I Want to Recover From Being Molested

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    Not Having Good Relationships With People

    I seem to avoid anyone who tries to show me any sort of attention or love I cant keep close relationships cause I cant accept the fact that people do love me and care about me. I believe its from being molested by my father.. Any advice on how to get over that?
    Bree93 Bree93
    22-25, F
    1 Response Apr 8, 2013

    Molestation That Changed My Life.

    Hello, my name is "Betty". I've been going through a rough time trying to cope with my molestation as a child. I hope that someone can help me to recovery as they read this story and understand what I have gone thru. When I was 6 years old my parents decided that they...
    ScaredBetty ScaredBetty
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 24, 2012

    I Shouldnt Remember This...

    When I was 3 years old I was molested by a 14 year old boy. He was my baby sitters son. Every time it was time to change my diper he did nasty things to me. It went on for quite awhile before i finally told my mom what was going on. He ended up going to juvy. I'm 16 now and The...
    softball1995 softball1995
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Feb 6, 2012

    Molested By My Dad.

    It happened whilst i was around the family for Christmas. I got scared that he had put his hands down and over me   to far , and he thumped me a few times. I ended up in pain for 3 weeks felt it would never recover, then eventually my arm did. I want to stop blaming...
    pottyash pottyash
    31-35, F
    Feb 23, 2010


    It started when I was from 6 to 8 years old. We were on a van from our way back from Mexico and my mom's cousin was next to me, at the time he was about 15. He started touching me and stuff and ask me if I liked it, I said no, but he would do it again and if I said yes he would...
    Diamondrubs Diamondrubs
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jun 16, 2013

    Destroyed By My Best Friend

    All my life I have been homeschooled by my mother, with my two other sibilings; my big brother and little sister. My father never spent much time with us. From toddlers, me and my two year older brother were best friends, we did everything together. My father we felt...
    CountrycHick4 CountrycHick4
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jul 14, 2013
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx
    26-30, F
    Apr 10, 2014

    They are right when they say

    that it is normally someone you know, a person you trust. Mine was my old next door neighbour. At the young age of 6 he took away my innocence of being a child to being numb to everyone and what they say. He would touch me and I was too weak to fight against him, im not going to...
    littlemissshorty littlemissshorty
    Oct 12, 2015

    Teacher cont I smiled He pushed my skirt up

    showing my knickers he moved his hand onto them rubbing across the top He said u want me to don't u I was bit scared alone in car I just smiles again I looked over he took his hand off me and starting undo his zip l knew what he wanted as it's been done lots before but I waited...
    candygirlcandy candygirlcandy
    18-21, F
    Jan 1, 2014

    Forgive Maybe...forget Never

    Im not one to share my thoughts but here goes. I was 10 when my brother who was 13 at the time started spending more and more time with me. He told me we were going to play some games...as to what kind i didnt know. He wanted to play doctor and play games where he tied me up just...
    PreciousToSomeone PreciousToSomeone
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 8, 2012

    Waiting For Validation..

     I was 4 years old when it started. My cousin who was 10 years older than me used to take care of me after school. I used to be really excited when I saw him. I always felt happy, it was like the events from the day before had been erased and I would start again. It was the...
    michmich2008 michmich2008
    5 Responses May 28, 2008

    I Was Molested By My Uncle..

    When i was 6 years old, I remember i always loved to go to my Grandmas house every day and play and be a kid over there. at the time my uncle was living with them. and me and him use to play hide-in-seek, cards,ectt... little did i know he was waiting for the right time to touch...
    korinalove korinalove
    18-21, F
    1 Response Oct 17, 2010


    I never ******* will. Even if I could get over the first time 25 years ago when I was 4, how can I get over it happening worse later? And how come several other boys tried, too? Did I have a sign on my forehead that said "**** me I'm an easy target"?? I can't deal with this...
    deleted deleted
    Nov 4, 2011

    Was Molested By My Bio Father

    I was molested be my biological father who my mother is still married to. He did it for 3 1/2 years from when I was about 11 to 14. The only reason that it had stopped then was because the police were told. What did the police do? Nothing. What did CPS do? Nothing. My mother...
    Dena2009 Dena2009
    26-30, F
    2 Responses Mar 12, 2012

    Being Molested

    This happened to me when I was 12/13. My mom had a new boyfriend and he was into drugs and alcohol. He had a 3 year old son and a 2 year old daughter. My mom had barely known him for long before she let him move in with us. For the first half of a year when he was living...
    Flipadelphia Flipadelphia
    22-25, F
    5 Responses Dec 31, 2009

    I wish I could forget the memories of being

    molested by my step grandfather and how he would have me and my siblings touch each other sick bastard
    Reynastaxx Reynastaxx
    26-30, F
    Apr 10, 2014

    I was molested by another child (my adopted

    Aunt)and a man down the street. This has affected my sex life in three identifiable ways: 1 I was introduced to sex way before I should have and in the wrong ways. 2. I have suffered from guilt in general about sex (although I can enjoy it) 3. the previous have influenced my...
    deleted deleted
    2 Responses Aug 24, 2015

    I Got Touched, Am I Molested Even If I Wanted It?

