 ukguy070 22-25, M 1 Response Jan 6

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    Any lady in Melbourne,

    Australia wanting to do this? Message me....
    melbdad melbdad 51-55, M 5 days ago

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    I want to lose it. At 21

    and 7" I really don't know why I haven't yet.
    Aphroboy Aphroboy 18-21, M 1 Response Dec 21, 2015

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 58 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 22-25, F 18 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 17 Responses Mar 19, 2015

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    john55547 john55547 16-17, M 1 Response Dec 4, 2015

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    Friday is my 25th birthday

    and I really want to lose my virginity. if you are a girl that lives in nyc and is interested message me.
    matt12291 matt12291 22-25, M Jan 16

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    I've been waiting for the right guy forever,

    but now I feel like I've missed my chance. I just want to try it, but I don't wanna just do it with some random guy either. Confused.
    emilyhearts emilyhearts 18-21, F 15 Responses Jul 19, 2015

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    I am a 19 year old male.

    I want to lose my virginity pretty bad lately.
    Tonyalbright4 Tonyalbright4 18-21, M 1 Response Nov 23, 2015

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 4 Responses Apr 17, 2014

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 18-21, F 15 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    i am a sissy looking

    for someone to dress me up and take my virginity
    likeaboss64 likeaboss64 18-21, M 1 Response Jan 27