I Want to Meet My Real Dad

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    A Letter From Your Unknown Dad

    I don't know what you've been told, but I would never purposely hurt you. I don't care how you got here, or who your mother is, you are part of me, and hurting you is hurting myself. I know we have never met, but I want to explain something to you just in case we never do. There...
    deleted deleted
    Sep 8, 2013

    My dad abandoned me before I was born(I'm

    almost 14 now) so i've wanted to meet him ever since i can remember. but my mother told me last year or so that she thinks he was married while they were together. I am terrified that when, and if, i do meet him that he will have been married and i could potentially break up an...
    killeyj killeyj
    16-17, F
    2 Responses Nov 15, 2014

    I Want to Meet My Abandoned Son

    I read your story to meet your real dad.  I'm coming from the other side.  I abandoned my son and his mom before birth.  this is the most horrible act of my life. my son is now 37.  yesterday I sent a letter to his mom apologizing for this gutless and...
    stunad stunad
    4 Responses Jun 25, 2008

    Help Im Confused On Wanting To Talk To My Real Dad

    so growing up i always would be told my dad was my real dad i was never allowed to look at my birth certificate I never realized why . so i grabbed it to see my dad wasnt my real father i was confused. so i went to my mom asked for an explantion . she said she knew this day would...
    laylarose laylarose
    1 Response Dec 29, 2011

    Doesn't Anyone Want Me?

    When I was a very young child, I was my father's favorite child.  I was a huge daddy's girl.  When he was home, it was hard to separate me from his side.  My parents split up when I was five or six...  My future step-dad had been giving my mom marriage counseling at our...
    Talliaa Talliaa
    26-30, F
    1 Response Jan 13, 2012

    I was finally able to receive photo evidence of

    my biological dad and I. I feel robbed of everything, all my knowledge of my existence. It sounds dramatic but I don't think anyone understands the situation at all and how hurt I am to have assumed my whole life that I just didn't have a bond with my "dad" because he was...
    chloecolleen chloecolleen
    18-21, F
    Jan 12, 2014

    I Need Daddy :'(

    hello there..i am a girl who always dreaming to meet my real dad personally..i never seen him or hug him since because my mother left my dad when i was in her tummy. now that i am in the exact age, i want to meet him but how can i do that?i feel shy everytime im trying to ask...
    iwanttomeetmydad iwanttomeetmydad
    22-25, F
    3 Responses Dec 11, 2012

    I really want to meet my real dad I'm 13 years

    old I was born in December 20,2000 my mom met my dad in Singapore and he is an Indian and my mom is filipino . Every single day I would ask my self what I did wrong to deserve this . I just really need to know why my dad left me and I don't want to ask my mom because I love her...
    Fateeer Fateeer
    Mar 30, 2014


    Well... he's probably tall, probably has big feet, and probably has curly hair.  Great.  So thats half the male population.  Probably.
    chocchipkookie93 chocchipkookie93
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jun 25, 2008

    Looking To Fill A Hole In My Heart.

    My name is Latisha Thompson and I am 25 years old. The past 5 years have been kinda rough for me. i have had this empty feeling in my heart and I didnt know what it was that was missing. My real dad Timothy Yager left my mom before I was born. From what she says he came and...
    latishalynn3921 latishalynn3921
    22-25, F
    Jun 12, 2010

    Finally Think I Located My Biological Father But How To I Ever Meet Him??

    Hello! I was told when I was 10 that my dad wasn't really my dad. My mom was going through a divorce and I think in anger she decided to tell me the truth. I was in shock and had so many questions. She said that she had a picture of my real dad, but that my step dad had ripped it...
    nicah1978 nicah1978
    31-35, F
    Aug 13, 2012

    Don't I Matter?

    I don't really know the whole story behind my parents, all I know for sure is that my biological mother is the woman I am forced to call my aunt. To start at the beginning, the very beginning, my real parents were dating and my real father was told by some doctor he was unable...
    UnwantedAndInvisible UnwantedAndInvisible
    13-15, F
    1 Response Aug 3, 2012

    I have recently made contact with my biological

    father over Facebook. I sent him a friend request and about a month later he accepted it. I happened to be online when we accepted it and I sent him a message saying who I was and all that. We messages back and forth. Small talk. Than he asked if he could call me on Christmas. I...
    rockchalk0058 rockchalk0058
    31-35, M
    Dec 24, 2013

    40 Years Later, I Know The Truth. Now What?

    I'm 40. I'm 6ft, 235 lbs, blue-gray eyes, dark brown hair. I look a great deal like my maternal grandfather and nothing like anyone on my dad's side. And two weeks ago, I finally got up the courage to ask my mother directly "who is my real father?" Her answer? "I don't know." But...
    smessenger smessenger
    2 Responses Aug 20, 2011

    I Need To Find My Dad:(

    Hi my name is chris bate i am 21 yrs old i live in derby with my girl friend used to live in telford. All my life i was told my dad is dead but found out on new years day 2011 that he is alive so for 21 yrs i thought that he was dead so i was upset but happy to find out he is...
    Chrisbate Chrisbate
    Mar 25, 2011

    I Want To Meet My Real Dad.

    My mom married my adoptive father before I was born. I don't know my bio dad's real name, birthdate, or what he looks like. I love my "dad", he's the only one I've ever known, but I still feel like I don't know myself completely.
    tiddlywink222 tiddlywink222
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 22, 2012

    I Just Wanna Know My Dad...

    I have never officially met my dad. I've seen him and I know that when I was really little that he was around, but I have never met him, never been around him enough to talk to him or to find out why he was never in my life. I just want to meet him and see what I get from him...
    bubblycamogirl bubblycamogirl
    18-21, F
    Feb 28, 2012


    I guess you may have the possibility to read me. I think so, don't ask me why I who believes nothing believe that. I have my reasons to do, that's all.   You may be soon not so far. Maybe you could leave me a note, in my box, if you don't want to ring for any reason that...
    deleted deleted
    Jul 19, 2008

    I Thought I Knew...but I Was Wrong...

    I grew up believing I knew who my father was. I didn't know him personally or anything, but I had a name. Even an address. And a very old photograph...which didn't even have me in it. When I was 11, my mom told me a long sob-story about how my 'real' father abused and neglected...
    goofygoober168 goofygoober168
    2 Responses Jul 19, 2008

    I'm about to go on Oprah and ask for help!

    I use to not care .I always felt like who gives a **** about him and my mother. But a few years ago we had The Power Team or something like that come to our school and one of the guys was talkin about his daughter and how he protects her. I started crying because I'll never have...
    Serabi Serabi
    18-21, F
    7 Responses Jan 21, 2011

    Really Want to Know Him

    I've been looking for him for a while. Even when I had only doubt he could be my father, I tried to know him, what he did for a job, what his colleagues told about him, what his friends and relatives could think about him. I searched on my side of the family, what could have...
    deleted deleted
    1 Response Jan 27, 2008

    Where Are U?????

    where are u dad????? why u dont look at me????? why u avoid me?????? what i did??????? what is wrong with me???? do u need me???????i just wanna a dad, is all i need, where are u dad?????? where???
    thenewmisslunallena thenewmisslunallena
    22-25, F
    Jan 29, 2011

    I Did

    For years i always wonted to met my dad. I did when I was 9 and I will never forget it. Mom says i met him when i was frist born and when i was 4, but i dont rember either time. But I rememer crying my self to sleep at night, thinking what did i do wrong for him to stay out my...
    deleted deleted
    Dec 30, 2012
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