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I Want to Stop Worrying About What People Think About Me

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    I'm so self conscious

    and can be really insecure at times! It doesn't help that I have low self esteem and lack of confident so I don't believe in myself or accept myself... I am obsess about what other people think of me which isn't good at all because I should accept who I am and of course there...
    LittleMilwee LittleMilwee 22-25, F 1 Response May 3, 2014

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    Not-So-Girly

    I am not really a girly type. I'm more of a nerd. No not the classic nerd but the nerd who wants to sit in front of her laptop studying programming languages. That's me. I just got my glasses yesterday which makes me look like a real nerd now. It so happens that at school...
    deadtired00 deadtired00 13-15, F Feb 17, 2013

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    Are They Thinking What I'm Thinking?

    My life is basically the same as it was ten years ago. I haven't advanced at all, haven't matured at all really. I'm not saying I'm immature, I'm just not living the life one would expect of a 33 year old. A few years ago, while I worried about what people would think of me...
    UndergroundMan UndergroundMan 36-40, M Aug 22, 2011

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    I'm Scared To Leave The House Most Of The Time

    I'm always wondering what i look like and if i look okay or if i look to fat.Sometimes i hate to leave the house because i think i don't look okay.I hate walking into shops alone incase i get something on my face or incase i do something stupid.
    xxxunbrokenxxx xxxunbrokenxxx 16-17, F Feb 10, 2011

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    Talk About a Curse From Hell !

     And exactly when did this happen to me ?   I used to not care who, why  or what !      Now, it's very hard on me.    A lot is hard for me in this....................  I want to be liked by everyone, and  I am...
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Jun 30, 2009

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    Trying

    I want to do it and I am getting better. I grew up mostly being the person who was always away from others (it lead to problems at school, but that's another story) and I am sick of being alone. I have been getting out, but still find myself worrying what is thought of me.
    asert12345678 asert12345678 31-35, M Dec 10, 2012

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    I'm Not Good Enough

    Obviously we all need a bit of this to stop us going off the rails and becoming sociopaths or Hitler/Stalin types. But with me it's not just a necessary corrective to rampant egotism but an all consuming preoccupation. My default position in life is worry/anxiety and...
    micario micario 41-45, M 1 Response Dec 14, 2009

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    I Do Not Care What People Think Of Me......

    I used to worry about that people think of me, it use to stress me right out, and then I would try and make them think better of me...finally one day it was just too much, I gave up caring what people think of me...love me or hate me...that is your choice and it does not...
    deleted deleted 26-30 1 Response May 16, 2010

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    Should I Stop Worrying And Regretting?

    I find that im worrying ways to much over problems that might even not exist...My husband knows about this...I think..Well i sure said it a few times, I am stressing out over this every day, Should I just let things happen by themselves lives and worry? And I really don;t need...
    Anto815 Anto815 46-50, F Aug 26, 2011

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    We really do not care what you think about us. For one thing you do not know us so you aint in a position to judge us for either being good or bad. If you had lived our lives then...
    BrunoAndSammy BrunoAndSammy 13-15, M 1 Response 1 hr ago

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    I think people think that I'm a bit more bold and worldly than I really am. Maybe it's the bawdy jokes I crack most of the time. Maybe it's the confidence I portray. Maybe it's...
    sophiebelle27 sophiebelle27 26-30, F 1 Response 5 hrs ago

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    I cant speak, I can't write sometimes. because I am starting to shaking and feeling cold. I feel like something is sitting on my chest when I remember what I am going through...
    darklotus01 darklotus01 13-15, T 1 Response 11 hrs ago

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    My life consist of me going to church every Thursday and Sunday and be nice to everyone in the congregation and be fake and phony to everyone there to keep the peace. The most...
    jadagee jadagee 18-21, F 15 Responses 19 hrs ago

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    My heart speaks softly, through reminiscing of past times and the kiss of your seemingly honey-lips πŸ’‹in the future. Your essence rampages like a wild horseπŸ’— galloping to...
    xxxMickeyMouse22xxx xxxMickeyMouse22xxx 22-25, M 1 day ago

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    fxck your opinions idgaf what anybody thinks of me.
    LeanMamii LeanMamii 16-17, F 2 Responses 1 day ago

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    I think it's interesting when people tell you how they think of you. It could be good or it could be bad. Would you guys like to tell me? c:
    lilykitten1998 lilykitten1998 16-17, F 2 Responses 2 days ago

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    Yes please! Message me if you want to talk about literally anything!
    ShesSimplyKenny ShesSimplyKenny 18-21, F 2 days ago

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    If you give me a strange vibe or I have 'red flags' going up, sorry, but I will be blocking you. I am here to make friends from around the world and to learn about where they live...
    Alleygirltoo Alleygirltoo 41-45, F 5 Responses 3 days ago

