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I Want to Rebuild a Relationship

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    The Beginning.of a New Beginning

    "The longest journey begins with a single step." Rebuilding a relationship can be a long journey as well. Recognizing that your relationship is something special and well worth saving is the first huge step in your journey of reconciliation. Sure, we have all heard...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2007

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    I Could Never Get It to Happen For Me. Everything Was Always One Sided. But I Know It Works From Observing Others Who Have Tried.

    Why do we let relationships get in such bad shape? Most people would not let their car sit in the garage when it is broken down for months...or even YEARS without at least attempting to take it to a mechanic. What is sad is people take more care and concern with their material...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 21, 2007

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    A Continuation of the Last

    When your relationship is falling apart you may feel that it is hopeless to try to repair it. If you truly love the person you are with then you should try to fix it now instead of spending the rest of your life wondering if you could have. The main reason many couples fall...
    BlueGeorgia BlueGeorgia 41-45, M 3 Responses Dec 22, 2007

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    Well To Start, I Was Married 3 Times, And Each One Lied To Me.and Cheeted On Me..

    I had a job that I worked 10 to 16 hrs a day,so I made good money,and they all had a new house, and car, and just about every other thing they wanted, so why did I get cheeted on , when I only did good for them,and then to have them hurt me like they did, has made me not want to...
    campernut39 campernut39 66-70 2 Responses Dec 11, 2010

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    There is this boy. We really like eachother but we know that if we date then that will ruin our friendship. We are really close and hang out alot. Just dont want to deal cause we...
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    Seeking advice: My ex picked me up for coffee this past weekend. He changed his plans so we could meet up. We filled each other in on what we have been up to for the past 3 months...
    wanderingheart237 wanderingheart237 26-30, F 1 Response Aug 11

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    Then you should invest in buying a tortoise, they'll be by your side longer than anyone else bc those little T. Rex's are immortal
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    I read this in the elite daily's post. Somehow I really believe that long distance relationship is a chance to be on your own without ever having to feel alone. As in long...
    EasyOrange EasyOrange 18-21, F Aug 21

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    How can I get my lesbian ex back? We were best friends for about a year before we decided to date. We fell hard and fast for each other. We dated for about four years and have...
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    I've been single for the past few years. At first, I told myself I was choosing to be single--to learn more about myself. However, after trying to date and failing to get even...
    unfilteredme unfilteredme 31-35, M 2 Responses Aug 3

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    The man I have given the last year and a half of my life with has now decided we are not meant to work out. Granted, a year and a half isn't that long I know, but it felt like life...
    CassyMay CassyMay 22-25, F Aug 1

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    In all honesty I'm a really nice guy, I'm 16 years old and my name is Luis. I love biking, reading, running, and swimming. But my past haunts me everyday, when I go to school...
    luischimbo luischimbo 16-17, M 2 Responses Aug 2

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    Well, I met my boyfriend yesterday at a convention...a friend of mine was with me...the majority of the time, my boyfriend and I had to practically hide behind the charade of just...
    sunatdawn214 sunatdawn214 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 10

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    I was in a real dark place last year. I was always in that place but last year I really thought of just disappearing from everything or welcoming death. Then something amazing...
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    I love the guy i'm with but as time goes on I start to realize if I continue with him my life won't be what I want it to be. I want someone to travel with for life, work abroad and...
    nhsu77 nhsu77 18-21, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    I want my relationship to be like my parents. My parents hardly ever fight. I kid you not. They argued before but never really raised voices. My mom is quiet and very lenient. My...
    thelastprincess thelastprincess 31-35, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    I just want a relationship. I don't care if it's long distance as long as you girls don't care. ;)
    Darkwolf523 Darkwolf523 16-17, M 3 Responses Aug 15

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    It's hard to just walk away from a person you've spent five almost six years of your life with. There's been so many firsts with that person.. So many memories. But what if things...
    tayf tayf 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I've dated guys and girls but I've never felt a powerful love for them. I want a relationship that is spontaneous!!:/ a lover who understands me and is my friend.
    stormyiscool stormyiscool 16-17, F 2 Responses Aug 3

