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I Want to Marry My Soldier

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    I need advice. Here is some background

    knowledge: my boyfriend and I have been together for two years we have know from the start that we were meant to spend the rest of our lives together. He left for Basic training about a month and a half ago, with all the distance we have decided we want to get married as soon as...
    Paigebrianne0 Paigebrianne0 16-17, F 7 Responses Aug 3

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    Planning On Getting Married!

    My solider was home for 10 days for Christmas and while he was here we talked about getting married again. We hadn't talked about it since he left for BCT so neither one of us really knew what was going on with that. So while he was here we talked about it again and on Christmas...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F Dec 28, 2012

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    I Love Him!!! ≪3

    I'm in love with my soldier. head over heels, butterflies in stomach in love.I liked him ever since i was 13. i told my self then " I'm going going to marry this kid." i know little girl's fantasy but I've realized that dreams can come true. He finally asked me out after he...
    texaswildfliwer texaswildfliwer 18-21, F Apr 11, 2013

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    Dave Proposed Last June, I Said Yes!

    I can't wait for the day i will marry Dave..... We've been through difficult times and that made our relationship strong. I'm proud to be Mrs. Hudson in the future. After the proposal his mom called to congratulate me. She said she can't wait to have me as part of their family...
    meymey12 meymey12 26-30, F Aug 3, 2011

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    Soldiers Angel

    Hi guys im new to this particular group but i am also involved in others. I met daniel almost four months ago and we have been dating for three months now, just so happened to meet him online and find out the guy i was dating at the time was his roommate so i got to know him and...
    armympgirlfriend armympgirlfriend 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 2, 2010

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    Visit From My Solider

    Friday my mom called me and sounded very distraught and distracted but had asked me to accompany her to Detroit to pick up our a family member from the airport. So reading her, i agreed to go. When we got to the airport she went inside and then came back with "our cousin" who was...
    Colea19 Colea19 18-21, F Nov 12, 2012

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    Parents Not So Supportive....

    Ok... as of right now my boyfriend is in Army BCT until the end of November... less than a month so yay! LOL! However, he mentioned a topic before he left that made my head spin. He wanted to get married. He did not actually propose... but because of my previous experiences in...
    Angie0618 Angie0618 18-21, F 1 Response Oct 30, 2012

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    Is This Too Good To Be True?

    Ok... I need to ask you all a question (mainly the girls :-)! My boyfriend is in basic training now... and I am still waiting for his first phone call. He is the guy of my dreams, and I love him more than anything in this world. When I say we have been through a lot... I am not...
    Angie0618 Angie0618 18-21, F 5 Responses Sep 20, 2012

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    Words Can't Express My Feelings

    My boyfriend is in the Army. This is obviously a long distance relationship. But this weekend is the first weekend that I'm not able to communicate with him at all. We can't Skype, talk on the phone or even text. He is going to be able to talk again tomorrow and I am really...
    kiki93luv kiki93luv 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 12, 2013

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    Definitely

    I Love my solider so much!!! I used to want that big fairytale wedding as of now. When me and my solider got together a lot if things changed for me. 1st I've never thought I would be with anyone I'm the military. It just always seemed to scary and too much for me handle...
    MyBunnie MyBunnie 22-25, F Oct 26, 2012

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    I Finally Calmed Down.

    It's taken me a while to write this for the simple fact that every time I think about it I tear up. I got word the other day that my boyfriend will be one of the many who will be sent over seas after he is done with his AIT training. It's been killing me to know that he still...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F 1 Response Feb 23, 2013

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    Wanting To Get Married

    My Solider and I have been together for about 4 and a half years and we want to get married. Before she left I said that I wanted to wait til she finished her 4 years of active duty to get married. That way she'd be around to help plan the wedding and she'll be around after. She...
    Colea19 Colea19 18-21, F Nov 12, 2012

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    Officially got engaged yesterday to my airman.

