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I Want to Love Like I Have Never Been Hurt

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    Searching For Some Answers.

    I have been hurt many, many times before as well as I have hurt many people.  I am not searching for the answer for myself.  I have learn a lot of ways to embrace the hurt and to heal from it.  I am in search to help my sister out.  She has been deeply hurt by a man a couple...
    llady99 llady99 36-40, F 6 Responses May 25, 2011

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    I Want To Smile Again...because I Love

    I have known what it is to Love and how it makes me Smile all the time......until Hurt comes like a thief in the night...stole something essential for my happiness....and now it left me bruised and badly hurt....someone came into my life...and offered his heart .....  but how...
    Satinne Satinne 36-40, F 7 Responses Jun 19, 2011

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    I Want To, But I Can't

    The love I have for this man is unconditional. It is overpowering at times. There is nothing I wouldn't do for him to ensure that he is happy. But... I have been hurt. Badly, and he knows that. Sometimes I can feel it creep up on me, and I just... withdraw. I want to love like I...
    IronLotus IronLotus 18-21, F 1 Response Jan 8, 2012

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    Nice

    How wonderful it would be to forget that pain of loves past.  I think I try to do that but time and time again the women in my life point out that they are not the same as the women from my past so I don't have to react in the ways I do at times, It sucks...
    r161616 r161616 41-45, M 10 Responses Nov 30, 2009

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    But I Can't

    How can I love like that when I know what it's like to be hurt so badly that I just wanted to curl up in a ball and die? How can I set myself up to be hurt like that again? If I knew there was no risk, I would. But the reminder of the pain I endured makes me cautious and...
    Veronica4 Veronica4 18-21, F 1 Response Jun 3, 2011

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    To wake up and look at him with a smile on my

    face as he kisses my lips ever so gently. Making love while the sun barely peaks through the blinds. Cooking him breakfast while he reads the newspaper and sips his coffee. Spending the day together strolling through the park. We can't keep our eyes off each other, nor our hands...
    Ariannabella Ariannabella 31-35, F 1 Response Mar 10

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    What Is Love Like You've Never Been Hurt?

    A fairytale!!!!!!  There's no such thing.  Love isn't only of dreams we've been brainwashed to believe.
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Mar 1, 2009

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    I Do... But I Don't.

    While I do fantasize about having that feeling again, I would never trade the experiences I have had (some good, some ******) that have made me the person I am today. Though, there are days I wish I could go back to that feeling.
    sirusnsnapelove sirusnsnapelove 26-30 Jun 27, 2012

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    Love And Never Hurt

    Love is what I'm trying to give away even if people hurt me or has hurt me.  I don't know if people notices it or not or get the message. 
    Whateverrrrr Whateverrrrr 36-40, F Aug 4, 2011

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    I Think It's An Attitude You Develop When You Get Older...

    ... not just with age but with every chance you take at finding love you become more resilient against pain. It's inevitable to find love without pain. A lot of us fear it. After each upsetting break up, you can reinvent yourself and change up the kind of people you fall in...
    misselodie misselodie 22-25, F Apr 19, 2012

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    Real Life Night-tale

    I haven't been really in a real relationship before, but sometimes I want to be in one. Its just that I am kind of afraid that I might be hurt and never be the same again. I still believe in fairytales, still believe that my knight in the shining armor will soon come, and still...
    sunsetglow sunsetglow 18-21, F Sep 9, 2010

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    Second Time Around

    How I wish I could do this.  It would be amazing to fall in love and give it my all like I did before to someone that actually deserves it and cherishes it.
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response Jun 5, 2010

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    I Know You May Disagree ...

    Many people will say, 'We can never truly love or be love unless we have at one time lost.' But what if we could? If this is MY experience, even if I placed this as a goal, I could shape it, nurture it, and build it into something that could resemble this...
    MizzBlue72 MizzBlue72 36-40, F 7 Responses Feb 22, 2009

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    Is That So Bad?

    I want to love like I've never loved before. I want to be with someone as if I'd never been with anyone. Why is that bad? Why am I judged so harshly for "falling" quickly? How do you know it's not real? Just because I don't follow your timetable, how can you assume that...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Mar 25, 2009

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    Like I'd Never Been

    I love to know the feeling like I'd never memorized it. To start fresh like it was never ended and I never felt defeated. Let it grow from a seed to a tree of a mighty foliage like it was never destroyed and chopped into pieces. Be mine like no one had ever owned my heart before...
    4BlackForest 4BlackForest 36-40, F 1 Response Jul 12, 2011

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    After Death?

    I've been hurt million times, million millions in fact.
    Thought1 Thought1 22-25 Oct 18, 2009

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    Hurt So Much

    I have been hurt so much in my life. I wish I could leave all my past hurts and "baggage" and love like I've never been hurt. But I really do not know if that is possible. From all the pain and hurt has come trust issues, self doubt, guilt, low self esteem, depression, etc...
    HazelEyedGurl HazelEyedGurl 31-35, F Oct 15, 2010

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    Related Experiences

    I am 29 years old and have never been in a relationship. Which means yes, I have no experience in the sack. Is that such a bad thing? It seems like these days men and women only...
    bakkenguy bakkenguy 26-30, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Almost everyone in my school has been kissed and they ask me if I have and I tell them no. I am happy that I can say that. I tell them that I want to wait til I'm older. Like if...
    ilovemrfitz ilovemrfitz 13-15, F Jul 21

