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I Want To Say This To My Dad

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    Dear dad i know your never gonna read this

    so i'll just let rip. your the worst pathetic excuse for a father role model or even human iv'e ever seen. your one of few people in all of existence i know without doubt i would kill if i ever got the chance it's a good thing your gone cause if you ever try to come back i will...
    BenjaminChapman BenjaminChapman 18-21, M Aug 12

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    I ******* hate you, u will never be a father to

    me you left us when I was ******* 2 and now I'm 14, I hate talking to u, I don't like you you ****** and u have the balls to just forget about me, sis and mom, and start a new family with your gf, I will never be like u, I will raise my kids and care about and not do drugs and...
    dominick6 dominick6 13-15, M 3 Responses Aug 12

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    Thanks Dad For Being A Wonderful Father!!!!!

    You inspire me in every step of my life,You know I am not so strong,Yet you keep teaching me to strive. You ignore all my blunders,Believing I would fathom one day, Why you do so, my mind wonders. Never give up is what you believe,And what you've taught me,Learning from you...
    hiddentears hiddentears 22-25, F 2 Responses Aug 7, 2011

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    Fu.ck you. my life is ruined cuz you left.

    Out of all your ******* 8 kids (!) you decided to stay with the youngest. that pis.ses me off. I was your first kid ( maybe, as far as I know) and ive only seen you 5 times tops out of the 15 some odd years ive been alive. I never did anything to you, so why do this to me...
    Blissfulkissofdeath Blissfulkissofdeath 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    Dear.... "Dad".. You aren't able to read

    this.. But I'm not able to use that term and mean it. Guess we are even... Up until the age of 5, I didn't know that everyone got a mommy and daddy and that's because you decided you didn't want me in your life.. at least not until my 5th birthday. On my 5th birthday you...
    BallinBae BallinBae 16-17, F 8 Responses Aug 21

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    rapfordays rapfordays 13-15, F Feb 25

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    Hey paps, I'd like to say this to you.

    You have been dead for 6 months now, and I really miss you, in 1 and a half months I'll visit you to your grave and say happy 51st birthday. After everything we went through years ago, I still love you, you were always my papa :) When I was little, I was sad, it seemed you...
    1993george 1993george 18-21, M 2 Responses Sep 23

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    Dear Daddy

    Dear Daddy, What I'm about to say is what I've been going through. All the things I've seen and thought since the day that I lost you. It was late the other night, when I got that call. The Officer said you were gone. and my world began to fall. I fell to the bed and...
    LC87 LC87 22-25, F 7 Responses Jun 22, 2010

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    You left when when I was 12

    and disappeared for ten years. I missed you and to this day I don't know why you did not stay in touch. It really messed me and my brother up. Did you not love us enough? Thank you for making it up to me. Your relationship with your son will forever be a work in progress though...
    xMissTix xMissTix 26-30, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    pandasixteen pandasixteen 18-21, F May 13

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    I hate him for not being there,

    for leaving me to care for my mother alone at the age of 10,i hate him because even though i talk to him and am the nicest daughter he wont help me when i am in need after all the **** i put up with. I hate him because he wont come to my graduation,because he wont help me pay for...
    jesikahluv jesikahluv 18-21, F Aug 11

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    No matter how much you strike me with your

    bitter words and clenched fists, you will never put me down. Why? Because I'm better than that.
    Krisolo Krisolo 16-17 Aug 11

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    Honestly, you've never been much of a father,

    so I'm not going to call you dad. I don't know, I just thought that dads were supposed to actually care. I remember talking to you after I stopped cutting, and you acted like you didn't know I cut, you said that cutting was what people did when they wanted attention. Thanks for...
    mournwiththemoonandthestars mournwiththemoonandthestars 13-15, F 4 Responses Jul 9

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    Oh dad, you have been there

    for me since the day I was born. You were there to help me get through my illness and when I was always sent to the hospital because of my tonsillitis. You tried to make me happy despite knowing I couldn't do anything other kids do due to my sickness. You sold all your...
    damnwestcoast damnwestcoast 13-15, F Aug 11

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    Hey, I miss you, where'd you go?

    Why did you have to do it? I'm sorry I didn't listen to you, I just didn't understand I was young and naive, if I could only bring you back to life, I promise I would do it better.
    itscake itscake 22-25, F Aug 11

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    I hope you're happy. I

    now understand what you are. I never expected you to be my father. I'm just sad you stopped being my friend. I wish I could've been one of those important women in your life but I guess you just needed someone to take care of you to take care of me to. I wish we could've ended...
    Alylovespuppies Alylovespuppies 18-21, F 1 Response Aug 5

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    I'm never the one blaming others.

