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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 16-17, F 5 Responses Jan 6

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    I want to lose my virginity to the right girl

    :) hopefully she is on here :)
    goonteam goonteam 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 12

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    I've been pretty ready to do this

    since I was 15 but I didn't want to lose it to someone I wasn't in love with. Now that I am in a solid relationship with someone I am crazy about I don't feel guilty! I think people's virginity is their own business and they should do with it as they please. I for one am...
    awkwardailey awkwardailey 18-21, F 3 Responses Feb 8

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    I am 23 years old virgin.

    . I realy want to lose it but not having any female with whom i could intimate:(
    gill6111 gill6111 18-21, M 1 Response Aug 4

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    I Want To Lose My Virginity.

    I need Advice 😕
    JoanBee JoanBee 18-21, F 11 Responses Jul 6

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    The only person I would loose my virgnity to

    before Marriage is my crush that's it.
    thatonegirl156 thatonegirl156 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 4

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    I'm nineteen and I feel like I'm ready

    emotionally for this, I know I want it to be with someone special but at the same time I know that person isn't necessarily going to be the person I spend the rest of my life with. I just don't know how other girls get boys, I've only ever had 2 guys show any interest, I just...
    marylizz marylizz 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 17

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    I've played with girls

    and had oral sex but I really wanna lose my virginity. I wanna know what sex is like and how amazing it is.
    Rosco05 Rosco05 18-21, M Jul 22

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    I'm bi and have done nothing with

    either sex, but I really want to.. I'm basically always turned on and I become attracted and attached to people really easily....
    JPSmith24 JPSmith24 16-17, M 1 Response a week ago

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    What do guys do the first time

    when they have sex with a virgin
    Monicajrez Monicajrez 18-21, F 12 Responses Feb 7

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    Desperately ... I'm going to usa

    for my post grad next month ... Hopefully I'll loose my virginty soon .
    srinivasmyna srinivasmyna 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 26

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    Randomchick3 Randomchick3 16-17, F 9 Responses Aug 3

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    I don't know when I want to lose it.

    Maybe with a future boyfriend or such. I know most people think sex is a sacred thing and I do aswell. I wanna lose it to someone who cares about me and be gentle. I surely don't wanna go to college a virgin. Most 14 year olds aren't virgins anymore. Maybe in 11th grade. Maybe I...
    MiniMe57 MiniMe57 13-15, F 5 Responses Aug 20

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 10 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    I'm 14 right now... I was just wondering

    if anyone here in the area in Enfield (Female) would maybe want to lose our virginity to each other. Maybe we could be "friends with benefits" :p. I've been told by girls I'm about 7-8/10, but I personally think I'm more like maybe 6, but I dunno. Comment back if you live nearby...
    Alridge Alridge 31-35, M 3 Responses Jul 30

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    laserabe1 laserabe1 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    I've been in a relationship

    for about 6 months, and I've been thinking about going further. My boyfriend and I are both very awkward when it comes to things like that, and we haven't gone any further than making out. I was thinking next time we were making out to go for his zipper and see where it goes...
    pineapples17 pineapples17 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 18

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    I know. You might be thinking "CREEP"

    but I guess all peeps my age wish for this. Besides, Im the only teen Virgin I know. All my friends have lost theirs in their teenage years.
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 2 Responses Jun 30

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    Ima always thinking about sex,

    I'm so horny I fap off more than 3 times a day. All I've been thinking about is sex. I always have wet dreams. Kick is brown_zugar.
    brownzugar brownzugar 16-17, M 2 Responses Jul 14

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 28 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    17looking4sex 17looking4sex 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 10

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    I want to loose my virginity w a guy.

    I've been with girls but I still have this big urge to be w a man. I need to figure out my sexuality. Preferably w an older man. :p
    RecklessXO96 RecklessXO96 18-21, M 2 Responses Aug 4

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    That's all I want at this point,

    I just want to find an attractive girl, so I can get laI'd and be done. I got rejected enough, so, I've kind of given up on love or a relationship, I just want to lose my virginity (at least with an attractive girl). I figured, since girls my age always rejected me, I'll try...
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 5 Responses Jul 13

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    kathrineBelieber kathrineBelieber 13-15, F 18 Responses Mar 15

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    Like, dude, you know dude,

    like, I mean, like, like totally dude, ya know?
    Nix0 Nix0 16-17, M 1 Response Jul 15

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    It sucks, i am brazilian 19 years old

    and I am a virgin all my friends arent idk always when i get close to loose it i just cant i never loved anyone and i am thinking to loose to the first one that shows up idk its been more then 3 years i have been trying to find the one but i think there is something wrong with...
    manunanu manunanu 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 30

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    Ive been with my boyfriend

    for 4 years and for some reason im afraid to have sex... But deep down I want to lose my virginity.
    AirSlice AirSlice 18-21, F 1 Response a week ago

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    I am 18 and tired of waiting!