    So happy and excited he is home, even though it's not for long. Gosh it's so surreal
    p3nnsgirl27 p3nnsgirl27 18-21, F Aug 6

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    Am I Married Yet?

    Before Kevin left he bought me a promise ring, since he's been gone he's told me that he appreciates me so much more, cannot wait to make me his wife because if we can get through these months being away from each other and be just as great as we were before when we see each...
    MPo189 MPo189 16-17, F Sep 15, 2012

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    Marrying My Soldier??

    My soldier and i have been together for 4 years now. I'm currently 18 years old, and he is almost 21. He is stationed in Bamberg, Germany and will be there for another 2 years. I really want to marry him and move over there but i feel like im too young. I feel like he is the...
    MissingmySolider MissingmySolider 18-21 8 Responses Oct 27, 2011

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    Lmfaoo! Guys crazy **** ever just happened to

    me. So quick update, my boyfriend has gotten significantly better at talking to me almost everyday and things have gotten way better since the last time I posted. My BF and I were talking about marriage and tattoos and he then asked me "Are you ready for marriage" and my heart...
    cartersantos cartersantos 18-21, F 1 Response May 19

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    First Army Outing!

    Well about two weeks ago I went with my Soldier and some of the other men and women that are in the "Future Soldiers" program to the "Spirit Of America" show that was here. It was amazing to say the least. I was not only even more proud to be an american and apart of this amazing...
    KoukiKat4 KoukiKat4 16-17, F 2 Responses Oct 3, 2011

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    portiafay portiafay 16-17, F 4 Responses Jul 23

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    Rushing?

    So my bf is currently in ait at fort gordon and is finishing in september. He recently told me to go get measured so he can get the ring... and from there on we started planning. Even though we dnt have the rings yet.. we set the date to october 1 this year. IS THAT TOO SOON...
    Niishkami Niishkami 18-21, F 10 Responses Jun 1, 2011

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    Me and my boyfriend went shopping

    for rings today and found the absolute perfect set 😁😁 though marriage may not come for a couple of more years, it feels good to know that we're working on taking that next step. It just sucks that everyone is jumping to conclusions about us getting married at our age and...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 27

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    So You Guys Are Talking About Getting Married.....

    1. People have been telling you you're young and that is the LAST thing you want to hear. Just because you're young doesn't mean you're naive or foolish in love or too "young" to make decisions right?! Well ladies, This isn't the purpose behind this statement. Many people say...
    Niishkami Niishkami 18-21, F Apr 10, 2012

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    Kinda Flipped..

    Well, I am the soldier in my relationship, but I'm getting married in a few weeks. I love that all of you are so supportive of your soldier, because too many of us get cheated on during basic training (boot camp) that if we can find a devoted girl or guy, it makes everything less...
    deleted deleted 26-30 Apr 30, 2012

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    I absolutely cannot wait to be engaged to Colby.

    And then married. I want it all with him.
    edwardsbk edwardsbk 18-21, F May 28

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    :/ I Need Advice

    So my mom just told me she hated me.... I feel so alone more than ever.... We was arguing about something so small and I was so mad that I told her dont worry u wont have to worry about me I told her I wanted to get married and move with my marine and we was planning later on I...
    Osiris5694 Osiris5694 18-21, F 2 Responses Sep 6, 2013

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    I'm Poppin' The Question!!

    Talk about flipping the script, huh? It is a pretty bold move when a woman proposes to her soldier .Well I feel that I have the perfect opportunity now, judging from my last story ("What Is He Waiting For!?"). So, as stated in my last story, I mentioned that my soldier would be...
    nishanicole1090 nishanicole1090 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 16, 2011

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    2 More Weeks ... Any Advice?...Wish Me Luck

    2 more weeks til I see my fiancé with all that's going on I hope things so well. We stopped fighting for like 3 weeks I stopped talking to the other guy , and I'm stressed out with college work and cheerleading.... So I need this break We plan on talking about what we need to...
    Osiris5694 Osiris5694 18-21, F Oct 31, 2013

