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I Want To Say This To My Dad

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    This is to my blood father~ "You hurt my mother

    You made her cry Your such a bastard You made me want to die That was before my step father came Then everything was happy It's awesome he came! My mother smiled never frowned He made her happy never cry
    RainbowWolf13 RainbowWolf13 13-15, F 2 Responses Oct 22

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    Will you ever get changed?

    Will you ever think about mom, grandma, and children? Will you ever stop being selfish? Will you ever be a good father? Will you ever think about your family? Will you ever try to listen? Will you? :)
    Rinkika Rinkika 22-25, F 4 Responses a week ago

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    Wouldn't It Be Nice...?

    It would be nice if you were around to have seen me smile. Met my circle of friends now. Watched me grow out of asking you if I could eat a lollipop. Seen me drive a Jeep. Seen me use a filbert paintbrush on an oil painting.  Seen me play the trombone. Seen me learn how...
    thelocalartist thelocalartist 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    I Forgive You

    This is to my father who mentally & physically abused me during my childhood... Dad, What you did was not right. The hurt cut me deep & scars will remain with me forever, but I forgive you. I forgive the time you hit mom and the police came. I forgive the time you gave me a...
    rickstauc1 rickstauc1 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    "I ****** hate you I never want to see you in

    my life and I'm glad u left" is what I would say to my dad
    ultimatewedgiegodess ultimatewedgiegodess 18-21, F a week ago

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    Dear.... "Dad".. You aren't able to read

    this.. But I'm not able to use that term and mean it. Guess we are even... Up until the age of 5, I didn't know that everyone got a mommy and daddy and that's because you decided you didn't want me in your life.. at least not until my 5th birthday. On my 5th birthday you...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 21

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    Iam reading ever one post about there dad.

    your dad is not to be blame. it society and a mis guided culture who lost the way of being a father. forgive and live your life. no body has a book on being a great dad it is taught to men like a school of apprentice. mend your heart
    strong2weak strong2weak 36-40 Nov 12

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    I hate the person you are.

    Unfortunately, I can see myself following your foot steps and becoming even more like you. I'm starting to understand more about how you've become an *******, and I just hope I can avoid that path. Also, I still don't have enough respect to apologize for any of my decisions.
    PuckDrop PuckDrop 18-21, M Nov 11

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    Daddy, I love you. No matter what.

    Even if I don't express my feelings I want you to know that you mean the world to me. I want you to know that your my inspiration. I don't know why this is so hard for me to say this to your face, but it is. I love you, daddy. I will always be your little girl. Me and my dad...
    velvetybat velvetybat 13-15, F Jul 29

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    I miss you, growing up without the protection

    of a father has been a hard experience I wish I could have had you there every time things started to fall apart. Spiritually I know you were there but it was not enough...
    Triztemuneca87 Triztemuneca87 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    I miss you like crazy,

    I still think to myself Ill call Dad he will know then realize I can't anymore. I wish heaven had a phone.. xoxooo
    hazeleyes71 hazeleyes71 41-45, F 8 Responses Oct 22

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    My Dad was never around

    when I was growing up.He was usually busy in his office and came back late too tired to interact with me.Now he is nearing 80.He has changed.We have become closer.He is still an avid reader and passes his list of books to me to buy.I care for you ,dad and wish you stay in the...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 6 Responses Nov 21

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    I love you as a father,

    but I hate you as a person.
    lifeishurtful lifeishurtful 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    I love you dad. I'm so sad

    and sorry that we had to let you die.
    Vaportrail70 Vaportrail70 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 8

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    I really wish you had done a better job of

    taking care of me when I was little. I was molested and almost kidnapped because of your irresponsibility. You could have at least tried to keep in touch with me, ask how I'm doing now and then. Your absence has hurt me and made me cry countless times. You could have at least...
    pkninja pkninja 13-15, F Nov 11

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    Dear Daddy

    Dear Daddy, What I'm about to say is what I've been going through. All the things I've seen and thought since the day that I lost you. It was late the other night, when I got that call. The Officer said you were gone. and my world began to fall. I fell to the bed and...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 22, 2010

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    Would never say this to you

    and you would never say this to me because our relationship is awkward. But I love you Dad and you are and always will be the number one man in my life. "Whatever's in your heart, will be in mine" ❤️
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    You and mom thought that I had forgotten about

    what happened to me, but the truth is, the memories will always be there. I wont ever be able to get the innocence back that he took away from me, the innocence you pretended was still there even after what happened to me.
    RyleeFTM RyleeFTM 13-15, M a week ago

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    Sometimes I really want to call you

    and tell you how damaged I am. How it still hurts when you say that you didn't want to have a girl, especially someone like me. I know you think I am stupid, weak, unworthy and don't really see me as a daughter. After all, you only remember me when you want to show something to...
    writerannie writerannie 18-21, F 7 Responses Jun 27

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    what can I really say to you?

    you wouldnt understand or even acknowledge what you did and, unfortunately what you continue to do. I should practise what I preach but its difficult when a portion of your life that was confusing and dark and isolated is still a longer period of your life than it being over...
    FromTheHeartOfaWoman FromTheHeartOfaWoman 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 12

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    Hey paps, I'd like to say this to you.