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    I just want to meet someone I can talk to about whatever random stuff happens in my life.
    lkattil lkattil 18-21, F 2 Responses 3 days ago

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    I know that I am a dirty pervert but I like to be honest. I don't need to see any skin or sexy pictures of a women. Most of the time her smile is enough to get me going. I use to...
    Koogerboy Koogerboy 26-30, M 3 days ago

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    I had the most amazing thing happened to me today! This guy messaged me on EP and he thought that I was a catfish or I was a fake! It was so awesome because before he said that I...
    Kornisone Kornisone 26-30, F 4 Responses 5 days ago

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    It's funny how my friends all think I'm this shy innocent virgin... Laughable really considering I lost it when I was 13... The things I've done with more than one partner at a...
    LilyAntoinette LilyAntoinette 18-21, F 11 Responses 6 days ago

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    Universal Healthcare accessible to all regardless of income Some things such as Housing, Education and Health should not be left to the market to decide Education should be...
    splashUK2014 splashUK2014 46-50, M 1 Response a week ago

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    I don't even know what's wrong with me sometimes. All of my emotions are so piled up, and it's hard to know what is actually causing me to feel the way I do. So when people ask me...
    ExploreroftheUnknown ExploreroftheUnknown 18-21, M 4 Responses a week ago

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    ...simply stated. i find myself worrying so much about the smallest things. the bible says to do this and it's for our own good. i pray that Jesus will give me the strength and...
    coffeeonice coffeeonice 31-35, F 1 Response a week ago

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    based on any negative or positive experience and how people treat me, I spent my past life acting out upon what I felt people expected me to do. If it was too much of a negative...
    ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT ONESTARRYSTARRYNIGHT 26-30, F 2 Responses Feb 4

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    I only have one boyfriend and he only has one girlfriend, but we are both allowed to do whatever we want with other people. The way we see it, having a relationship with another...
    Yeonico Yeonico 18-21, F Feb 3

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    There has been a lot of things going on in my household..I'm just not sure what to say..what to think..or even what to do.It all started when my step brother got in prison,i guess...
    lexie78910 lexie78910 13-15, F 2 Responses Feb 3

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    yes life is life not everyone. is going to like everyone and I don't have anything to worry about I'm proud of myself and everyone else should be too people are going to hate and...
    cieloissky cieloissky 16-17, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    we all have our lives and everyone's got haters no matter how good you are. it's also impossible to please everyone, as humans it is our nature to always find faults everywhere...
    dollarsigns dollarsigns 16-17, M Feb 2

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    I am a very confident woman... I love myself and know I'm a great person... I have a big heart and love to help people... I only care what God and my children think of me.... I...
    Aprildawnmarie Aprildawnmarie 41-45, F 1 Response Feb 2

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    People say they are oppressed by society, but mainly it's us forcing the oppression upon ourselves. As soon as I realised this, I stopped pressuring myself and, as a result...
    WillKell00 WillKell00 13-15, M Feb 2

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    I really don't 😊😊😊😊 why should I??? They are always haters and man haters gonna hate.....but whatever they are doing they can take a hike!!! I love myself and that is...
    arshiazare arshiazare 13-15, M Feb 2

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    I've spent years trying to please others only to discover that there are so many different types of people with all kinds of ideals that "please" them. What pleases one offends...
    koivu koivu 46-50, M 1 Response Feb 1

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    We could be called like Gods and Godesses Hehe cheesy? I don't know BUT THAT WOULD SO AWESOME :'))) Having a club house where us tall people could just meet and hang out! Oh my...
    Mars000 Mars000 18-21, F 2 Responses Feb 1

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    I get anxiety the second I walk into school because I feel like everyone's eyes are on me.
    deleted deleted 26-30 2 Responses Feb 1

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    Anyone want to chat about how you would spank me
    deleted deleted 26-30 3 Responses Jan 31

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    I had a job at McDonald's. During that time I was quiet and unsocial. I only talked to the customers and the one annoying classmate who pushed me around. I was not interested in...
    lostfollower lostfollower 16-17, F 11 Responses Jan 31

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    I really need help. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years, talking about marriage and whatnot, and due to family reasons we broke up for about a month. But we...
    DaisyDuke101 DaisyDuke101 22-25, F 3 Responses Jan 31

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    What if I had just settled into mediocrity instead of striving so hard and so desperately for a life I could never have? Given up the pursuit of friends, stopped trying to fix my...
    xXverlorenXx xXverlorenXx 22-25, M Jan 31

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    I would like to know if anyone feels the same way Right now and for a while it has felt like I'm the only one who struggles so much with this Like to the point where it effects...
    Jordbaerbonnie Jordbaerbonnie 31-35, F 1 Response Jan 30

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