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    A Song "from All The Army Girls"

    I wrote this song a few days ago.  It has a country/pop sound.  Kinda like Taylor Swift.  Let me know what you think please!!From All the Army GirlsLyrics by: Jeslyn This is a storyFrom all the Army girlsSingin to their soldiers,“Just came home to me.” I miss you...
    singinjes singinjes 18-21, F 2 Responses Apr 20, 2011

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    Ready For The Next Step When He Gets Home

    So my boyfriend is currently serving in Afghanistan, and while it's been difficult our relationship has really grown during this time. We had been dating for two and a half years before he left, and by the time he gets back we'll be on three and change. And I'm ready for the...
    tjschira tjschira 22-25 Dec 9, 2012

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    My soldier makes me the happiest I've ever been.

    I've stood by his side for 7 years and I'm not going anywhere. I cannot wait for the day we say I do, I love my soldier. <3
    cartersantos cartersantos 18-21, F 1 Response Apr 27

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    Issues

    Why is it that after your boyfriend deploys everyone thinks it all of a sudden makes you "single" or you can do things and they wont find out what happened while their gone? ever since daniel left my ex has been trying to weasel his way back into my life, he was the controlling...
    armympgirlfriend armympgirlfriend 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    What To Get My Boyfriend For Graduation

    I need help on ideas of something to get Ty for when he graduates boot camp. im going to charolette this weekend and going to the big mall over there so i thought i could get him something while I am there. I just have no idea what to get him. Any ideas?
    CowgirlUp92 CowgirlUp92 18-21, F Oct 26, 2011

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    My One And Only

    So before my boyfriend headed off to Boot camp we had talked about Marriage. We have been together for almost 5 years and we are doing this distance thing to make sure we can make it. It's weird when people ask me what we are gonna do when he gets back cause all I can say is "we...
    alwaysnforevertk alwaysnforevertk 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 6, 2013

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    He Knows I Want To Marry Him...

    We met late February/early March of 2009, I was just fooling around.  Met him at a Ren Faire (Faire Fling, I was thinking).  I was completely jaded to love to the point I would ask my roommate at the time how bad it would be if I had lost the ability to love at all...
    InLoveWithMrWonderful InLoveWithMrWonderful 26-30, F 3 Responses Jun 27, 2010

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    Update!

    My boyfriend and I were planning on getting married in March when he comes to visit me for my birthday and then we were planning on me moving back to Fort Sill with him in May. But now plans have changed in the blink of an eye like they always do in the military and now he just...
    iFellinLoveWithASoldier iFellinLoveWithASoldier 18-21, F 2 Responses Jan 30, 2013

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    Ready To Marry My Soldier

      Me and my bf have been together for 4 years since February 27th.  We plan on getting married within the next two year.  Our relationship couldn't be better.  We plan on getting married after his deployment this year...I'm super excited.
    jdparks jdparks 18-21, F 3 Responses Apr 11, 2011

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    A Wee Bit Confused

    So I went to my boyfriends graduation last week and while everyone was introducing their gfs as girlfriends he kept calling me his fiancé he introduced me to his TI and said I'm his fiancé but he's never asked me to marry him but he tells everyone we are engaged everyone is...
    ILoveAirmanPiechowski2011 ILoveAirmanPiechowski2011 22-25, F Oct 5, 2012

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    Peace, Love & Combat Boots!

    If anyone is looking to be an admin to a facebook military support page, please come by and fill out the application. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Peace-Love-Combat-Boots/304506446257479
    kbiard kbiard 18-21, F Dec 28, 2012

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    Miss Him

    I can't wait till Ryan's home , he's not even a month into bootcamp , but I miss him so bad my love for him as grown so much since he's been gone . I see myself marrying this man ! I just don't know how he'd feel about it since we're only 18
    Shannpfeiler Shannpfeiler 18-21, F 5 Responses Aug 13, 2013

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    Does Age Really Matter?