    Same thing happened to me but, he wasn't a family, he was my cousins HUSBAND.and and I knew what was haw happening,  I LET him do it to me, I WANTED it. and so does he..he was double my age, he was 30. and I didn't know what I was doing, I just knew i wanted it, and he gave it...
    pauladyan pauladyan
    18-21, F
    6 Responses Apr 11, 2011

    Teacher cont He just lay back

    as I wanked him not long later he *** He looked at me said u can't tell anyone as they will not believe u Then he started putting my seat back I just lay there as I do he pushed my skirt up his hand pushed between my legs up to the top rubbing me then he got both hands and...
    candygirlcandy candygirlcandy
    18-21, F
    Jan 1, 2014

    I thought telling my teacher he would help

    but was wrong I told him one day at school he told me we would have to talk about it and meet him after school So after school I went with him in his car to get a macdonalds and we took them out and parked up we ate the food then he asked me to tell him what has happened I...
    candygirlcandy candygirlcandy
    18-21, F
    1 Response Jan 1, 2014

    So I have been having a hard time here lately

    trying to get over what happened. It's like the older I get the harder it is to move on. Thoughts come back, intrude into my mind, and now that I'm older I realize how sick it was that my father did that to me knowing it was wrong. I always seemed to bring it on myself (I don't...
    LuckyOlivia44 LuckyOlivia44
    18-21, F
    1 Response Aug 5, 2015

    Dealing With Pain

    One day when I was 6my oldest brother friend came over to my old apartment. I remember when he was knocking on the door which woke me up so I opened it and he was really drunk. He start asking me questions then he put his hands in my panties. My brother saw and start kicking his...
    Missyjassy02 Missyjassy02
    Feb 9, 2013

    How I Over Came When I Was Molested

      My name is Lee C. Cooper. I am almost 40. I was molested for 3 1/2 yrs in N.C. I never got any help for this. It started when I was 10 n it stopped when I was 13. I had to leave that state bc my mother that is now deceased didn't want nothing done to her husband at the...
    LeeKent2009 LeeKent2009
    36-40, F
    May 28, 2012

    I Want Feel Like I'm Worth Something

    When I was around 4 or 5 my sister who is 9 years older than me started molesting me until I was about 9 or 10. My mother didn't find out until I was 16 and she acted as if she cared but when it came down to confronting my sister about what she did my mother told me that my...
    Prettygirl13 Prettygirl13
    18-21, F
    1 Response Dec 16, 2010

    You Were Supposed To Be A Father!

    Well... There comes a time in every ones life where they run into a problem. I ran into mine at the age of 12! It was July of 2005. He was my mom husband. My real dad was never in my life from the age of 3. so i looked at this guy as a father figure.The First time something...
    marrah0302 marrah0302
    18-21, F
    2 Responses Jan 10, 2011

    My First Memorie Is Being Molested

    My first memorie was back when I was 2-3. I remember being made to drink pee and then the man put his D!{K in my mouth and tried to get me to s(&K it. I still remember the taste of the loation he had on it. Cant stand the smell of that loation to this day. I know what he had...
    Hilary102205 Hilary102205
    26-30, F
    3 Responses Oct 6, 2009

    Molested For Two Years.

    Hey ya'll, sharing my story this is something i really have no one to talk to about because my close friend doesn't understand and my mom doesn't listen. My mom has been on and off with guys for as long as i can remember. My dad has never been apart of my life him and my mom got...
    cclove17 cclove17
    5 Responses Dec 15, 2012

    Dear Clove

    Dear 15 year old me... The first thing you need to know is that it's not your fault. It is always the adults fault when there is abuse of a child. The second thing you need to know is that it is about power and control and you can choose to take your power back or choose to...
    wildkittn wildkittn
    31-35, F
    Dec 11, 2012

    From Age 3 To Age 16

            Growing up I knew nothing but sadness, depression and loneliness. At the age of 3 my brother started molesting me by doing all sorts of violating acts. You would think your big brother would protect you from harm or be there for you. He...
    rwww1988 rwww1988
    18-21, M
    2 Responses Jan 22, 2010

    I Thought He Was My Friend.

    So I guess we all come across sick creeps in our life.  I just didn't really expect my best friend from middle school to be one. I'm not totally sure if this is exactly what you would consider a "molestation", but I have no word for it as I have...
    ilovepandas102 ilovepandas102
    18-21, F
    4 Responses Feb 4, 2009

    Waiting For Validation..i

     I was 4 years old when it started. My cousin who was 10 years older than me used to take care of me after school. I used to be really excited when I saw him. I always felt happy, it was like the events from the day before had been erased and I would start again. It was the...
    michmich2008 michmich2008
    3 Responses May 28, 2008

    I Thought I Was Safe

    I had gone over to my older guy friend's house to tutor him in math. He's four years older than me, but he's been held back a few times and isn't very good at school. We worked on his math for something like five hours, and then he went outsie to smoke while I helped his mom...
    razi93 razi93
    18-21, F
    1 Response May 2, 2010

    Teacher cont When I was telling him he put

    his right hand onto my leg near my knee I thought he was going to. Comfort me by rubbing my leg and as I was telling him he started moving his hand higher to just below my skirt I started telling him about my uncle and then u felt his hand go under the bottom of my skirt I...
    candygirlcandy candygirlcandy
    18-21, F
    3 Responses Jan 1, 2014
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