    Lately I have just been thinking about losing my virginity. I can't find the right girl. I know I am not the most attractive guy. Just want to lose it. I would want to do it with another virgin so that we both could get it over with.
    justdeath96 justdeath96 18-21, M Jul 24

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    Since I was 13 I've been ready.

    But I'm waiting.. Patiently. Im so freaking patient. Lol >.>
    Rosieeeee Rosieeeee 18-21, F 13 Responses Feb 9

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    I Want To Make Love Already

    Tired of waiting n I'm already 20 years young
    deelovess deelovess 18-21, F 31 Responses Nov 5, 2013

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    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby 16-17, F 14 Responses May 1

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    What in the world i'm i waiting for,

    there is no right girl for me.
    EBestest EBestest 18-21, M 3 Responses 6 days ago

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 8 Responses Mar 28

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28

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    Hey... Erm so I'm 17 nearly 18

    and still a virgin... All my mates have done it and I want it! I think it's my hormones that make me want it so bad and rough!
    Jessielovehearts Jessielovehearts 16-17, F 13 Responses Dec 31, 2013

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    At first I wanted to wait to lose my V card

    (when I was around 14) when I got married. Also I had very poor social skills and still to this day don't really know how to talk to girls. Nowdays though I'm not waiting until I am married, I believe that live is short and that people need to have more fun. I respect peoples...
    Vencrion Vencrion 18-21, M Jul 8

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 16-17, F 7 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Want It So Bad

    So, I know people say that their virginity is this special thing and, yeah, maybe it is but honestly, at my age, all I want to do is mount something lol. I want to know what it feels like to have a penis inside me, to do more than just watch people doing it online. I mean, I'm...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 22-25, F 12 Responses Sep 21, 2013

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    Most of my friends lost their virginities at

    age 14. Me? I am 17 and a virgin. I really wanna have $3x
    VinceOfOhio VinceOfOhio 16-17 4 Responses Jul 3

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    I also waited to loose with the right girl .

    ...she lost it to other dudes but I don't care
    Phalguni9 Phalguni9 22-25, M Jul 20

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 16-17, F 18 Responses Jun 7

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    I'm a 19 year old guy

    and the only thing on my mind is sex.. is there any nearby woman that could help me solve this by taking my virginity??
    Alanh19 Alanh19 18-21, M Aug 19

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    No, you don't! Save yourself

    for marriage! Poor, naive, young girls.. 😵
    majesticmaddy majesticmaddy 70+, F 3 Responses Apr 20

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    I want to lose it before I get to college to

    get it out the way... And I'm just tired of being a virgin. I WANT SEX! Lol
    tootaloo tootaloo 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 3

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    I want to lose it so bad

    because my sexual instincts are stronger than normal and there very wolflike. So I feel like I need to mate most or the time. I'm tired of humans looking down on sex as an age thing and judging people on it and putting restrictions on the natural breeding process. That's why...
    ShadowWolf190 ShadowWolf190 13-15, M 2 Responses Jul 25

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    I feel like I'm ready to lose my virginity.

    Plenty of girls my age have already had sex many times and I feel like I'm missing out. I guess I'm just tired of being a virgin
    Karlyrose Karlyrose 16-17, F 11 Responses Jan 16

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    I am 15 now, my birthday was pretty recent,

    and I really want it to happen. Most of my friends have lost theirs and I just want to experience it. Even my most innocent of friends has lost it and feels like it's no big deal. I read all of these stories about other people's firsts on this website and the more I read the...
    silverndemise silverndemise 18-21, F 7 Responses Apr 17

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    I finally have :) Last week.

    And I couldn't have lost it to a better guy :)
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    nothingme nothingme 22-25, F 9 Responses Jul 22

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 72 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 18-21, F 31 Responses Jun 11, 2013