    You're too blinded by you're own lies to realize you're the one who always is. Until you can get a hold of yourself and you're life, you can't have any control over mine.
    left4deadspace left4deadspace 16-17, M Aug 22

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    You slept around on mum

    and left before I was old enough to have any memories of you, your new wife wa always a ***** to me treating me like crap an verbally abusing me, and YOU never defended me like a father should. I try and make an effort to see you and you say you love me and want to see me but...
    Wannalovelife Wannalovelife 16-17, M 3 Responses May 17

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    I love you as a father,

    but I hate you as a person.
    lifeishurtful lifeishurtful 13-15, F 2 Responses Mar 27

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    How could you be so heartless

    and abandon a child at 6 years old?! Say you love her more then life itself yet you leave without a word not a trace and have her grow up never havin a father never knowing what it's like to be loved by a father to feel like an orphan child never having a family, mother thinks I...
    Arwenlethena Arwenlethena 22-25, F 3 Responses Jul 14

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    You are truly amazing.

    What you do for me and the rest of the family is incredible. You work a lot but I know in the end it's just to make everyone happy. You have always been there for me even in my worst moments. Thank you for all that you give me, one day I will pay you back for all you've done for...
    pinkylo7 pinkylo7 16-17, F 1 Response Sep 3

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    Dad , where have you been all

    if my life ? Like you have missed a hella lot of things & I sometimes think your the reason I date older men. Because I'm always searching for that father figure type ! So dad , where the fudge are you at !?
    Paisley01 Paisley01 13-15, F 1 Response Feb 25

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    You're annoying, shut up.

    I'm young and i want to live my life. ******* idiot. Leave me the **** alone. I don't need you to judge me by everything I do.
    EMAbiggestfans1D EMAbiggestfans1D 13-15, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    You need to get yourself together

    and realize that when I get mad at you when you're drinking it's because all you did was drink when I was little. It makes me so mad when you drink I just hate it!!! You don't know when to stop! One drink is okay. Two...fine. But two 6 packs is not okay!!! You turn into someone...
    JalenFrankie616 JalenFrankie616 13-15, F 3 Responses May 17

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    I love my dad so much.

    He's always helping me and he puts up with me when I'm being moody. He's helped me all through schooling and he's always supported me in sports and everything. I love him!❤️
    hopeless1012 hopeless1012 18-21, F 3 Responses Jun 23

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    I love and miss you dad.

    Thank you for the life you gave me.
    akirayuuki akirayuuki 26-30, F 7 Responses Jun 27

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    Bittersweet

    My father is/was a mixed bag. Far from perfect, he beat both my brother and I, and he taught us to fight back physically when people hurt or teased us. His discipline was wildly inconsistent, sometimes hugs and understanding when a beating wouldn't have been unexpected...
    sumnerkagan sumnerkagan 41-45, M 9 Responses Jul 2, 2010

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    Thanks Dad... I Guess

    I know that I'm not the only person to have had this experience. Life is not always sweet but we can make of it what we choose. My father was completely disassociated… from everything not just me. When he got home from the office he sat and played solitaire, never...
    newdaydogEP newdaydogEP 70+, M 81 Responses Jun 20, 2010

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    Yo dad. U r a drunken egomaniac.

    A narcisistic schemer. Who craves admirers and alcohol. But mever earns devotion. From wives or kids. Why cant you scheme that goal??? Is it narcisism??? Or did you give up on family??? Why cheat??? Why make kids avoid you??? Why make one hate you??? Or do...
    Livyn4pals Livyn4pals 46-50, M Aug 11

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    For my "father" to tell my fiancé

    that I need to be beat. I hate that man.
    koakoa94 koakoa94 18-21, F Aug 11

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    I hate you, I love you,

    I miss you but never want to see you again but I always think about you
    fluke19 fluke19 26-30, F 1 Response Sep 2

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    Why when I needed you did you leave?

    And why on Christmas could I have seen you for the first time in 7 years but you blew it? You blew it not me! Why do you hate me? Why don't you want to see me? Don't you know it hurts me so badly the way you treated me! I know nothing about you besides what people have told me...
    maria3286 maria3286 18-21, F 1 Response Sep 13

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    I wanna know were u are

    and i wanna kick your *** for not staying around
    dalton115 dalton115 13-15, M Aug 11

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    Dear Dad... Nope I don't

    even think I can call you that! I have never really known you, but from what I have heard, you are a real *****. You deceived my mother the whole 11 years you were with her before I was born. You cheated on her, abused her and broke her heart you sick bastard. She still has...
    Sharebare519 Sharebare519 13-15, F 3 Responses Aug 12

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    It's not how good I am.

    ...it's how good I want to be
    MyaA13 MyaA13 13-15, F Aug 5

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    Dear Dad....