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    well , im still 13 so yea, but i have never been kissed before on the lips on neck ( i got kissed on my hand today, but he was only 6 lol) i plan to be kissed when i get wedded but...
    nekokitty13 nekokitty13 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 8

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    I'm 17 (turning 18) and I have never been in a relationship. Nor have I ever been asked out. I always had problems talking to guys. I'm just too awkward. The majority of guys where...
    DayFawn DayFawn 16-17, F a week ago

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    I have always liked someone, or even had love for them, but I have never been in love. The idea seems so foreign to me
    adobson5194 adobson5194 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 1

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    I have never been kissed before and I really, really want to know what it's like.
    Scax Scax 16-17, F 2 Responses a week ago

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    I am 17 years old, and i have never been legitimately kissed. I know, i know i am a horrible person, but hey! i am okay with that. I would rather make my first kiss special, with...
    emptyspaces009 emptyspaces009 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 31

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    I'm this type of girl that would tell you I have never been kissed, but I don't really mind that much about how long it will take for my first one to happen.
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F 2 Responses Aug 11

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    For so long I have been hurt or jealous by seeing other people in love. I would even judge them. I'd see people covered in piercings and tattoos and think if they can find a mate...
    rawvegan rawvegan 26-30, F 2 Responses 3 hrs ago

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    Do guys care if the girl is "inexperienced" per se in relationships. It's not like I'm dumb about things, I've just never had a serious relationship before. Is it a turn off for...
    emelon12 emelon12 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 2

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    I never even knew what do people basically feels when they are in love. Like i always like someone, i don't know what love would be. Whenever i expressed my feelings for someone...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M Aug 7

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    Lol, woot woot. Club never been kissed, who's with me? XD
    ZeeBrah ZeeBrah 16-17, F 3 Responses Jul 20

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    "Im 10 11 12 13 14...etc.. never been kissed, forever alone" Okay Guys Okay <3
    daneean daneean 18-21, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    Nope, never been kissed. I'm not quite sure how I feel about that.
    lillylolz lillylolz 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 10

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    Nope never been in a relationship. It doesn't bother me at all because my priorities has always been academics and my friends and family. I need to work hard for myself first and...
    Liv4Life Liv4Life 18-21, F 15 Responses a week ago

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    I'm in the closet so I've never been in a relationship or on a date
    shawow057 shawow057 13-15, F 5 days ago

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    Never been in a relationship and I'm 18. Maybe because I don't have the body guys don't like me or maybe because I can talk back..
    ki2su ki2su 18-21, F 1 Response 1 day ago

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    I have a boyfriend... But I never have really been taken out to the movies or had a nice dinner with him. I hung out a lot at my house, but would you call that a date? Cause I don...
    anonymouschicky anonymouschicky 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    It's kind of wierd all of my friends are starting too and it's not like I necessarily like I want to be in one. I want to wait until i find the right guy but some of my friends are...
    depthisyourfriend depthisyourfriend 13-15, F 2 Responses 13 hrs ago

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    I want to love him... But he wasn't there. Happy moment just lasted for a few dates. Making me feeling myself not good enough. There were many nights that I cried alone. Hoping...
    maplegirl maplegirl 26-30, F 7 hrs ago

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    Why did he kiss me!? It was out of nowhere and it just happened so fast! In a blink of an eye his lips were on mine, they were soft and plush but I'm not attracted to him it that...
    XxbixtchybellaxX XxbixtchybellaxX 13-15, F 6 days ago

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    My wife an I are looking to have a 3 done. We have no idea how to start out. We are looking for a girl for fmf. Want to step up to the plate?
    strange111 strange111 36-40, M 1 Response 15 hrs ago

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    The only time I ever bumped lips with someone, which in my opinion doesn't count as kissing, was when I was 12 for a dare and I didn't even feel it (thankfully). I don't really...
    Sasha0827 Sasha0827 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 31

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    I am a tom boy that love comics, video games, and american football. I'm very open minded to any sports though. I am just now getting into football(soccer). I just don't have any...
    geminiqueen94 geminiqueen94 18-21, F Jul 23

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    I almost went Sunday. I had been stuck behind this semi on 331 in lower Alabama for quite a while. Every time the road added a passing lane, he would stay in the left lane, not...
    System113 System113 18-21, M Jul 24

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    I know i'm not beautiful or cute as all of other guys but i'm still human and i think every human needs to be loved and to feel wanted but it's really hard nowadays to feel loved...
    mahdiraza mahdiraza 16-17, M 1 Response 2 days ago

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    And will never be. I hide from people. I locked my heart. There's no keys to it. No one can come near me. I push everyone away. I am the only person on earth who can't be loved...
    fuglygirlonthebench fuglygirlonthebench 18-21, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I can't fall in love with someone because I'm serious about relationships and I don't want someone who just taking what we have as a joke and just playing around with my feelings.
    juanitaalovee juanitaalovee 13-15, F 23 hrs ago

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    I've never actually had a first kiss but I'm only 14 so I guess it'll happen though I doubt it.
    HaddyT HaddyT 13-15, F Jul 20

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    I find it really sad that I'm 14 and I never kissed a girl
    dominick5 dominick5 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 20

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    I have this big group of friends, and it was me and my friend who hadn't been kissed. Everyone else in the group had. Then my friend got a boyfriend. So now I'm the only one who...
    jordins22 jordins22 16-17, F 2 Responses Jul 21

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    a lot of my friends trust me with their secrets so they often tell me that they are in love.i smile at them.what fools there is no such thing as love.Agree??
    hilalkhan hilalkhan 13-15, M 1 Response Jul 23