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I Want To Lose My Virginity

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    Its Stupid

    people try to convince you that your supposed to be in love your first time thats bullshyt you have take control of your own sex life on average your first time is going to suck just like the first time you try anything the first time is not that important so I wish people would...
    fun41 fun41 18-21, F 9 Responses Feb 20, 2013

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    28 white male in sd cali,

    need to lose my v card
    fml769 fml769 26-30, M May 20

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    NO I DON'T!🙅 I don't have the urge!

    The time of loosing my v card will come with the right man. 😌😊💕
    allisonslim allisonslim 22-25, F 6 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I'd pay for sex, without much hesitation,

    if I weren't a virgin. There's something that feels regrettable about paying for one's first time, though. Thinking about it, I'm not sure why. It just becomes an annoying psychological block in the way of finally having some fun.
    Nexile90 Nexile90 22-25, M Jun 20

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    When I Am Married

    I want to lose my virginity only when I am married as I am a man of honor, a man of patience and a man of principles. A man that can lift the mountain is strong but a man that can control himself is stronger. A man with big muscles can still be hurt but a man with patience is...
    LoverBoyMike LoverBoyMike 18-21, M 3 Responses Nov 9, 2013

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    AudrinaM AudrinaM 22-25, F 18 Responses May 27

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    Yes...

    I'm 21 in may and I'm still a virgin, don't want to be though. I'm alright looking but as long as they look alright too and are a decent person I wouldn't say no...i'm warm, affectionate, tactile and loving... I think whoever the guy is they're lucky to have Me. But of course...
    Alysh7 Alysh7 18-21, F 28 Responses Dec 29, 2012

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    one thing is that when you Gay

    and there's a bunch of good D's around..... its hard to stay pure and find a good Bf that can satisfy you
    jontony jontony 18-21, M Jun 14

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    I act like a tease but really I'm just nervous.

    Secretly wanting someone to just be aggressive and not ask if we're going to fast. Ah.
    ramonarae ramonarae 16-17, F 4 Responses Nov 6, 2014

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    i cant tell you when i first wanted to have sex

    but i am always i the mood but no girl is ever around to help. i dont expect any to be around because im always on the run or im always working on the farm. what should i do?
    christophzzzs christophzzzs 16-17, M a week ago

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    Anyone in Vancouver or Surrey,

    BC who is also virgin want to lose virginity with me? Pref Surrey.
    MyHighIsEpik MyHighIsEpik 16-17, M Jun 12

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    I want to lose my virginity to a girl.

    I live in Lynnwood wa. I'm 16. Imean the only one in my friends who's still a virgin please help
    Jose000 Jose000 16-17, M 1 Response May 9

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    I'm an 18 year old male,

    and in case it wasn't obvious,I want to lose my virginity. Being a virgin sucks,there are practically no benefits to it whatsoever other than feeling good knowing you held out for that special person I guess,but even that has little value.
    MLPL224 MLPL224 18-21, M 1 Response 3 hrs ago

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    I have never had sex.

    I have dated some good looking men and almost did it too but none of them could remove that last piece of underwear. :-D Looking back, I both do and do not regret it. I do regret it because I wish I could experience it. I do not regret it because I did not trust or respect them...
    2095TwistedTransistor3684 2095TwistedTransistor3684 31-35, F 7 Responses Oct 14, 2014

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    kathrineBelieber kathrineBelieber 13-15, F 17 Responses Mar 15, 2014

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    i want to lose my virginity on my wedding night.

    . I choose to be abstinent till my wedding night for the right one..its special to do so for purity in love..People said i am attractive its impossible no one ever touch me or kissing me..i am not type of nerd or introvert..i am extrovert and have a lot of friends...there is a...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 4 Responses May 19

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    chocolatebabygirl chocolatebabygirl 18-21, F 13 Responses May 30

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    I am a 18 year old boy

    who wants to lose my virginity
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses May 20

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    I'm A Virgin.

    But not with a human. I LIKE CALCULATORS, DAMMIT. I'M objectUM. I DON'T LIKE HUMANS. But my TI-Nspire CX that I call Pierre is sooooo smexy! I love my Pierre ;) And I already have done things to him SEVERAL times!!!
    MathematicallyMindedFractal MathematicallyMindedFractal 18-21, F 10 Responses Sep 8, 2012

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    Can it just fuckking happen already?

    !?!?? Im tired of being a virgin!!!
    PierceTheGreen PierceTheGreen 16-17, F 10 Responses Sep 2, 2014

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    I am 18 and I am going to uni soon

    so I want to lose my virginity before i go. however i am scared of doing this so I dont know how to get over it and just get it over with
    shannonmoore00 shannonmoore00 18-21, F 6 Responses May 23

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    BreezeWytch BreezeWytch 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 10

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    i want to lose my virginity,

    but my parents always tell me to save it until i get married. but having sex with anyone always pop up my mind cause i want to feel it now
    TiffannyBaby TiffannyBaby 18-21, F 13 Responses May 1, 2014

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    I know I'm ready, I just want it to happen sooo

    badly. I'm almost desperate. I'd honestly give it to almost anyone who will step up and take it. I've never craved something so much.
    lilqueenbee lilqueenbee 18-21, F 62 Responses Dec 24, 2013

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    I'm 16 and all the grade 11's at my school

    but me are virgins. I want to find that special girl but I'm starting to think she's not in my city.
    Taylor222222 Taylor222222 16-17, M 2 Responses May 24

