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I Want to Speak My Mind Without Being Scorned

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    Two Lives

    I feel sometimes that i have two lives. One is the one where people see me as the upright christian who doesnt do anything wrong, works hard, clean living, loving husband, college graduate. The other is my world of sex addict, lazy, moderate that wants to say whats on her mind...
    deleted deleted 26-30 8 Responses Jun 17, 2008

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    Speaking Without Being Put Down

    I have always had issues with speaking my mind. It took me long enough to figure out why I am that way. Growing up I was always told I was stupid so I guess I felt that anything and everything I did was stupid. I'm still a little on the shy side when it comes to saying what is on...
    babeegurl33 babeegurl33 31-35, F 4 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Here Anyway..

    I was written up at work once for making a comment about a supervisor that was having an affair with a coworker.
    thealphabetpeople thealphabetpeople 41-45, F Oct 26, 2013

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    Speak Up

    i've never been completely hesitant to speak my mind, but over the past few years i've become even better about it. i used to be more reluctant, but once i started i was able to see that it feels good to say what's on your mind. bottom line, i have reasons for thinking the way i...
    runnagirrl runnagirrl 22-25, F 2 Responses May 22, 2008

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    A Great Life, That I Don'T Want

    My name is John Doe, and I was given an amazing life, a privelaged one. My parents together make 500+ a year, and are paying for my college life right now, but this isn't what I want. Someone else may have made more from this life, but my path isn't this. I will be a success, but...
    smokestomuchweed smokestomuchweed 18-21 Feb 24, 2013

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    "Speak the Truth In Love"

    It's not what you say, but how you say it. I know people have said that a hundred times but it really is true. People don't care how much you know until they know how much you care. Even strangers like here  on the net  
    tanyalynn tanyalynn 41-45 Aug 28, 2008

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    I'm Such a Chicken

    I wish that I could tell people what I really thought/felt without having that sick feeling of being bashed or made to feel stupid/ignorant. I don't have a college education, I don't know big fancy words. Honestly, I know very little about a lot (if that makes sense). Maybe I'm...
    babeegurl33 babeegurl33 31-35, F 3 Responses May 21, 2008

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    I Need To Change!

    I'm only young and i know i probably shouldn't be worrying about it, and i wasn't until one of my close friends randomly said to me 'I think you might have Anxiety'. When one your friends say that to you, you just don't know what to say, if that's what they think about me i...
    yelmik yelmik 16-17, F 1 Response Aug 9, 2011

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    Speaking My Mind Has Never Worked For Me.

    As far as I know, and have been told by others, and aim to be, I am a kind, friendly, tolerant, open minded person.I never go out of my way to make people feel bad, or tell the cold hard truth if it isn't asked for.I hate hurting people, and love standing up for those who need it...
    instantquack instantquack 18-21, F Jan 31, 2013

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    Disabled Americans, That Can Not Work Or Get Help!!!!

    i, was born in pittsburgh, pa. 6/7/1957 dropped out of school at age 15 yr's, went to work in the construstion industry, enlisted in the marines in 1973, obtained my GED, discharged in 10/28/1976, returned to construction, spent most of my life self-employed, was involved in an...
    RWEST44 RWEST44 51-55, M 2 Responses Feb 25, 2010

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    Ii Speak My Mind

    iwas so shy as a kid i was afraid to speak up but now that has changed i say it as it is and as long that i,m being honest about a subject i do,t care if another likes it or not. at the same timei don,t want to hurt anyonefor we need to be as loving as possible to ppl
    mycuzinvinni mycuzinvinni 46-50, M Mar 8, 2011

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    I Do But If I Get Uncomfortable I Seriously Won't

    Ok I know I need to speak up. I just have some stuff I really would have wanted to tell people. Im holding in the secret that Im gay. Ive called counselors behind my parents back. And Im telling people on here, but If I could only talk to other people besides the priests. Ive...
    confessionstotell confessionstotell 13-15, M Feb 3, 2012

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