I Want To Meet Dominants For Friendship And Guidance

Personal Stories, Advice, and Support 625 People

    I'm not the "FiftyShades" kind of woman.

    She seemed so indecisive and insecure. Hopefully those are not the qualities that are needed to be successfully submissive.
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    3 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    I am a dominant that enjoys sharing

    and discussing the lifestyle with subs. I have knowledge and dont mind sharing or just chatting about similiar things
    Kman4You Kman4You
    36-40, M
    5 Responses Mar 15, 2015

    I disobeyed my dominant.

    . My Dom does not live with me and he always struggles to punish me if I play up and he's not with me. My Dom wants me to ask everyone for punishment ideas that can be taken even though he isn't with me in person. He has assured me I will be restrained and spanked thoroughly...
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    Nov 4, 2015

    I was wondering if any one has any ideas

    for relaxing a sub that has more trouble. from a dom or subs perspective. I used to submit without issue but lately I have had so much trouble relaxing with my sir that I can't quite submit without being extremely on edge. just curious if any one had any ideas I could try.
    oceansix oceansix
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 5, 2015
    novicekitty novicekitty
    41-45, F
    4 Responses Dec 20, 2014

    I am very curious about a dom / sub

    relationship but am to shy to try anything. any doms wanna give advice? thank you
    shybookworm29 shybookworm29
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Nov 15, 2015

    I've recently met a dominant

    that has been giving me a lot of guidance as a new sub. I'm very thankful for him.
    Rihe Rihe
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 23, 2015

    Is there no real Doms on here to just talk to?

    I don't want a Dom, but I would like to meet and actually talk to a real one sometime. I had a real one, I miss him. Does no one have experience and know proper etiquette that I can talk to? :( Sometimes you just need friendship.
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    2 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I'm an experienced dominant.

    .. What are your questions?
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Dec 28, 2015

    New to being a submissive

    and would love to chat to a Dominant about what they expect from a submissive and general advice as my Dominant hasn't been one for long.
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    1 Response Nov 3, 2015

    I'm completely inexperienced

    but the idea of submission really appeals to me. Any advice or even an intro would be great.
    CurvyQueen41421 CurvyQueen41421
    22-25, F
    1 Response Jun 2, 2015
    awhitecloud awhitecloud
    56-60, F
    Apr 12, 2016
    smolbabygirl smolbabygirl
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Dec 26, 2015

    Im a sub that is looking

    for a dom! Feel free to message me on here or kik- caris_lainey
    carislainey97 carislainey97
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Dec 27, 2015
    Christuner666 Christuner666
    31-35, M
    Mar 28, 2016

    I have been a Domina

    for a few years. I am NOT looking for new submissives but am very willing to answer any question you may have on these and related matters. Maybe I can offer some guidance to those who need it. I freely talk about my experiences but I do NOT engage in any form of "dirty" chat...
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    6 Responses May 12, 2015

    I'm a naturally shy person.

    I like letting others take control. I freak out when I have to make decisions. sometimes I want to give people all the control. I think I'm submissive, but I'm not sure ... I really would love help and guidance.
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    3 Responses Oct 28, 2015
    Sami1976 Sami1976
    36-40, M
    Dec 12, 2015

    I have a kinda sensitive subject question can

    someone Message me please ty.
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    4 Responses Nov 10, 2015

    One day on ep and I met someone I think might

    be special. How does that happen? He seems to be able to read my mind. I am a little afraid of how I feel. He wants to "train" me....
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    2 Responses Sep 7, 2015

    Dom in training here,

    anyone want to exchange stories or just be friends?
    ZDom ZDom
    1 Response Jan 23, 2016

    Send me a message, introduce yourself

    and I will see if I can offer you some guidance and advice. read my profile and experiences.
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    1 Response Dec 29, 2015

    my Master and i are new to the lifestyle.

    i have been a part of it longer than Him but we both need some guidance. Could someone help Us/us please??
    roguelustxxx roguelustxxx
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Feb 7, 2015

    I love a dominant man.

    .. Not like totally sexual but more just confident and cocky and like.. He walks in the room and tells you to lick the floor and you just fear me enough that you just drop down and do it without thinking about it
    KittyLannister KittyLannister
    16-17, F
    1 Response Jan 28, 2016

    I was mistakenly submissive in many failed

    relationships. I found myself as a Ma'am with my loyal pet and things began to make sense for me finally. I will happily answer any questions regarding my relationship. You can ask me anything despite your age, gender, sexuality, level of experience, etc and I will not judge you...
    MissPandpet MissPandpet
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Jun 10, 2015

    I'm looking for a dominant woman.