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    i want to lose my virginity

    but i dont want it to be some stupid hookup. i want it to be special. i want it to be with someone i love and trust, i just dont know if i'll ever find that person.
    silentsufferingg silentsufferingg 18-21, F 4 Responses Jan 6, 2014

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    im 15 and i really want to lose my my virginity,

    i am tired of being a virgin and wanting sex all the time. im super horny all the time but no one will have sex
    christophzzz christophzzz 16-17, M 2 Responses Jun 3

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    I am not a virgin, but I want to give the

    beautiful gift of deflowering you. I want you to clench the sheets as I finally pop your cherry and make you into a beautiful woman. I will always show kindness and love. Go slow and show you that you have nothing to fear but pleasure. I want to take your virginity and give...
    chess4steven chess4steven 26-30, M 1 Response Jun 10

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    So, for anyone who has read my stories,

    you know that I want an unconventional sort of family in the future. I fully support a nude, sexually open family. I think that a family marriage bed is probably the best thing ever and I love the idea of sexual freedom in the house. That being said, I'm 25 and pure as fresh...
    eraticmoods eraticmoods 26-30, F 5 Responses Sep 7, 2014

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    Right Now

    I'm 17 years old and a virgin. I really don't want to be. I would love to have sex. I want to know what it feels like! I am always, always, always horny. I watch **** but i just doesn't compare to the real thing I'm sure. I like girls and guys so it really doesn't matter to me...
    iloveedward iloveedward 18-21, F 27 Responses Apr 16, 2010

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    Being virgin @23 is very hard.

    ...Wanna loose it ...:p
    Eshan29 Eshan29 22-25 2 Responses Jun 11

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    Southern Cali, Anyone?

    I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm sick of being totally inexperienced. I'm not doing this to impress anyone, or because of peer pressure, or anything as silly as that. I just want to feel wanted and be intimate with someone, ASAP. I'm not exactly attractive, nor am I all that...
    SparrowW SparrowW 18-21, F 16 Responses Dec 30, 2012

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    Please Read This (cross Posted)

    T o begin, I don't really belong here because I'm not a virgin. But I remember what it was like and for me, it was miserable. I'm not posting this with the salesman pitch "Hey, you can get lucky, too!". I'm posting this because I think very broadly about...
    boingofan boingofan 26-30, M 12 Responses Aug 8, 2008

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    Story in comments below.

    .. Pic: my friend Jessica (black bra) and me literally minutes before she lost her virginity.
    deleted deleted 26-30 19 Responses Mar 19

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    I'm so sexually frustrated.

    All the girls in my friend group have at least done something "sexual" with a boy, all i've done is kiss a boy😭
    PB793 PB793 16-17, F 9 Responses Nov 15, 2014

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    Sooner Than Later

    I hope to finally have sex for the first time soon but this has me thinking what first sex is like so if you want to share I would love to hear about it (:
    pipsqeek pipsqeek 22-25, F 20 Responses Jun 11, 2013

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    All my friends talk about sex!

    I'm the only virgin! I want to have a boyfriend/husband! I want him to take me on the table some nights! I want to make love everynight! My biggest fantasy is him coming home one day to me and him picking me up and ripping my clothes off! Who knows hahaha I'll have it one day
    Insecurelove17 Insecurelove17 18-21, F 9 Responses Mar 28, 2014

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    I'm a 15 year old girl

    and I want to lose my virginity. At the beginning of this year I made it a point to lose my virginity before I turned 16. My birthday is in January so I still have a good 6 months and some days left. I just want the whole experience to be done and over with. Just so I know how...
    alanxshby alanxshby 13-15, F 4 Responses Jun 3

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    23 will be 24 in two weeks.

    Not waiting for marriage. I was in a relationship for 3.5 years with zero intimacy.
    deleted deleted 26-30 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    me & my bf are both 16 & virgins we

    both are mature, ready for sex & committed but i feel like its a sin to lose it & i promised my mom i wouldn't lose it until i get out of high school but we don't want to wait, he already is a amazing boyfriend and doesn't mind losing his V to me but i feel like i would...
    xbabybeeovoxo xbabybeeovoxo 16-17, F 3 Responses Jun 14

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    I'm still young and never had sex I'm willing

    to skype just add me tylerfreeman12342
    justinfreeman123 justinfreeman123 18-21, M Jun 8

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    I'm nearly 17 and I'm still a virgin but

    and my parents say to wait for the right person but I'm sick of waiting
    Gymnasterin Gymnasterin 18-21, F 16 Responses Jun 7, 2014

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    I want to lose it before I get to college to

    get it out the way... And I'm just tired of being a virgin. I WANT SEX! Lol
    tootaloo tootaloo 18-21, F 10 Responses Aug 3, 2014

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    Ive been with my boyfriend

    for 2 months and i feel so connected and close with him, ive been very intimate with him but i think i want to lose my virginty to him. Im not sure if i will regret it but i really want to as i think hes right for me
    katieirvine katieirvine 16-17, F 1 Response Jun 11

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    Honestly i'm at the point

    where i want to get it over with. I'm 18 and really overweight. Everyone around me has already lost it and i don't want to lose it just because of that but i want to do it for me. I'm working on losing weight but it's not something that will happen overnight. It's so frustrating...
    g13xx g13xx 18-21, F 14 Responses Jun 11

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    I'm such a virgin I've never

    even seen a naked man except in pictures, I've never touched one(not even through clothes), I was touched once but other than that I'm clean. I really want to change that ;)
    Loveded Loveded 18-21, F 12 Responses Dec 3, 2014

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    Want To Give It Away

    I've been interested in sex from a pretty young age. However I never communicated it and was always too