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I Want to Speak My Mind Without Being Scorned

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    Two Lives

    I feel sometimes that i have two lives. One is the one where people see me as the upright christian who doesnt do anything wrong, works hard, clean living, loving husband, college graduate. The other is my world of sex addict, lazy, moderate that wants to say whats on her mind...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 17, 2008

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    Here Anyway..

    I was written up at work once for making a comment about a supervisor that was having an affair with a coworker.
    thealphabetpeople thealphabetpeople 41-45, F Oct 26, 2013

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    I Do But If I Get Uncomfortable I Seriously Won't

    Ok I know I need to speak up. I just have some stuff I really would have wanted to tell people. Im holding in the secret that Im gay. Ive called counselors behind my parents back. And Im telling people on here, but If I could only talk to other people besides the priests. Ive...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell 13-15, M Feb 3, 2012

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    "Speak the Truth In Love"

    It's not what you say, but how you say it. I know people have said that a hundred times but it really is true. People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Even strangers like here  on the net  
    tanyalynn tanyalynn 41-45 Aug 28, 2008

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    I Need To Change!

    I'm only young and i know i probably shouldn't be worrying about it, and i wasn't until one of my close friends randomly said to me 'I think you might have Anxiety'. When one your friends say that to you, you just don't know what to say, if that's what they think about me i...
    yelmik yelmik 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    Speaking Without Being Put Down

    I have always had issues with speaking my mind. It took me long enough to figure out why I am that way. Growing up I was always told I was stupid so I guess I felt that anything and everything I did was stupid. I'm still a little on the shy side when it comes to saying what is on...
    babeegurl33 babeegurl33 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    I'm Such a Chicken

    I wish that I could tell people what I really thought/felt without having that sick feeling of being bashed or made to feel stupid/ignorant. I don't have a college education, I don't know big fancy words. Honestly, I know very little about a lot (if that makes sense). Maybe I'm...
    babeegurl33 babeegurl33 31-35, F 3 Responses May 21, 2008

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    Ii Speak My Mind

    iwas so shy as a kid i was afraid to speak up but now that has changed i say it as it is and as long that i,m being honest about a subject i do,t care if another likes it or not. at the same timei don,t want to hurt anyonefor we need to be as loving as possible to ppl
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M Mar 8, 2011

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    Speak Up

    i've never been completely hesitant to speak my mind, but over the past few years i've become even better about it. i used to be more reluctant, but once i started i was able to see that it feels good to say what's on your mind. bottom line, i have reasons for thinking the way i...
    runnagirrl runnagirrl 22-25, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    Disabled Americans, That Can Not Work Or Get Help!!!!

    i, was born in pittsburgh, pa. 6/7/1957 dropped out of school at age 15 yr's, went to work in the construstion industry, enlisted in the marines in 1973, obtained my GED, discharged in 10/28/1976, returned to construction, spent most of my life self-employed, was involved in an...
    RWEST44 RWEST44 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 25, 2010

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    Speaking My Mind Has Never Worked For Me.

    As far as I know, and have been told by others, and aim to be, I am a kind, friendly, tolerant, open minded person.I never go out of my way to make people feel bad, or tell the cold hard truth if it isn't asked for.I hate hurting people, and love standing up for those who need it...
    instantquack instantquack 18-21, F Jan 31, 2013

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    A Great Life, That I Don'T Want

    My name is John Doe, and I was given an amazing life, a privelaged one. My parents together make 500+ a year, and are paying for my college life right now, but this isn't what I want. Someone else may have made more from this life, but my path isn't this. I will be a success, but...
    smokestomuchweed smokestomuchweed 18-21 Feb 24, 2013

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    I know everyone can but there are so many people in this world who dnt gaf!!.. I dnt understand it either why people talk mean to others .. Maybe they grew up with no manners...
    missyluvsmissy4me missyluvsmissy4me 41-45, F 1 day ago

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    Firstly I would like to say that I arrived at these most important principles after what I could term a whirlwind of experiences, mostly negative, that helped to shape these...
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    I just had a call from a friend that works for the local food bank. She knows about our financial situation and wanted to help by suggesting I ask for a Christmas basket (it's a...
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    Knowing what your bad at, makes one know what your good at?. (Tho I hope not to find something good in bad things) And what might be done different or better... Or that cant be...
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    Living alone is great. But it also comes with a price. I have to do all the jobs that my parents have done for me, including grocery shopping, cooking, cleaning, doing laundry...
    rustyengineer rustyengineer 18-21, M Dec 9

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    I want to be kind but not too shy, to look like the girls in the magazines but still not look fake, to be funny and just sarcastic enough not to be annoying and seem like a...
    ifyoureabirdimabird ifyoureabirdimabird 13-15, F Nov 23

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    AS A HUMAN, ONE ALREADY HAS FREE WILL.HUMANITY HAS BEEN ENTRUSTED WITH IT FOR A DURATION OF EXPANSION AND CONTRACTION.THOSE ANCIENT ONES WERE OFFERED IT AND THEY FEARED IT...THIS...
    VALLEYANT VALLEYANT 36-40, M 1 Response Dec 3

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    I just want a guy to talk to without being hit on.. Is that much to ask
    lucymcalfyx lucymcalfyx 13-15, F 1 Response Nov 23