    You have been dead for 6 months now, and I really miss you, in 1 and a half months I'll visit you to your grave and say happy 51st birthday. After everything we went through years ago, I still love you, you were always my papa :) When I was little, I was sad, it seemed you...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M 6 Responses Sep 23

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    RyleeFTM RyleeFTM 13-15, M 2 Responses a week ago

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    You'll never see this

    but I still have to say it. It hurts not being able to be with you in the hospital and through all of this, and I know although we never say directly that we love each other but we really do. You will always be my favorite man. Please don't leave yet, i'm not ready...
    Offing Offing 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    I like to hear you sing more

    than anyone else.
    MaxwellGrant MaxwellGrant 26-30, M Nov 11

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    BrokenInnocence BrokenInnocence 13-15, F 3 Responses Nov 11

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    I am so lucky to have you

    and I love you more than anything.
    chasemeyer chasemeyer 13-15, M 1 Response Nov 17

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    I still loathe it, but I'm only agreeing to

    back to med school so that you'll stop bothering me about it. Not like you'll understand what my thoughts are. The only thing you care about is that I'm going back.
    twelves twelves 22-25 1 Response a week ago

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    sikipon sikipon 18-21, F 2 Responses Nov 12

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    I love you and I miss you.

    I'm glad to be back in your house, where I can hear you knocking about, tormenting the cats as tho you were still alive.
    hollygee hollygee 41-45, F a week ago

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    How could you be so heartless

    and abandon a child at 6 years old?! Say you love her more then life itself yet you leave without a word not a trace and have her grow up never havin a father never knowing what it's like to be loved by a father to feel like an orphan child never having a family, mother thinks I...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    emjagrace emjagrace 13-15, F 7 Responses Nov 11

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    It's been nine years.

    .. since the last time we spoke, the last time i cooked for you, the last and first time i cleaned your nails, the last time i went in your house to give you milk in the middle of the night. I so miss every little funny things we did together; when i kiss your cheeks and wipe...
    DarkSoul07 DarkSoul07 22-25, F 2 Responses Oct 20

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    Fu.ck you. my life is ruined cuz you left.

    Out of all your ******* 8 kids (!) you decided to stay with the youngest. that pis.ses me off. I was your first kid ( maybe, as far as I know) and ive only seen you 5 times tops out of the 15 some odd years ive been alive. I never did anything to you, so why do this to me...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 16-17, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F Feb 25

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    You ****** up my way of thinking with men

    because you abandoned me. I have never know what love feels like from a man because you were too selfish and immature to be around.
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    Thanks Dad... I Guess

    I know that I'm not the only person to have had this experience. Life is not always sweet but we can make of it what we choose. My father was completely disassociated… from everything not just me. When he got home from the office he sat and played solitaire, never...
    newdaydogEP newdaydogEP 70+, M 81 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Bittersweet

    My father is/was a mixed bag. Far from perfect, he beat both my brother and I, and he taught us to fight back physically when people hurt or teased us. His discipline was wildly inconsistent, sometimes hugs and understanding when a beating wouldn't have been unexpected...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 46-50, M 9 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    "Dad, when you hurt momma,

    you hurt me. When you lied and played mind games, I got caught in the crossfire. I know you are sick, but you refuse help. I wish you the best, but I wish you gone."
    UnknownMysteryOne UnknownMysteryOne 18-21, F Nov 11

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    Hay dad I'm gay and proud

    as ****. You can't "fix" me. I'm not broken.
    Justinolvera Justinolvera 18-21, M 4 Responses Nov 11

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    I can't hate you, hate is too strong

    for my heart. You were just like a hero to me that important figure in my life that I always wanted to impress . Still remember the few moments we had together I would always show my best so that you could be proud of me, though I waited and waited for long, even in my birthdays...
    lizzyWaterbearer lizzyWaterbearer 18-21, F Nov 12

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    "If you're absent during my struggle,

    don't expect to be present during my success" - Will Smith Whether you're with me or not dad, I will succeed. It's your choice - are you man enough to stand by me or are you too cowardly?
    JacobStark JacobStark 18-21, M Oct 22

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    I yearn to have you in my life.

    . I want you to ask me how I'm doing instead of just talking about yourself and your problems.. I want you to ask me how schools going or if I'm being treated right by men .. I want you to actually act like you care about more than just yourself.. I love you dad I just want you...
    Dbell1101 Dbell1101 22-25, F 1 Response Nov 20

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    I love and miss you dad.

    Thank you for the life you gave me.
    akirayuuki akirayuuki 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 27

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    I would tell him that he was an awful father.

    He was a controlling and sometimes violent person who did not care anything about my feelings, my opinions, my wishes. He made me feel unloved and at times very scared. He treated me badly and I never felt secure growing up. I blame him for searching for love in all the wrong...
    mariefrancea mariefrancea 41-45, F Dec 7

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    Thanks for teaching me

    that all men cheat. I'm out to prove to myself that at least one of them doesn't. My hero is out there somewhere.
    nextstep345 nextstep345 26-30, F 3 Responses Nov 12

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    aessis aessis 22-25, F 4 Responses Nov 11

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    SugarKaneFarrow SugarKaneFarrow 22-25, F a week ago

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      First, I really wish you would divorce

    that stupid B****. I don't see what you see in her?? Why are you so hooked by her?? At least if you got rid of her, we might have a chance to build a relationship. Second. I forgive you.... Sort of. I forgive you for the fear and physical pain you caused me. I forgive you...
    dreshany dreshany 41-45, F 2 Responses Nov 11

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    adianoeta adianoeta 26-30, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    Thanku for all you've done

    for me and don't forget this time
    phoenixprincess phoenixprincess 70+, F 1 Response Nov 11

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    cutiepieeeee cutiepieeeee 13-15, F Nov 11

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