    Remember when I insisted on getting my own pair of Levis denim jeans and black and white Adidas sneakers exactly like what you always wear? I was 6 years old. You went to a tailor and had your own Levis copied and took off a Levis tag from one of your own to put on my brand new...
    pr1c3y pr1c3y 70+, F Jul 27, 2011

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    I want to tell my dad I love him

    and I wish he loved me back I'm here because you only get one dad and I'm lucky to have you but i wish you could see that why arnt you proud of me
    foreverbellaalone foreverbellaalone 22-25, F Sep 3

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    Dear Dad, you remember how you said you reap

    what you sow? I'm ready for the day that you need something from me and I'm going to tell you no. I am going to tell you how you tell me... What am I obligated to do? Why don't you just walk? Your ruining my plans. You are the one who messes up not me. I hope you never have to...
    QueenBri95 QueenBri95 18-21, F Sep 10

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    Daddy, I love you. I may not be able to show

    you sometimes, but I do. After every phone call I whisper I love you too because I know you don't always have the time for me to tell you. Whenever I stay round and run out of things to say, it's not because I'm bored. It's because I want to make everything that we talk about...
    AliceRigby AliceRigby 13-15, F Jun 13

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    Dad get your *** on an air plane

    and come see your kids because life is short and there will be a time when you look back and regret missing us take our first steps, learn how to talk , fall off bikes , and all the other crap kids do . And what you're really gonna miss out on is any potential grandchildren...
    Princeofthesky Princeofthesky 18-21, M Aug 5

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    Angry Know-it-All- Dear Old Dad You joined the

    army and earned your degree. You worked steadily and provided a stable home. You always came home. Took us to church every sunday. You weren't a drunk nor bum nor a batterer. Although i called you on the one time i saw you raised your hand to Mom- you heard me cuss you from...
    Stufy Stufy 46-50, F 1 Response Aug 10

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    your missing out on meeting

    and knowing a wonderful Daughter... dismissing me like I was a servant... how pitiful... What I look forward to... is after you pass away... then I can call you to me at anytime, and let you feel my pain that you caused me... I cant wait for then...
    WendyBlabs WendyBlabs 36-40, F 1 Response Mar 13

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    Would never say this to you

    and you would never say this to me because our relationship is awkward. But I love you Dad and you are and always will be the number one man in my life. "Whatever's in your heart, will be in mine" ❤️
    Jahhh Jahhh 18-21, F Mar 7

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    Wouldn't It Be Nice...?

    It would be nice if you were around to have seen me smile. Met my circle of friends now. Watched me grow out of asking you if I could eat a lollipop. Seen me drive a Jeep. Seen me use a filbert paintbrush on an oil painting.  Seen me play the trombone. Seen me learn how...
    thelocalartist thelocalartist 22-25, F 2 Responses Jun 21, 2010

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    Get the hell out of my life

    and go be with your new family as that's all you ever want to do you compleat and utter *******
    ash18bmth ash18bmth 18-21, M Sep 3

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    You may not know me very well,

    but Im still your daughter. You let me stay out in the cold in a dangerous area. Everyone was blowing smoke in my face and drinking and they were druggies and filthy and my aunt's bf wanted to do stuff to me. And I had to drop out of school and they stole almost everything...
    Acebo Acebo 18-21, F 4 Responses Aug 11

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    I never met you. But mom always said you were a

    good guy. I know you wanted to stay and raise me. But I guess it just wasn't supposed to happen. You died before you could hold me. Maybe if you weren't in that accident you could have protected me. Stopped me from making all my mistakes. And maybe you could have met your...
    SongBird2115 SongBird2115 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 22

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    emeraldtriangle420 emeraldtriangle420 22-25, F 1 Response Feb 24

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    Dad, I remember how you treated me

    when I was young. I remember the day you sat me down and cried to me saying how your doing to me what your father did to you. I was so young but I comforted you. You have no clue how what you did scarred me and you never will. When I got older you started treating me like sh!t...
    blahlahblah599 blahlahblah599 16-17, F 1 Response Jul 9

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    You ****** up my way of thinking with men

    because you abandoned me. I have never know what love feels like from a man because you were too selfish and immature to be around.
    Prettygirl8726 Prettygirl8726 26-30, F 4 Responses Apr 24

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    I Forgive You

    This is to my father who mentally & physically abused me during my childhood... Dad, What you did was not right. The hurt cut me deep & scars will remain with me forever, but I forgive you. I forgive the time you hit mom and the police came. I forgive the time you gave me a...
    rickstauc1 rickstauc1 22-25, F 6 Responses Dec 14, 2010

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    I need you when I was young

    but I taught myself in this cold world now you come Along and think you can tell me how to live my life no thnax
    jmontoya50913 jmontoya50913 18-21, M Sep 3

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    Sometimes I really want to call you

    and tell you how damaged I am. How it still hurts when you say that you didn't want to have a girl, especially someone like me. I know you think I am stupid, weak, unworthy and don't really see me as a daughter. After all, you only remember me when you want to show something to...
    writerannie writerannie 18-21, F 8 Responses Jun 27

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