    Someone who can tell me what they want me to do. Take pics send vids etc. age isn't an issue, if you're into this let me know.
    TexasBiGuy85 TexasBiGuy85
    31-35, M
    Nov 11, 2015

    I am looking for a dominant lady to chat ,

    have friendship or /and real fun , any lady interested ? I am single , live in London . Cheers. Sami
    Sami1976 Sami1976
    36-40, M
    Nov 17, 2015

    Hullo, I am a Dom. I am

    rather young but I really enjoy the BDSM scene. was wondering if anyone wanted to exchange stories or ideas. My sub is away for schooling, but he comes back in about 4 months and I want to get some new ideas for him.
    ZDom ZDom
    Dec 30, 2015

    I want to experience being with a dominant

    person hmu please I have a few questions too
    Desi4lf Desi4lf
    22-25, F
    2 Responses May 27, 2015

    I'd love to meet a dominant lady ,

    into chat or even meet if you are in England , any around ? I am open minded down to earth and like to explore my submissive side
    Sami1976 Sami1976
    36-40, M
    1 Response Jan 27, 2016
    Clairebear31 Clairebear31
    36-40, F
    6 Responses Dec 27, 2015

    Am a submassive young lady.

    am looking for a dominant to chat with and may be more.
    blackgirl2000 blackgirl2000
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Nov 30, 2015

    I'm not looking for a Dom.

    I am putting it out there that if you are a submissive, or a prospective submissive interested in pursuing the lifestyle, I can help you learn how to go about doing so in a safe and sane manner and i will not hit on you.
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    5 Responses Mar 11, 2015
    domslaveboy domslaveboy
    22-25, M
    Feb 9, 2016

    Hello. I am new to ep.

    ^^ I am honestly thrilled that there is a group such as this. For 4 years, I have done my research on BDSM and its lifestyle yet I still have a lot to learn. If anyone can help recommend me websites where I can do more reading and research, it would be really helpful...
    trashakillevierra trashakillevierra
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Oct 5, 2015

    Looking to talk to an experienced female dom

    for guidance, message me if you feel that's you snd your willing to talk honestly
    BurningVeritas BurningVeritas
    31-35, F
    Mar 6, 2016

    I am looking for other Dominants with the

    permission of my Master for discussion and friendship. I am not looking for an online Master as I only belong to my "Sir"
    247slave4u 247slave4u
    36-40, F
    Mar 4, 2014

    Are there any dominant men

    who would like to chat? 😃
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    4 Responses Dec 1, 2015

    are there any Doms who can guide me

    and answer my questions, i think I'm sub but i often get this urge to take control, can someone please help me?
    Vampyr3Princ3ss Vampyr3Princ3ss
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Aug 22, 2015

    I'd love for someone

    who would like to teach me how to be a great little sub (:
    p0pnk p0pnk
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Mar 19, 2016
    BurningVeritas BurningVeritas
    31-35, F
    1 Response Feb 24, 2016

    Any dominant lady into chat

    or friendship if you are in England ?
    Sami1976 Sami1976
    36-40, M
    Mar 2, 2016

    I am looking for knowledgeable Dom's to get

    practical lifestyle advice from to help me to learn from my previous career as a failed submissive. Guidance would be sorely appreciated from thoughtful, sane and experienced Dominants.
    Sophrosynefire Sophrosynefire
    31-35, F
    1 Response Oct 18, 2014

    I'm a lesbian Dominant.

    .looking for that special gem of a submissive
    DominantStud DominantStud
    31-35, F
    1 Response Sep 10, 2015

    I recently met a Dom here.

    He seemed genuine until he started asking me for revealing pictures after a day of getting to know each other. And I believe he blocked me right after I refused. I should have listened to my gut instead of trusting him. It really sucks..
    Jeax Jeax
    26-30, F
    6 Responses Feb 8, 2015

    Hello there, If you are reading this experience

    right now. It is quite obvious to me that you are interested in BDSM. If you are looking for a dominant you talk to. I am free, I would not mind talking to fellow dominants or a submissive. :) No matter what your... "interests" are, I will not judge. BDSM is something that is...
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    18-21, F
    10 Responses Jun 27, 2014
    lookingforafamily lookingforafamily
    41-45, M
    1 Response Mar 13, 2016
    brandonp13 brandonp13
    18-21, M
    1 Response Feb 7, 2015

    If you think of a dominant

    as that cute boy across the room you are afraid to approach, you can always play it safe and settle for less. Dominants and submissives are really nothing more than good friends who understand each other and respects each other's boundaries. There is usually deeper...
    WilliamIItoo WilliamIItoo
    26-30, M
    1 Response Feb 9, 2015
    LilyKitteen LilyKitteen
    22-25, F
    4 Responses Nov 30, 2014

    It's always been hard

    for me to make decisions, I spiral out of control without somebody guiding me and telling me what's right and wrong or what they don't approve of, an i'm always doing whatever people want me to so that they are happy because that makes me happy… So I want advice and friends to...
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    2 Responses Oct 26, 2015

    love to chat with a Dominant Lady about the

    lifestyle so that I can be a better sub.
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    Jan 29, 2016
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