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    I have love hate relationship with my body . Hurts when others say things to me....especially my mom , but I am who I am . I diet , I move , I'm just not meant to be super skinny...
    Sjenka Sjenka 36-40, F Dec 5

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    I do have few friends but they never seem to understand me :( I just want to talk to someone freely without being judged. I feel alone all the time and I feel ugly :(
    Sayuri96 Sayuri96 18-21, F 5 Responses Dec 6

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    Fear. The one thing that I hate about love is the fear it gave me. I got so scared of loosing it yet I am screaming longing for it. I got scared when I saw they got sick. Would it...
    DNightTrain DNightTrain 26-30, M 3 Responses Dec 6

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    I always wanted a girlfriend that wouldn't mind me being tied up if I hang with her
    MaxwellMoonHoof MaxwellMoonHoof 18-21, M Nov 20

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    Knowing I lost you makes it hard to breathe. I don't want to be without you, I can't be without you. I really really really can't.
    sproetje sproetje 18-21, F Nov 22

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    anyone wanna skype? im bored and lonely (dont mind me being sick) well..im really shy, i mean it );
    Celine1804 Celine1804 13-15, F 3 Responses Dec 8

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    Here's my rationale. I will be alone most of the time. A busy and unpredictable schedule will give me an excuse as to why I don't have real relationships with other people. It...
    In100years In100years 18-21 Nov 25

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    I just started making a story and I want to continue without getting tired and leaving it behind
    papparrazzi papparrazzi 16-17, F Nov 30

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    Hey, my name is Anrietta(Anna for short). I am a 21 mtf (pre-op) transgender who struggles against myself, my family, and the world on a day-to-day basis. All I want is to be...
    anriettaxo anriettaxo 18-21, T 4 Responses Nov 21

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    I don't want to be boring :/ Being boring means no one has fun talking to you. They will leave you to be all alone and won't even think twice. I try my hardest to entertain people...
    Raptax231 Raptax231 18-21, M 2 Responses Nov 24

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    Everyone thinks they have everything figured out and that they have the entire picture. No one does and no one in this family really understands me and really listens. They just...
    nomadventurist nomadventurist 18-21, F Nov 29

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    Achievement of preaching power 317). 29th, September, 1978. Friday. In reality my elder brother’s brother-in-law named Ashok went to bed in my same room to night...
    Dipakda Dipakda 70+, M 1 Response Dec 7

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    They talk to me.Saying they aren't man enough for me.Over and over again.They say they can't have me.Then they tell me when they have me I'll do everthing they want,and I'll want...
    mirth mirth 46-50, F 1 hr ago

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    I am neither a leader, nor an eloquent speaker or a special person. Though not a native English speaker, I am just a person like you. A heartbroken person plagued by confusion...
    Daolaeden Daolaeden 36-40 3 days ago

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    The popularity of "I Want to Improve the Experience Project" speaks volumes: there is a LOT of room for improvement. With the speed at which technology is developing, there is no...
    Gentle153 Gentle153 26-30, M 2 Responses Dec 1

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    Since I was little I have had the fear of being alone. I have watched throughout the years people grow and move apart from people. I have watched relationships become torn and...
    searchingfar searchingfar 22-25, F Nov 25

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    I don’t like giving up on people i don’t like believing that some people will never learn to get along i refuse to give up. Hate me love me i don’t really care, or at least i...
    Autumnflowers Autumnflowers 18-21, F 2 Responses Dec 2

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    You know what, I like to be real, I love cutting out all the rubbish and getting to the route of the problem, I used to be the kind of woman that would suppress so many emotions...
    pristee88 pristee88 22-25, F 1 Response Dec 2

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    Many of us have a strange tendency in relationships. We tend to feel something about someone – some hurt, some pain, some resentment and yet we wait and wait for things to go...
    restored87 restored87 46-50, F 7 Responses Nov 20

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    I joined this site a few years ago, and used to log onto it numerous times EVERYday, and now I can't stand the thought of even logging on, no matter how many updates or email...
    FashionQueen86 FashionQueen86 26-30, F 3 Responses 3 days ago

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    I have been married to my wonderful, amazing husband for almost two years now and we have been together for 5. I love him with all my heart and divorce is not an option with us...
    cowinapartyhat cowinapartyhat 18-21, F 1 Response Nov 30

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    VillaVuka is BIG LIAR!!! He say "Most people get arrested for the first time in their teens for dumb things like Underage Possesions. I was arrested for the first time aged...
    Bergenbabe Bergenbabe 36-40, F 6 days ago

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    When I was in 8th grade, I met this girl and she was like instantly my best friend, we were so close, we told each other everything. We would ignore our other friends and go off by...
    whydoifuckingexist whydoifuckingexist 16-17, F 1 Response 2 days ago

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    Before my birth my Mom was told no heartbeat can be found ,your child has died and we need to remove the fetus ,,Mom said no ,,,I want my Mom and her friends to pray ,,they did...
    rckt148 rckt148 51-55, M 2 Responses Nov 29

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    I am very honest and blunt, and I will always speak my mind. I will not shy away from voicing my opinion or telling someone if they are being stupid - something that's a double...
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