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    I'm Akeem. I want a relationship but I'm not rushing. I'll be 18 in September. Get to know me not want to get in my pants. Inbox me. Don't be scared :)
    PrinceAkeem PrinceAkeem 16-17, M 5 Responses Aug 9

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    I believe about purety of love. I want to have virgin partner. I am personally still virgin even i never kissed anyone. People said i am attractive,nice,polite. Its so hard know i...
    myselfhere myselfhere 22-25, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    Im 14. Ive just always had the dream of becoming a mom. I don't even want a relationship or anything. I don't want to wait!! Its crushing me.
    teenfemale2000 teenfemale2000 13-15, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have complete compassion and understanding to the abuse I received from my mum, she was unwell alone a teenage mum with mental health no support or help from her own family, it...
    claireosb claireosb 36-40, F 2 Responses Aug 15

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    There's this guy that I met in 7th grade, and soon after we quickly became best friends. Then on valentines day that year he told me that he liked me. I didn't know how to respond...
    Littlemonkey2 Littlemonkey2 16-17, F 1 Response 2 hrs ago

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    Put yourself in my shoes as you read this. "Compass" by Counterparts is playing on full blast in your room that you're isolating yourself in as you sit on your bed with your sketch...
    MorbidMorals MorbidMorals 18-21, F 1 Response 4 days ago

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    Kijiji ad! strange? yep? am I lonely? yep? Soooooo....rebuilding new friendships is hard! especially after all the fallout being in limbo with my marriage separation and fighting...
    wiseprotector wiseprotector 41-45, M Jul 31

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    Xxchristinx18 Xxchristinx18 18-21, F Aug 17

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    Life is getting worse everyday it is like if the situation push me to make a decitions that I can't control anymore I wish I can go back on time and do it all over but that is no a...
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    Top Secrets of a Long Lasting Relationship 1. Talk Speak more about the things you don’t like in your relationship and don’t forget to talk about what you like. 2. Listen...
    maurya1344 maurya1344 26-30, M Aug 5

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    UsuallyHappii UsuallyHappii 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 20

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    I am pretty sure I am in a toxic relationship. On top of some pretty nasty fights in which he confirmed every insecurity I have, he is the king of mixed messages--saying he wants...
    glitterordeath glitterordeath 26-30, F 7 Responses Jul 29

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    I've had this relationship with this awesome girl a while back, we've been in a relationship for like 3 years, but from a point on, it all seemed to go in a downward spiral, i've...
    Mike8819 Mike8819 22-25, M 1 Response Jul 30

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    This is my first ever relationship. I'm 17 soon to turn 18. Prior to this relationship I had always been single and wanted to be loved. I had no confidence whatsoever; I didn't...
    fluffyunicorn fluffyunicorn 16-17, F 2 Responses 6 days ago

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    I am 33. I met a woman online and we talked as friends for 3 or 4 years without ever meeting. Even though she lived only 30 miles from me. She had been diagnosed with "bipolar" and...
    bentsurvivor bentsurvivor 31-35, M 6 days ago

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    Okay here's my story, i met a guy online, we became best friends on internet. I know his full background, he know my full background too. I even met his father, brother and grandpa...
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    HillyHana HillyHana 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 18

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    deeken deeken 36-40 1 Response Aug 18

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    ECrierie ECrierie 16-17, M 1 Response Aug 20

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    cherrylipa cherrylipa 31-35, F 4 Responses 3 days ago

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    I was in one, well at least I think I was. I feel embarrassed thinking back about it but at the same time it was what I wanted and still wish for. I was 12 years old, being the...
    flowerchildx flowerchildx 13-15, F 3 days ago

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    My fiance: -says he is boring multiple times -says he is a homebody multiple times -says he doesn't want to go out [unless it is for juice] -he complains about disappointing me and...
    twiztedrune twiztedrune 18-21, F 1 day ago

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