    My boyfriend and I have been together for a while. (We haven't reached the year mark, though I don't care about that either.) Right now he's in basic training at fort jackson and getting married seems to be the basic topic in most of our letters. I love him so much and I can...
    Niishkami Niishkami 18-21, F 5 Responses May 4, 2011

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    How Do You Plan To Marry Your Soldier???!!

    DLGMORRIS95!!! I was actually writing this on your board because you alwayss give out good advice lol...but I ran out of room lol && then I figured why not see how everyone else had/has their plans to loool... OK SO ANYWHO... I know there are alot of newly soon-to-be wives or...
    purplelily13 purplelily13 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 17, 2012

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    Not A Happy Thanksgiving This Year

    Hey Girls! I just thought that i would share how my first thanksgiving without my boyfriend went. In all truth, i did not have that much fun as much as my friends did. It was very sad to go through it alone. I tried to like talk to my friends about how its not easy being away...
    kseniyasamsonik kseniyasamsonik 16-17, F Nov 25, 2011

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    Lets Wait He Says..

    me and my solider have been together for a year and half. we are in love.. he is deploying for a year in afgan... in august.. i really want to marry him i want him to ask me the ? so so bad.. we have had the talk many times over about it he befor he went to boot camp during and...
    soldiersgirl33 soldiersgirl33 18-21, F 2 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Question About Housing

    If my soldier is already stationed somewhere and we want To get married courthouse. How long will it take for us To get a house on base? What process do we have to go through ?
    dlgmorris95 dlgmorris95 18-21 1 Response Nov 13, 2012

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    I Am No Longer An Army Gf...

    I am soooo happy to say I am no longer an Army GF!  My soldier proposed Saturday night with the most beautiful ring I have EVER seen!  We have yet to tell our families about our new adventure but i'm sure when we do I will have a WONDERFUL story to tell!  Good luck...
    Trinsamazinmommy Trinsamazinmommy 18-21, F 3 Responses Jul 26, 2010

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    I'm Engaged!!

    AHHH! I'm officially engaged, and I'm so excited! For those of you who have read my other stories: I told my mom today and she didn't act like I expected her to. There were no awkward speeches, and she's actually happy for my soldier and I! What a relief, lol.
    alwaysForLove alwaysForLove 18-21, F 4 Responses Jul 21, 2010

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    Valentines Day

    Hey girls i know alot of you were looking for ideas, daniels currently deployed but i thought id throw a few ideas your way: Cookies with chocolate hearts in the center (turned out super cute)Scrapbook of picturesBinder of conversations, from when we first started talking...
    armympgirlfriend armympgirlfriend 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 2, 2010

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    Army Fiance <3

    my fiance was at fort benning georgia for basic ttraining,, and now is doing his AIT at fort leonrdwood missouri. basic training was so hard but it made our relationship stronger and happier,, he is changed so much. going to see his graduation was the best part. i was so proud of...
    jackie99 jackie99 16-17, F 1 Response May 25, 2010

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    So Relieved!

    So it ended up being true. I got my wish! My boyfriend will be staying "close" to home (4 hours away) and won't be traveling half way around the world. I honestly thank God for this because it could have been bad. He's only going to be in New York at Fort Drum and I couldn't be a...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F 1 Response Mar 19, 2013

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    So this week my boyfriend

    and I decided to make things official and we are now engaged 😁😊 I couldn't be any happier but now we have the dilemma of having a traditional wedding or getting married in a courthouse. Well he has his mind set on a tradition one, while I am stuck between the two. I have...
    briawyatt briawyatt 18-21, F 2 Responses May 2

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    Hey Everyone!

    My name is Veronica and I'm 20 years old. I'm a college student studying Early Childhood Development and I can't wait to further my career! As most of you can see, I'm also a proud United States Army Girlfriend and I can't imagine my life without him. We've been best friends...
    VCA1993 VCA1993 18-21, F Feb 12, 2013

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