I Want to Play Which Is Worse

being confronted by the evil paranormal.  Being able to see it/them.  Having it/them showing up at your house while you are home alone at night.  

or

having a unknown rapist or house robber showing up at your house...

for your significant other to be a serial cheater with many different people or to have an ongoing, steady relationship with just one person? which is worse to you and why?

which is worse: your significant other cheating on you with a stranger OR cheating on you with someone you know?

Knowing when you are going to die and not how OR Knowing how but not when?

Cutting yourself

Or

Smoking....

Which is worse?

Eating poop -OR- drinking pee?
Being wonderful at something but never doing it because you're afraid you're bad at it -OR- being terrible at something but doing it anyway because you think you're good at it?
Loveless sex -OR- sexless...

A man claiming to be living in a woman's body.
A woman claiming to be living in a man's body.

Sniff coke off a ho0kers as$
or
Lick speed off a hermaphrodites balls?
 
 
I'd go the ho0ker in a second.

Having an unfulfillable but stable face-to-face relationship
OR
An incredible on-line one?

Having poison ivy on your butt OR having sunburn on your boobs.

Having a cool job with people you hate  OR Having a sucky job with people you like.

Ok i will be asking a series of questions answe the first one then move on to next, i would please want you to be honest with them because its important to me..
1) Being selfish or selfless? (seems a dumb question right, even a kid can...

For a while now, years to be truthful o have watched another woman fill my shoes, perhaps not a physically but sharing the world my husband and o created because I have been busy running the business and being a mother.

Suddenly...

Which is worse:

1.) To be beautiful and (unbreakably and non-arrogant) confident, but despised, or
2.) Fugly and (unfixably) insecure, but loved

In this HYPOTHETICAL situation, both people are kind and not cocky, etc.

Which is worse

To Love someone so very much they want nothing to do with you

or

To Hate someone so much, they want nothing to do with you?

This is what has been tugging my mind for a while since one of my former friends had always seek revenge on people that have hurt her in any way. So I had to reveal who she is online by being harsh and calling her out. But...